7 Red Flags In Dating You Should Never Ignore

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90 Day Fiance videos have been making the rounds on MNpost recently, and wow, there are some amazingly toxic relationships in that show.
Unfortunately it can be hard to recognize when your own relationship is headed towards trouble until it's too late, so today we're going to cover 7 red flags that are early signs of a toxic relationship.

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0:48 - #1: Prioritizing being attractive over being honest.
1:50 - #2: Makes it a headache to not give them what they want.
3:46 - #3: Their actions don't match their words.
4:56 - #4: Your friends and family don't like your relationship.
6:15 - #5: Toxic people will try to distance you from other people.
7:44 - #6: We see our significant other as we want them to be.
9:15 - #7: Your relationship is a roller coaster with extreme highs and lows.
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Dingfelder Smurfalot
Dingfelder Smurfalot 9 цагийн өмнө
Most older men have no or almost no friends. I think this is because women try to narrow their social circle, even if it takes years, so their men will be emotionally dependent on them because they have nowhere else emotionally to go. You'll notice that when a guy does this, it's called a warning sign of an abusive relationship. When a woman does this, it's the norm.
Kevin Romero
Kevin Romero 11 цагийн өмнө
I dont know if I can agree with number 4 completely. Here me out. Coming off from a recent past relationship, I was dating a chick who seemed her real self when she was with me but acted as if she was high maintenance with her friends. She definitely had high maintenance close friends. The only chance i got to talk and meet her friends, we definitely did not vibe at all. After seeing each other for sometime, her friends and I never got along, I believe because we never interacted with each other ever since. Also, she would tell me what her friends said about me and I believe she told her friends whatthought about them. I believe this is partly why we ended up breaking apart. We were different but we were attractive to each other and had a great time when we were together but every time we had a bad argument, she ran to her friends and she ended up not talking to me for long periods of times, on several occasions. Long story short, I ended up knowing she was talking to someone else the way she was talking to me. And it wasnt the first incident in which i felt betrayal. I ended up breaking up the relationship because of this. What I am trying to say is there are some circumstances in which ones own close friends do not have the best interest for you
AdoboTravels
AdoboTravels 13 цагийн өмнө
No clue why I’m watching this , I’m 24 never had a girlfriend. I’ve tried many times but I’m blessed to meet the wrong people every single time. Anyways I’m grateful I dodged so many bullets, No problems happy :)
Bruno Vitalino
Bruno Vitalino Өдрийн өмнө
What is the show's name at the beginning of the video?... I never saw in my country.
Gean Draige
Gean Draige Өдрийн өмнө
Me a 14 year old : hmmm intresting
Christy Wright
Christy Wright Өдрийн өмнө
Nothing kills a woody like nagging. Learned this about 20 years ago, as a woman!!
vdrwatch
vdrwatch 2 өдрийн өмнө
Thank you for making this informative video. I thought it was highly insightful and to the point.
Dan C
Dan C 2 өдрийн өмнө
My God who are these people?!!
Sylvester Ashcroft
Sylvester Ashcroft 3 өдрийн өмнө
20 dollar flower lady seems so obnoxious, how would he not realise that before they met each other! xD
greenscarab2
greenscarab2 3 өдрийн өмнө
Most is accurate though !
greenscarab2
greenscarab2 3 өдрийн өмнө
Wow, I think the red flag 🚩 is the guy that came to the airport empty handed. She sounds foreign, and old fashioned. She was trying to be romantic wanting flowers that has been associated with love and romance. He should have taken the hint and said, there is some flowers, lets get some!! On top of not getting her the flowers he mentions the price? 20 dollars too much for flowers he doesn't love her at all. Me and my girlfriend buy each other flowers to cheer up or for holidays or for no reason at all. The guy is not attractive and he is rude and cheap. Run girl!!!
『アラン』
『アラン』 3 өдрийн өмнө
6:57 when you realise that you’ve gone in too deep without noticing the red flags
Adam a
Adam a 3 өдрийн өмнө
Ur lucky those flowers are 20$ just buy them for her she hot!
arjun220
arjun220 3 өдрийн өмнө
secret is not to date just be alone you'll be much happier this only apply for men.
Renamawn
Renamawn 3 өдрийн өмнө
Damn, I wish I would have seen something like this 3 years ago. As a male in a mentally abusive relationship with a female you dont have a lot of people to talk to about it and constantly deny it when friends bring it up to you. This guy hit the nail on the head with my last relationship.
Brian Sneary
Brian Sneary 3 өдрийн өмнө
MGTOW ftw
Jean Phillippes
Jean Phillippes 3 өдрийн өмнө
Just walking past a TV with stuff like this on it must be hazardous. Thank you. Freecycle.
Nagi Stratos
Nagi Stratos 3 өдрийн өмнө
Came here for the breasts.
JF8TheGreatNation
JF8TheGreatNation 3 өдрийн өмнө
What show 2:03 ?
Danny Roque
Danny Roque 3 өдрийн өмнө
All of you blue pill guys in here, need to start by swallowing the red pill 💊
Vokdor1
Vokdor1 3 өдрийн өмнө
The advice on listening to others about your relationship is bad. Friends are not where you should get psychological help of any kind, especially relationship help. Friends compete with your partner for time. By nature they are opposed.
Meto
Meto 4 өдрийн өмнө
Do you have to go on a date to see those signs?
El Homiederp
El Homiederp 4 өдрийн өмнө
Bruh is that Blair Williams? That's my Fave Pornstar
Allen Hippler
Allen Hippler 4 өдрийн өмнө
Single me watching this: Interesting
jessica valley
jessica valley 4 өдрийн өмнө
Darcy was so pathetic she made me nauseous
Dick Blather
Dick Blather 4 өдрийн өмнө
Red flag: win my confidence and then make a sales pitch. Marketing genius.
Jainil Gosalia
Jainil Gosalia 4 өдрийн өмнө
alright, i'll admit it, i have 1 red flag out of the seven. doing stuff kinda different from what i preach. but that's a result of me not being perfect, i wish i could do everything i say, but i am only human.
moexus
moexus 5 өдрийн өмнө
MGTOW... men, stop dating western women, go to Africa or Asia find real women.
Mark Schwartz
Mark Schwartz 5 өдрийн өмнө
I once went out to a nice restaurant with a woman I was dating, and legit every dollar I had was in my wallet. After eating our dinners, she starts telling me that I have to buy her a margarita (name of restaurant was margaritas). At this point I only have 10 dollars left, and in the back of my mind I know that i need this money for stuff, and just can't spend it. I don't buy the drink, and on the way back home (and the rest of the day) she is making me regret not buying the drink, and is being a complete c*nt. On the way back home i bummed a ciggarette off of a stranger after quitting smoking for over a month and a half, just to show her that if she wants to behave that way, then there could be consequences. Maybe a month later she is trying to get me to take her back to this spanish restaurant, and trying to be really nice to me (the food was amazing). I flat out told her that we were never going to that restaurant ever again.
Larry StoneTV
Larry StoneTV 5 өдрийн өмнө
I would have frisbeed my plate into her back for splashing water on me.
Desmond Sawyer
Desmond Sawyer 5 өдрийн өмнө
Ed is so disgusting looking 🤮
Vladimir
Vladimir 5 өдрийн өмнө
I don't know what really happens at 9:34 but it's an idea for disposing of a bad date: call an uber, open the door for her and run away instead of getting in
Louis Cyfear
Louis Cyfear 5 өдрийн өмнө
*_Shut the hell up with that healthy crap._* I wanna see the train wreak
HD MGTOW
HD MGTOW 5 өдрийн өмнө
MGTOW know this long ago.
Jacob Tahiliani
Jacob Tahiliani 6 өдрийн өмнө
“Married before your one year anniversary” Laughs in Provo
Carlos Fuentes
Carlos Fuentes 6 өдрийн өмнө
so true
Ba Ra
Ba Ra 6 өдрийн өмнө
The poor doggie had to suffer and watch dis XD.
GalaXy_World
GalaXy_World 6 өдрийн өмнө
Ty
Mic k
Mic k 6 өдрийн өмнө
Hard to watch this. These girls are steaming piles of crap. And these aren't real men.
Elite Crewmate
Elite Crewmate 7 өдрийн өмнө
You don’t need to correct mistakes to be in relationships if you have a mental breakdown 😂😂🥰😌✌️😍
lewis osborne
lewis osborne 7 өдрийн өмнө
a red flag for me would be meeting your long time long distance girlfriend for the first time and not bringing her flowers, and then acting like $20 for flowers is ridiculous. this goes both for men and women but if your partner doesn't do small kindnesses or gives you small surprises now and then thats a relationship thats bound to fail
Mason Karr
Mason Karr 7 өдрийн өмнө
I ended my relationship because I noticed a good number of these and it holds true after the breakup anytime I hear from her she is just being toxic and blaming me for her lack of trust, communication and so on.
Ted Barsalou
Ted Barsalou 7 өдрийн өмнө
When you're on a date, and you realize you forgot you don't have a neck.
Slay Foe
Slay Foe 7 өдрийн өмнө
F...ck flowers!
Andrew E
Andrew E 7 өдрийн өмнө
Girls Night Out is the worst idea ever. I would never commit to anyone who goes on girls trips of any kind (and im in a great relationship if 12 years).
Janne Peltonen
Janne Peltonen 7 өдрийн өмнө
These videos are addictive.
Belgian Tributes
Belgian Tributes 8 өдрийн өмнө
When all of your exes have all of the signs of being toxic in a relationship...
Austin Buring
Austin Buring 8 өдрийн өмнө
God damn, turns out I was color blind, because I couldnt see red flags. Lol. 🤣. Things are so different.
Ed Szczender
Ed Szczender 8 өдрийн өмнө
anyone else get an ad for flowers on here?
Genuine Delusions
Genuine Delusions 8 өдрийн өмнө
Damn I feel attacked. I cry when I'm hurt, lol. Is that a red flag?
R N Jesus
R N Jesus 8 өдрийн өмнө
Damn, I’m really glad I’m married, and dating is a thing of the past.
Alexei Khaidurov
Alexei Khaidurov 8 өдрийн өмнө
My favourite red flag is when there’s a Revolution
Michael Angst
Michael Angst 8 өдрийн өмнө
This show is scripted for drama, even though any woman who would realistically come out to the US for a guy, would be it in it for the green card... These aren't real relationships even if you believe they aren't scripted either way.
kelly lockwood
kelly lockwood 9 өдрийн өмнө
I dated a guy who hid that he had a severe form of a potentially life threatening disease and did absolutely nothing to treat it. After that I just kinda stopped dating in this city. Took a few years off from dating, expanded and grew my business. The right person will show up at the right time
Small Guy on Top
Small Guy on Top 9 өдрийн өмнө
Wow man! You are out of touch with reality! You are so ethnocentric you have no idea what life is like in other countries and cultures. You've got some growing up to do. Also, the self-righteous orientation of this video while also being so narrow minded is repulsive.Put your camera away and go live abroad. Then come back and you won't have to pretend to know it all and pretend to teach guys that everything you think is right. It's not. You are squarely wrong from the intro to the end on many issues.
Deborah Armstrong
Deborah Armstrong 9 өдрийн өмнө
Pay attention to how they talk about others. Because that is how they will talk about you.
mr. soundguy '96
mr. soundguy '96 9 өдрийн өмнө
Woman: 'I need support', translation: 'I need money' Woman: 'I need help', translation: 'I need money' Woman: 'I need love', translation: 'I need money' Woman: 'I need you', translation: 'I need your wallet' Woman: 'I don't want to lose you', translation: 'I don't want you to lose your income'
*Hérétic
*Hérétic 9 өдрийн өмнө
A man impose respect.
Adam Carter
Adam Carter 9 өдрийн өмнө
I understand what you are saying about red flags but since I have watched 90 day fiance you are taking alot of these videos out of context. For example, the blonde woman who is about to be married texting other people and she is saying that you dont need to text other girls who arent family members. What you dont see is the woman was right. Just a day after they got married she finds out that he is cheating on her. So she was right. That is just one example.
Vidhi Basu
Vidhi Basu 9 өдрийн өмнө
Me, a single woman, not looking to date anytime soon: 👁️👄👁️
Ash Jacques
Ash Jacques 10 өдрийн өмнө
So who wants to marry me?
lonewolffang
lonewolffang 10 өдрийн өмнө
3:51- I fell for that one. My ex said she was into most of my interest with a few of her own personal likes, but after a few years, she told me she never had those interests I had. So that was a lesson for me that from now on if they won't be honest with me about things upfront, I'm not wasting any time.
Meme Review
Meme Review 10 өдрийн өмнө
I’m glad I learned this young. I was recently in a relationship where I saw so many red flags it felt like a communist country but I decided to ignore them because It was my first time in a real relationship and I was scared I couldn’t find anyone else. I tried to end it many times but got roped back in even though I knew what was going on I decided to ignore it because she would make me feel guilty and exploit that guilt I felt. Long story short she ended up making up lies about me and spreading them to people and I started reviving threats and I never even knew what she said about me because every time I asked anyone they would say “you know what you did” even though I didn’t and I almost ended up getting jumped but I managed to calm the situation down. Still crazy to me that this happened all over some lies and manipulated screenshots. If you see these red flags please run, it’s not worth it. I learned this lesson at 15 but some people don’t learn it until too late. Please listen to things in this vid because if you are an adult even worse things can happen that getting beaten up. Edit: punctuation Edit 2: she had done this in the past to people but I thought she changed and by the time I realized she didn’t change it was too late Edit 3: I noticed every red flag in this video in her, don’t be like me
muhammadnabilafif afif
muhammadnabilafif afif 10 өдрийн өмнө
Why does the girls in this video looks like post wall women
Serujio Raiton
Serujio Raiton 10 өдрийн өмнө
Bruh i need to stop watching UFC. When that dude hugged the girl from behind right at the beginning my first and only thought was SUPLEX... Probably a red flag too, thinking about suplexing a girl...
Siegfried Braun
Siegfried Braun 10 өдрийн өмнө
Getting relationship advice from MNpost; like having an obese person coaching a weight-loss class.
Rod Kammerdiener
Rod Kammerdiener 10 өдрийн өмнө
You are wrong about the whole girls/guys night out. Why would someone want to exclude their partner? I understand if someone is just dating etc...but in a more committed relationship why would you exclude your wife or husband?
Keith Christopher Harcus
Keith Christopher Harcus 10 өдрийн өмнө
From 2:17 to 2:37, that could be a cultural issue. It's also a type of love language to buy gifts for someone, so receiving gifts could be how she hears love. But yeah obviously that get's expensive and that's just totally unreasonable. He could shower her with some other type o gift, if you know what I mean.
Keith Christopher Harcus
Keith Christopher Harcus 10 өдрийн өмнө
From 0:39 to 0:48, LOL buying a Real doll would be cheaper and more satisfying.
dustiest spade
dustiest spade 11 өдрийн өмнө
Still have no clue why my last gf broke up although I got 3 reasons from her.
Perry Bird
Perry Bird 11 өдрийн өмнө
I disagree with the family part due to there are lot of toxic families out there!
Emma Frost
Emma Frost 11 өдрийн өмнө
Also the screaming woman sounds like a female drunk Mel Gibson.
Jordan Sheppherd
Jordan Sheppherd 11 өдрийн өмнө
These girls aren't even attractive to begin with.
Emma Frost
Emma Frost 11 өдрийн өмнө
You know this show is staged right?
Hue Jorgan
Hue Jorgan 11 өдрийн өмнө
1. Someone, them or you, prioritizes being attractive over being honest 2. A person makes it a headache to not give them what they want 3. Their actions do not match their words 4. Your friends and family do not like the relationship 5. Toxic people will proactively try to distance you from the other people in your life 6. We see our significant others not as they are but as we want them to be 7. Your relationship is like a roller coaster with lots of extreme highs and extreme lows
Jan Scott
Jan Scott 11 өдрийн өмнө
Wow, these people are mass produced.
Michael Perez
Michael Perez 12 өдрийн өмнө
Why am I watching this. I've never even had a crush on anyone.
void walker117
void walker117 12 өдрийн өмнө
"when you look at somebody with rose colored glasses red flags just look like flags." -some lady from Bojack Horses man or something
Lucho Portuano
Lucho Portuano 12 өдрийн өмнө
My favorite red flag: being late. It means you don't even care about...well....pretty much anything else but yourself.
mohammed amjad
mohammed amjad 12 өдрийн өмнө
5:35 Looks in Indian
dreamerslull
dreamerslull 12 өдрийн өмнө
this video is actually a really great way to illustrate red flags for people to see when it comes to relationships, its one thing to talk about examples, but to see what they actually mean being played out in front of you is WOW in your face, awesome video
stellarwulf
stellarwulf 13 өдрийн өмнө
These people need to take time to heal their own emotional trauma themselves instead of expecting "love" to fix it for them.
Jason Andrews
Jason Andrews 13 өдрийн өмнө
The secret is to already have no self esteem so they cant lower it any further
Paul
Paul 13 өдрийн өмнө
The opinions of friends and family are a good sign if they themselves are not toxic people.
Exotherm
Exotherm 14 өдрийн өмнө
Damn I just realized that I was bringing some of these toxic traits into my previous relationships. This actually seems good to improve the person that you are.
RedWing
RedWing 14 өдрийн өмнө
Big Ed is attractive and ugly at the same time. I’m very confused, like he’s a whale but an attractive whale
Anthony Cruz
Anthony Cruz 14 өдрийн өмнө
These type of people exist but, you have to take the “reality” drama with a grain of salt. A good date with decent value is boring.
Ryan
Ryan 15 өдрийн өмнө
Do background checks, and talk to their friends. Even then in today’s society it’s like trying to find a needle in a haystack.
fogwat
fogwat 15 өдрийн өмнө
8th red flag - not having a neck.
Jennifer Andersen
Jennifer Andersen 15 өдрийн өмнө
When you look at someone through rose colored glasses, all the red flags, just look like flags. -Wanda Peirce, Bojack Horseman
Andres Greene
Andres Greene 15 өдрийн өмнө
Girls night out is for cheating.
mshuntas
mshuntas 15 өдрийн өмнө
I feel personally attacked by this video... Jeez, hurts to hear the truth sometimes. My last relationship had all the red flags and I denied it for so long. I just wanna find the pearl to my oyster, but I find it to be difficult to get out there after such an intense/rocky/addictive relationship. Oof
MAV Computer Bike Run
MAV Computer Bike Run 15 өдрийн өмнө
Love isn't real just sexual desires love what a person do for you
Jessie Hogue
Jessie Hogue 16 өдрийн өмнө
Do they actively seek out the most soulless, pathetic, vile, disgusting people they can find for this kind of show?
Black Spiderman
Black Spiderman 16 өдрийн өмнө
I agree with the no texting other women thing. If you are with your girl or wife, you should not be texting another woman unless its your family member
David Wilson
David Wilson 18 өдрийн өмнө
I was with you and your views up until the late night hang outs and the texting. There's another MNpost channel i follow where he reads so many stories of infidelity and with those stories, 10 times out of 10, those are always the cause or basis of the cheating. If my girl does the girls night or texting a guy friend, i will assume cheating whether she is currently cheating or in the beginning stages.
Adrian Fuentes
Adrian Fuentes 19 өдрийн өмнө
That phone thing is wrong. . . as a faithful partner I did not text behind her back (until I cheated) and REPLACEMENT girl ALWAYS chatted online and went out with several guys. . . hipergamy . . . Dont make it official until you are living together and end social media. . . man
Thetall man
Thetall man 19 өдрийн өмнө
F all of that. WHERE'S ED'S GD NECK!?!?
John Pick
John Pick 19 өдрийн өмнө
This video is very informative if we would only listen ! Thank U.
green spider
green spider 21 өдрийн өмнө
Look into high spectrum narcissistic behavior or personality disorder especially the malignant narcissist I was married to one for five years pathological lying Master manipulation gaslighting de regulation projection it’s basically an emotional roller coaster ride that leaves you exhausted and easier to manipulate another person they do not have the ability to internalize the emotions they are external it is an absolute hell ride eventually there is nothing left of you and if you don’t do what they tell you to do because you’re a projection of their reality they can literally become violent and I’m talking violent and I’m talking about a woman that loves to play the victim
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