3 Common “Alpha” Myths That Make People Instantly Dislike You

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Sometimes becoming powerful can make people act like jerks. The same thing can happen as you improve your charisma, which is a measure of social power. If you’re not careful you can become a domineering leader that is dislike for how you wield that social clout.
In this video we are covering 3 common myths about being an alpha personality that actually just make people dislike you, and what tweaks you can make to be a respected leader that people love to be around.

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0:44 - Myth #1: They direct attention towards themselves.
3:27 - Myth #2: They are intimidating with their bodies.
6:02 - Myth #3: They are stoically unimpressed.
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Ace Rimmer
Ace Rimmer 22 цагийн өмнө
So basically do the opposite of what every forced "Strong female character" portrayed in recent Hollywood movies does.
No Bull
No Bull 2 өдрийн өмнө
Wanting to be popular is a mistake
Josef Muller
Josef Muller 2 өдрийн өмнө
I'm a simple human, I see RJD i click
AhabRawGaming
AhabRawGaming 5 өдрийн өмнө
Can we stop having marvel actors? it's just marvel, marvel, marvel...what about james bond? or other movies? or maybe life experience?
Hughster127
Hughster127 6 өдрийн өмнө
You say that people dispute the use of "alpha" in human societies... as an alien, I find that offensive.
Late to the party
Late to the party 6 өдрийн өмнө
Getting hugged by a guy I don't know is always weird for me. I think OK this guy is trying to be my buddy- buddy , ....why?
akshyamohan swarup
akshyamohan swarup 6 өдрийн өмнө
I think any sort of dominant behaviour is an inborn trait. I do not think it can ever be acquired or rehearsed. No matter how hard you try your original self will come to the fore.
heavy meddle
heavy meddle 11 өдрийн өмнө
Oh F!... Its Friday the 13th November 2020
Jimmy Crackcorn
Jimmy Crackcorn 15 өдрийн өмнө
Tom Cruise physically imposing? Maybe to little children...
Fuck You Fap
Fuck You Fap 20 өдрийн өмнө
Who's the guy in thumbnail?
Cristian D63
Cristian D63 22 өдрийн өмнө
Hmm watching these videos realizing I'm already an Alpha in most situations. Guess I need to put myself in more challenging situations to make improvements.
Sire
Sire 23 өдрийн өмнө
Hey treat people nicely *Nice guys always finish last* Also a myth
Tree Surgeon
Tree Surgeon 22 өдрийн өмнө
I think a more accurate way of saying that in my experience is that guys that lean too much on a persona of niceness to cover disingenuousness or lack of self worth tend to be disregarded and treated poorly. But that's far less succinct.
Stephen SHW
Stephen SHW 24 өдрийн өмнө
Tom Cruise have every right to be pissed off. Recreational adderall destroys lives, and I am sure Cruise has seen alot of lives destroyed by irresponsible doctors
Kev G H
Kev G H 25 өдрийн өмнө
MNpost commenters have come a long way in the last couple of years. I remember how toxic the comments were. I remember how toxic I was. Now i see most comments are very supportive and kind. It's made me stop being toxic and start trying to be kind. I'm not into social media but I hope all social media is going the way of us MNpostrs.
msdm83
msdm83 25 өдрийн өмнө
I've know many 'high status' people through my family. CEOs, self made millionaires, big tech CEO, VPs of mid sized multinationals, world class scientists. The are never 'alpha' in the way PUAs talk about. They are universally, considerate and diplomatic. Bragadocio is seen as weak and pretending in those circles.
Mary 888
Mary 888 27 өдрийн өмнө
I like the content but can do without the clickbait type thumbnails
Jose Montoya
Jose Montoya Сарын өмнө
I naturally speak while smiling I didn’t know I did that until one day I was speaking with a group of colleagues and one of the girls said out loud why are you always smiling when you are talking? I was so confused and felt insecure becuase It made me feel like a crazy person. I just said I’m a happy person, don’t kill the vibe. She laugh and I smash lol
Vlad Marin
Vlad Marin Сарын өмнө
Great video!
Shehzad Mohammed
Shehzad Mohammed Сарын өмнө
What movie is the first clip from?
Danny Pope
Danny Pope Сарын өмнө
Only Beta soy-boys pretend alphas aren’t real
A Dude
A Dude Сарын өмнө
Corona has ruined the touch parts
Chloe A
Chloe A Сарын өмнө
Only men lol
royohz
royohz Сарын өмнө
No. 2 did not age well in 2020...
Jave Lester Odvina
Jave Lester Odvina Сарын өмнө
Having a stone face or not is a matter of personality. There are sunny alphas and there are stoic alphas.
Blender Dumbass
Blender Dumbass Сарын өмнө
Or just make all your friends kids. So there is never a question of authority. WTF am I talking about.
Josie
Josie Сарын өмнө
Sasuke thinking he's the alpha male 😢
Michael Elijah
Michael Elijah Сарын өмнө
Just be nice to people and make the interaction about them, not you! When you’re actually actively interested in what they have to say, automatically people have a better impression of you(in my opinion). Personally, i just love people. Quarantine taught me the value of relationships, so now i value people so much more for who they are(i didnt speak to anyone for 2 months, imagine my loneliness). Now it seems that places i frequently go to are awesome places because i know so many awesome people too!
Louis Seifert
Louis Seifert 2 сарын өмнө
Well when your awesome, your just awesome, and if your awesome enough your humble. I personally would tell you how awesome I am but I am too good at being humble. 😄 ( Or you use sarcasm, because it's funny ).
Stephanie Ehrenberg
Stephanie Ehrenberg 2 сарын өмнө
Does anyone know which interview the scene around 4:00 is taken from? Really interested in the whole discussion.
Jack W
Jack W 2 сарын өмнө
No touching guys, social distance is important
Oravankarva
Oravankarva 2 сарын өмнө
Don't ever do eyes? What don't ever do? And what is the arrow pointing then? Click bait thumbnail.
gothsorrowsuffer
gothsorrowsuffer 2 сарын өмнө
fiction
gothsorrowsuffer
gothsorrowsuffer 2 сарын өмнө
myth
Michael Elliott
Michael Elliott 2 сарын өмнө
An ego-driven district manager on my current job made me and my co-worker feel ignored by his comments, despite my regional manager (upon our introduction to him) saying we were vital to the success of the business. I don't even remember the DM's name. He isn't worth remembering.
OGdienomyte850
OGdienomyte850 2 сарын өмнө
The rock clip is legendary. Love how he did that highlighted the interviewer
Michiel Tak
Michiel Tak 2 сарын өмнө
wonder if this guys as charming as his videos make him seem
Rose Margie
Rose Margie 3 сарын өмнө
Wait can u do this if I’m a girl I mean I can but these are guys I mean no I can whatever 😂😂😂
Dr H
Dr H 3 сарын өмнө
GET SWIRLED FISH!!!! *Gives wedgie to OP and then puts his head in toiletbowl.
Jokes Yay
Jokes Yay 3 сарын өмнө
Alpha’s don’t care what people think of them.
Ellejay Smith
Ellejay Smith 3 сарын өмнө
I work in debt collection. I smile as soon as the person answers their phone and I talk with that smile. I have a very high success rate.
Veer Chauhan
Veer Chauhan 3 сарын өмнө
Not an appropriate video in these Corona times... LOL 😆✌🏼🔥 especially the body language and touch topic..
Jack Ferguson
Jack Ferguson 3 сарын өмнө
"hover hands" are the worst
EpicEpidemic
EpicEpidemic 3 сарын өмнө
Ahhh. Pre-COVID advice. How we miss the days.
slevin prakash
slevin prakash 3 сарын өмнө
Wow so you can't even use the world Alpha anymore without offending people?
W M
W M 3 сарын өмнө
Yeah... Do not touch me.
Jonathan Tagay
Jonathan Tagay 3 сарын өмнө
Keannu is still has the best character.
Ben Wallace
Ben Wallace 3 сарын өмнө
Beta male master race assemble.
August Osani
August Osani 3 сарын өмнө
Feels weird getting advice on how to manipulate people
Andy whitehead
Andy whitehead 3 сарын өмнө
thats wolf packs
Andy whitehead
Andy whitehead 3 сарын өмнө
alphas are the smart ones betas are the strongest omegas are the ones that keep the group together using a mixture of diplomacy and humour then you got the rest
Jake Krige
Jake Krige 3 сарын өмнө
Tom Cruise is as physically imposing as a garden gnome
Screech Beast
Screech Beast 3 сарын өмнө
tom cruise is such a good guy.
Couer Garnet
Couer Garnet 3 сарын өмнө
People who thought they were alpha but in reality they are just jerk- IMPOSSIBLE
AcidDome
AcidDome 4 сарын өмнө
Jimmy Fallon is so cringey.
krua
krua 4 сарын өмнө
ok, so i note down everything and can do these "tricks", but i am ugly ... what now?
Jusnogood 1
Jusnogood 1 3 сарын өмнө
krua your about 20% more attractive in the eyes of others, bare that in mind
villegas24
villegas24 4 сарын өмнө
The rock seems like a nice guy to hang out with
Danger Bear
Danger Bear 4 сарын өмнө
Tom cruise is 4'11". He couldn't physically intimidate a middleschooler
Captain Smoke
Captain Smoke 4 сарын өмнө
Tom Cruise is both, the most likable and the most creepy dude you'll ever see.
roflmows
roflmows 4 сарын өмнө
way too many people REALLY don't understand what a true alpha is. but science knows, because they've discovered and unlocked the behaviors of chimps and bonobos--our closest animal relatives. these are the actual features of alpha men and women: 1) they're giving and caring. they're willing to let others go first, and they give ALL THE TIME without expecting anything in return. 2) they tend to help resolve disputes rather than take sides. 3) they work hard and don't make a big deal out of it. 4) they make sure everyone in the group feels safe and noticed, and they do NOT tolerate bullying or ridiculing. 5) they MUST not be afraid to be kind and generous with their emotions. alpha primates are completely responsible for caregiving when someone is sad or in mourning (this is true in all apes). so when you see some loud, macho dude being toxic and insulting and intimidating, remember--this guy is NOT an alpha at ALL. avoid these people. they take without asking, and demand without giving.
Erilaz
Erilaz 4 сарын өмнө
Behaving like alpha male doesn't work, unless you actually are that alpha male, because other men will call out your BS and prove that you aren't actually that alpha that you think you are, gang up and put you in your place. That's why human society normally doesn't have any alpha males, because no-one is actually that powerful. The best men can do is being a beta male. And what is described here in this is actually behaving like a beta male. What ignorant people call as "beta male" is actually an omega male. Also it's noteworthy to mention, that most species that actually have alpha males, are also endangered species, it's not a very evolutionary fit behavioral strategy.
Jesse Owens
Jesse Owens 4 сарын өмнө
Tom is right. Ritalin is one molecule different from methamphetamine. And it is given to children.
Joey Figueroa
Joey Figueroa 4 сарын өмнө
This is why I love Dewayne Johnson. The guy is all around a nice human being, he has respect for everyone and loves everyone. He is obviously physically a beast but again, he never makes anyone feel like their less of a person. I like that.
Jimmy
Jimmy 4 сарын өмнө
1) Alphas are not narcissistic. They spread the attention to others, especially the quiet outsiders. 2) Alphas initiate physical contact in a friendly manner, not to intimidate others. 3) Alphas aren't stone cold. They radiate positiveness.
Gina Cimaglia
Gina Cimaglia 4 сарын өмнө
If the term Alpha offends you or you need the term explained, I have some news for you...
Hadley Grace
Hadley Grace 5 сарын өмнө
how do i send this to my annoying “alpha” obsessed guy friends 🥰
AARon Lamoreaux
AARon Lamoreaux 5 сарын өмнө
If we can master charisma life will... in its simplest form... be more fun
Kono Dutch
Kono Dutch 5 сарын өмнө
why is the arrow pointed at his eurasian eyes?? dont be eurasian??
FoxLimbs
FoxLimbs 5 сарын өмнө
Incels and niceguys are quaking
Yeah Yeah
Yeah Yeah 5 сарын өмнө
Many of your tips you are given are for people that are already popular to maintain their popularity or to further expand it marginally. Don't see how this fits the title
Nehemyah
Nehemyah 5 сарын өмнө
I must be the least alpha person in the planet :(
Schwinn D.
Schwinn D. 5 сарын өмнө
Tom was on edge around Matt for a reason....
paedru fernando
paedru fernando 6 сарын өмнө
Every movie clip vannu just highlight the movie name
Lego
Lego 6 сарын өмнө
If you review characters (not sure if you do) you should review Jeff Winger from Community, and maybe one day even Abed Nadir.
VAIBHAV KADAM
VAIBHAV KADAM 6 сарын өмнө
Can you do a video on Hugh Jackman please?
Crimea_River
Crimea_River 6 сарын өмнө
Is it possible I'm actually an alpha male, but I've simply never been told because I never leave my house?
Sayeta Zonen
Sayeta Zonen 6 сарын өмнө
i am great at including people. i dislike when people are having conversations and they exclude a person in the group.
E I
E I 6 сарын өмнө
the video thumbnail made me literally think the video was gonna talk about squinting your eyes.
Awesome Soul
Awesome Soul 6 сарын өмнө
* Smoldering intensity *
iHave NoName
iHave NoName 6 сарын өмнө
So this is where all the incels gather up? lol
Joe Bedard
Joe Bedard 6 сарын өмнө
Let's call it dominant instead of "alpha". Your videos are always based on how celebrities act. Have you ever had a chance to observe interpersonal dynamics in academics, technology or business? You are good at observing people and you might consider a career in psychology. You could make a good impact on the world. I think if you started to learn about psychology and sociology, you would realize that most of your videos are only your opinion.
Laurel
Laurel 6 сарын өмнө
Where are the female examples that are good?
CloudSurfer821
CloudSurfer821 6 сарын өмнө
It makes me super sad to watch these videos about touching and physical contact in a post COVID world. Especially as someone who always touched, shook hands, etc...
Gavin
Gavin 6 сарын өмнө
alphas are some of the lamest people
Maruf Anwarul
Maruf Anwarul 6 сарын өмнө
Why must one become the alpha? To beget more lion cubs?
La Barbe
La Barbe 6 сарын өмнө
Tom Cruise is like the least Alpha male. He forces acting as an alpha, but it look really off
Jarcu Adanantus
Jarcu Adanantus 6 сарын өмнө
I reeeally hate people touching me though.
Ant Tam
Ant Tam 6 сарын өмнө
Tom Cruise is used as both positive and negative examples... is this scientific proof that the guy is just bipolar?
Betoruffo
Betoruffo 6 сарын өмнө
yo i do these subconsciously i just watched my dad do it growing up but i thought it was normal lol
Sid Diaz
Sid Diaz 6 сарын өмнө
I start touching my colleagues, the HR start calling me. This never happened to me.. I exist now Yay
Fredrik Halvorsrød
Fredrik Halvorsrød 6 сарын өмнө
If i try to touch someone in norway i will become a social outcast >_>
Danny Clark
Danny Clark 6 сарын өмнө
only 11.99 a month were do i sign up what with the world in flames right now and uncertain times ahead at least il know i have my app
Tigernipe
Tigernipe 6 сарын өмнө
>watches 25 charisma on command vids at 3am >processed by the subconscious >i absorb the information better >your charisma has increased by 25
J W
J W 6 сарын өмнө
Obvious exception for rule 2: if you happen to be a member of the toxic gender, you do not touch a member of the protected gender unless the form has been signed and notarized.
James Davenport
James Davenport 6 сарын өмнө
Another good time to be nonreactive is in a group meeting/brainstorming session. A lot of people think they need to lead the conversation at every moment. Don't. Instead listen to what's being said and only open your mouth when you have your ideas clearly in hand. Then, when you do speak, you automatically project confidence and authority.
Mindset With Josh
Mindset With Josh 6 сарын өмнө
Great video. 'Alpha' men are so often misconstrued. They bring others together and usually spread joy and kindness wherever they go, while still having a backbone to defend themselves and their loved ones as needed.
പരശു രാമൻ
പരശു രാമൻ 6 сарын өмнө
imagine if rock has an intimidating Aura / attitude
V A
V A 6 сарын өмнө
My homeboy compromised he reads and watches video on obtaining power. I’m super slick I acted surprised at the same time uninterested in watching the videos he thought he would be putting me on to. Point is he’s pretty big not going to lie. He looked into my eyes and I looked into his. Staring into eyes is not that big for me unless someone imposes themself as a threat. Homeboy tried 1 upping me. I looked away first so he must’ve taken that as a stripe. He TRIED bullying me. I’ll let you guess what happened after and ever since then
Stamatis Arvanitidis
Stamatis Arvanitidis 6 сарын өмнө
'Strong people don't put others down. They lift them up.' - Darth Vader. Philanthropist
Morden Warfare Man Is Here To Kill You
Morden Warfare Man Is Here To Kill You 6 сарын өмнө
5:34 look at kevin ..its so funny ..😂
Unknown YouTube User
Unknown YouTube User 6 сарын өмнө
Damn this guy’s legit
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