5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You

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A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing.
Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation.
1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell”
4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself.
7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter.
9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly
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Ak Ka
Ak Ka 2 цагийн өмнө
Zuckerberg I know you are reading these
LiberalsAreWorthless
LiberalsAreWorthless 3 цагийн өмнө
Brie Larson is a garbage human being....
P C
P C 7 цагийн өмнө
Who hurt this girl?! Damn so exhausting to watch her.
ShadowGJ
ShadowGJ 10 цагийн өмнө
Wow. Talk about cringe. Needs a basic behaviour coach ASAP.
TheDubass
TheDubass 11 цагийн өмнө
Bloody hell, more i watch videos from this channel less i like people and less i want to talk with someone in IRL
keep it
keep it 15 цагийн өмнө
Ladies first
Care Bear
Care Bear 15 цагийн өмнө
What the heck is her deal
mi mi
mi mi 17 цагийн өмнө
Moral of the story: Not everybody is out to get you.
Prakriti
Prakriti 21 цагийн өмнө
Bre's Captin Marvel couldn't beat Superman.
SpaceDaddy Cereal
SpaceDaddy Cereal Өдрийн өмнө
Some ppl are just too sensitive and can't detect her sarcasm I guess
David T
David T Өдрийн өмнө
Can you make a video for guys who are physically weak and small in stature who need to learn how to stand up for themselves?
Giuliano Armaduras
Giuliano Armaduras Өдрийн өмнө
Me, Brazilian, sees Charisma University as CU OH NO!! XD
Christian Best
Christian Best Өдрийн өмнө
So... don’t be Brie Larson 😂 to be honest, it’s surprising that people actually struggle with these things. I suppose it all stems from insecurity
Ilya Godovsky
Ilya Godovsky Өдрийн өмнө
Russell brand is brilliant he told that reporter it’s probably for the best, implying that he’s not all that smart.
James Nosactivated
James Nosactivated Өдрийн өмнө
Settle down folks, even Brie will get an Oscar for just being a woman. After all we've moved from everyone getting a participation trophy to giving out MVP's to the first girl kicker in college football for kicking 20yds! You go ladies!
Ant Nam
Ant Nam Өдрийн өмнө
Maybe she gets more jaded the older and life experiences she gets.
Andre Huard
Andre Huard Өдрийн өмнө
I wonder if Brie watched this breakdown and learned anything from this, or if it just made her defensive about it? Seems to be something of a trigger. Wonder if it’s partly a gender sensitivity where she’s misreading friendly banter as an attack instead of being treated like any of the other male peers? I dunno. She seems to take things the wrong way or can’t see/hear herself well enough to understand how badly she is coming across to people.
Arnie Nelson
Arnie Nelson 2 өдрийн өмнө
She maybe could use a few years in charm school. They still believe in caning bad girls.
Anthony
Anthony 2 өдрийн өмнө
Another girl fail... that's what happens when hollywood puts a girl to play Captain America! hey Hollywood.. ur pathetic!
Elon Musk
Elon Musk 2 өдрийн өмнө
It’s like she’s on the rag permanently
sealow08
sealow08 2 өдрийн өмнө
Iron Patriot looks like he's been putting up with baby cr@p all day -_-
beamie
beamie 2 өдрийн өмнө
“I’m brie larson, I HATE FUN !”
Todd Productions Presents Comic Book & Video Game
Todd Productions Presents Comic Book & Video Game 2 өдрийн өмнө
Her ego has gotten in the way and she's woke, meaning she rather put men down as she belittles us to grab attention. At least I don't put men or females down. We are all equal.
Chad
Chad 2 өдрийн өмнө
Brie is hot but annoying af- legit hit 2 quit
Tyler Darroch
Tyler Darroch 2 өдрийн өмнө
The worst part is that Chris gives her so many opportunities to correct herself and she fails to grab hold of any of them
Joseph Youll
Joseph Youll 2 өдрийн өмнө
i like this channel but as a British man sarcasm does not require a tell. Americans just don't get it.
dacawone
dacawone 2 өдрийн өмнө
Larson is a fly at a picnic. She slept her way to fame.
Zara Louis
Zara Louis 2 өдрийн өмнө
9:18 most embarrassing thing ever
Laverne Blaszczyk
Laverne Blaszczyk 2 өдрийн өмнө
Chris Pratt admits he's the worst!! Lol well that saves time
Benjamin Frizzle
Benjamin Frizzle 2 өдрийн өмнө
She isnt naive, she is purposely trying to belittle the male cast of Avengers. She knows exactly what shes doing lol...
Camille Rao
Camille Rao 2 өдрийн өмнө
Humility is good thing, regardless gender, everyone should have it.
enjoythestruggle
enjoythestruggle 2 өдрийн өмнө
You know, maybe she's just being herself and isn't worried about what people think of her so much. In the end she's getting paid anyway.
Claps D
Claps D 2 өдрийн өмнө
Larson's unlikability is art, a true talent.
Atom Smasher
Atom Smasher Өдрийн өмнө
I think that shes just gifted with an extraordinary amount of natural ability
TheViKingTW
TheViKingTW 2 өдрийн өмнө
I've gotten people to the point where if they don't outright know I'm being sarcastic, they tend to just assume it anyway. x')
Gareth Jones
Gareth Jones 2 өдрийн өмнө
Us brits are the kings of sarcasm
Donkeee
Donkeee 2 өдрийн өмнө
Russell Brand is awesome. Sarcasm is difficult for autistic people.....
AK Brahma
AK Brahma 2 өдрийн өмнө
Ok this Captain Marvel is gonna sink her career like the Titanic, because of her overextended ego and entitlement.
Bee Popp
Bee Popp 2 өдрийн өмнө
"WoMEn ArE UnLiKAblE"
Tom Beats
Tom Beats 3 өдрийн өмнө
I don’t care if people like me or not and that is the best freedom I’ve endowed myself with.
Richard Price
Richard Price 3 өдрийн өмнө
This is very insightful
Sean Chung
Sean Chung 3 өдрийн өмнө
I hope she sees this video as a self-help (and not as an attack lol) and takes the advice. Yikes! 😬
jkcazy
jkcazy 3 өдрийн өмнө
Brie Larson is just super insecure and it makes her super unlikable
Rahul
Rahul 3 өдрийн өмнө
It's painful to see how an actor can be so bad at "acting".
badasfunk
badasfunk 3 өдрийн өмнө
captain butthurt
shlups
shlups 3 өдрийн өмнө
God Damn I don’t like her.
Dwight Taylor
Dwight Taylor 3 өдрийн өмнө
I thought she was particularly out of place on between the ferns. She wasnt in character trying to be a jerk she was just unpleasant. And now this vid is in my feed confirming my suspensions
Louise
Louise 3 өдрийн өмнө
Is the girl who play super girl ?
WARD ON THE STREET
WARD ON THE STREET 4 өдрийн өмнө
If you take everything personal and serious, the problem lies within your spirit.
ERICK4431
ERICK4431 4 өдрийн өмнө
What did I learn from this video? That Brie Larson its the most unlikable person in holyweird...... 🤣🤣🤣🤣
V R
V R 4 өдрийн өмнө
Of all the examples for our human insecurities and how to avoid them, the whole video seems like a dig at Brie. I don’t even know who she is at all. But why using her for every other example. Not fair. This seems rather personal.
Tutak Tutya
Tutak Tutya 4 өдрийн өмнө
Brie Larson is unlovable
dkchen
dkchen 4 өдрийн өмнө
Basically everybody is a wingman except for Brie... not surprised.
Mav _
Mav _ 4 өдрийн өмнө
They made her god in the latest avengers movie for the “feminists”
FarCough145
FarCough145 4 өдрийн өмнө
Reminds me so much of a girl I know who is trying too hard to have the friend group like her. Hit the nail on the head with your explanations for why it turns people off.
Anonymous
Anonymous 4 өдрийн өмнө
Brie was so warm and human-like before she succumbed to the lefty/social justice/feminism/whatever mind virus. Sad, many such cases.
James Edward
James Edward 4 өдрийн өмнө
The British are simply the best at being facetious... If you're explaining, you're losing.
Ivan Hairnandez
Ivan Hairnandez 4 өдрийн өмнө
She’s annoying af
Alex Rivera
Alex Rivera 4 өдрийн өмнө
I never thought that long haired thing was ever funny hes actually verry annoying reminds me of will Farrell they just should not fk comedy 😠
Dominic RedBorrelli
Dominic RedBorrelli 4 өдрийн өмнө
that clip with Chris Pratt and Jennifer Lawrence...man i miss seeing her movies!
Whitney W
Whitney W 4 өдрийн өмнө
i think she's truly trying to be funny, but is just really bad at it
Yo' Momma
Yo' Momma 4 өдрийн өмнө
This is what happens when a privileged woman convinces herself that she's a victim, so she's constantly amped up to confront every person who, in her mind, will use every opportunity to oppress her further and conserve the patriarchy.
Adam Palm
Adam Palm 4 өдрийн өмнө
Young men and boys made up (probably still does) the primary fan base for Marvel comics and made it possible for Marvel to generate cartoons and ultimately the major feature films that we see today. For Marvel to empower Captain Marvel as a female in this manner is sickening. No wonder Stan died. RIP.
2 Crazy
2 Crazy 4 өдрийн өмнө
Thor, War Machine, and Hawkeye were all like "Yeah...yeah, whatever you say, just don't touch me."
Hayley Comet
Hayley Comet 4 өдрийн өмнө
Russell is so great, I saw him in a chiropractic office once and I said "I love you Russell" and without missing a beat he replied "I love you too, you're beautiful" and it was so nice because I'm not really beautiful but he is so kind to say that ❤️
Megsman
Megsman 4 өдрийн өмнө
I don’t get it. (Using a flat tone)
Austin Cichon
Austin Cichon 4 өдрийн өмнө
I still dislike her.
rere439
rere439 4 өдрийн өмнө
Wow, she is a good example. I honestly have same issues like her
Craig Hansen
Craig Hansen 4 өдрийн өмнө
How to not fight Step one: dont fight
Ryan Cooper
Ryan Cooper 5 өдрийн өмнө
Why do yanks find it so hard to see sarcasm without it having to be childishly exaggerated.
Mr HappyFace
Mr HappyFace 5 өдрийн өмнө
^ She needed a *_butt double_* ^
Myron Feltner, Jr.
Myron Feltner, Jr. 5 өдрийн өмнө
Yeah she’s annoying.
Graham Luke
Graham Luke 5 өдрийн өмнө
Brie's sarcasm is obvious in all of these cases.
TheRazRiot
TheRazRiot 5 өдрийн өмнө
I think this video just showed her before and after she became some kind of 3rd wave feminist symbol. In the parts from an earlier parts of her career, she was capable of banter because she wasn't seeing herself as so much of a victim of the "patriarchy", and then in the parts in her later career she is coming from a position of seeing herself as oppressed and having to fight for dominance.
Spurge123
Spurge123 5 өдрийн өмнө
Just because Americans can't catch sarcasm doesn't mean there has to be a 'tell' lmao
MadofaA
MadofaA 5 өдрийн өмнө
Little known fact: Did you know she has a brother named Camembert?
Yo L.
Yo L. 5 өдрийн өмнө
Uh uh! This is an opportunistic video. You should have hired actors to act out being rude or whatever to prove your point. I think being opportunistic like you are being is quite lacking in social graces, somewhat like you are accusing this actress of being.
Freelance opportunist
Freelance opportunist 5 өдрийн өмнө
In Australia its the opposite. Deliver a joking insult in the harshest most deadpan way possible , Never let on you were joking. EVER.
Vlad
Vlad 5 өдрийн өмнө
Does it have to be more overt for Americans because they are just not capable of catching more subtle language? makes them sound rather simple . And RAussel Brand did not interpret that prat interviewer as positive, he was taking the piss and showing scorn... maybe too subtle for you
franwex
franwex 5 өдрийн өмнө
She uses dead pan a lot, people don’t like that because she leaves it ambiguous.
Minonian
Minonian 5 өдрийн өмнө
Whom likes a cantankerous moron making a deal out of every idiocy? They are pathetic.
4R NORTHWEST
4R NORTHWEST 5 өдрийн өмнө
Wrong. This video would be better off with NOT recognizable public figures. People know the character the chick from parks and reck plays and it’s her “shtick”, people get it. We also get where you’re comin from. But there’s always a group out there right🙄... see that? See what I dideded there, I gave you a little “tell”...cute huh?😐....ok that last one wasn’t a very good “tell”....but you don’t know me so ya....how could you tell..... “ “. 👀
keiser sose
keiser sose 5 өдрийн өмнө
Captain Marvel....worst character ever.
A.F.S.
A.F.S. 5 өдрийн өмнө
It is called NARCISSISM........
T Brown
T Brown 5 өдрийн өмнө
You might add ...any ambiguity should be seen as positive
Sanford Gray
Sanford Gray 5 өдрийн өмнө
Also sarcasm is only successful if people DO NOT know you are being sarcastic.
Mottahead
Mottahead 5 өдрийн өмнө
Brie Larson pre activism is a really cool and engaging person. Activist Brie Larson ..... let me put it this way ..... not that cool nor engaging.
Mrad338
Mrad338 5 өдрийн өмнө
I think I’ll keep doing the opposite. It makes things...more interesting
Kiwi Kim
Kiwi Kim 5 өдрийн өмнө
The fact that this was so helpful makes me feel like an alien trying to learn how to be human
MoTC
MoTC 5 өдрийн өмнө
Some women ARE funny. I mean, not THIS one, but some. Yeah really, only a few women are funny. A couple of women. Okay, women aren't funny.
Louie Tovar
Louie Tovar Өдрийн өмнө
"Women aren't funny because they've never needed to be funny" - Christopher Hitchens.
Daniel Sargesson
Daniel Sargesson 5 өдрийн өмнө
You would have thought a professional actress would you know, know how to act.....
Wizeke Tha
Wizeke Tha 5 өдрийн өмнө
I never liked brie the second shee was chosen and said she never read a single comic and that she honestly didnt know who captain marvel was i was like why did you pick her if you're foing to be all pc at least pick somone who knows the role and the charicters personality
Mark Harrington
Mark Harrington 5 өдрийн өмнө
This is the problem, generally Americans need coaching in how to execute sarcasm, brits do it very naturally.
plutoburn
plutoburn 6 өдрийн өмнө
Brie was likable before she tried to ride the popularity of woke culture.
Plus Aura
Plus Aura 6 өдрийн өмнө
No matter how well you play it, in front of an “open wound” type of person,you ‘ll have your chances of being misunderstood
Tan_ Tama13
Tan_ Tama13 6 өдрийн өмнө
Idk, she's lack of using emotion when she talks. Lack of emotion or being arrogant, I don't know.
Pappa G
Pappa G 6 өдрийн өмнө
The only humour Americans have involves loud exaggerated pie in the face clowning prompted by canned laughter Subtle,dry,clever humour whistles straight over their heads.
Exposed Podcast
Exposed Podcast 6 өдрийн өмнө
Takeaway: don’t be Brie Larson
erak
erak 6 өдрийн өмнө
She is unlikeable because of her low genetic tier face
lance miller
lance miller 6 өдрийн өмнө
Insecure people are sour grapes...
lance miller
lance miller 6 өдрийн өмнө
Wow i learned more about interpersonal communication in this video than 5yrs of college.. They do not teach this critically important stuff in college but instead they unfortunately push raging feminism and identity politics
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