How To End A Conversation Without Seeming Rude

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Picture this.
You're having a conversation, maybe with a friend, maybe with someone you just met.
It might be the case that you actually like the person you're talking to but the conversation is numbingly boring.
You might have something to do or you're just no longer interested in talking anymore.
You know it's time to exit.
But you don't want to be harsh or rude nor do you want to lie and come up with a fake excuse.
What are you supposed to do?
How can you leave the conversation without feeling like a bully or a liar?
Let's talk about it!

0:38 - Part 1: Interrupt And Interject
0:58 - Part 2: Say What You're Going To Do
1:10 - Part 3: Say A Kind And Truthful Comment
1:31 - Scenario 1: Someone That You Like
2:22 - Scenario 2 - You Want To Move Along
3:17 - Scenario 3 - You're Not Enjoying It
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Patrick Ols
Patrick Ols Өдрийн өмнө
I usually stop conversation this way : “Well I am sorry but I’m really not interested in talking with you anymore, bye” It works pretty good because usually people just never talk to me again, it’s a win win
Edgar Machado
Edgar Machado Өдрийн өмнө
Similar to this topic is the following scenario. I'm at a place(bar, gym, on the street) talking with a woman I know well. Another guy that knows her but doesn't know me sees her and comes over and just interrupts our conversation and starts talking to her with no acknowledgment or consideration that she was engaged in another conversation. Now, she's forced to break our conversation and pay attention to his. I had this happen a few times when I was younger and more social and went out a lot more. I didn't know how to handle it then and would just turn and walk away after a minute or two. Now, I know how I would handle it but I'm just curious have you experienced this scenario before? My response is based on how the person interrupting us acts. If they acknowledge my presence, introduce themselves and say something like "I saw you and wanted to say hi." Fine. No problem. If they just start talking and take over the conversation like it's no big deal then I'm a little annoyed. Of course I wait and see how the person I'm talking to responds. Ideally, I would expect them to say something like "Hi. Thanks for saying hi. This is name. Let me come find you later so we can visit." That's what I would expect. Doesn't always happen. If that doesn't happen, then I interrupt them and say something like "Hi. I'm name. I promise I won't keep her all to myself the entire evening. She'll come find you in a bit when we're done. Does that sound fair?" People are complicated animals.
Sarfine 2 өдрийн өмнө
I’m glad there is a video on this. I work in nursing and some patients like to tell you their life stories and their families life stories. So I had to learn to be direct and let them know I have other patients who need attended to and that I will come and check on them and ring if they need anything in the mean time. I was really bad at this in the beginning and sucked in but now I have learned new ways
bowman elite
bowman elite 24 өдрийн өмнө
So don't say piss off I don't get it
Daniel Cunningham
Daniel Cunningham Сарын өмнө
My trouble is that some people act like a conversation is them dumping on me and ends when they get bored and tell me they will let me go. They won't listen to me. So it is about them showing dominance and disrespect for me. Not communication. These tips do not work - since they take offense and have to make it into a conflict and they have to win.
Mohamad _9gh9
Mohamad _9gh9 2 сарын өмнө
This is what i learned in my life: Stop overthinking and just say whatever that comes in your mind. Others will understand that you're trying to have a conversation and help you with that, It won't be awkward and thing like that don't worry.
Pablo Mendoza
Pablo Mendoza 2 сарын өмнө
man that mouth is so wide
H. U.
H. U. 2 сарын өмнө
Those 145 unlikes are from people who got realized that they were boring other people
K S 3 сарын өмнө
What if I was sitting somewhere and someone loves talking to you... And you want to continue to sit there.... So there is no hurry no where. Do I have to fake going somewhere?
Anthony Feliciano
Anthony Feliciano 4 сарын өмнө
Need this. Thanks!
Nina Unger
Nina Unger 4 сарын өмнө
How do you respond to a valuable person that you want to keep as part of the conversation, but they are dominating the conversation by telling their stories/thoughts and not offering opportunities for others?
It's Eduard
It's Eduard 4 сарын өмнө
They patched it in the new update!
A J 5 сарын өмнө
Just one more sentence.
Funny Cloud
Funny Cloud 5 сарын өмнө
OMG I need video
Madeline Says Trans Rights
Madeline Says Trans Rights 6 сарын өмнө
This guy’s mouth is wider than his head
Filip Poutintsev
Filip Poutintsev 6 сарын өмнө
Why would I want to stop conversation without being rude? I want to be rude if the other person is not respecting me.
GeorgeTheGreat 7 сарын өмнө
What about a negative conversation with a parent?
Itz Sytche
Itz Sytche 8 сарын өмнө
There was this weird girl I'm talking to I wanna stop talking but I dont wanna hurt her feeling wht do I do?
Paige D
Paige D 9 сарын өмнө
This is helpful and should be taught in school to prepare us for networking events and just life in general.
Gaming X100
Gaming X100 10 сарын өмнө
I played this video by the phone I was calling then on and it worked
Cockatiel Bird
Cockatiel Bird 10 сарын өмнө
I searched up “how to nicely leave a conversation” because today this dude from my school kept talking to be and I was trying to leave and look for my freind and I was like “hey I gotta bounce like a check and look for my freind. I’ll see you later .” And he was not taking the hint that I got plans after school with my friend :/ and he was like “oh who ? I can come. I’m not busy . “ and I’m just there like : •~• .... *cough cough* okay sure . Even tho on the inside I’m just like (uhHhhHhhH can I leave now ???? :/ ) but I didn’t want to seem rude so I just let him chill with us.
Ashley Perez
Ashley Perez 10 сарын өмнө
In online, I always say, "Welp, it was nice talking to you, but I have to finish something rn." Works everytime
Ashley Perez
Ashley Perez 10 сарын өмнө
In online, I always say, "Welp, it was nice talking to you, but I have to finish something rn." Works everytime
m b
m b 10 сарын өмнө
What if it's someone who sits next to you in and just randomly says things you are not interested about (like feel how cold my hands are, I'm cold, shoes hurt,.) while the teacher is saying something and you can't concentrate 😂
Name 11 сарын өмнө
99% of the time?? Yeah, more like 75%
Just call me Mike
Just call me Mike Жилийн өмнө
I just say “alright I need to go, so have a great day dude.”
Crocoshark Жилийн өмнө
"Listen, I'm gonna go to lunch. But your touch fills me with even more life than looking into your eyes."
josh Жилийн өмнө
It kinda worked
✟Aɴɪᴍᴀ✟ Жилийн өмнө
It's really hard! Especially when you're in a train cart and the person is right next to you and you have no where to escape.
VastSpartan Сарын өмнө
"I'm tired. I'm gonna take a short nap" Proceed to nap
Sarah Musa
Sarah Musa Жилийн өмнө
4:00 is incredibly rude😂😂😂 nah I'd never
K W Жилийн өмнө
Your videos are invaluable.
Chenelle Travis
Chenelle Travis Жилийн өмнө
I ride the bus and a common theme is some talkative manipulating guy sexually harasses me. What should I do?
Xtro l
Xtro l Жилийн өмнө
*I stop talking* Well I have to go Your breath smells good btw
Zack Young
Zack Young Жилийн өмнө
Women aren't concerned about the 99% of interactions discussed. They're concerned about the 1% outliers who could become aggressive or violent and threaten their safety at being declined. It's why women lie and travel in groups. For their literal safety. Telling them to stand up for themselves isn't inherently wrong, but still vastly unhelpful and does nothing to acknowledge that they face predators because of what's between their legs. It's not some wonderful moment, it's a terrifying moment of considerable and reasonable concern.
Endrank luvs da 4 loko
Endrank luvs da 4 loko Жилийн өмнө
"I'm pooping."
A. C.
A. C. Жилийн өмнө
I find it easy to just be genuine..that alone works out all things. You don't need to be tricky or clever or have a secret formula..just be real.
Kelvin Nguyen
Kelvin Nguyen Жилийн өмнө
Ty Charlie
Biswajyoti Das
Biswajyoti Das Жилийн өмнө
Thanks I am literally having a conversation closing problem here sorry lmao I am autistic
Tranquilbutterfly28 Жилийн өмнө
Look at us all trying to be nice people. We have to admit there are some people who demand our attention that aren't kind themselves. Just that stranger that wants to whoever needs to see this. "DON'T LET ANYONE ROB YOUR PEACE. Stay strong" :)
Rhania506 Жилийн өмнө
I think this is great advice. However I am interested in your take on how this would work or need to change in a situation where you can't walk away. For example: I work customer service and some people don't know when to leave my window. Or they are men being creepy and trying to hit on me or my coworkers. How do I politely hint that they need to leave without losing my job?
chatterbox11 Жилийн өмнө
“It was good to talk with you. Have a good day [night].” It is that simple. It is a polite and friendly way to end a conversation. If you are talking with a friend, etc, you can add an additional warm goodbye, but that is about it. I am not sure why people find this to be such a difficult issue.
Michael B Whiteside
Michael B Whiteside Жилийн өмнө
My go to will forever be the Irish exit
Sagi 11
Sagi 11 Жилийн өмнө
I'm so good at this naturally. To the point I do this with people I actually want to hang out with longer. 😬
Cryzmic Жилийн өмнө
How do I end a conversation with my math teacher, I want to just study in peace :/
Cryzmic Жилийн өмнө
How do I end a conversation with my math teacher, I want to just study in peace :/
VastSpartan Сарын өмнө
Professor, I need to concentrate in silence
Jacky Lawrence
Jacky Lawrence Жилийн өмнө
Yeah... in the cases where it's a complete stranger I have no problem just being rude. I'll just walk away from someone without a word. If I'm unlikely to ever encounter someone again then I can't be bothered to be gracious or diplomatic. I just don't care.
Kelsey Skowron
Kelsey Skowron Жилийн өмнө
As an introvert, this channel is a godsend.
R Жилийн өмнө
I once talked to someone at an event that kept on talking forever and I wanted to end the talk, so when I saw a colleague of mine passing by, I kindly invited her into the conversation with asking about her opinion on our topic. After expressing her opinion, the other one continued her 'monologue' - now focusing on my colleague - so I grabbed my chance and sneaked out of the talk. I'll never forget the pissed off face of my colleague. :D
e3ko Жилийн өмнө
"Bye felisha"
Ebby C
Ebby C Жилийн өмнө
I actually find it annoying when people are overly nice with their getaway shot. Like "hey I gotta go but I hope you have a nice time". I will have a nice time, just go! Lol. Or when they say it was great to see you, no it wasn't great to see me, we barely know each other. Better to say something like, I'll see you later! It implies that you wouldn't mind continuing the conversation, but later. Whether or not it actually happens doesn't matter. You've at least left the person feeling like the investment in the conversation isn't wasted.
kstreet Жилийн өмнө
"I have to return some videotapes."
Sheramel Жилийн өмнө
Yay its a video made for me! 😂 One problem I have similar to this is when I'm in a situation like work, on the bus, etc. And the person doesn't necessarily engage me in a full conversation, but they make a comment/ask a question etc. I respond. And I think it's the end of that. 10 mins later. They say something again. I respond. Silence. 5 mins later, they say something again. And it goes back and forth like that. Sometimes i dont respond if they say something thats kind of rhetorical, but that doesnt stop them from speaking again later. Do these techniques still apply? Most of the time that this happens I even have earphones in and people still make an effort to interrupt me. I take out my earphones or pause whatever I'm listening to to be courteous but even when I try and play dumb like I'm not hearing them they will repeat or try to get my attention. On the other hand i have a coworker who has a habit of explaining shit and once he's started he doesn't stop even if you're interrupting him or telling him to stop. I just think some people are persistently chatty lol.
chatterbox11 Жилийн өмнө
Most people understand headphones mean you do not want to be bothered, and only rude or awkward people do not get it. You can usually ignore a comment if you have headphones on, but if the person persists take out your earphones and say, "I am listening to music [or an audiobook]', do you need something?" If you are at work, just say, "I am trying to get this project done, what do you need?" Say these things in a polite tone of voice, but make it clear you are busy doing something else. If the person tells you they just want to chat, simply say, "I am sorry, I cannot chat now," and put your earphones back in.
Mars Argo Music
Mars Argo Music Жилийн өмнө
Just start crying and run off. Works for me.
Corey Mills
Corey Mills Жилийн өмнө
Thanks CoC. Great content and you've provided helpful insight on how to effectively navigate these situations.
zounoa a
zounoa a Жилийн өмнө
Hey okay well unfortunately, umm... i was definitely going somewhere with this....
Selena Hernandez
Selena Hernandez Жилийн өмнө
Gosh he's so hot
Chad Schmaltz
Chad Schmaltz Жилийн өмнө
As someone who lives in an RPG, random encounters are the worst. Thanks for these helpful tips, hopefully I can accomplish my quest in less than 100 hours this time. But seriously, thank you CoC. This is something I struggle with so I really appreciate you creating a strategy for dealing with situations like this.
Facepalm Full O' Napalm
Facepalm Full O' Napalm Жилийн өмнө
That moment when you dispatch from a long conversation and try to get away but then they have to coincidentally walk the same way to get where they're going. Absolutely annoying.
Alifa Alvita
Alifa Alvita Жилийн өмнө
TexanGamer Жилийн өмнө
What If you know the person and he/she Is emotional and they are talking to you about something they are really Interested In but you are very bored of the subject and aren't Interested at all?
Diablo Uchiha
Diablo Uchiha Жилийн өмнө
*girlfriend telling me about her day* Hey babe listen, I gotta go hook up with other girls but it was nice listening to you! Let’s do this another day yeah? See ya!! 👋
Facepalm Full O' Napalm
Facepalm Full O' Napalm Жилийн өмнө
*How to end a relationship within one sentence* Or two rather... Oh well!
Adriana Perezz
Adriana Perezz Жилийн өмнө
abdo jama
abdo jama Жилийн өмнө
But actual Butt appear
21HeartSong Жилийн өмнө
I love how you keep knocking out great content Charlie. Thanks, I needed this one.
Endrank luvs da 4 loko
Endrank luvs da 4 loko Жилийн өмнө
"Well, I'd love to stay and chat but I've got really bad diarrhea and I'm about to blow so I guess I should go." They'll never call your bluff on this one.
DalaiLamaNYF Жилийн өмнө
The thing you said at the end is something I value a lot. Doing nothing when the other person is being toxic to you, don't hate them, just sit through whatever they spouting at you does build self-esteem. Tremendously. When I was dealing with some hateful racism, I would normally just exit the room, but later I decided Not to run away and just stand there and take it. Normally they will leave on their own, but at the end of everything, I felt this overwhelming confidence and respect for myself. It was a very empowering feeling.
Evan Dugas
Evan Dugas Жилийн өмнө
There are two times when I need to end a conversation. when I hate it, and when I like it way to much and it has been a hour and I need to do things with my life XD
Jaywaii Жилийн өмнө
One piece of advice to end a conversation that's been going on too long is to find a way to interrupt yourself. "Bla bla bla, I could go on but I just remembered I need to go..." Supposed to make it seem that any rudeness in ending the convo is towards yourself instead of the other person. Any truth to this?
Buddy Boerkoel
Buddy Boerkoel Жилийн өмнө
I'll remember this. Thanks!
Gary Williams UK
Gary Williams UK Жилийн өмнө
Bro well done for being such a lovely human being
Terje Skuggen
Terje Skuggen Жилийн өмнө
This video should be called: "How to end a conversation in... 8 minutes" PS! Good video and my bad joke!
LonnieB Жилийн өмнө
I just do steps 1 and 2. And maybe add a smile. I only do 3 if I absolutely feel up for it. Most of the time 3 comes off as fake.
Calvin Ryan
Calvin Ryan Жилийн өмнө
My girlfriend is Socially Awkward and so i'm I... it works out i guess
Facepalm Full O' Napalm
Facepalm Full O' Napalm Жилийн өмнө
I know the feeling, ha. Typically looks and feels weird but me and my gf usually just laugh about it when things like that happen.
Orson Rodgers
Orson Rodgers Жилийн өмнө
an introverts antidote
Free Thinker
Free Thinker Жилийн өмнө
Truth ??? More like Avoidance and sending mixed signals. The truth maybe that responding with Avoidance tactics and being "kind" is due to a fear response and lack of how to deal with reactions you don't like/you can't handle. So, if you're on the receiving end of someone sending mixed signals, know that they have immature communication skills/lack of confidence.
GO _
GO _ Жилийн өмнө
Did anyone notice a "but" at the corner of 0:08? xD
Grimm Liberty
Grimm Liberty 2 жилийн өмнө
When someone brings you a gift that you don't want, it ends belonging to them. When they bring attitude you don't accept, especially when you've been kind, they are stuck with it.
shook vkook
shook vkook 2 жилийн өмнө
**PRO TIP!!!** *_"I wanna touch myself so I'm gonna go..."_*
pooper pants
pooper pants 2 жилийн өмнө
Yo whys his mouth so big
O Tohora
O Tohora 2 жилийн өмнө
Advice for people who never leave their house.
Northern Ninety7
Northern Ninety7 2 жилийн өмнө
I just say, minnesota guy has left the chat.
DemiGod Status
DemiGod Status 2 жилийн өмнө
I've been doing this subconsciously for some time but I've always switched steps two and three and they work well like a sandwich especially in customer service.
Voodoo Magic 101
Voodoo Magic 101 2 жилийн өмнө
William Marty Bristow
William Marty Bristow 2 жилийн өмнө
Hey, I’m not sure if you’ve put a video up on this, but what are some places where I can meet people specifically girls that arent stuff like a bar scene
Facepalm Full O' Napalm
Facepalm Full O' Napalm Жилийн өмнө
At the gym, parks, skating rinks, stores, libraries, anywhere! Naturally you have to be careful, seeing as how they might already be taken. Just get out a bit and meet new people everywhere you go, from random people in line to people who often run in the park. They'll remember you as much as you remember them and it's always delightful to see them again.
sophie gebert
sophie gebert 2 жилийн өмнө
Okay, but what do you do if your grandmas hospice social worker asks you and your sisters if “all three of you have the same mom”?
Mat Cimbo
Mat Cimbo 2 жилийн өмнө
He's right. When you've bent over backwards to be nice to someone and they he/she treats you like garbage, it's a great feeling to know you're in the right, just standing there smugly.
Comfy Cozy Are We
Comfy Cozy Are We 2 жилийн өмнө
Voltaire 2 жилийн өмнө
An ex spotted me at a bar and tapped me on the shoulder. Gave her a “what the fuck do you want” kinda look and walked away. Good charisma, yeah?
Facepalm Full O' Napalm
Facepalm Full O' Napalm Жилийн өмнө
Eh, no. Not really.
Fredrik Riise
Fredrik Riise 2 жилийн өмнө
I usually just turn 180° and leave mid sentence. I found that people appreciate the honesty and boldness
e g
e g 2 жилийн өмнө
Disagree with "people think they need a good reason", if you would like to preserve someone's feelings and maintain a friendship or other relationship the reason is important. You don't need a reason if you are a total a hole, in which case don't even interrupt, just walk away. Saying that you need to leave because you have "a thing you need to be at" sounds bogus and would likely change the perception of your personality to others.
Luciano Ramírez garea
Luciano Ramírez garea 2 жилийн өмнө
what animation program does he use?
Crystal D
Crystal D 2 жилийн өмнө
Thanks soooooooooo much for this Charlie. This is a lifesaver. I have a job where I'm always interviewing people and the one thing that gets in the way of me moving on to another assignment quickly is this same thing. I struggle with cuting long winded people off. I usually use the terms "in a nutshell tell me..." or "briefly explain" and it's helped somewhat but some people still tend to run on. So I will try this advice and be brave with it. Thank you!
Dan Williams
Dan Williams 2 жилийн өмнө
I found "I'll be right back" works well.
Sunshine 2 жилийн өмнө
Hi, Charlie. I saw your video translated into Russian and I noticed in comments that many people write: “I am very frightened by his smile, why does he smile at the whole video?”. What do you say to that? It is very interesting to know what you think.
Sunshine 2 жилийн өмнө
​@Anil Palan I think there is no difference. Shouldn't people accept a smile as a positive trait?
Anil Palan
Anil Palan 2 жилийн өмнө
In American culture smiling is looked up upon. Most English speaking Westerners are intimidated by but admire a strong smile. This is not the case in most of northern and Eastern Europe where smiling is frowned down upon and such a wide smile may be scary.
Emil Filipov
Emil Filipov 2 жилийн өмнө
Eh... At best some of the lines sound just like a polite 'Fuck off' to be honest xD
Ryan Kolar
Ryan Kolar 2 жилийн өмнө
I employ about 60 people. If one of my employees used "the technique" on me, I would not forget it. Just sayin'. If you want to maximize YOUR self esteem, expect the person you dismissed to do the same. But he'd probably do it without you ever knowing. The gentlemanly way to handle it is to sacrifice and just continue to talk, at a cost to your own time and efficiency. THAT will pay off in the end. Quite different from this artificial charisma that is being touted. Yes, yes, even a gentleman would need to end a conversation at some point. This is rare. It would NOT happen in order to talk to someone (anyone!) more important at the same event. I'm afraid that the Charlies of the world will reach their success around age 32 and then it will go down hill, unfortunately. It will be a fun ride filled with self esteem and enough cash (save while you can). Eventually people like this are found out and it crashes.
Miraculous Ladybug
Miraculous Ladybug 2 жилийн өмнө
Lmao catch me watching this video with speakers on full blast in the middle of a conversation gottem
привет хай
привет хай 2 жилийн өмнө
I'm russian and I watch it Upd: hello guys) Отличный канал)
Hewhomustnotbenamed 2 жилийн өмнө
What if I’m the case of the person u like, u actually have nothing else to do, but just wanna get off the phone our out of the convo
Yougotyourjager 2 жилийн өмнө
I’ll be inching away from my dad for so long that I’m 20 feet away and he’s still talking. Then I say hey I gotta go! And he says okay bud blah blah and we’ll talk for another 30 minutes before I’m finally able to leave 🤦🏻‍♂️
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