7 Easy Ways To Be More Popular

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Shia Labeouf has had some incredible swings of popularity in his life. From child actor to blockbuster megastar, outcast, and now to an indie hit maker.
In this video we’re going to learn how Shia has gone from those low points to regaining popularity, all without being fake.

0:28 - #1: Have good sub communication.
1:15 - #2: Slow it down when telling stories.
2:12 - #3: Make eye contact during your main points.
2:44 - #4: Be more honest.
4:27 - #5: Be vulnerable in a non attention-seeking way.
6:13 - #6: Be non-judgemental.
9:19 - #7: Focus on the quality of your connections.
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Miss Viking
Miss Viking 13 өдрийн өмнө
I’m curious how to stop from demonizing someone I’m really mad at someone who stole from me and wasn’t feeling sorry for it... stole something that was purely my long term effort and had my name on it and yet stole in a selfish and greedy way!
Wi ll
Wi ll 3 сарын өмнө
Well the guy who made this video definitely is not cool 😂
Wi ll
Wi ll 3 сарын өмнө
Well the guy who made this video definitely is not cool 😂
Umer Asif
Umer Asif 6 сарын өмнө
Dude was amazing in Even Stevens. Easily the most expressive child actor.
Funky Munky
Funky Munky 6 сарын өмнө
8:20: What's up Berleezy!!
Sasa Milic
Sasa Milic 6 сарын өмнө
shia labeauf is my favorite libtard :)
XGene 8 сарын өмнө
I really have a problem with cockiness and I want to be more humble and genuine. It's not that I'll lie about my achievements but I will always one-up those around me, i think it is just an defence. Can you make a video about humility or if you did already let me know. Thank you!!! I know this video kinda dances around humility, but is there any more?
Ember Hydra
Ember Hydra 8 сарын өмнө
It does sound nice (The ending) but the issue being is you will not meet the same pepole)
Prasun 8 сарын өмнө
idk why ppl hate him for the transformers movie.. I liked that movie only because of this guy.. of course movie was childish.. but he made it fun too🤷🏻‍♂️
Husein 27
Husein 27 10 сарын өмнө
Can u seriously lower the amount of money to get charisma University please
7seednew Жилийн өмнө
it's just not *true* that "everyone is always doing their best". in the words of michael o. church, most people are lazy, greedy, and weak.
Evie B
Evie B Жилийн өмнө
Great video,I didn’t know Shia was this interesting,but I love this
Richard Rideaux
Richard Rideaux Жилийн өмнө
A village........buff said.
Ace Hardy
Ace Hardy Жилийн өмнө
KiNG BoA Жилийн өмнө
“10/90 til da day I die”
77dris Жилийн өмнө
What is the 90/10 rule then?
Cody Bartlett
Cody Bartlett Жилийн өмнө
This is Shia labouef Shia labouef holds doors for little old ladies Be like Shia labouef Conor McGregor has entered the chat. Little old lady got knocked out! Later that night on JRE:Conor why? Joe rogan :Jamie pull up that KO!
Steve Lee
Steve Lee Жилийн өмнө
The reason why all people watched this video is because they have No friends.
Святослав Піх
Святослав Піх Жилийн өмнө
This video needs to be split into quotes. Shia replicas were so sharp and fast, and at the same time full of meaning and value. I feel I need this in my life. Thank you!
Dedi B.
Dedi B. Жилийн өмнө
For a female who's desire is to be more elegant etc.. does this approach also work for women?
David Beddoe
David Beddoe Жилийн өмнө
To have "conviction" like Shia LeBouf you'd have to like him, be a member of a "marginalized" group and be both deeply narcissistic and immersed in a rich social world where that narcissism is normalized, from a young age. You'd have to be convinced that nothing in life is better than amassing "friends".
Tropical StormXoX
Tropical StormXoX Жилийн өмнө
What if people belittle you for ur truth
Rusty Shackleford
Rusty Shackleford Жилийн өмнө
If you're going to use people as examples, at least use people who aren't complete asshats. He is an Actor, a lot of these steps you're going through is probably just him acting.
Alabama Thunder
Alabama Thunder Жилийн өмнө
Shia Lebouf??? Really? Here I subscribed to this channel. Now I'm gonna have to unsub. Lol..... Anyone up for capture the flag? HWNDU? :P
Momzilla Жилийн өмнө
I remember Byron Katie's story about a Cockroach! Amazing. That is when she didn't have the power to change her environment so she accepted the circumstance and... I don't want to ruin it for you.
Nikki Ross
Nikki Ross Жилийн өмнө
If all you think when you talk to people is "how is this getting me ahead?", You're a sociopath 😂
miles butler
miles butler Жилийн өмнө
Nikki Ross yay I am sociopath. Do you want to see my doll head collection? 😅
Giftson Domai
Giftson Domai Жилийн өмнө
So good
Garrett Payne
Garrett Payne Жилийн өмнө
I think I love Shia?
Kaythia Star
Kaythia Star Жилийн өмнө
I have no doubt this advice is sound. What I am having the most trouble with is how to gain that group of people without being stuck with the narcissists I am attracting. Users, drainers, vampires. How do I get friends who are willing to **RECIPROCATE** Friendship? You have no videos on that. Accept the challenge.
Danny B
Danny B Жилийн өмнө
Shia Labeouf for President.
Zach Scheerer
Zach Scheerer Жилийн өмнө
You should do a video on Greg Plitt. If you don’t know who he is... or was. You should.
cherryl Жилийн өмнө
I rush through my thoughtful convictions because everyone I talk to tries running me over with how their day went and I can barely get a word in edge wise.
Courtney Coulson
Courtney Coulson Жилийн өмнө
Interesting that you chose a controversial figure like Shia, but I've noticed most of his detractors haven't actually watched interviews with the guy, they just know him from Transformers and by his reputation or public "stunts". But in interviews he carries himself very well, guess it comes with having been a child actor.
Michael Christopher
Michael Christopher Жилийн өмнө
Its easy to be popular when your a celebrity millionaire. I liked this channel until this video..
Bluntly Жилийн өмнө
He will kum inside us....
Conviction is a funny word when used regarding Shia Labeouf
Cory Norell
Cory Norell Жилийн өмнө
Lookin' more like Shia Labuff these days huh?
Matt W
Matt W Жилийн өмнө
Shia comes across as a good, genuine guy every time.
Liam Furfie
Liam Furfie Жилийн өмнө
Hello, I came across one of your videos and ended up watching around 10 I’m subscribed and will be watching continually. I don’t want to sound like I’m guilt tripping or black mailing you but I’d love too have a conversation with you too see if we are as alike as I think. I’ve always been an outgoing person but due to certain circumstances feel I’ve lost myself somewhat and respond with anger instead of thinking logically and responding as I used too. I think a conversation with you for 5/10 minutes would help me a great deal and if you could find the time I would be very great full. I understand you have over 3 million subscribers so you must get this a lot. I would use your statement about ending an email in a giving or asking for a favour in this comment but I’m pretty sure we both know which this is 😂 Even if you read this thank you! King regards Liam
Lovro Buday
Lovro Buday Жилийн өмнө
I disagree with the last point. Quality over quantity, one thing that stuck with me was a person that lived in nazi germany said I judge friends by asking myself "would they hide me?", you cant have 60 people like that.
Ean Nane
Ean Nane Жилийн өмнө
Have to disagree hard on this one. He's not like Robert Downey's jr. It isn't genuine and there are real anger issues there. Dude comes off like a dbag to me that is faking confidence, and passive aggressive.
Allan Жилийн өмнө
Do not the title, like the content :)))
Fabricio Santos
Fabricio Santos Жилийн өмнө
Charlie you speak brazillian portuguese and still named your program CU???
jimmybean Жилийн өмнө
I didn't think I would actually ever have respect or learn something from Shia, but some clips changed that.
Rob Domos
Rob Domos Жилийн өмнө
Do a video on Andrew Yang!
Linda Whitfield
Linda Whitfield Жилийн өмнө
I'm very curious to see a video on Andrew Yang. The instant he speaks I can't stop listening, lol.
zowster Жилийн өмнө
You can't teach or learn a genuine personality. Shia Lebouf is also just doing something. He doesn't know what the F he's doing. Just like everybody else. Stop trying to learn to imitate others and start discovering what you like. Accept that there are no definitive answers or ideals everyone should oblige to. Just learn to listen to your inner voice (how cheesy that might sound). It's okay too blend into sometimes, but don't let society blend into you. Into your cure. Keep trust in yourself. Or how Shia Labeaouf would say it: "You just do YOU!" Make your dreams come true people. But not by copying other people who seem te be livin' the life.
Jurassica Жилийн өмнө
shia is my life
Ariston Sparta
Ariston Sparta Жилийн өмнө
It’s almost like having admirable qualities that lift yourself and others around you up is a good thing, while being shady, bringing people down, and being dishonest is bad. Who would have thought 🤔
Jim Smith
Jim Smith Жилийн өмнө
You should do a video on Danny Duncan
OG Kelly
OG Kelly Жилийн өмнө
Can you do a video on lil Uzi verts charisma specifically the one with GQ
Bruno Жилийн өмнө
This guy Shia speaks many truths....i like it. People need more connection.
Ru so
Ru so Жилийн өмнө
You should cover Andrew Yang, why is that once you listen to him you just can't stop
Linda Whitfield
Linda Whitfield Жилийн өмнө
Corey Butler
Corey Butler Жилийн өмнө
The content of the videos on this channel is great, but I feel like th video titles and click-bait thumbnails are a bit inaccurate, if not outright insulting to the potential viewer's intelligence. I'm sure the above gets you the views and you don't plan on switching the formula, but it's kind of important for me that I call it out :/
nikiiters Жилийн өмнө
He was really nice at the TIFF red carpet for Honey Boy and took his time with everyone and was so humble UGH. I said I loved the movie and he was like “really, you watched it?” LIKE YES DUDE I FREAKIN WATCHED AND LOVED UR MOVIE HOW ARE YOU SO HUMBLE
Carmen Quintáns
Carmen Quintáns Жилийн өмнө
Amalion Жилийн өмнө
The Max
The Max Жилийн өмнө
He just DOES IT
みそら なおみ
みそら なおみ Жилийн өмнө
only commenting bc i’m lucky number 666
ambuydeway Жилийн өмнө
How to be popular- be good looking
Sean Rosini
Sean Rosini Жилийн өмнө
Best way to be popular is to listen, choose your words carefully, listen to whats being said and contribute accordingly, be relaxed and open so people feel comfortable talking with you but also relaxed enough that if they dont want to talk to you it’s no big deal and doesnt knock you off your grove
DieSuperGurke001 Жилийн өмнө
i noticed in general of the CoC videos, there are many advices on how to be a leader. but what if i dont want to be a leader? yeah sure, i want to be attractive, not socially awkward and so on. but i honestly dont want to be that guy, everybody is looking at in the club or the one who has to decide everytime where we go tonight. often you can hear something like, do X and you'll be more like a leader, and being a leader makes you more popular/attraktive/confident/... As if non-leader cant be.
Leonora Dompor
Leonora Dompor Жилийн өмнө
To be popular is to have a saintly character !
Leonora Dompor
Leonora Dompor Жилийн өмнө
To be popular is to be saucy and juicy and humorous !
Leonora Dompor
Leonora Dompor Жилийн өмнө
To be popular is to be natural,spontaneous,friendly and humble !
Five Percent
Five Percent Жилийн өмнө
VIKINGS ANALISIS!!! do Ivar the boneless please 🥺
msa1985 Жилийн өмнө
I cant stand listening to peoples stories. Unless it's a specific bit of information I want, I just don't want to hear it.
Ilay cohen
Ilay cohen Жилийн өмнө
6:46 Lmaoooo
Chris Blahblahh
Chris Blahblahh Жилийн өмнө
Wanting other peoples approval is not charismatic in the first place. I would even go further saying it's toxic. However your segment about being honest was interesting to me. Cheers
Rowan Phantasmal
Rowan Phantasmal Жилийн өмнө
Could we possibly see something about stage presence for musicians? No so much like Kiss or Madonna, but more like The Grateful Dead? Those guys just stand still with no gimmicks and only talk to the crowd every so often, and they have a confidence I find charming.
Dhrambo Жилийн өмнө
I don't know it it's one of ypur chatisma tricks, but charisma university sounds mighty useful right now
William Topping
William Topping Жилийн өмнө
You're a little bit superstitious. You're scared of hospitals. You have an operation on Friday the 13th for a hernia repair where they will be giving you a general. How do you deal with that. This is exactly what I faced just a few days ago. 13th Sept 2019. As I was walking to the Hospital, it was a beautiful morning. The colours in the sky were amazing. It truly was a wonderful sunrise. (Was told to be at hospital for 7am, so I was walking along about 6am). And I said to myself "this, this is a good day to die". And as I walked into that hospital, I put my fears to one side, and decided that I'm going to have a good day. I'm going to make everyones day good whomever they may be. Not to impress anyone, not win anyone over, but if I'm not going to wake up after the op, why the hell not make the most of that time. I had a blast of a time. From the nurses, the consultants, from the porters, to the surgeons. I spoke to everyone equally, teased and had banter with them, whomever they were. When the porters came to take me down to theatre, I walked alongside them whilst they pushed an empty bed, and we had a scream of a time. We was all laughing and joking down the corriders, and they loved absolutely loved it. When I was being prepped to go under, I had a laugh with those guys too. They teased me about how much coffee they'd been drinking all morning, and that I was dying to have a coffee. And when I came around, in recovery. I carried on being like that. And I saw all the people I'd seen earlier that morning. The porters, the surgeons, the nurses, the doctors. And they all came over wearing big smiles to come chat with me. It felt so good. Everytime they asked how I was doing, and what I'm going to do with the rest of the weekend. Hey, I was gonna finally get that coffee, right!! I really wanted that coffee though, you know. That was my conviction. That's what got me through. For sure, people knew I was nervous. But I never made my problem their problem. Never took my fears out and put them others. Didn't wallow in my own insecurities and demand the world pay attention to me. I made all my interactions about their day, about them being important. I even got let out the same day, in the late afternoon. Walked around the corner out of the hospital, and to the costa I'd seen on the way in, and got myself my damn coffee. And it was just as good as I imagined it to be. You know, if you're like me, and get worried about Friday the 13th and operations, then simply shrug, tell yourself it's a good day to die, and make it so that it is. After all, if it really is your last few hours, then why be a twat about it. Just be cool.
Hanna as in montana
Hanna as in montana Жилийн өмнө
I would love to see more video's about women. I adore your channel. Love to see more!
Rai deep
Rai deep Жилийн өмнө
Hey, there Please make a video on peaky blinders character Tommy Shelby please
Anthony Marta
Anthony Marta Жилийн өмнө
Make a Brad Pitt charisma breakdown
Eddie Acosta
Eddie Acosta Жилийн өмнө
Just to confirm, the course is $600 & not $100?
Rovin Dcruz
Rovin Dcruz Жилийн өмнө
Hey Charlie, please do a breakdown of the Corleones from Godfather...
LordBukket Жилийн өмнө
I really want to see an analysis of Jackie Chan, his humbleness and discipline is something to really admire and it would be a great video
LordBukket Жилийн өмнө
@SS park However you would be right in some aspects as well. I did search just now, out of interest. When it comes to political views and his past it may not be the best. However when it comes to political views I think its a complicated subject and he has the right to those opinions if you ask me.
SS park
SS park Жилийн өмнө
@LordBukket Huh, I guess ur right in terms of no bad fan interactions and stuff. It's just his more personal life which is a bit screwy + political ties. I should have done more research before I commented
LordBukket Жилийн өмнө
I have actually tried to find info about this but I have not really seen anything pointing to it. It may be so but from what Ive heard he is also very nice in person (when reading fan interactions and stuff)
SS park
SS park Жилийн өмнө
Isn't that all a front though? I've heard that he might not be as nice person as he seems
Ailias Жилийн өмнө
The very idea of being 'close' with 50 odd people is just exhausting and anxiety inducing.
MrsRDub Жилийн өмнө
You've got to do 50 Cent and how he manages to still be liked and embraced by the media all while being a grade A douche. I gotta hear the break down on that lol
airlangga ibrahim
airlangga ibrahim Жилийн өмнө
i really love your video and how you break down your video as example it is really helpful. when a check your online classes i'm shock how high the price is, im from a third world country and the different curs is really high so cant afford it even if i want to join your online tutor. but i would like to thank you for doing this job in youtube. even if im from 3rd world country i still can learn alot from you. keep up the good work. love from indonesia
maddyjul07 Жилийн өмнө
Plz do a video about Timothée Chalamet and how he’s awkward but also maintains to have good charisma
baroot mabroukizo
baroot mabroukizo Жилийн өмнө
hey charlie could you please do a video of Grindelwald of the fantastic beast.
Radman Жилийн өмнө
Is it possible to do a run down on Hannibal Burress. He’s crazy laid back and makes people chuckle before he even tells the joke. it’d be sweet to get an intellectual perspective on it.
MasterAidan Жилийн өмнө
Can you do an analysis of the democratic debates?
ShantoDLX Жилийн өмнө
make a video about hugh jackman
Jannie Schlüter
Jannie Schlüter Жилийн өмнө
Jesus was a real man unto death - He was always true and upfront; a real alpha of alphas.
Bill Baxter
Bill Baxter Жилийн өмнө
How to be popular? Don't start a fight with 4 chan that u can't finish or win, especially when you're wrong.
khairul rashid
khairul rashid Жилийн өмнө
Make vikings charecters breakdown.
The Lord of Shadows
The Lord of Shadows Жилийн өмнө
So his Kimmel interview came up five years later for you too?
Inge nious
Inge nious Жилийн өмнө
I always thought of shai lebouf as dorky but you gave me a different view of him, Charlie. You’re good.
King Eway
King Eway Жилийн өмнө
This is an amazing video. It LaBeouf star in Split movie?
Chandler Hart
Chandler Hart Жилийн өмнө
He really took the 80/20 principle and made it 90/10
Vrayden Royce
Vrayden Royce Жилийн өмнө
Uhtred of Bebbanburg
Amy Chua
Amy Chua Жилийн өмнө
Can you do a video about Brendon Urie? He's awesome
Martin Aksglæde Hansen
Martin Aksglæde Hansen Жилийн өмнө
Charisma university is worth every penny! being honest is the key to everything... with everything, i still need to work on gestures and storytelling.. Charlie, make more videos about that. huge fan of your charisma(also the university btw) leraned alot..
Apollo- Жилийн өмнө
do one on Colin mochrie
Smart Hustle
Smart Hustle Жилийн өмнө
I would really love to see a break down of Moist Cr1tikal(Charlie). How he's able to have so much charisma with his monotone voice. Otherwise, you always have great helpful videos.
Mitchell Alexander
Mitchell Alexander Жилийн өмнө
"No part of the truth is unspeakable" that's my takeaway, thankyou
Thomas Wedewer
Thomas Wedewer Жилийн өмнө
Anyone ever notice how he looks like Idubbz alot
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