5 Harmful Psychological Tricks Your Mind Plays On You

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Our minds are littered with booby traps. If we’re not careful we fall into one of those traps and all of the sudden it becomes harder to feel happy, and to develop yourself further.
That’s why in this video I will be giving you 5 tricks that your mind is playing on you all the time.

0:16 - #1: The “free” trap.
1:48 - #2: Projection.
3:36 - #3: Social proof.
5:46 - #4: Choosing integrity over honesty.
7:50 - #5: We try to recapture something in the same way that we lost it.

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Sharon Nwabia
Sharon Nwabia 3 өдрийн өмнө
"Allow yourself to be hypocritical" 🔥🔥👏🏻👏🏻
Stewart Nash
Stewart Nash 22 өдрийн өмнө
This is an excellent video. But, I do not appreciate the projection example. Gays are already stigmatized and targeted, I would have liked a different example. Maybe an example of projection in racism or politics? However, good work.
Amogh Gowda
Amogh Gowda Сарын өмнө
tim watz
tim watz Сарын өмнө
Why does the little drop of spit on your lower lip bother me so much?
Jahcrooks Сарын өмнө
Is it possible to make an entire video on #4. I think I'm trapped in that mind set.
an 2 сарын өмнө
Please, never stop making videos. You're fixing my life.
Benjamin Burnette
Benjamin Burnette 2 сарын өмнө
Your channel is such a huge help
Jay Jackson
Jay Jackson 2 сарын өмнө
This is so great, especially #4 and #5. Especially in the stock market for #5. You people try and 'break even' with a stock you lost money on when it would be better to cut losses and put the rest of the money in something that you think is a better value. Love it!
Hizzy 3 сарын өмнө
You have no idea how much i needed this video.
inferno 4 сарын өмнө
I find myself doing this with audible. While I like audible I am only willing to have it at $8 and not $15
C. Nick
C. Nick 4 сарын өмнө
Sooo, what if I'd pay 25 cents?
Joseph White
Joseph White 4 сарын өмнө
You're saying people who post those perfect photos on social media don't actually have perfect lives?? Say it ain't so!
ReThink with Veronica
ReThink with Veronica 4 сарын өмнө
Free is not always free- this relates to everything. It always comes with a price
Isra’a Abu Eid
Isra’a Abu Eid 4 сарын өмнө
Hi! About projection, it doesn't apply on all cases right? E.g. I think the world is ruthless and cruel for so many brutal crimes, that doesn't mean the I wanna be a criminal or I won't have mercy on people. And sometime I think I'm boring or bored, but I never think that all people are boring or the world is empty of fun stuff, in fact I love things that didn't do yet. So I wouldn't count on the projection thing. Had to write it so it become true or it would just go with the mess in my head.
Noah Batz
Noah Batz 5 сарын өмнө
Moral of the video is to not get a girlfriend, but instead get a video game
Rashida Costa
Rashida Costa 6 сарын өмнө
It's absolutely vital to preserve your mental health, hence engaging in activities that are truly becoming of who you are is always a nice start.
Hermaeus_Mora1 7 сарын өмнө
1:55 *cough* milo yiannopoulos *cough*
cool pfp but
cool pfp but 7 сарын өмнө
Joe Goldberg
Simplice Tagne
Simplice Tagne 7 сарын өмнө
i like yo videos cause you just go straight to the point 🤝
Ray Newell
Ray Newell 8 сарын өмнө
Free stuff costs more than expensive stuff.
JinBo Himself
JinBo Himself 8 сарын өмнө
Your time is the most importent thing u need to care about and appreciate )
FlowUrbanFlow 8 сарын өмнө
Social proof is waaaaaay to real. I feel like most people are stuck on that, that's why we have brands that are more about the social aspect then being an actual product
Tony Baloney
Tony Baloney 9 сарын өмнө
I'm Sicilian so Bocce ball is a requirement of life. No way out of it. Whatsa mattah fo you?
Victoria 9 сарын өмнө
I wanna do things to your mind!!!!
-Bleach- punk dj-s
-Bleach- punk dj-s 9 сарын өмнө
seems this is the most contentful video we've yet seen on those kinds of topics. The type of plain constructive and simply true mindmap that helps you organize. Decent. // Only comment apart from this: we saved the video to > watch it more times. For listening to it once, it was too fast run and too contentful for us - as if each of the points is actually worth an extra video with more examples and picturing. We think this vid is a real mindmap, outstanding.
Anonycado 10 сарын өмнө
this man is a social god
Mad Max And Madi
Mad Max And Madi 10 сарын өмнө
Really? Five figure cost for botchy ball?
Ramon Anaya
Ramon Anaya 10 сарын өмнө
"Free education, health care", etc. Mmm no!! Ever heard of taxes?? Basic economic principle THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A FREE LUNCH.
Dusty Lucky
Dusty Lucky 11 сарын өмнө
8:35 Glad this is a video cause that "..put on Craig's List" statement would've came with a shower!
Edmund Janas
Edmund Janas 11 сарын өмнө
Good content and well delivered.
Louin Green
Louin Green Жилийн өмнө
Thats crazy same exact thing happened to me and my brother and I played divinity 2 to get over it, but we were on honor mode/tactician
M P Жилийн өмнө
The projection really hit home with me.
sallyjrw jrw
sallyjrw jrw Жилийн өмнө
The question is, whenever you feel like you've lost something: a friend, money, a job, whatever; it's not "How do I get that particular thing back?", it's "What else could I do that might be more interesting and fun to make myself feel whole again?" Oftentimes, you get better solutions than the thing that you lost.
Up Stant
Up Stant Жилийн өмнө
Soo recently i had a situation were i had to compromise will i do the thing that is at low cost but will cost time because its a long time until i get it or do what i need but lose the oportunity, but it happend so that i did the thing were i could lose the oportunity and i had time and didnt lose the oportunity but ended up not using the oportunity witch was my choice
Keegan Idler
Keegan Idler Жилийн өмнө
The one dollar rule would destroy youtube
Andy Eccentric
Andy Eccentric Жилийн өмнө
COC is my favorite channel!
Maximus L. Satherozian
Maximus L. Satherozian Жилийн өмнө
mom's spaghetti
mom's spaghetti Жилийн өмнө
Talk more about projection please!
Fábio da real deal
Fábio da real deal Жилийн өмнө
Regardless of the topic you've become really great at doing these videos man
kartoshka 2808
kartoshka 2808 Жилийн өмнө
где я?
EARL PORTER Жилийн өмнө
I don't like this guy.
Axelladdon Жилийн өмнө
The lesson here: Think for yourself
I know Nothing
I know Nothing Жилийн өмнө
you have one of the most useful channels on youtube
Randy Lee
Randy Lee Жилийн өмнө
Shell Rae
Shell Rae Жилийн өмнө
You need to write a book!
Nachovyx Жилийн өмнө
"I wanted to date that particular woman and then I wanted to date other people" hmm... I recieving low Bi vibes here...
Elise Erickson
Elise Erickson Жилийн өмнө
Number 5 got me. Really good example and something that I will start applying in my own life.
Wesley Van Reen
Wesley Van Reen Жилийн өмнө
I always said hypocrisy is the most disgusting thing we humans posses although we are all hypocrite sometimes. You make alot off sense on the subject. I would love to see a video didicated to the subject one day. Love your work its one of the most intresting videos i came across youtube since this year
Enias K.
Enias K. Жилийн өмнө
can someone explain the 4th ?
SD Luedtke
SD Luedtke Жилийн өмнө
You should demonstratively threatened that GYM to return your money with a law suit in small claims court. You are in the right so they will have to return your over billed $50. They will have to use a lawyer which will cost them $100s of dollars plus your $50. They will easily give you your money ASAP because it's cost effective for them to do so.
XXPeanutSoldier Жилийн өмнө
You know he has charisma and self-confidence when there is not a single cut in his video
Santi Younger
Santi Younger Жилийн өмнө
Amazing video this was my favorite advice 5:59 Integrity over honestly, admitting our hypocritical behavior
Gustavo Fring
Gustavo Fring Жилийн өмнө
Solid advice
ThinkAboutThis Жилийн өмнө
Imagine if these videos were you projecting what you wish you were
Jonathan Walker
Jonathan Walker Жилийн өмнө
I work in marketing, and it strikes me how many of these psychological tricks are marketing go-to's. Social proof, projection, price framing...
Vincent Chapman
Vincent Chapman Жилийн өмнө
I don't know where the hell the term "bocce ball" came from but in the UK we call it's "bowls" and it's fun as hell so leave off
Keto & Paparazzi by Lisa
Keto & Paparazzi by Lisa Жилийн өмнө
Love the info in this video. Thanks for the video. Enjoyed watching to the end. New friend here & rang the bell.
Sarah Baiocchi
Sarah Baiocchi Жилийн өмнө
Haha, I've been telling people hypocrisy isn't all bad for YEARS! It's an indicator that you're starting to recognize good and bad things that apply to your situation. You need to be able to see those things before you can change.
YanVee Games
YanVee Games Жилийн өмнө
It would have been funnier if this video was sponsored by Divinity 🤣
Tom Seinfeld
Tom Seinfeld Жилийн өмнө
You should write a book.
Joe Canadian
Joe Canadian Жилийн өмнө
I really enjoy this channel and the work put into it. Can I request you cover the human Shadow psychology, from Carl Jung. I read A Little Book on the Human Shadow ~Robert Bly I suggest this because taught me how 20 years old people haven't had enough experience to understand they are acting out their Shadow(dark side of the personality because it still rules them. It isn't until approximately 30 adults become more self aware and able to deal-with-it/eat-your-shadow. I'd really like to hear what take you'd have. GBÜ
Mathew Lydy
Mathew Lydy Жилийн өмнө
I love Bocce Ball, I would pay $1 to play it.
a Жилийн өмнө
So in your town they play Bocce...? Are you italian?
Cunt Cuntic
Cunt Cuntic Жилийн өмнө
My mind‘s playing tricks on me
William Scurry
William Scurry Жилийн өмнө
I not sure about the hypocrisy thing....if things can be allowed out of convenience, where does it end? Like it IS NOT ok for Progressives to be so perversely bigoted.
vantarinitel Жилийн өмнө
Subtitles pls
JoSalvador Жилийн өмнө
People can actually be perfect
JoSalvador Жилийн өмнө
How did I find this channel? I don’t know but this guy is perfection 😭 the content, the personality, the voice, the face...
Obie Da Shinobi
Obie Da Shinobi Жилийн өмнө
Awesome tips
Elias Abele
Elias Abele Жилийн өмнө
I don't think what you suggested is hypocrisy. There is a difference between being aware that you don't live up to your own ideals and rules and thinking that these rules don't apply to yourself (the former being what Charlie proposed, while the latter is true hypocrisy)
Murat Kucukdugenci
Murat Kucukdugenci Жилийн өмнө
Charlie, I loved your post!!! Well-done@
Tropicalninja Жилийн өмнө
Post nut clarity
Michael Rosenberg
Michael Rosenberg Жилийн өмнө
🤔Sounds like you have an issue with Dems😅
Rambling Recruiter
Rambling Recruiter Жилийн өмнө
Overarching theme. Time is the most valuable commodity in the universe. Choose wisely how to spend yours. More money can always be made, but no amount of money will ever buy you more time.
patrickwag Жилийн өмнө
Can you please do something about ELVIS
transformercharger Жилийн өмнө
The social proof and social approval dual phenomena dominate social media
Jakub G
Jakub G Жилийн өмнө
Dude, Divinity 2 is probably the best game I've ever played!
Daithi _mma
Daithi _mma Жилийн өмнө
I always enjoy all your witty comments :) Has to be the funniest comment section on youtube, yes you scrolling -------- Thank you :)
Rahul batra
Rahul batra Жилийн өмнө
Make a video on Hank moody
LO L Жилийн өмнө
my bar had bachiball or w/e there and it was a blast for drunk people. you cray cray
Squintillions Жилийн өмнө
Good content. #1 could even be extended from “free” to include “significantly cheaper than normal price,” such as loss leaders or door buster deals.
funnyshapedhead1 Жилийн өмнө
I need to watch this video of yours everyday!
Alex Жилийн өмнө
Thanks for what you do, from Russian fans)
Eddie Жилийн өмнө
FakeBook is free, that's not worth a $1 either.
thewaldenthree Жилийн өмнө
Why is your mouth bigger than your face? Are you real or just an AI generated fake?
TheDLoaderz Жилийн өмнө
About the money thing... When asking my money back for me it's not only important to have it back but also that the person/company or whatever just doesn't keep it.
Snolly Gosters
Snolly Gosters Жилийн өмнө
You should do a video on Jim's charisma from The Office
Jerry Mills
Jerry Mills Жилийн өмнө
Wow! I was especially stung by the projection part. I plead guilty. Thanks for prosecuting me. I needed that.
Ken D
Ken D Жилийн өмнө
And you hit the nail on the head about hypocrisy. I've found that in myself and stamped out the failures when I become self-aware of them, or at least try to.
Ken D
Ken D Жилийн өмнө
No matter what's going on bad in my life, when the cat wants to be sweet, I stop what I'm doing and pay him attention. I always feel better afterwards.
OP 9 сарын өмнө
@Dawn Baker your neck looks thick, are you trans? no judgement.
Dawn Baker
Dawn Baker 9 сарын өмнө
@OP When the cat wants to be sweet by approaching you for some petting or playtime
OP 11 сарын өмнө
"when the cat wants to be sweet" WTF does that mean?
Nikitina Жилийн өмнө
You should do a video on Kris Jenner. This woman is the mastermind behind the Kardashians, it'd be interesting to look into it!
Leonardo Honorato
Leonardo Honorato Жилийн өмнө
Can you do a vídeo about Thomas shelby ?
nadaas qimaw
nadaas qimaw Жилийн өмнө
0ned Жилийн өмнө
#4 Hypocrisy? No. There is no integrity without honesty unless you are a consummate liar! Haha
John Day
John Day Жилийн өмнө
Disliked because bocce ball is the best.
Thanasis Ballas
Thanasis Ballas Жилийн өмнө
Usefull good job
Rybak Жилийн өмнө
Пиздец у него рот огромный! Стрёмно выглядит...
Najeea Murray
Najeea Murray Жилийн өмнө
Thanks for the awesome tricks! I definitely have to work on the $1 tip and fixing my projection screen.
Angry Jakem
Angry Jakem Жилийн өмнө
когда там перевод уже
me2drescue Жилийн өмнө
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