7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20's

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I sometimes think back like “I wish I knew that at 20…” or “Imagine where I would be now if I took more action…” and “If only I bought bitcoin when it was $1…”
I’m sure you’ve all been there
This fueled the idea of today’s video
7 tips that I wish I knew when I was 20, now in your hands to implement!

0:34 - Point #1: Constant Criticism About You Is Probably True
1:09 - Point #2: 90% Of Negotiation Success Is In Starting It
2:13 - Point #3: Scarcity Is Often A Sales Tactic
3:26 - Point #4: Arguing Over Life Philosophies Is A Waste Of Time
4:27 - Point #5: Value Experience Over Theory
5:37 - Point #6: Remove Lies Of Omission
6:36 - Point #7: Growth Comes When You Do The Opposite
7:59 - Foreign Channel Announcement
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Maria D
Maria D 19 цагийн өмнө
So this channel is no longer about charisma, just ego. "sigh"
fupopanda 20 цагийн өмнө
Excellent video. But I disagree with a few things (this is more of a note to self): #4 is a bit off. The tagline on its own is too broad and seems misplaced, but what said makes sense: Do what you understand and believe in and let the results speak for you. I think what you said for #5 is more useful than the tagline: If you have strongly held convictions about things you haven't experience, be careful. #7 is straight up a bad GENERAL advice. It can be a good advice under specific, narrow contexts, but far from a general advice.
Rachel Rasmussen
Rachel Rasmussen Өдрийн өмнө
Speaking of a country with 4x the murder rate of North America - "cultures aren't better or worse, just different".
Danilos Stankovic
Danilos Stankovic Өдрийн өмнө
Bruh wait a minute, you're no 19?Are you currently in your second lifetime?
Anupam Roy
Anupam Roy Өдрийн өмнө
Robert Cantspell
Robert Cantspell 2 өдрийн өмнө
There’s no way to change your personality so it doesn’t matter
C. B.
C. B. 2 өдрийн өмнө
if a lot of people say it, it may be true OR it might be that they like you to conform to their view of normal too. depends on what they say. if you're different they will say it to make you feel bad for yourself not being the same. my family is extroverted. they constantly tried to make me do things they viewed i should do. ofc, im still the weird and difficult one... i actually know what i want and try my best, tho i often fail, but try again. it's just different than what they see i should want.
J, Ludwig
J, Ludwig 2 өдрийн өмнө
0:35 the most common thing I hear about myself from friends and family is that I'm "unique, weird, or interesting" tbh if that's the main impression I leave on people I'm such a loser.
tpespos 2 өдрийн өмнө
What’s the best way at getting better at doing push ups? ... it’s by actually doing push ups, not reading about doing push ups or talking about doing push ups, or even thinking about doing push-ups. Now replace push-ups with anything else in life.
Deon Libora
Deon Libora 3 өдрийн өмнө
Snasnu Snaba
Snasnu Snaba 4 өдрийн өмнө
so where is "don't explain yourself" from the thumbnail?
Jack Doughty
Jack Doughty 4 өдрийн өмнө
You should do a podcast
Xa non
Xa non 4 өдрийн өмнө
school taught you critical thinking ?
Sangita kAtun Sarmin Katun
Sangita kAtun Sarmin Katun 5 өдрийн өмнө
I just turned 23 this month, my major is international trade, but I want to start my own business related to art and stationery. However, in order to do that, I realized that I need to work on myself to become a better person first. I'm a introvert and my social skills are the worst, I feel that I'm slowly coming out of my bubble, since my parents never told me about self-development stuff. Sometimes I get anxious because I feel that I'm late, but your videos are really helping me to overcome it and to become a more confident and well spoken person. Thank you so much.
yunghart_og 5 өдрийн өмнө
I needed this video
David H.
David H. 5 өдрийн өмнө
BRO! You cant work with T-Series....that is going to corrupt your soul....they are a company where the ends always justify the means...they are frankly...evil in their origins and nothing good is ever born out of loose morals and deceit…
David H.
David H. 5 өдрийн өмнө
WOW I am so backwards from you...every time I have the thought "If I don't act now I will lose out" I always ending up losing out, I guess I am really good at spotting BS scarcity and can easily read markets and tell true scarcity apart from BS scarcity...I knew if I didn't buy parts for a certain thing I enjoy they would be incredibly difficult to get and prices would skyrocket, I was right. Every time I have been right. Because of this I only buy IF I feel that pressure. If I don't feel that pressure in my gut I will most often not buy anything because I know it will be available down the road and it almost always turns out to have been something I didn't even need to begin with.
Nikita Starzhevskiy-Stowell
Nikita Starzhevskiy-Stowell 5 өдрийн өмнө
To be honest, a lot of this is terrible advice.
Gary Williams UK
Gary Williams UK 6 өдрийн өмнө
The omission was ...and do drugs
Alkhan Studios
Alkhan Studios 7 өдрийн өмнө
Has anyone realised that he always wears a black tee
Veli Em
Veli Em 9 өдрийн өмнө
So I continue to learn❤️
Wyatt Horan
Wyatt Horan 10 өдрийн өмнө
I guess that means I’m tall... like duh I don’t need every person in my life telling me that
Honey Badger
Honey Badger 10 өдрийн өмнө
Sidney Smith
Sidney Smith 10 өдрийн өмнө
Our mentality is vitally linked to our anchored physicality. One of the reasons it's so hard to have a head transplant
BaeKing Suda
BaeKing Suda 11 өдрийн өмнө
You also laugh even tho nothing's funny.
BaeKing Suda
BaeKing Suda 11 өдрийн өмнө
A grin or smile is enough you know.
BaeKing Suda
BaeKing Suda 11 өдрийн өмнө
Talk bit cooler men, you overexaggerate your expression even tho you're only alone in the room, you look like you're live-streaming you know.
Doris Cakes
Doris Cakes 11 өдрийн өмнө
I just turned 20s for 2 weeks ago. I'm starting make some video on youtube. Please sub, like video to support me. :) Making videos help me more confident. Please suppot me. Love you all.
GreenskinHolland 12 өдрийн өмнө
4:54 That is something every American thinks. It's what they're being told from an early age.
Bravo Mike
Bravo Mike 12 өдрийн өмнө
"Value experience more than book smarts" Yeah. Being an A grade student did jackshit to help me in wiring of the christmas lights. I kept short circuiting my own house. If it wasn't for the MCB I'd have crashed my own electric grid or just a node. It was my mother who was a pharmacist who actually fixed the wiring. Apparently positive and negatives don't go into the same wire. 😅Because of the symbolic representation of electric circuits I thought one wire came from one of the outlet holes, ran along to the electric appliance then returned back to the second hole, when it was in actuality two wires instead of one looping wire. Experience matters.
Imran Khan
Imran Khan 14 өдрийн өмнө
I need to watch this video daily
Alex Linares
Alex Linares 15 өдрийн өмнө
Have to disagree there. America is def the best 😊
AR K 16 өдрийн өмнө
this vid gave me alot more respect for this channel
Leanflare 16 өдрийн өмнө
I'm 18 and I'm afraid of getting older.
andy tang
andy tang 17 өдрийн өмнө
This dude gonna be 40 and still get id’d at the bar.
Dalila do Carmo Jonsson
Dalila do Carmo Jonsson 17 өдрийн өмнө
So charismatic awesome... You will get far🤗🤗🤗
Dalila do Carmo Jonsson
Dalila do Carmo Jonsson 17 өдрийн өмнө
MaggieMoke 17 өдрийн өмнө
Do not emphasize the the last 2 words on every..... sentence... It becomes a trick people see through quick
Gene Jones
Gene Jones 18 өдрийн өмнө
Is this boy 20 yet? I'm 69 - it's great being lectured by a child stating, "I wish I knew then what I know now." Come back in 30 years, son.
Creative Club
Creative Club 20 өдрийн өмнө
Bro where is your HINDI channel ❤️😅
The Solver
The Solver 23 өдрийн өмнө
#7 works wonders not just in the field of life, but in engineering too.
Lukas Heuer
Lukas Heuer 24 өдрийн өмнө
Hold up ur THIRTY ONE?
Rishabh Tiwari
Rishabh Tiwari 27 өдрийн өмнө
Anyone from india watched this video till the end if you are thinking about it i m with you on that so bula lena
Keeley Hassan
Keeley Hassan 27 өдрийн өмнө
“When I was younger what worked was listening to adults, to study hard, to not do drugs...” I’m putting your advice to good use by tripping hard on acid right now lmao
Pallav Jain
Pallav Jain 28 өдрийн өмнө
I can translate english to hindi
123458888888888888888 28 өдрийн өмнө
Wow wow aged well
hisham5002 28 өдрийн өмнө
What about Arabic ?
My World
My World 29 өдрийн өмнө
Your smile is beautiful.
Emilio Jaramillo
Emilio Jaramillo 29 өдрийн өмнө
It doesn't really help me
Sergio Victor
Sergio Victor 29 өдрийн өмнө
Wait?! You are not in your 20’s?
Stephen Sarver
Stephen Sarver Сарын өмнө
This might be a stretch but you never know, at 2:28 there is a wallet in the pop up window, does anyone know who makes a wallet like that? Been searching for 10 minutes now and can't find anything similar
stenobro Сарын өмнө
Dancing is for women? C'mon man 😂
ozmo69 Сарын өмнө
Bro I speak Hindi but there is no Link for Hindi speaking so cant contact you
Maurice drew
Maurice drew Сарын өмнө
That's why they're are books, web research and older much more knowledgeable, OLDER people around to talk to!
Rania M
Rania M Сарын өмнө
I thought this guy was 19
hackerman Сарын өмнө
#1: Also applies to compliments. If multiple people say that you're intelligent, you probably are. #3: Overall, don't act because you feel that you have to. I made quite a few mistakes because I thought I had to act quickly.
Lauren Baxter
Lauren Baxter Сарын өмнө
So I should take drugs? I'm joking btw 🤣🤣
Aminata Abdouramane
Aminata Abdouramane Сарын өмнө
"Growth means doing the opposite." So you're saying I should start smoking, and not going to school?
john k.
john k. Сарын өмнө
Unfortunately English is my foreign language.
Juscius Barber
Juscius Barber Сарын өмнө
Number 8 you needed to know. That if you dye your hair green and put some white paint on the face. You became joker :D and ofc red smile
tikto.ola Сарын өмнө
The opposite of not taking drugs?🤔
Ila Tyagi
Ila Tyagi Сарын өмнө
This video actually helped me turn my life around. So grateful that such free content exists in the world.
El Alv
El Alv Сарын өмнө
do you get your water from the fountain of youth
Danny C. Jewell
Danny C. Jewell Сарын өмнө
Kinda good , kinda not
Jerin Thomas
Jerin Thomas Сарын өмнө
I'd love to help you out with spreading the information as your videos have helped me a lot but I really don't think dubbing is the best way to achieve this. Being multi lingual, interacting with multiple cultures on a regular basis and having used your videos to improve myself I can confidently say this. Parts of what you says can apply to one culture and not to another. Apart from English most other languages I know are Indian, they differ in culture along with the language. For example, what you said in this video about explaining your life philosophy to others, in my mother tongue(Malayalam) no one goes about telling others how to live as it is considered a farce. In North India, where most popular language is Hindi, people frequently ask each other and revere those who explain the same along with a touch "cosmic power". This message you intend to send to them would need to be worked upon in each of those language if you desire an equivalent impact. For me, I just use what I need and keep to the side what can't be used. It has been very effective for me.
Lauren James
Lauren James Сарын өмнө
lol dancing is for women. Bro dancing is for getting women... nothing is sexier than a man that can dance
Jon Farrell
Jon Farrell Сарын өмнө
Visiting and living there are 2 different things: your speaking very ignorant and narcissistic about how America isn’t the greatest. Most people in bad countries want to come and live in America. No other country has the constitution we have.
Evan Zablocki
Evan Zablocki Сарын өмнө
As for #7 its true, if you're in this videos age range while its drastic an option to give you an out is always enlist in the military. Regardless of your gender if you are single and feel like your stuck in a dead end job or you know you want to go to school or even stopped and still want to continue consider joining. It can be hard adopting a radical change in life style but it will definitely put you in a new environment and if you do a little research or ask for help can help you pick a set of skill that you can then use for later on. Now when I say this I mean specifically dont join and think I want to go infantry then well unless you want to be security or work for private arms contractor (can't think of the term) that won't help develop future applicable skills in the civilian world. As a young 21 year old at the time of joining it gave me access to complete health care, (Active Duty) a bank system that made it very easy to take out a loan in order build up a credit score (Navy Federal) and a place I never thought I would live (Personal). It was the right choice for me and pulled me out of my mindless routine of hey I got class today then work after and then work all day tomorrow and class all day the next day, my point of working full time and going to school full time where I didn't want to deal with people besides those I did on the regular. It gave me a place where every couple weeks I'll get an NCO to ask what's going on and provide a stable support system that if there are any life questions that are currently even out of my realm maybe even theirs they can continue going up that support chain to find someone who does and then they can help me. This is probably the biggest help as it definitely extended my line of support past my parents, internet and group of daily regulars who were in roughly the same position as I was. Now while I'm not actively trying to sell this path (maybe a little depending on your situation) its mainly just me recounting my experiences for the past year. Now its not all good times either there is a certain amount of BS that goes along with joining the military in general but it wasn't any worse that what I had beforehand and at least now I can have a way to try and figure out why its like that to a certain extent.
Dot Connector17
Dot Connector17 Сарын өмнө
Thank you so much for sharing these lessons! How amazing is it to have learned them so early in life. Every single video of your channel provides a ton of value, great to see!
Sahar Noroozi
Sahar Noroozi Сарын өмнө
And this video only has English sub(the one that he is speaking)😂...I can translate this videos in my language easily can I sign up since its not for free?😬🙃
Liam dabrowski
Liam dabrowski Сарын өмнө
Can anyone please elaborate on 7. is it true?
Mike Сарын өмнө
#1 is also true with good things you hear about yourself. I know it's a problem for me and many others to believe compliments, but if you hear it a lot maybe it's ok to accept it.
palmer491 Сарын өмнө
are you...not in your 20s?
Luna Feyth
Luna Feyth Сарын өмнө
your brilliant. thank you x
Kenneth Сарын өмнө
Finally a person that admits a college degree is nearly useless to the real world.
John Dough
John Dough Сарын өмнө
“Lies of omission” Spoken like a guy who has never been married. ;D
Catholic Chroma Channel
Catholic Chroma Channel Сарын өмнө
Experience is truly another way of learning.
Jave Lester Odvina
Jave Lester Odvina Сарын өмнө
I'm 21 years old Asia man. This video is really for me.
Diamond Ace 777
Diamond Ace 777 2 сарын өмнө
I'm 22 so this is really helpful. Thanks, man.
Mayank Shankar
Mayank Shankar 2 сарын өмнө
Amartya Singh
Amartya Singh 2 сарын өмнө
grantNet LLC
grantNet LLC 2 сарын өмнө
He is the Big brother, alot of useful life advice. thanks man keep it up
Jordan Fiction
Jordan Fiction 2 сарын өмнө
Bro thank you but honestly I keep forgetting you’re not like 22 lol
ThePerfect Assassin
ThePerfect Assassin 2 сарын өмнө
God man this is such great content, I’m 22 and so fortunate to have stumbled upon this video
neha doe
neha doe 2 сарын өмнө
Hmmm I thought ur 22
Israel Smart
Israel Smart 2 сарын өмнө
I Understand.
hana ab
hana ab 2 сарын өмнө
Can you give us tips to look younger ?
ibn ismail
ibn ismail 2 сарын өмнө
What about tamil???
Jordan Felt
Jordan Felt 2 сарын өмнө
Costa Rica? You also talk about having lived in Brazil in a different video, serious question for you Charlie; how many places have you lived in and what is your experience? I'm really curious because I think that something like that as far as traveling goes might be useful for my own life. If you have a video just talking about that stuff it would be awesome to see. Hope to hear from you at some point, love your content by the way.
楊子億Jumpman 2 сарын өмнө
Charlie, I admire how driven you are on expanding your channel beyond America. Way to go!!! All the super successful people I have met across the globe have been walking on the strait and narrow path. They all have the discipline to work on their craft constantly for building an empire. It's very sad that there are more and more young people in America, who are distracted by weeds, alcohol, and drugs.
deniz yarsuvat
deniz yarsuvat 2 сарын өмнө
Hah! This guy likes dancing, what a girl.
Bas Distelmans
Bas Distelmans 2 сарын өмнө
This video inspired me. I opened up and asked someone close to me to help with my impulsive spending habits. Thank you for the great work your doing.
Wesley McLeish
Wesley McLeish 2 сарын өмнө
This really helps , thanks for this video.
Louis Luzuka
Louis Luzuka 2 сарын өмнө
Absolutely right on 💯
WeTryYouWin 2 сарын өмнө
This man is drinking from the fountain of youth, and holding out on us....
The Jebroni
The Jebroni 2 сарын өмнө
I've never seen such a big smile
Sparkling Stars
Sparkling Stars 2 сарын өмнө
i thought you were 19-24
Soukhya Chitnis
Soukhya Chitnis 2 сарын өмнө
I thought you are in your 20s😂
Millennial Typecasts
Millennial Typecasts 2 сарын өмнө
Fact: you're below 20 when you're watching this comment
That Chess Guy
That Chess Guy 2 сарын өмнө
@5:07. In North Korea you don’t need to worry about having political discussions at family meals and gatherings because there isn’t enough food to host a gathering.
Nathan Monson
Nathan Monson 2 сарын өмнө
This has been a huge help. I was doubting myself about moving abroad because my family dont want me to basically.. But as you said 1 small thing wont make the change i need, i need to change my whole life except maybe my career
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