How To Confidently Flirt With Anyone

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Craig Ferguson has a reputation as one of the most fun, charming flirts in Hollywood. Some female celebrities would go on his show just for the chance to flirt with him.
While Craig has clear advantages, like being a famous TV host, a lot of what he does can be done by anybody who wants to be more attractive in conversation. Specifically, Craig has 7 habits that can help you build chemistry with anyone. Learning just a few of these habits will let you go into any conversation with confidence, knowing people are going to love flirting with you.

0:50 - #1: Start your conversations in a fun, positive way.
1:53 - #2: Use over the top teasing.
3:59 - #3: Be playfully absurd.
4:51 - #4: Create a safe environment for people to be flirty and sexual.
10:23 - #5: Flirt with the world.
11:13 - #6: Have leaned back body language.
12:02 - #7: Get comfortable with your worst case scenario
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makis xatzimixas
makis xatzimixas Цагийн өмнө
One thing he does is to absorb the silence on to himself. He usually has a smart answer, so the pressure of the awkward silence goes to him. If he doesn't have something smart to say, he just changes topic, or he just laughs over the silence.
Rogue Planet 3D
Rogue Planet 3D 2 цагийн өмнө
Ferguson has Jedi-level flirtation skills. I love watching reruns of his show here on's a riot.
Stephen Ayeni
Stephen Ayeni 4 цагийн өмнө
They should put a “Beware: Don’t try this at the workplace” HR is only thinking about how this could lead to more paperwork
Bigger Issues
Bigger Issues 5 цагийн өмнө
Who do you imagine Craig Ferguson learned seduction from? That's right, he picked it up as he went along. We need to stop looking at the traits of others as if we can magically become them. If you say what Craig Ferguson says, and you're an average looking lower income guy, prepare for her to call the police. Women aren't offended at what is said, just the person who said it.
Brian Dunn
Brian Dunn 6 цагийн өмнө
I tried to join. It count take my card. Any suggestions?
Undisclosed Username
Undisclosed Username 6 цагийн өмнө
Honestly, this video helps. A lot of men are getting red pill knowledge and flirting seems fruitless, at times. But, we are human and genuinely like social interaction.
Augustus Caesar
Augustus Caesar 14 цагийн өмнө
Don't worry bud, the video you used to show how leaning forward can make one feel uncomfortable was perfect. Lol. Cause it *was* creepy.
Nicolas Carrera
Nicolas Carrera Өдрийн өмнө
I'll shave my face and put on a black wig for 10k. I'll probably look better than that peanut allergy Bratz Doll.
Rico Suave
Rico Suave Өдрийн өмнө
Charisma is a natural gift that can be use in any social setting. You born with it and you cannot fake it. Yes, anybody can learn how to be charismatic, but eventually people will notice that learning behavior. This character somehow was forced to learn or adapt this behavior because it is required for the job he does. Rating="charismatic."
Robert D
Robert D Өдрийн өмнө
Also, make sure you have natural charisma and the sense of humor and timing needed for your own TV show. Then you're set!
Chance Wilson
Chance Wilson Өдрийн өмнө
Biden is a creep!
Christine Kaye
Christine Kaye Өдрийн өмнө
Do you think this kind of behavior would work for women? Asked by a woman. By the way, men in NYC are much better/comfortable at flirting than the men where I live.
gcjbhar Өдрийн өмнө
Who ever made the this video also seems to have crush on David Duchovny.
Gabriel 03:00
Gabriel 03:00 Өдрийн өмнө
1:26 What movie is this from?
Candour 16 цагийн өмнө
it's a tv show called Californication
Underwear Baker
Underwear Baker Өдрийн өмнө
So next time I go to the GYM I am just going to yell to every girl that she looks sensational.
AlphaLeader772 Өдрийн өмнө
So yeah, for girls to like you you have to be funny and confident. Thank you for teaching me something i already knew. Didn't all women say just to be yourself, this is clearly teaching me to be like someone else.
adipsous 2 өдрийн өмнө
Wtf was that Biden thing? I'm glad he's press, but that was weird.
Peepie 2 өдрийн өмнө
Just be yourself, you're fine
Verbal Swag Rawkey
Verbal Swag Rawkey 2 өдрийн өмнө
Ok, watched a couple of vids from this channel, and didn't absorb anything that unique. At the end though, this channel offers a class to make me the life of the party. And to think, all this time I thought I was...... This class is next to the class that teaches people how to be creative.
Alexandru Bogdan
Alexandru Bogdan 2 өдрийн өмнө
Careful Icarus!
Muhamad Arif Lutfi
Muhamad Arif Lutfi 2 өдрийн өмнө
Okay, I give up. This is too hard. Guess I'm going back to texting normally.
Benjamin Hildebrand
Benjamin Hildebrand 2 өдрийн өмнө
13:00 so about me using my name instead.
Miranamo 2 өдрийн өмнө
who is the girl at 0:45 ?
Dezzi 2 өдрийн өмнө
Ngl, this is disinformation
JW 3 өдрийн өмнө
Might want to edit this video to include a consent form....MeToo! and all!....Craig has the advantage of having video of his interactions!!! LMAO!
chaz 3 өдрийн өмнө
its just cocaine
J&S Electronics
J&S Electronics 3 өдрийн өмнө
@9:40 Guest asks do you blow the mouth organ, Craig replies how do you think I got this job? He's fast.
Albani310 3 өдрийн өмнө
-"Do you blow the mouth organ?" -"Hmmm I... do you blow the mouth organ>" -"How do you think I got this job?" ahahah
tony andrade
tony andrade 3 өдрийн өмнө
that doesn't work in real life. You need to be chill, relaxed and laid back. That's attractive to women
Kaz Puisis
Kaz Puisis 3 өдрийн өмнө
Craigs a natural genius.
Robert Farrell
Robert Farrell 3 өдрийн өмнө
Lol Yes women act exactly the same when they are not on TV. These women are all actresses and fake in everyway.
Crash 3 өдрийн өмнө
You understand 99% of this is because he's famous
Baron Lipschutz-Perry
Baron Lipschutz-Perry 3 өдрийн өмнө
It is my dream to take your course because, if I don't I will be haunted by the visualization of what I could have been for the rest of my life.
kcsnipes 3 өдрийн өмнө
Lotta work and Craig is a master but with hours of practice u can get there too
Brie 4 өдрийн өмнө
I don’t get what makes him so likable, he seems like an insincere creeper to me 👀 🤷‍♀️
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[deleted channel] 3 өдрийн өмнө
probably because hes an actor, hes not being himself, but hes playing a caricature of himself... and the show is scripted, nothing is sincere.... i also didnt realise he was considered charming or good looking, i thought he was a creep and i thought that was part of the joke lmao
Bernard de Mccoy
Bernard de Mccoy 4 өдрийн өмнө
sub for superlion mcpirat
S S 4 өдрийн өмнө
The thumbnail looks more like getting metooed
Coach B
Coach B 4 өдрийн өмнө
This stuff won’t work on black women 😂😂😂
Kream Drizz 432hz
Kream Drizz 432hz 4 өдрийн өмнө
Yh true it might work but he's a celebrity do how to get girls if your a average person
Uchiha Deity
Uchiha Deity 4 өдрийн өмнө
Charisma on Command: But that can be done with High Fives, Shoulder Touches or hugs... Me:...sooooo COVID then.
Warpath1337 3 өдрийн өмнө
Dwane Yocum
Dwane Yocum 4 өдрийн өмнө
Seriously? First of all he was born with movie-star good looks. Secondly, he had his own nationally televised talk show where women came to expose their bodies and to let all men everywhere know that they were available and easy. Lastly, he's one of those people who could read from the dictionary or a phone book and make you laugh because they're just naturally humorous people and everything they say sounds funny.
Leonardo Fernandez
Leonardo Fernandez 4 өдрийн өмнө
I love it very informative.
Jimmy JAMES 4 өдрийн өмнө
Its pretty easy to flirt, I don't typically care what someone thinks so its easy to flirt. I just say something goofy and anything that blindsides the girl or comes out of no where. It surprises them.
BigdadiSixty9GTC 5 өдрийн өмнө
Well tv is not good grounds for example. The host has the upper hand on perception. They edit and force audience reaction to boost the interaction and the guest wants to be liked and engaging trying to seem intelligent witty and unique. Its all deception. If he was a regular joe they would 9 out of 10 ignore him lol
Senegan 5 өдрийн өмнө
But why? At the end of the day... what is the point of that? None of it matters.
Tarek Hilmi
Tarek Hilmi 5 өдрийн өмнө
I like the video but i didn't understand a 60% of the video can you do an arab translation please thank you
Ψ ᖇᗴᗞᝪᏃᗴ 7777
Ψ ᖇᗴᗞᝪᏃᗴ 7777 5 өдрийн өмнө
Personality doesn't matter its all about looks, money and status
Fargón Project
Fargón Project 5 өдрийн өмнө
I have his personality haha
Fargón Project
Fargón Project 5 өдрийн өмнө
but in my style
Dunston 5 өдрийн өмнө
In 2021? Bruh....
Aniket 5 өдрийн өмнө
even with guys
XDarkEcho 6 өдрийн өмнө
Hold up...are we looking at the same video in the same day in age? I'm pretty sure with how sensitive America is nowadays, most of these flirtatious comments would end up offending someone. Like, I literally have to be on eggshells when joking/flirting with some girls, because they will definitely get offended by my dark humor, or stereotype jokes.
杰克 6 өдрийн өмнө
handsome, rich, and great sense of humor...that's easy be ugly, poor, and have a great sense of humor let's see how that plays out.
Gordon Becker
Gordon Becker 6 өдрийн өмнө
The #1 way to be successful with flirting is to be physically attractive
Vigilant Dr. Dolittle
Vigilant Dr. Dolittle 6 өдрийн өмнө
Charisma isn't something we can learn from videos. Some have it, some never will.
Leschz Aljas
Leschz Aljas 6 өдрийн өмнө
nice.... i'm learning a lot 😊
Rodrigo Alonso
Rodrigo Alonso 6 өдрийн өмнө
Cuando los angloparlantes usan el albur
jmarrie 6 өдрийн өмнө
Huh, I just realized people have been flirting with me, man I’m slow 🤯
Meat Gainz
Meat Gainz Өдрийн өмнө
No shame in being slow, as long as you pick up the pace in the process
Smell my finger
Smell my finger 7 өдрийн өмнө
Tbh I'm with the hottest girl I've ever been with right now and everything is going great. All I did was stop caring if she left and just was myself. One thing I did notice is that girls were more attracted to me when I had goals set and was working to achieve them. Can't just sit around and expect something good to happen, you just gotta be you and go and get it. If I can get her by practically being a single guy and not really wanting a relationship, any guy can get their dream girl.
Shelf Cloud
Shelf Cloud 7 өдрийн өмнө
11:30. Yet he’s President! WTF??
RicLow :P
RicLow :P 7 өдрийн өмнө
Or just be yourself, you want a person who likes you the way you are...
Warren Blyth
Warren Blyth 7 өдрийн өмнө
In 2021 flirting = sexual assault. So be careful.
Patrick Bateman
Patrick Bateman 7 өдрийн өмнө
Even the lesbian actress flirts with Craig !
Patrick Bateman
Patrick Bateman 7 өдрийн өмнө
Craig Ferguson and Hank Moody great examples
Diggory C
Diggory C 7 өдрийн өмнө
There’s only 1 Craig. Idk I feel like he’s just that guy. Can’t be replicated.
Azz Azz
Azz Azz 8 өдрийн өмнө
If this guy wasn't famous, it would be a completely different outcome. This video is misleading
Meow 8 өдрийн өмнө
Woah ENTPs are flirting constantly.
Phaandor Pertwee
Phaandor Pertwee 8 өдрийн өмнө
Errr, OK - soo tearing up phone bills every time I greet a girl will make me sexy?
Andrew Rodriguez
Andrew Rodriguez 8 өдрийн өмнө
Honestly this guy is spot on. In high school I was a shy kid who never said much. Focused on my charisma in college and dated girls I would've never talked to previously. Charisma is such an under appreciated skill, it will help you socially and professionally.
Michael G
Michael G 8 өдрийн өмнө
Too bad in the states celebrities get fired for this behavior now it happens all the time if simply 1 person raises an issue, with the new cancel culture its considered toxic, I don t even know if he's even on anymore is he.. I never found him interesting or cool at all anyway, but people who believe late night TV are already buying into what they see anyway.. the media is the message..
HAHA 8 өдрийн өмнө
It's a show not reality.
Krishan Choudhury
Krishan Choudhury 8 өдрийн өмнө
Well I guess I am staying single
Luke Fox
Luke Fox 8 өдрийн өмнө
I’m dead he showed how Biden for how not to approach someone 😂😂
NateJ 8 өдрийн өмнө
Damn Craig Robinson is so smooth
TheCarrotMonster 88
TheCarrotMonster 88 9 өдрийн өмнө
Great video but still don't know who this Cregg guy is
Victor Ulloa
Victor Ulloa 9 өдрийн өмнө
I actually naturally do a lot of the things he does im kinda witty and like to make fun of someone but in a playful way I also start to make insiders and tie them to other topics in conversation. Sometimes people think I’m flirting with them bc I’m making them laugh and giving them attention but no that’s just how I talk to people I wasn’t trying to do anything.
Wolverine 10 өдрийн өмнө
This is complex
Jo Crichlow
Jo Crichlow 10 өдрийн өмнө
Earths flat
Ranara Gaming
Ranara Gaming 10 өдрийн өмнө
It’s easier to flirt with the homies than with the girls
James W
James W 10 өдрийн өмнө
I'm sorry but who tf says "you look so enchanting today" We're not playing Minecraft are we
Kiid Yuma
Kiid Yuma 10 өдрийн өмнө
This is more of how to be a leader and fun person to be around tho, I wouldn’t really consider this a great way to attract woman. I feel like woman like a more serious and confident guy that knows when to have fun and how to. But just constantly being boisterous and outgoing isn’t gonna do the job. Edit: and I’m Not saying that I’m a total panty dropper and know from experience I’m just simply saying what many dating coaches say and I don’t do to bad myself.
Sevader 10 өдрийн өмнө
"How long have you been in Al Qaeda" Oh Craig, you magnificent basterd. Why did you leave late night TV?
M 11 өдрийн өмнө
I can almost taste the pepper spray now
8Truth Seeking
8Truth Seeking 11 өдрийн өмнө
Thanks! I want to be anti-social and avoid ending up in another ayuck "relationship" = NOW, at last I Finally see that everything I was doing to simply hide my disgust for conversation & closeness was only drawing people towards me! What a relief, now I can finally reverse this charismatic curse. Again, Thank you.
Seroga Peterson
Seroga Peterson 11 өдрийн өмнө
What if I dont have friends?
Seroga Peterson
Seroga Peterson 11 өдрийн өмнө
You lokk brickable
j lo
j lo 11 өдрийн өмнө
sorry, but if she doesnt already find u physically attractive, she wont laugh at anything u say
j lo
j lo 11 өдрийн өмнө
this guy is a television host. i am not
Cross Examine Nation
Cross Examine Nation 11 өдрийн өмнө
Wait, my name is Ben though 😂
Mauro Coni
Mauro Coni 12 өдрийн өмнө
patoloco1000 12 өдрийн өмнө
You forgot the most important thing: Craig is famous- That's why he attracts so many women!
David Herrera
David Herrera 12 өдрийн өмнө
Thanks hoping this will work at the next court date 🙏🏽
Benzenati Zineeddine
Benzenati Zineeddine 12 өдрийн өмнө
I tried it and here's my advice: Don't
Debarshi Putatunda
Debarshi Putatunda 12 өдрийн өмнө
In short, be funny and have a sense of humor
Ponce Francia
Ponce Francia 12 өдрийн өмнө
tf was Biden doing???
Princess Buttercup
Princess Buttercup 12 өдрийн өмнө
Nope. It's the accent. 😉😆
Wild Frog
Wild Frog 12 өдрийн өмнө
Step 1: dont be ugly
Ally Noordin
Ally Noordin 12 өдрийн өмнө
So we need platforms and shows??
Stephen Willis
Stephen Willis 12 өдрийн өмнө
In my second night in a cajun dancing class the woman said "you came back!" and I said, "I had to to see you". We're married now but sadly it's the marriage from hell.
Mason Doerr
Mason Doerr 12 өдрийн өмнө
“Hey nice to meet you, I’m Ben.” “Nice to meet you, Ben.” “My name actually isn’t Ben.
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