7 Common Phrases That Show You Lack Confidence

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Sometimes we all say things, unfortunately, that can make other people judge us negatively.
This can really impact our social, business, and familial life.
It can truly be puzzling, especially when we’re unaware of what we’re doing wrong.
Today we’re going to shine some light on how we communicate, so we can clear the clutter that’s blocking our confidence!
0:15 - Phrase #1: “Just”
0:51 - Phrase #2: “I was wondering”
1:13 - Phrase #3: “Is this guy bothering you?”
1:44 - Phrase #4: “Uh… Um… Like…”
2:09 - Phrase #5: “I’m sorry (but)”
2:40 - Phrase #6: “You probably don’t care (but)”
3:02 - Phrase #7: “My (...) is making me”
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BimelBundle 3 сарын өмнө
This was really weird
Alicja Straszewska
Alicja Straszewska 4 сарын өмнө
What does He says at 1:39? Lyrics doesn't work and I can't understand this sentence. "Instead compliment..."
Katharina vd Berkmortel
Katharina vd Berkmortel 5 сарын өмнө
Really like the bg music!
VPanda 5 сарын өмнө
Thank you. This is going to help massivly!
mairo onowoni
mairo onowoni Жилийн өмнө
Why are they are pregnant
Andrew S.
Andrew S. Жилийн өмнө
liked because of the jake paul clip
iwearredties Жилийн өмнө
Canadians have no confidence because we are always saying sorry
kath. h.
kath. h. Жилийн өмнө
Ummm, I'm sorry and you probably don't care, but my mind is making me write this comment ... I was just wondering if that bothers you?
FriendlyFire Жилийн өмнө
Why do all the girls in this video look pregnant?
That Guy Bob
That Guy Bob Жилийн өмнө
My friends recently noticed how less often I use the word "sorry" when I'm drunk. It all makes sense now
the most beautiful person in the world
the most beautiful person in the world Жилийн өмнө
It’s JUST 12 dollars a month . -minimizing at it’s finest :)
the most beautiful person in the world
the most beautiful person in the world Жилийн өмнө
Andres Villena exactly ! It’s like a teacher telling you what not to do & then 10 minutes later you see them doing it haha
Ian A. Villena
Ian A. Villena Жилийн өмнө
the most beautiful person in the world the best way of minimizing
KoolieB Жилийн өмнө
Just can also be used for manipulation as well
oldskoolordie Жилийн өмнө
People should realise that when people put others down they lack confidence instead they enable them by laughing. If you were confident you wouldn’t need to put others down and you wouldn’t laugh at assholes being assholes but that’s not the norm. If you react to it, oh I was just joking. It’s not easy
_denzoned_ Жилийн өмнө
That means all Japanese people lack confidence😂
MrSuperFly87 Жилийн өмнө
Young people including myself use the word ‘like’ too much. I like really want it to like stop😜
walkingphilosopher Жилийн өмнө
00:16 "The first word to be careful with is JUST. " 03:47 "If you want to unlock all the different meditation that simple habit has, it's JUST $12 a month.
Gerald Жилийн өмнө
Who the fook says 'Is this guy bothering you' ? In this day and age..
Ady Жилийн өмнө
Who the fook is that guy?
Digital Millennium Media
Digital Millennium Media Жилийн өмнө
The strangest animations by far haha. 😂
Simonas Жилийн өмнө
*Just the tip*
10cody7 Жилийн өмнө
hey cinci
Mike Ali
Mike Ali Жилийн өмнө
1:11 nice
ratsalad Жилийн өмнө
THANK YOU for this video, it confirmed what I'd always suspected about myself
nobodycaresTTV Жилийн өмнө
Just 12 dollars a month wtf thats more than my crunchy roll membership
jimon8998 Жилийн өмнө
Ok but what if your boss is forcing you watch Bridget Jones in Cincinnati?
Andre Baxter
Andre Baxter Жилийн өмнө
These animations with character in the fetal position with tears made me chuckle. Side note, good video.
Laniakea Жилийн өмнө
That Jake Paul bit hurt 😂
Matt Bonneville
Matt Bonneville Жилийн өмнө
Hadn't thought about the "just" one, but now I can see how it's overly deferential and minimizing. Also, you'll find that dumping the "ums" "ahs" and "likes" will actually clarify your thinking. That noise is static playing over the music.
Nagy Levy
Nagy Levy Жилийн өмнө
Both your graphics and words suggest confidence in the art of interacting with a female. Now, that makes this video redundant. A woman will pick up on lack of confidence by your pose or the way you look at her, long before she hears you speak.
oljenka88 Жилийн өмнө
Sample Habit app is for the most part no longer free. Big disappointment
IntensiV Жилийн өмнө
What about saying "honestly" all the time
Masroor Ahmad
Masroor Ahmad Жилийн өмнө
From last 2-3 years, I searched all the possible content there was and read all the books to read because I wanted to learn how this works in real world not only this but I kept on practicing all the craft I've had learnt in real world and kept on doing experimentation. I am no saying that I have become a master but I have become better than most of the guys in my collage.
Edward Basham
Edward Basham Жилийн өмнө
This was useful! My personal one is 'I was just wondering..' I literally say that all the time, especially in emails. Thanks Charlie
J V Жилийн өмнө
Same bro. "I just wanted to see if..." or "I was just wondering whether you..." It's like I'm trying to soften the blow of asking for something directly so they don't get upset or think I'm demanding. Ridiculous, it's time to grow some balls lol
Kaisersozze Жилийн өмнө
'Just' $12 per month? That's just too expensive.
Justin Kicker
Justin Kicker Жилийн өмнө
“Just” doesn’t seem like a real word anymore
Sukosagi Жилийн өмнө
Thank god someone called out Jake Paul for hiatuses of the word like
Nic Mcconchie
Nic Mcconchie Жилийн өмнө
Love your videos. Thanks for helping everyone. :)
M Taylor
M Taylor Жилийн өмнө
I just wanted to come here to see what this video is about
Norman H
Norman H Жилийн өмнө
3:27 Recap
molly18191 Жилийн өмнө
That moment when you realize you do almost all of these things...
Ксения Дембицкая
Ксения Дембицкая Жилийн өмнө
I really like this channel. THere are a lot of wonderful recommendation I found)) Anyway I supose we need to take into account people mentality. Most these avoidings is not appropriate for Japan, for example)) Normal confidence for us could be the utmost rudeness for them. And you should tell "UH" and "UMM" really often in Japanese (we had additional lesson lerning that, lol )))
James Allbee
James Allbee Жилийн өмнө
This music is so interesting because it sounds completely unrelated to the content of the video.
Lioness Beauty
Lioness Beauty Жилийн өмнө
I hate the, "I'm sorry, but.." sentence. Or the, "I know you don't want to hear this but,...."
46n2 Жилийн өмнө
lol wtf is this music
kit stephens
kit stephens Жилийн өмнө
NoLife Жилийн өмнө
"My mom is making me"
Observer 9 сарын өмнө
"My mom made me"
KittySnicker Жилийн өмнө
Oh man I’m terrible about “I was wondering.”
Akutabe A.
Akutabe A. Жилийн өмнө
I really like the music
Samantha Жилийн өмнө
The whole pause while you speak thing....If you pause, people jump in immediately and start talking. I've noticed this happens 90% of the time. I have even found myself talking faster with this type of person so I can actually say what I need to before they start blabbing with their own input, which is obviously always more important. I also find myself getting interrupted a lot. More and more as I get older, especially by 20 somethings.
Natalia Жилийн өмнө
sorry but i genuinely cannot stop saying sorry its in my canadian blood i cant help it
Tate E
Tate E Жилийн өмнө
Surely do a charisma analysis on Harvey specter from suits. The case makes itself
Betsy Saputo
Betsy Saputo Жилийн өмнө
who else laughed at jake paul lol
NeatherBen221 Жилийн өмнө
At one point, my friend's younger brother was super girl crazy, and every day, he would hang out with a bunch of girls, so one day, when he was talking to a girl, I went up to him and said, "Aww, Ajay, are you trying to get a new girlfriend?" and it was super funny seeing him just standing there with a red face. A few weeks later, one of my friends who was also girl crazy, but at a much higher level, was talking to a girl, so I said, "Aww, Travis, are you trying to get another girlfriend?", but it backfired because he said, "Ben, why do you have to make everything weird?"
Slowbro Жилийн өмнө
I think my ability to have a conversation just dies near good looking ladies. I'm fine with literally everyone else. I feel more confident in a career interview than when im having small talk with girls. I'm just so awkward and useless :D I dont know what to do lol. I'm a 27 year old beast that turns into a sheep when in the presence of a lovely friend. A shame to be sure!
Jemma C
Jemma C Жилийн өмнө
2:06 OMG I DIED HERE 😂😂👏
Script X
Script X Жилийн өмнө
English is my third language, so I guess I kinda don't use those phrases at all [SELF CONFIDENCE INTENSIFIES] *FEELING EXTREMELY CONFIDENT*
Exo Жилийн өмнө
Keep going
Exo Жилийн өмнө
Exo Жилийн өмнө
Huh, I understand everything now
letsgetlucky Жилийн өмнө
2:06 call out lmao!!
Lava Yuki
Lava Yuki Жилийн өмнө
My boss is scary, I find it hard to not be indirect when emailing and their responses are always curt without even a greeting or sign off, just straight to the point in one sentence
Ellie Logie
Ellie Logie Жилийн өмнө
One thing I'd like to mention about filler words is that I've seen many conversations where, when someone does leave a brief silence, whoever is listening will immediately start talking, interrupting what the former person was saying. I think people intrinsically use filler words to indicate they still have more to say but need to parse thoughts. I agree that these fillers shouldn't be used (people should be respectful and listen for an actual terminus of the thought), but that these fillers may be the only way to finish your sentence.
mange88 Жилийн өмнө
kurzgesagt called, they want their art style back
Screw The Net
Screw The Net Жилийн өмнө
First step toward confidence: dont sign up for the paid service advertised in this video. BOOOM O>o
Randi Szöküld
Randi Szöküld Жилийн өмнө
Never say sorry. Simply say "oops"🙄
Braden Savage
Braden Savage Жилийн өмнө
I do ALL of these very consistantly. Gonna be a tough habit to get out of
Ulvi Safari
Ulvi Safari Жилийн өмнө
Add subtitle to videos please
Buddy Boerkoel
Buddy Boerkoel Жилийн өмнө
You explain very well why these phrases often show lacking confidence.
Madness1845 Жилийн өмнө
“I don’t know you and I don’t care to know you.”
Mushy Kush
Mushy Kush Жилийн өмнө
Basically don't use the word *WAS*
MagenerTech Жилийн өмнө
This is not the Infographic Show
Darth Decius
Darth Decius Жилийн өмнө
0:58 always ask questions in simple and direct terms - it puts the other on the defensive. Their answer very well could include a "just" 2:33 The 'I'm sorry' puts one, immediately, in a position of weakness and submission. You admit defeat before you begin. Stronger personalities then have the opportunity to hijack the situation and force your attention inward upon your own emotions - makes you damage your own ego. Insidious. 2:52 This is also a subconscious way of artificially generating sympathy in order to exploit others' empathy before you state what your intention is. It also serves to admonish personal feelings of guilt, embarrassment, or fear. 3:14 If one were indeed being forced to do something, they would probably do as little as possible to accomplish it. Don't trust the work of someone who is coerced: it is frequently incomplete, lazy, and superficial. If I am being forced I must not care a damn / I'll do anything to make the coercion stop...this is why torture doesn't work.
Matthus Жилийн өмнө
D Grdst
D Grdst 2 жилийн өмнө
Obama cough cough, Elon musk
D Grdst
D Grdst 2 жилийн өмнө
Obama cough cough, Elon musk
pelley 4560
pelley 4560 2 жилийн өмнө
I would also add the phrase "I think"
Shaun 2 жилийн өмнө
Well apparently when I don’t do these things and be confident people call me rude ???
Ed Onslow
Ed Onslow 2 жилийн өмнө
If your job involves fixing things (whether that be cars or computers), there's a minefield of phrases that imply lack of confidence. "I've made X change, it should work now". Should work? You either fixed it you didn't. "I've made X, Y, and Z changes and WD40d the flux capacitor to allow it to A, B, and C". They don't care bud. It just comes across as you trying to claim the fix was really complicated, and that if it goes wrong again, that's why. Tell them you fixed it, and anything else they need to be aware of.
Only1INTheGame 2 жилийн өмнө
its just 12 dollars a month or IT IS 12 DOLLARS A MONTH
shivam shukla
shivam shukla 2 жилийн өмнө
Here after beerbiceps
Foxtrot6624 2 жилийн өмнө
Every single one of these points is completely subjective.
Chagrin Chap
Chagrin Chap 2 жилийн өмнө
I think these can still happen, buy it depends on how you act before and after its said.
Bigger Kahuna
Bigger Kahuna 2 жилийн өмнө
Cincinnati gang
Cyber Security Enforcement team
Cyber Security Enforcement team 2 жилийн өмнө
They’re just words it has nothing to do with confidence fallowing this videos advice makes you a robot also fake
Freeman 2 жилийн өмнө
Love the animation!
Daniel LaCosse
Daniel LaCosse 2 жилийн өмнө
why is confidence even important
Jack Bouchier
Jack Bouchier 2 жилийн өмнө
Hey do you feel anxious about every day language and feel unconfident when talking to people? Here's 10 tiny details to fixate on because you're not acceptable if you're not confident!
Jack Bouchier
Jack Bouchier 2 жилийн өмнө
2:50 Feeling unconfident in what you want to say? Just be more confident! Problem solved!
Lɪᴄʜᴛ Gʟᴀɴᴢʀᴇɪᴄʜ
Lɪᴄʜᴛ Gʟᴀɴᴢʀᴇɪᴄʜ 2 жилийн өмнө
I've subscribed. Your videos that I've watched so far are good and I hope it can help me with my life in the future.
Hector Nonayurbusiness
Hector Nonayurbusiness 2 жилийн өмнө
Sorry, not sorry
Succulent Ravioli
Succulent Ravioli 2 жилийн өмнө
*my wife is making me a sandwich*
Captain Brown Beard
Captain Brown Beard 2 жилийн өмнө
Just make yourself independent and show everyone you dont need them. They will flock to you
F77 RAPTOR 2 жилийн өмнө
Very good animation 👍
Joshua Koch
Joshua Koch 2 жилийн өмнө
i literally am disgusted when people do these things, cut all these habits out when i was maybe 17.
Try Me
Try Me 2 жилийн өмнө
0:58 Artist was having fun 😂
Connor Henderson
Connor Henderson 2 жилийн өмнө
2:12 someone isnt canadian
Weebabuu 2 жилийн өмнө
I do lack confidence tho
TheVersatileHunter 2 жилийн өмнө
Just remember, too much confidence is dangerous. Examine your behaviour from time to time and make sure it doesn't cross the line to over-confidence or arrogance.
Stylesheet RA
Stylesheet RA 2 жилийн өмнө
I'm so full of confidence I dont even speak to others
RJRozen 2 жилийн өмнө
I’m sorry, but I was just wondering, like uhm, why my recommended is making me watch this, like uhm, you probably don’t care anyways but, I just thought that this guy might be bothering you.
junglesvend 2 жилийн өмнө
I used to say "sorry" way too much, both in writing and in person. The best tip I ever got on this was to swap "sorry" with "thank you", flipping my apology for my behavior into appreciation of the other person's behavior. "Thank you for waiting", "thank you for listening" and thank you for reading my comment.
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