How To Never Be Boring In Conversation

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Tom Hanks has one of the most captivating personalities in Hollywood. What’s interesting is that his charm has much less to do with what he is saying compared to how he says it.
So in this video, we’re going to break down 4 habits that make everything Tom says more interesting, and how you can use these to ensure that you are never boring in conversation, even if you don’t have super interesting topics to talk about.

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0:18 - Habit #1: He uses a story gap.
1:45 - Habit #2: He inhabits the character/action that he is talking about.
4:02 - Habit #3: Tom uses dynamics.
6:02 - Habit #4: Tom includes everyone in the group.
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Heinrich
Heinrich 9 цагийн өмнө
On that island, Wilson was listening the whole time.
Elumio Merk
Elumio Merk 3 өдрийн өмнө
After watching this as well as a lot of videos on this channel, I think those presentations in college, going teacher mode and showing powerpoint after powerpoint destroyed my ability to tell an exciting story.
Juan Pavac
Juan Pavac 17 өдрийн өмнө
Tom early career do comedy saturday imho, so..
Ahmerio
Ahmerio Сарын өмнө
I think There is no fun in being charming and charismatic in your middle or old age... The fun is when you're a teen or in your 20s ...that's when it sounds so good
Jack Durham
Jack Durham Сарын өмнө
What a miserable twonk you are. Enjoy your life. Don't spoil it for others with your misery.
Sebastian Müller
Sebastian Müller Сарын өмнө
charisma on command doesnt have charisma himself, thats why he tries to fake other peoples charisma. simple but true
Фернанда
Фернанда Сарын өмнө
I feel like an alien trying to be a human by learning how they talk
『uni the first』
『uni the first』 Сарын өмнө
so like teach me this but with texts, like i want to text my bestfriend. but our texts are so dry, i mean we dont mind if its dry, she said that she likes it cause we're not like "OMGGG LOLLLLLLL WAIT WHAT LOL" or whatever, we're really calm. but nowadays its REALLY dry
『uni the first』
『uni the first』 Сарын өмнө
flashback to when me and my bestfriend was ina call for 9 hours and only for 2 hours we we're talking and only the rest of the houts we we're mited or staying silent
Ankit Rekhi
Ankit Rekhi 2 сарын өмнө
He is a celebritu dude.. People can laugh on his fart too
lazzy2012
lazzy2012 2 сарын өмнө
Fun fact: Tom Hanks visited Jeffery Epstein island
NYC POV
NYC POV 2 сарын өмнө
I didn't know Keanu was in toy story 4
x
x 3 сарын өмнө
Watching this made me realize how boring I can be 😂
AwesomeCakeDesigner
AwesomeCakeDesigner 3 сарын өмнө
Different personalities appeal to different people, that's why it's good to be yourself. We don't want to all be alike or it would just be so boring!
Koda Tauo
Koda Tauo 3 сарын өмнө
Load of bollux. Analyse that. Total crap.
Simon P
Simon P 3 сарын өмнө
😂 Even Woody is loud and gestures with his whole body...fun to watch.
Late to the Game
Late to the Game 3 сарын өмнө
MNpost is full of bad actors... including... nevermind. I'll be polite. Good vid... I guess.
Renrondog
Renrondog 3 сарын өмнө
First step, Child .......ography
Jaeden Smith
Jaeden Smith 3 сарын өмнө
ALLLLL ABOOUURD!!!! “Polar Express”
Norm Van Wieren
Norm Van Wieren 3 сарын өмнө
Your overanalysis is more about how to be a bull s*** artist then anything else. If you want to be engaging be interesting, and be interested. Sorry I won't be one of your customers. What a bunch of over descriptive bullsh it.
SchuyFit - Men's Weight Loss
SchuyFit - Men's Weight Loss 3 сарын өмнө
Thanks!!! I'll keep this in mind.
M. Doyle Productions
M. Doyle Productions 3 сарын өмнө
We'll all make a pact here in the comment section to never judge a genuine reaction by what's on Ellen's face.
Uncle Smoke
Uncle Smoke 3 сарын өмнө
This dude ain't fooling nobody he has no idea what he's speaking of
Spirit Blade777
Spirit Blade777 3 сарын өмнө
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Philip Longee
Philip Longee 3 сарын өмнө
Despite all that Hanks still got COVID. I guess you can't talk your way out of that.
Je Za
Je Za 3 сарын өмнө
Yeah so if I am as 'charismatic' as this during conversation I am accused of "seeking attention" and/or "making the conversation all about me [you]". Now if I was a man and had a minimum net worth of half a billion dollars ...several houses ...several holiday homes ...a few new cars (preferably one being a lamborgini) ...and definitely a yot - gotta have a yot, I'd be fine behaving this way without being attacked by all and sundry about my weird overbearing behaviour. I'll bet your Mr Hanks doesn't behave like this at home - can you imagine?! I think if he did he would drive everyone mad. I know if I had someone talking to me like this 24/7 I'd go nuts.
Whodoneit
Whodoneit 3 сарын өмнө
Never mind Tom I will not be taking any advice from you. Creepy Sell out to Hollywood
Louis Burgess
Louis Burgess 3 сарын өмнө
ok but what if your mind just goes blank in any social situation and you have absolutely nothing coming to mind to actually s a y ?
Paul BruinFan
Paul BruinFan 3 сарын өмнө
So an actor goes into a controlled environment and works from a predetermined script....uh, ok.
Chief Tenphatts
Chief Tenphatts 3 сарын өмнө
I'm not here to entertain, I'm here to be entertained. 60 years on and still loving it.
George Michaels
George Michaels 3 сарын өмнө
Say this" Have washed your pu$$y today?". Works ever time.
Nate Da Grrreat
Nate Da Grrreat 3 сарын өмнө
Here after 2020 ruined me 👋🏾
Rick Baker
Rick Baker 3 сарын өмнө
I know a word to start conversation with. Hmm I think it's against "community guidelines" though... MNpost's no fun.
Lee Lorenz
Lee Lorenz 3 сарын өмнө
Good luck trying to behave like one of the best actors in the world.
Black Swan55
Black Swan55 3 сарын өмнө
Being a vulkan, I find this fascinating.
Scottiemon
Scottiemon 3 сарын өмнө
Move to Greece because they are coming to arrest you.
Winter Star
Winter Star 4 сарын өмнө
Well, dang...I have used all those techniques, for decades, yet, I have never become famous in any way. Must be doing them wrong?
jajesam sigurno
jajesam sigurno 4 сарын өмнө
start with: My name is Tom Hanks and Im an adrenochrone addict.
Bob Mulroy
Bob Mulroy 4 сарын өмнө
"Yeah well, I hung out with Epstein, but my lastest character protects a young girl...."
Pia Christine Siefert
Pia Christine Siefert 4 сарын өмнө
I don't think this will be the same positive reaction in Scandinavia. Only if you are VERY charming like Tom Hanks, Robin Williams, or Jude Law. Hanks is a very talented clown and actor. I got a family member that acts like Rachel in the TV show 'Friends'. Same manic stare, into you face, very close to your nose, and the American screaming. (Hello...turn down the volume, mate) "It's hysterical", "Yay"..."how sad" and "OMG" all the time"(she is 54 yrs. old and her autie is 75 yrs. same manic stare). Really annoying. I simply prefer a more British, low key, presentation. More cool, like Bowie.
Geoff Sweet
Geoff Sweet 4 сарын өмнө
...because he starts with this at parties..."I touch kids"...scumbag. Special place in jail and HELLfor you sport....hope you like a dry heat.
Thomas 93
Thomas 93 4 сарын өмнө
I love this channel I used to be an autistic gamer now I'm prime minister of my country
brudzool
brudzool 4 сарын өмнө
these videos are always horseshit. People listen to any story he tells because "he is Tom Hanks." He speaks, they listen. Because he is a movie star, and people in this world revere celebrity
Brain 5prain
Brain 5prain 4 сарын өмнө
So people ought to jump up and down on a couch like Tom Cruise, talk with their hands waving all over the place, and speak in accents with their faces all crunched up as they act out everything they are talking about. It gets attention for sure. But if you have been around or watched someone like that for very long, they can drive you crazy. (Think Robin Williams, RIP) As advice, it is probably better suited for someone about to go on a late night talk show. I have been laser focused on people who speak intelligently about interesting topics without all the superficial gimmicks.
sandra stevens
sandra stevens 4 сарын өмнө
I find that boring speaking does disinterest people. Other people start speaking. I always think people would think I am trying too hard to act anything like Tom. I love to act out things when I speak. But not sure how it comes over. The eye contact is important.
Diane Silva
Diane Silva 4 сарын өмнө
I have nothing against Tom Hanks but I actually find his interviews boring. I dont think he is an interesting conversationalist at all.
BullToTheShit
BullToTheShit 4 сарын өмнө
I don't find Tom Hanks particularly interesting or funny (I like his movies, though). For interview analysis I prefer any of the following: Bill Burr, Al Pacino, John Cleese, Jerry Seinfeld, Norm Macdonald, Quentin Tarantino.
bassfan41
bassfan41 4 сарын өмнө
but what if I just don't care anymore?
Lepuha69
Lepuha69 4 сарын өмнө
Hhmm first second and im already bored lol
Mr. Bono
Mr. Bono 4 сарын өмнө
Why is Robin Roberts still alive?
Mr. Bono
Mr. Bono 4 сарын өмнө
LMAO ROBIN ROBERTS IS SO DISGUSTING
garudain77
garudain77 4 сарын өмнө
Why do I keep getting ads, even as I pay for MNpost Premium? This is crazy!
Chris Williams
Chris Williams 4 сарын өмнө
If I were to do his actions while speaking, I am sure that my friends would think I was over the top and certifiable. While in France for instance, one must speak quietly. It is the Americans that are loud.
cjkyricos
cjkyricos 4 сарын өмнө
Tom Hanks is boring. Pick another specimen to make your point without using an actor.
Jade K
Jade K 4 сарын өмнө
I used to BE like this! I wanted to be a singer & actress & was always, ‘ON’ I was told I should be a comedian, was voted the best actress & singer in my class....I needed so much attention & my disastrous relationships reflected that. I finally learned to love myself & 😅 finally! Currently an introvert. Read, garden, workout in nature & create art for the people I love. The insane people we become just to feel loved by others. When you love yourself, other people who love themselves will find you.
ChaosWhite
ChaosWhite 4 сарын өмнө
It’s already mentioned in the comments that the normal day thing has a lot of potential. But I’m gonna step it up and start saying “you wouldn’t believe how boring my day was!”. It has a lot of potential with the contrast you can create by energetically explaining your mundane tasks, or you could follow it with a joke (think Rodney Dangerfield) maybe something along the lines of “my day was so boring I called the DMV just to say hi!”
Robert Cooper
Robert Cooper 4 сарын өмнө
I gotta say the comments here are WAY more interesting and than the video!!
Manlihood
Manlihood 4 сарын өмнө
This is a really interesting take on conversation and helpful advice!
Cheyenne Maxon
Cheyenne Maxon 4 сарын өмнө
Off topic but I just love Tom Hank.
Mary Brien
Mary Brien 4 сарын өмнө
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J.J.C.S
J.J.C.S 4 сарын өмнө
How am I ever going to move on from this?
Vernon Reid
Vernon Reid 4 сарын өмнө
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IceColdBeer
IceColdBeer 4 сарын өмнө
Thanks. Life is really like a box of chocolates now!
lisa hind
lisa hind 4 сарын өмнө
Thanks. This is very informative and encourages me more to consider taking your course. :)
Vip3re
Vip3re 4 сарын өмнө
Why would I want to connect with people?
nathan johnson
nathan johnson 4 сарын өмнө
Very interesting person just ask Jeffery Epstein
Gambo916
Gambo916 4 сарын өмнө
Geez...most of that went right over my head! I must be a right boring git to converse with!!
Tyler Henrichs
Tyler Henrichs 4 сарын өмнө
Step 1: Become as good of an actor as Tom Hanks. Step 2: Repeat step 1 until you are as charismatic as Tom Hanks.
Connie Fairchild
Connie Fairchild 4 сарын өмнө
The nifty leo jekely accept because plant usually suggest unto a jealous view. six, learned success
Eva Zdiva
Eva Zdiva 4 сарын өмнө
Nice points, but you can’t teach natural talent and personality.. people like Tom hanks are just born this way
Aaron Daley
Aaron Daley 4 сарын өмнө
i could be tom hanks..... if i sucked just a little less
Thomas Bryant
Thomas Bryant 5 сарын өмнө
What empty-headed jackass would want to learn to be Tom Hanks?
Random Thoughts
Random Thoughts 5 сарын өмнө
I got bored listening to this guy
onemindsailor
onemindsailor 5 сарын өмнө
Someone, help me I have moved schools ever since then I have became socially awkward and even with my friends I made there I’m still awkward with. Now I’m just an introvert.
connect741
connect741 5 сарын өмнө
In these examples - Tom Hanks is on a talk show, with a set time segment, and a product or movie that he is usually promoting, he is 'on.' In other words, he is there with a purpose and reason to be 'over the top' and entertaining. It is not 'normal' to behave like this, even at a party after a few drinks for an extended period of time. Or you will become that person who is nice and has a good heart but is 'trying too hard,' which is a nice way of saying too loud and obnoxious. These conversation techniques are good for telling a story only. Once the story is told, then you throttle back to a normal cadence. Thank you.
Rudi Van de Reep
Rudi Van de Reep 5 сарын өмнө
Hes so good at diverting the attention upon himself and making the questioner. The focus of attention
kbld1
kbld1 5 сарын өмнө
These suggestions only work (mostly) on a broad scale, for men. How many women could get away with what Tim Hanks does? Ellen Degeneres and maybe a few other female comics, but not everyone is a comic.
Fred Flintstone
Fred Flintstone 5 сарын өмнө
Hanks, no posting from the island.
Albert Gaspar
Albert Gaspar 5 сарын өмнө
Too many dudes drone in a monotone. They don't rise and fall with inflection, and it makes anything they say...boring after one minute. As an actor, Tom knows how to tell a story--its literally his job. The fact he's really good at his job, also makes you pay attention--just like a fighter jet pilot telling you about flying experiences. He's more interesting than the crop duster pilot droning on. What also helps Tom is he is Everyman. If Tom Cruise tells you about attracting attention from a girl, you don't imagine yourself doing it--you don't look like Tom Cruise. But if Tom Hanks talks about his surprise attracting attention from a girl...you understand how he feels. The rest of this vid is good. Ever tell a story in conversation, and find yourself repeating a sentence verbatim? That's your signal to yourself...move on!
Steve Carter
Steve Carter 5 сарын өмнө
Story gap earns an instant strike with me.
Andrew Williams
Andrew Williams 5 сарын өмнө
Very interesting video. Here are two more examples of including everyone in the group which I stumbled on quite accidentally and noticing how people subliminally react. Number 1....when in a group of people and you're telling a story, pick one person at random and weave their name into your story e.g. "I stood in the grocery line Cheryl, and the cashier said....etc etc etc" Just add the person's name and keep on with your story without missing a beat. It makes that person, and the group, feel, like the story is especially for them. Number 2...when talking to just one person especially (but also works in a group), repeat back something they said, while adding a different inflection to let the person know that you find what they said interesting/amusing/funny and a valuable contribution to the discussion e.g. Jimmy says "OMG I was laughing so hard after I fell off the horse", after which you quickly, without interrupting, add in, obviously amused by their comment, "haha when you fell off the horse". Raise your pitch as the words come out of your mouth for added effect so that by the end of your statement you are talking soprano (think how Scooby Doo raises his tone of voice progressively when talking through a sentence). It makes the person speaking feel like they were funny and that their was comment was valued by you and/or the group. As I discovered these tidbits of conversational skill I found that people not only felt valued in the discussion, but that they tend to hang on what you say because they want more of it. Try it!!!
Zen Warrior
Zen Warrior 5 сарын өмнө
So... take acting lessons.
Ty Reveen
Ty Reveen 5 сарын өмнө
He's in GITMO or he's Dead
Indrid Cold
Indrid Cold 5 сарын өмнө
It is actually my goal to be as boring as possible in a conversation so the other person will leave.
skepticalbynature
skepticalbynature 5 сарын өмнө
Using Tom Hanks has not aged well..all celebrities and the HOST are phony and read a script when going on TALK SHOWS. He went on Epstein's plane..he is dead to me.
Carol Norton
Carol Norton 5 сарын өмнө
The next time I am on a talk show I'll follow all these suggestions.
mo fo
mo fo 5 сарын өмнө
tolerating the speaker's communication skill set was a painful ordeal. He said quit a bit but didn't have that much to say.
Calvin Marty Klein Mcfly
Calvin Marty Klein Mcfly 5 сарын өмнө
I've been around people who are loud and with big movements, animated and with impressions. In the end the become annoying. We aren't always looking to be entertained. Sometimes you are interesting if you just show the person you are listening to them, ask them questions like, How did you feel about that? All this shouting and noise like in this video will just make me not meet up with people like this. It's ok if you are entertaining someone or people. But not everyone likes it. In fact they would think that you love yourself and looking for attention.
J BL
J BL 5 сарын өмнө
I thought this was Neil Peart in the thumbnail. 😢
gorillius
gorillius 5 сарын өмнө
he likes little kids in an abnormal manner
rig
rig 5 сарын өмнө
I love your channel ... but using That dude for this role model ... that's not a good idea .. unless you're trying to teach someone how to diddle kids!
Chris David
Chris David 5 сарын өмнө
I thought I was bi-polar but maybe I am just interesting.
don cahooti
don cahooti 5 сарын өмнө
great advice if youre trying to interest a brain dead audience which isn’t even formulating questions on their own .. because they are so inattentive ..
Chrome Horse Rider
Chrome Horse Rider 5 сарын өмнө
Does this keypad have a battery ? I can't get mine to respond
n43510
n43510 5 сарын өмнө
Garbage. I'm not going to spend much time listening to some clown who mimes and acts everything he talks about. Tom Hanks is a star professional actor. He can bring it off (well ... to some extent, but I still found him irritating in some of these clips). These aren't conversations, they're performances.
Chivo Ramirez
Chivo Ramirez 5 сарын өмнө
It depends on who you are, if you are in sales, you have to listen a lot............................
Lydia Thornton
Lydia Thornton 5 сарын өмнө
People automatically gives him ...like so many other entertainers a pass. He is really not that interesting....he is a funny comedian
Tannrr Smiddy
Tannrr Smiddy 5 сарын өмнө
=== very cool - thanks 4 sharing !!!!!!
Kevin Hedline
Kevin Hedline 5 сарын өмнө
I am watching this during COVID 19 isolation. I may never be in a group of people again.
Justin Marshall
Justin Marshall 5 сарын өмнө
1 story gap: imply that next thing is surprising & deliver 2 inhabits character talking about (acting!) 3 uses dynamics: change extravaganzas to be big (a lil bigger than room’s tone) but not all the time (when what you say makes sense). Soft to loud and loud to soft (both needed in conjunction) 4 Include Everyone Into the Group (more people feel like the convo is for them) uses eye contact and give at least 3 secs to every person or side of the room
Quokka Pirquish
Quokka Pirquish 5 сарын өмнө
Only one problem with this video, Tom Hanks is boring
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