How To Be Popular Without Being A Try Hard

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David Dobrik is a popular guy, not only with his massive audience, but also with very different types of friends including his vlog squad buddies, Jason Nash who is 20 years older and the one and only John Stamos.
In this video we’ll dive into how you can be insanely popular without being an inauthentic try hard.

0:21 - #1: David Dobrik makes you laugh.
3:55 - #2: He uses a lot of high impact words.
7:32 - #3: He's very comfortable with self-deprecating humor.
8:58 - #4: He puts the spotlight on other people.
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Jenna Nash
Jenna Nash 2 өдрийн өмнө
oop this didnt age well
Victor Gustafsson
Victor Gustafsson Сарын өмнө
I first saw this video long before the allegations against Dobrik came out, but even then, the fact that there are barely any comments about that situation on this video, and the fact that this video REALLY DOESN'T LOOK GOOD NOW, kinda baffles me!! I feel that Charisma on Command should do what they did for Ellen Degeneres. They first made a video that looked positively at Ellen and her jokes, but then more recently, about 10 months ago, they did the exact opposite kind of video about Ellen. In other words, if they were to do another video about David, which even then feels pretty doubtful, they should make one that talks about what NOT to do!!
Kami 13 өдрийн өмнө
This video is a year-old and David's me isn't in the tittle
A M Сарын өмнө
This video certainly didnt age well....
FuckOuttaHere Сарын өмнө
This is odd now
HowToLove Сарын өмнө
Isn't the guy on the thumbnail Canceled now?
Goldie & Mike
Goldie & Mike 5 сарын өмнө
Constantly laughing at myself, it's just a bit more sad on our channel 😅
Diego 6 сарын өмнө
So the video title is "How To Be Popular Without Being A Try Hard" and then in the picture preview, you have a guy pointing to his face saying "smile like this!". How does that work? How are you not being a try hard if you're controlling something that should come across as genuine and natural. Do you see babies controlling the way they smile? It's completely unnecessary and fake.
Janybekov Bakyt
Janybekov Bakyt 7 сарын өмнө
This is awesome 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💕💕💕💘💘💘💘💘💘
Joel Roy
Joel Roy 7 сарын өмнө
1:52 I don't reply to most things because I'm introvert, inconfident and shy. So I'm naturally quiet
Vandini Sharma
Vandini Sharma 8 сарын өмнө
I adore you! Such an AWESOME CHANNEL.
Elisa G
Elisa G 9 сарын өмнө
David has this boyish, impishness that people love to be around. Like around a kind 5 year old
THE Isaac Cooper
THE Isaac Cooper 9 сарын өмнө
I feel like one key (to me) to making your laughter make others feel good is to not just laugh at everything. If they respect your opinion and know that you won’t just laugh whenever ANYTHING happens then I’d be more likely to feel good when you laugh
MLS RISE 9 сарын өмнө
who is that cashier and blue bro... wit that a$$
Gabe Eisner
Gabe Eisner 9 сарын өмнө
Idk, but I’m not charmed by him. He seems like a dense stoner.
vanessa vanessa
vanessa vanessa 10 сарын өмнө
Why are people trying so hard to be likable instead of being authentic???🤷‍♀️ Unless you are paid for it, it's REALLY not worth it
tina basic
tina basic 10 сарын өмнө
David's laugh seems so artificial and forcefull. He just laughs while there is nothing really funny to laugh at.
aljeffry Armand
aljeffry Armand 11 сарын өмнө
A video on the difference between a sociopath and psychopath would be awesome. And if it clouds clips from Sherlock, what can I say but YES!
TheRantingBoy 11 сарын өмнө
Constantly laughing also makes me suspicious the person is a weird fake psycho. No-one should be finding life that endlessly funny.
Mi Sm
Mi Sm 11 сарын өмнө
His friends seem like a bunch of "yes men"
Omgdannie2 11 сарын өмнө
He's fake laughing. His mouth smiles and laughs, yet his eye don't.
Jada Hoizer
Jada Hoizer 11 сарын өмнө
Oh man there’s so much more negativity than usual in the comments
MrMOGumba 11 сарын өмнө
Hi there . A Really nice video and all of tham are great. I have a question that drove me to this video here. And it got patially answered but maybe I just want to hear specifically thoughts about the topic. It is about the topic of false smiling and played motivation. I personally started to see a habit of myself i dont really like. it is that I was confronted with false smiles and false passion in some professiones that I cant differ anymore between played passion and real passion. An example (not to attack anyone I want to better mayself) I have met so many personal tainers and fittnesscoaches who try hard to be happy etc that I cant take any positive emoutiones anymore from trainers because I allways think they are fake...... So is there a video from you how you can see if a smile is fake or not or does anyone have a good method taining yourself in getting better in diffenecing those things? I dont want to have prejudices against any profession so I have to learn to differencieate. What are the sighns of false smile false passion. If i asked a alllready answered question I am happy to get sources ^^ thanks
Senor Studly
Senor Studly 11 сарын өмнө
I genuinely don't like this guy.
javanna 11 сарын өмнө
I'm an introvert and to be honest I find it SUPER annoying if people laugh every 10 seconds.. My flatmate is an extrovert, liked by everyone, and she does the same. Even about things that aren't even funny. That has nothing to do with jealousy but for me this is super irritating 😐
Veyroniqa 11 сарын өмнө
basically, be authentic
omar ahmed
omar ahmed 11 сарын өмнө
love you man
Mohil Garg
Mohil Garg 11 сарын өмнө
This is very well made
fiji Жилийн өмнө
i just wanna say please dont go to his videos and say his laugh and smile is weird and ugly ive heard it from people and it really hurts
Jo Momz
Jo Momz Жилийн өмнө
1:49 - what exactly is _allowing_ yourself to laugh? If I'm not laughing it's _not_ cuz I'm holding back it's because I would be embarrassed to make a laughing sound to mimic being actually amused. And I'm not some hoity- toity person with a sophisticated sense of humor, it's just that my sense of humor is so obscure that I rarely find anyone else who shares it.
Sebastian Alvarado
Sebastian Alvarado Жилийн өмнө
this video: one of the reasons why David Dobrik is so popular is because... me: i've never seen this man in my life
RoZX Жилийн өмнө
Alex Warren watched this video 20 thousand times.
Life of Mike
Life of Mike Жилийн өмнө
I bet Alex was watching this video
Scott Жилийн өмнө
Secret: good dental
Gyver Жилийн өмнө
Absolutly amazing videos
H&M Жилийн өмнө
Hi, I just discovered your channel. I find these videos super helpful. I'm super excited to continue watching these videos. I especially like the videos that break down the positive traits of celebrities and how we can learn from them. Can you do one on Zac Efron?
Adnan A
Adnan A Жилийн өмнө
I wish I could make people laugh all the time
Sam Feller
Sam Feller Жилийн өмнө
This tip on priming changes the whole game for me. I always knew that I'm more loose and funny when I primed myself with funny videos but it all was subconsciously. Thank you!
Don Baalman
Don Baalman Жилийн өмнө
I personally don’t feel complimented when a person laughing at every joke possible laughs at my joke. Maybe a little. I feel complimented when that guy with a sophisticated sense of humour laughs at my joke. You gotta have some popularity before laughing at everything
anusha k
anusha k Жилийн өмнө
is this what alex warren watched before he cloned himself into david
FANEESH NIM Жилийн өмнө
Can you do a Jason Mamoa breakdown.
Cera Chan
Cera Chan Жилийн өмнө
Hi everyone. Just wondering if anyone has tried the charisma university. Is it really helpful ? I really wanted to try it but It’s abit over my budget as a student. Can anyone give me some advice ?
VAZZU Жилийн өмнө
But for a matter of fact, I really get annoyed with Dobrik’s laughter. It’s really annoying.
Sy A
Sy A Жилийн өмнө
He laughs every 3 seconds, it gets annoying after a while.
LifeOnTheGo Жилийн өмнө
Am I the only one who find this David guy super annoying? 🙄
Kvnt Leviathan
Kvnt Leviathan Жилийн өмнө
So if I say "I love you" to myself in a mirror I will get a job like Davids!? , can't relate, I'm not a first world citizen, but by understanding that I can maybe narrate it to others, but then that would be me doing your job dear MNpost publisher.
makvartan Жилийн өмнө
I really love your content, it will be great if having a chance to meet you in Australia. Any big fan of "Charisma on Command" also comes from Australia :D?
shhhquietplease Жилийн өмнө
no offence, but all the points listed are exactly the reason i dont like david dobrik. he seems sleezy and disingenuous. he is uncomfortable to watch. also, i am someone who laughs very easily (too easily) and yet nothing dobrik says or does is even remotely funny to me....
Sapphire Жилийн өмнө
At 1:46 does anyone know what video this clip was from?
Apolo romero
Apolo romero Жилийн өмнө
The problem is that this lough are not genuene
Aaron Stiner
Aaron Stiner Жилийн өмнө
Maybe this is why I always made friends with everyone, by laughing at everything.
Cerebral Жилийн өмнө
I don't have charisma, but I think it's because it requires constantly parrying other people's consciousness when the simpler solution is to just not be around tiresome people. I'm sure I could captivate a room full of kids if I had to, but why would I? I dunno, I suppose some people just have that extra energy they have to get out and I don't.
arenasification Жилийн өмнө
never heard of this "popular" guy - looks very unlikeable actually
arenasification Жилийн өмнө
ok, I didn't mean Keanu ^^ I meant that MNpostr
Nick Chase
Nick Chase Жилийн өмнө
he's like seth rogen always laughing
Revathy b
Revathy b Жилийн өмнө
Laughter yoga every morning helped me lot!
Revathy b
Revathy b Жилийн өмнө
White chicks 😂
thassa lot of sodium
thassa lot of sodium Жилийн өмнө
do pete davidson next
Vineet John
Vineet John Жилийн өмнө
Conclusion : Just be yourself.
Persuasion Psycho
Persuasion Psycho Жилийн өмнө
Nice content as usual. You hit it again Charisma on Demand!
Payton Жилийн өмнө
All the people in the comments thinking that they're special for not liking someone famous
Roshan Royal
Roshan Royal Жилийн өмнө
Request for david Beckham charisma
Joey Жилийн өмнө
Damn, everyone in the comment section must know David pretty well, based on the way they talk about him
Kingslayer Жилийн өмнө
Funny that family name of this guy "Dobrik" can be translated from Slavic languages as Good (kind) man.
BrandAlpha Жилийн өмнө
no wonder his ex left
Trulycrazy Жилийн өмнө
Aviv Buchler
Trulycrazy Жилийн өмнө
She’s really calm on situations
Trulycrazy Жилийн өмнө
Do one about Aviv Buchler
BLVCKO Жилийн өмнө
But he is not that respected
Hajime Жилийн өмнө
I dislike his laugh. It feels fake and he laughs all the f**** time. It's just too much. So no, he's not a good example to follow
Eliza Doblinger
Eliza Doblinger Жилийн өмнө
You gotta do a breakdown on John Krasinski‘s charisma
D A Жилийн өмнө
Kick Casey neistat . What a loser
Eliza Barlow
Eliza Barlow Жилийн өмнө
Please do one on Elsa!
sboulderickmam Жилийн өмнө
Please do someone nerdy and booky and serious! We nerds ain't gonna transform ourselves into extroverts amd we shouldn't. Please do someone of our type.
Sarah Robinson
Sarah Robinson Жилийн өмнө
Can you do a video on Timothee Chalamet?
Mohamed Alhasy
Mohamed Alhasy Жилийн өмнө
Just ask yourself how would i act in this situation if I wasn't afraid , and act like it .
Mohamed Alhasy
Mohamed Alhasy Жилийн өмнө
Just have fun and be like water my friend .. say what you think ... exprece yourself .. other people wants to be loved too .. not just you . Relax man every thing is gonna be alright .
Z D Жилийн өмнө
DO. A. VIDEO. ON. TIGER. KING. [loved this video btw]
im allergic to soap
im allergic to soap Жилийн өмнө
I just realized that I don't need this episode bc I am David dobrik
Bhavesh Koul
Bhavesh Koul Жилийн өмнө
Naz Öztürk
Naz Öztürk Жилийн өмнө
hey, your vids are awesome. id like to ask if there was any other people like david dobrik that make fun easier? thanks
Vakatzu! Жилийн өмнө
show alex warren this video to become more of a bootlag david
. Жилийн өмнө
we're card
bookworm598 Жилийн өмнө
You should do a video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar. The way he uses his charisma is genius
COVID-19 Жилийн өмнө
Whenever i get my friends to talk about theirselfs they keep going on and on but when i talk or even just share something about myself their mood changes and compeletly ignores what im saying. What is ths problem here😕
COVID-19 Жилийн өмнө
Do one on DC youngfly
Askrew Жилийн өмнө
If anyone is serious about becoming charismatic start watching RSD Jeffy. Currently, he has the deepest understanding of charisma than anyone else on the world.
Abhilash s
Abhilash s Жилийн өмнө
Quarantine Life:- created a playlist of all Charisma on command videos and taking notes of all Points Charlie says.
Shashank Shekhar
Shashank Shekhar Жилийн өмнө
You should do a video on Jeff Wittek 😂😂
Wingbar Жилийн өмнө
Do Lewis Capaldi next :)
Saket Shankar
Saket Shankar Жилийн өмнө
Please do a video.on johnny depp's personality. He's so calm and so funny and very low key at the same time. That never happens. Funny people always seem loud and enthusiastic. His friends always say he has the most ofbeat personality
DensetsuShounen Жилийн өмнө
Being popular is overrated. The End
Mat Roemer
Mat Roemer Жилийн өмнө
Funny. Because this guy IS obviously such a Tryhard.
Sally Bradshaw
Sally Bradshaw Жилийн өмнө
Could you do a video about Brian David Gilbert?
Bojack Hex
Bojack Hex Жилийн өмнө
If you can, I would love it if you can do a video on Gene Wilder. He was truly the master of the dramatic and comedic pauses, and I think people could implement them in their social interactions, IF they understand how to use them right
Дмитро Попенко
Дмитро Попенко Жилийн өмнө
Hm, what do you, guys, think about Ragnar Lodbrok charisma video?
Jack Corcoran
Jack Corcoran Жилийн өмнө
I just discovered your channel last night but I have have 5+ hours of your channel! Keep it up! A lot of people appreciate you doing this.
Aiheskel uwu
Aiheskel uwu Жилийн өмнө
Do a breakdown on Anna Kendrick 🙏🏻
Darlin A. Ubiera
Darlin A. Ubiera Жилийн өмнө
Can you make an analysis of Tom Ellis in Lucifer?
Random Person
Random Person Жилийн өмнө
Can you do a video on jfk?
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