5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming

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George Clooney has a subtle and almost effortless charm. And unlike some of the people we’ve covered on the channel, you don’t have to take drastic steps to emulate it.
So today, we’re going to be looking at some of the habits that makes Clooney so effortlessly charismatic and learn what you can do to convey that same charm in your own life.

0:15 - Lesson #1: Focus on setting the tone for the interaction.
2:37 - Lesson #2: Laugh with your eyes.
3:56 - Lesson #3: Genuine eye contact.
5:57 - Lesson #4: Self deprecating humor & complimenting others.
7:57 - Lesson #5: George’s goal is to feel good.
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Dan Tyler • 10 years ago
Dan Tyler • 10 years ago 3 өдрийн өмнө
I don't find George Clooney charming at all. He's so pretentious. I've always wondered why people like this guy, is it just women?
Oran Wilson
Oran Wilson 6 өдрийн өмнө
I feel like if I ever end up on a chat show I’m so fricking well equipped to be funny 😂
iamonly Important
iamonly Important 9 өдрийн өмнө
George Clooney is a loser
The Cowboy
The Cowboy 18 өдрийн өмнө
Please do a video of Anthony Hopkins, and what he can teach us about Charm.
Tretiakov Konstantin
Tretiakov Konstantin 20 өдрийн өмнө
Please do the one with the Hannibal Buress
mcgikle 24 өдрийн өмнө
Damn dude I'm gonna be great on a talk show if I keep watching these videos
Affirm Nation
Affirm Nation 24 өдрийн өмнө
great low key dude
Bluewren Reilly
Bluewren Reilly 27 өдрийн өмнө
Thanks now I really know how charming handsome and lovable Clooney really is.
7even 28 өдрийн өмнө
He’s just handsome
Brent Faiza
Brent Faiza Сарын өмнө
They told me I'm still charming even though I have a lot of pimples and being short. You have no excuses.
Ana S
Ana S Сарын өмнө
Excuse me, but 2:08 he sits down like any older person who has back pain or hemorrhoids. He doesn't look comfortable at all.
Ankit Rawat
Ankit Rawat Сарын өмнө
Man!! He is so charistmaic!!💖💖
SyborgCat Сарын өмнө
3:31 i didnt even hear the joke but I laughed
Anon Ymous
Anon Ymous Сарын өмнө
I'm noticing a key similarities to all of these; self depreciation. But it's not just making fun of yourself, it's throwing a jab at yourself here and there in the middle of the overarching story/point. It's a quick reference to a flaw, or an embarrassment, and then right back to the main story as well as the fact that story/point isn't oversaturated with these self insults. Seems like figuring that part of your social lineup is one of the most important parts to get figured out.
Jose Rivera
Jose Rivera Сарын өмнө
5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming: Be George Clooney
Afonso Maia de Loureiro
Afonso Maia de Loureiro 2 сарын өмнө
Basically, try to be chill lmao
Thotla Meli
Thotla Meli 2 сарын өмнө
Well can you do for a woman?
Tony - Persuasion Secrets
Tony - Persuasion Secrets 2 сарын өмнө
Jesus Barajas
Jesus Barajas 2 сарын өмнө
That progressive ad was way funnier than Clooney!!
L M 2 сарын өмнө
Instructions were very unclear. I started laughing and pointing at people when I enter a room and now people like me even less.
Lee 2 сарын өмнө
What on earth are you talking about?
gothsorrowsuffer 2 сарын өмнө
gothsorrowsuffer 2 сарын өмнө
G.W. Smith
G.W. Smith 2 сарын өмнө
The best compliment I ever got in my life was 3-4 years ago when I was in my early forties. My girlfriend's young co worker told her that she thought I looked like George Clooney. While not even close to the truth it made me feel great, charming, debonair and confident. Whenever I'm faced with a new social challenge like a job interview or meeting the gf's parents etc, I say to myself. "I am George Clooney". In a Michael Keaton's Batman voice. I always laugh of loud at the obsurdity of that statement but laughing at myself calms me, puts me in a relaxed frame of mind and a relaxed/jovial mood that transfers into my mannerisms. From there it's almost second nature to be charming and charismatic. Confidence is key as they say. Now I'm an introvert with a touch of social anxiety to boot. For 40 years I lacked confidence in myself and that showed in everything I did. I've been able to change my situation in life for the better. My confidence has grown tremendously with each new success and I don't need to say this ridiculous thing anymore to have charisma but you know what? I still do, every single day. It's important to me to stay grounded and true to what got me to where I am today.
Blue S P
Blue S P 3 сарын өмнө
Doesnt work. I was attending a funeral and people thought im a psychopath.
HB 3 сарын өмнө
1. Become super hot like George Clooney...not a good example for real life people....
Mcm Rvr
Mcm Rvr 3 сарын өмнө
How do I know if people are really responding to their charisma and not just their physical attractiveness and fame?
[BosS] HITMAN 20
[BosS] HITMAN 20 3 сарын өмнө
4:48 and remember to hit that bell
Anime Profile picture
Anime Profile picture 3 сарын өмнө
Of course he’s charming! He’s a dapper dan man!
Adnan Raksha
Adnan Raksha 3 сарын өмнө
Man he looks gorgeous not just in a beautiful way, but in a mythically charismatic way.
E B 4 сарын өмнө
Clooney charming??
T M 4 сарын өмнө
*Mindset:* _To be charming, don't try to be charming - following a set of rules robotically. The goal is to make those around you feel good in an authentic way. The rest will follow._
Rana AlQahtani
Rana AlQahtani 4 сарын өмнө
Please make a video analyzing Sophia Loren charm
Matt Taylor
Matt Taylor 4 сарын өмнө
Real Noid
Real Noid 4 сарын өмнө
Clooney is the best. Come back to the US. As Athena says to Frank Walker played by George in Tomorrowland, “you’re not funny.” And that’s probably the case. His ballplayer quickness & looks make up for it. When I first saw Clooney on a talk show he was probably the most nervous person I’d ever seen next to myself who’s never been on a talk show. Dusk Till Dawn & Tomorrowland among many greats. The ending of TL reminds me of the 2020 George Floyd demonstrations across the world.
Obeng-Yeboah K.D
Obeng-Yeboah K.D 4 сарын өмнө
Can't be touching people during corona🙃
Kai Johnson
Kai Johnson 4 сарын өмнө
Pretty sure the interviewer was laughing because she thought Clooney was hot, not because he was 'laughing with his eyes'.
TalMishan 4 сарын өмнө
He reminds me of Robert downey jr
Estevan Mendoza
Estevan Mendoza 4 сарын өмнө
Can you do the singer Prince method. Rest In Peace prince
Just 4 Da Laughters
Just 4 Da Laughters 5 сарын өмнө
So, let me get this straight... we got here a George Clooney fan?
ASSMAN 5 сарын өмнө
Since purchasing the charisma course from Charisma University for only $599.99 I now have all the confidence that I ever dreamed possible. When I want to impress the ladies, I just put on a really nice pair of speedos and go to the supermarket to shop for fresh produce. Before purchasing this course I used to be way too shy to shop in my speedos but not anymore. Since graduating from Charisma University I now realise that the nasty and uncomfortable looks and stares I receive in the supermarket from "lesser status males" are because they wish they could also shop in speedos. Charisma On Command is really changing lives one at a time.
Masood MUFC
Masood MUFC 5 сарын өмнө
I watched this before going to an interview but they threw me out after 20 seconds. Apparently hugging and shaking hands was against company's protocol.
aleksandra kettner
aleksandra kettner 5 сарын өмнө
Magnus Skjødt
Magnus Skjødt 5 сарын өмнө
People down here, says he looks handsome. And they’re not wrong, but it’s his charm. His charm makes how we see him. If I try and pause, to look besides the charm, he doesn’t look that handsome. This shows, that charm is almost everything. Think of someone you know, who has a lot of friends and are really charming, if you think of them without thinking of their charm, they might not look as handsome (at least this is the case for me). So.. you don’t have to be handsome, you just have to be less shy and use these tips from this video. Also don’t have an annoying laughter, think about how you laugh when you’re laughing, and you can actually change it, without it being a fake laughter. Personally I’ve changed my laugh several times for one that fits me. I hope that this comment was useful if you actually read all this.
Andrew Walden
Andrew Walden 5 сарын өмнө
I am more of a george Clooney. So this is awesome!
Wind Ward
Wind Ward 5 сарын өмнө
George has polished his presentation, well he is an actor after all. What makes him effective is that his non-verbal communication matches his verbal communication. George is heavily non-verbal in his facial expressions. You can almost turn the sound off and still understand what he is saying. In seeing him in film, I think it is more difficult for George to actually tone down his non-verbal, that is become stoic.
P 5 сарын өмнө
Jaylinn Herrera
Jaylinn Herrera 6 сарын өмнө
Lol when Jorge Ramos is actually a legend in the Spanish Speaking world
Leon Benjamin Rodriguez Del Pozo
Leon Benjamin Rodriguez Del Pozo 6 сарын өмнө
you should make a video about jeremy clarkson
DS Soundtracks
DS Soundtracks 6 сарын өмнө
5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming. Step one - be extremely handsome...
Phillipa Soo Cinnamon roll
Phillipa Soo Cinnamon roll 6 сарын өмнө
My friends say that I’m really charming and I watched this video to see how charming I am. I’ve been doing all of this stuff my whole life 😎
Ashea E
Ashea E 6 сарын өмнө
I’m really glad they think that of you. Be charming is really life, especially since you do it effortlessly
Imad Amir
Imad Amir 6 сарын өмнө
Charlie its Imad from India... I have a request.... Make a video Of Shah rukh khan.... He is hands down the most charismatic person alive
Mario Panebianco
Mario Panebianco 6 сарын өмнө
Clooney is a fake and liberal Hack. He has lost a lot of respect.
Saint Etienne
Saint Etienne 6 сарын өмнө
OR - just be a nice person!
E 6 сарын өмнө
1. Set the tone. Entering the room. Basically linger and smile as well as greet everyone in the room. First 10-20 seconds SET THE TONE! 2. Physical Placing = leads to physiological comfort and makes you feel like you’re in your own living room. Crossing legs and being open. 3. Laugh with your eyes. Get emotionally involved without your saying. 4. Genuine eye contact = looking down whilst creating thought is normal. Yet after gathering thoughts, make eye contact often. Best time to deliver eye contact is in most important moment. Makes strong eye contact during punch line
KAY YU 6 сарын өмнө
um.... ummmm ... 1. born again... 2. born gain... 3. born again ... sorry.. 4.. ...you knew... 5... born again with good looking like G.C... Yup... so easy! isn't it?...
kristina porter
kristina porter 6 сарын өмнө
Men are exceptionally egotistical and he’s just soaking in every last minute of admiration let’s be real lol
Mr Ed
Mr Ed 6 сарын өмнө
So before sitting down in a job interview give the guy a bear hug right? I get it
Qasim Imtiaz
Qasim Imtiaz 7 сарын өмнө
Danial has dyspraxia so is a bit of a struggle for him to not walk in that way lol.
Omotayo Okediji
Omotayo Okediji 7 сарын өмнө
Question do You think that George Clooney knows he’s doing these things or is this just his natural ways. Thanks for this video btw.
A Metalhead's Journey
A Metalhead's Journey 7 сарын өмнө
Most of this is not practical. He can joke around like that because he's already walking in the door with massive clout from being a celebrity and a top tier movie star. You generally can't do this if you're a nobody. That's what's wrong with all these youtube videos, they are reading too much into this. Do you really think, George is going, ok, I'm going to laugh here and the punch line goes here? If that were true, it would come out awkward and unnatural. This type of charisma can't really be learned.
NT-Learning HD
NT-Learning HD 7 сарын өмнө
😍😍😍😍😍 I love it
Hearing the minute details the narrator told....in one moment I thought he was Clooney itself
Connor Ryan
Connor Ryan 7 сарын өмнө
George Clooney is a fuckin man
Amartya 7 сарын өмнө
This is just analysing something that’s natural. You don’t quite “note” this. It comes out by itself.
teri day
teri day 7 сарын өмнө
Two easy steps: get into showbiz via nepotism, then just be good looking.
Brandon Tea
Brandon Tea 8 сарын өмнө
Great advise.
Bryan Dave Lucido
Bryan Dave Lucido 8 сарын өмнө
Hi can you also do a review of Character Berlin in Money Heist Series? Thanks :D
Saint KO
Saint KO 8 сарын өмнө
I wonder if anyone knows if Charlie uses these videos from MNpost royalty free? Thank you
Chetan Mehra
Chetan Mehra 8 сарын өмнө
It certainly helps to be good looking
Nicolo M.
Nicolo M. 8 сарын өмнө
He’s drunk me
CRAZY DIETS 8 сарын өмнө
the best batman cuz he really is rich in character
CRAZY DIETS 8 сарын өмнө
thats why tomy wiseau is funny and famous
Coach Lee
Coach Lee 8 сарын өмнө
It's all about being you in any environment and being strong enough internally to not depend on others for value (keep your frame) - all while being refined and sophisticated. All of this will keep you from looking like you want attention. Those with high value don't feel the need to take on crazy styles or seek shock value from their statements. People notice when you are trying to get attention (crazy hair style and then pretending like you're just "expressing yourself," shock-value statements not based on you being honest but to try to bring attention to yourself). If you have real confidence, you don't seek it in artificial ways and know that it will come naturally. Seeking it artificially actually just makes you look desperate to seem cool or "different," or whatever. Self-belief says, "I don't have to do something outlandish to seek attention. In fact, I don't have to seek attention. I receive it naturally."
Dr. Sam Lowry
Dr. Sam Lowry 8 сарын өмнө
most of u losers in the comments should google ''halo effect'' and learn what it is...
Dr. Sam Lowry
Dr. Sam Lowry 8 сарын өмнө
1) be very very good looking 2) be a famous & wealthy hollywood actor 3) be very very good looking
jawwad hassan
jawwad hassan 8 сарын өмнө
Step 1 be george clooney Step 2 repeat step 1 Step 3 figure out the step 2
Philip Coffman
Philip Coffman 8 сарын өмнө
Be the Bond. Dress well, Walk with confidence. Be polite, but have a plan to kill everyone in the room.
MaVida 8 сарын өмнө
Virgin Radcliff loser vs Chad Clooney
Atom Nous
Atom Nous 8 сарын өмнө
you won't find one single pattern of likeable people. because there are multiple baseline of body languages of charismatic people. unblinking eyes, blinking eyes, those only work in whole package with other cues. and we have our own base cues.
Elliott 9 сарын өмнө
I really liked this video!!
Karan Abraham
Karan Abraham 9 сарын өмнө
Honestly the best charisma channel. It's just too bad i don't have an income to join CU.
CDArchives 9 сарын өмнө
George Clooney and Tom Hanks seem alike in this way.
Matt Irish
Matt Irish 9 сарын өмнө
"Donald Trump is not going to be president" AND how well did that turn out??
Jorden Pimblett
Jorden Pimblett 9 сарын өмнө
What a old creep
FlowUrbanFlow 9 сарын өмнө
1 minute in and essentially you're saying don't be shy
jeremy western
jeremy western 9 сарын өмнө
clooney accepts $25m dollars for nespresso then prances around pretending to be a campaner against child labour... fkn joke
free agent
free agent 9 сарын өмнө
I hope my cat notices the effort I'm making. He certainly picked the right job : Actor.
Carlos 9 сарын өмнө
listening at 9:45 ....im about to go into engineering for next year and im already bad at being social at times
Michael Trimble
Michael Trimble 9 сарын өмнө
I actually am glad I stopped here. I hadn’t really analyzed these things and that was really helpful :)
jp bart
jp bart 9 сарын өмнө
clooney doesn't need to be charming, he's rich!
Thanx - Love It
Thanx - Love It 9 сарын өмнө
Thank you for all you videos, all helpful in my life. : ) Rafael Nadal is another loveable confident celeb. A look at his charisma might be interesting.
Luvuyo Sojini
Luvuyo Sojini 9 сарын өмнө
6:20 when George Clooney pays you a compliment, and you realise it's because you're beneath him
Ákos Fellner
Ákos Fellner 9 сарын өмнө
Ok, so: Clooney is the God himself! 🤣
tubber 9 сарын өмнө
love your ending comment! feel comfortable and have fun not charming others!
Washington Consultants
Washington Consultants 9 сарын өмнө
You do realize he is reading a script
thelastdetail1 9 сарын өмнө
I have started walking into my apartment to gentle canned applause. I find it puts me at ease as I cook dinner, which then is applauded further by my wife.
H A 10 сарын өмнө
being attractive also doesn't hurt :))
Travis Way
Travis Way 10 сарын өмнө
One thing that popped to me on this is Milo who does not make eye contact consistently but he does when he looks up as he makes a point or to see if his point he was trying to make connected with the person he’s speaking with or the audience he’s speaking to...
Nxght 10 сарын өмнө
you described it as if he’s doing all of this on purpose rather than effortlessly like you first said
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