How To Be Confident In Any Situation

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For many men, Don Draper is the epitome of confidence. What most people don’t realize is that confidence actually comes in two flavors. There is the external confidence that you project, which can make closing deals, making friends or seducing happen more naturally. There is also the internal confidence you feel which is how comfortable you are in any given situation.
In this video, we’re going to analyze what Don can teach us about both levels of confidence, and how mastering each level can take you from being nervous to completely confident in any situation.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:41 - Lesson #1: His relaxed body language.
2:58 - Lesson #2: Don is non-reactive.
5:18 - Lesson #3: He doesn’t try to convince other people.
6:57 - Lesson #4: The belief that he will be okay, no matter what.
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Lo Soi
Lo Soi Цагийн өмнө
Aaaaaaaaaahhhhh .
addison jones
addison jones 6 цагийн өмнө
I have always struggled with social anxiety and self esteem. I used these on my family at a party with my aunts and cousins. For the first time I felt confident. I was talking and making everyone laugh with my stories and comments. As soon as I got home I started crying with relief. I hope that I can keep applying this tricks in the future. Thank you will never be enough, But thank you.
Truth Serum
Truth Serum 15 цагийн өмнө
Confidence or arrogance?
Danny Blue
Danny Blue 18 цагийн өмнө
I'm only a internal confident person
Chris Lyons
Chris Lyons Өдрийн өмнө
Don Draper is a fictitious character once played on a TV show by Jon Hamm. The people around him on the show are paid, actors. Just saying. But yes, don't be petulant in real life.
kulturfreund66
kulturfreund66 Өдрийн өмнө
Long Don Don
s n
s n Өдрийн өмнө
Those are acting tips
Hazamy Uncle
Hazamy Uncle 2 өдрийн өмнө
How to be confident: you know you gonna win
Day No
Day No 2 өдрийн өмнө
Aaaaaaaaaahhhhh .
Mohamed Osman Abdalla
Mohamed Osman Abdalla 3 өдрийн өмнө
thank you
Micheal Sunday
Micheal Sunday 4 өдрийн өмнө
Bitcoin is the most profitable investment online if only you trade with a professional broker
n v20
n v20 6 цагийн өмнө
You f*cken bots gtfo
Chife Daddy
Chife Daddy 4 өдрийн өмнө
@Micheal Sunday That’s more reason you should reach to him and get more insight yourself
Micheal Sunday
Micheal Sunday 4 өдрийн өмнө
@Roseline Frank I’m newbie and I want to get good insight before getting the decision to invest with him I really love his reviews
Roseline Frank
Roseline Frank 4 өдрийн өмнө
Can I start with $700 with him I don’t have much funds
Micheal Sunday
Micheal Sunday 4 өдрийн өмнө
@Emilia Smith Does he offered mentorship or tutorials or he does the trade alone
Erg Noor
Erg Noor 4 өдрийн өмнө
No way to fake your confidence. To get one - letting all go is the key.
ChrisBrizzy
ChrisBrizzy 4 өдрийн өмнө
Im always confident in any situation.
Sam Monte
Sam Monte 4 өдрийн өмнө
You’re “teaching” ppl about confidence based on a fictional character? Lol, you need help son.
uv.vibes
uv.vibes 5 өдрийн өмнө
I want be confident but not at the expense of someone else’s I want them to be comfortable too...
bongdog420
bongdog420 5 өдрийн өмнө
so basically you are telling me everything i thought was cool yesterday with my crush was not cool.
Milfcraft
Milfcraft 5 өдрийн өмнө
9:56
Shan Sharief
Shan Sharief 5 өдрийн өмнө
This man's face has Superman written all over him. It's a shame the so called experts failed to recognize it.
Samuel Brehane
Samuel Brehane 5 өдрийн өмнө
let me tell you something cause they forget most important point in confidence that is RESULT , you can fake it till you make it but you have to make it to get the real confidence mean you need result(success) without it your confidence gone crush at some point . How we get result by personal improvement then taking risk . That why charismatic people are successful in business , they got result from women that make them build confidence , sometime vise versa also work .
Steve RetiredandCranky
Steve RetiredandCranky 6 өдрийн өмнө
Tell the truth. The LIE is the beginning of all problems.
Diana Collins
Diana Collins 7 өдрийн өмнө
Confidence is literally a mindset that you can force.
IURII MIRIANOV
IURII MIRIANOV 7 өдрийн өмнө
In real LIFE this staff don't work
Ralph Bernhard
Ralph Bernhard 7 өдрийн өмнө
I am confident in *any* situation. Titanic sinks... "Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh...WHERE IS MY LIFEBOAT?!??!"
thedead thorn
thedead thorn 8 өдрийн өмнө
Hah yepers I have my confidence and I have my ego confidence
devon lloyd
devon lloyd 9 өдрийн өмнө
if you are watching a video on how to be confident you'll never be confident, sorry lmao
Salamander Man
Salamander Man 8 өдрийн өмнө
I feel very confident becuz i’m dead inside
FBI
FBI 8 өдрийн өмнө
Why?
Aubatron
Aubatron 9 өдрийн өмнө
Don is who I see most men trying to be. Fake superficial confidence, just trying to hold it all together without snapping. Super unhealthy to be honest. Confidence is not faked, confidence is built.
FBI
FBI 8 өдрийн өмнө
Shut up, SJW...
Chidi Mbanisi
Chidi Mbanisi 9 өдрийн өмнө
This should have ABSOLUTELY had a spoiler alert, for those of us who have always had it on our watchlists! Not good.
Christian Mendoza Tapia
Christian Mendoza Tapia 9 өдрийн өмнө
Didn't dom steal someone's identity? I never saw the show but I remember hearing that.
arijit das
arijit das 9 өдрийн өмнө
If one really wants to make educational and inspirational videos for men, guys, and boys on "HOW TO BE A CONFIDENT MAN", then it's better to make a video centering on someone who is not a good-looking man, but an average or below-average looking man.
First Last
First Last 10 өдрийн өмнө
I never feel my feelings and no body can make me! *runs off screaming*
Adam R
Adam R 11 өдрийн өмнө
Don is also an actor
Scorp
Scorp 11 өдрийн өмнө
here is an idea to get the viewers to watch on being more confident. . . . . . pick one that is not a freight train of visible carbon emissions, because second hand smoke kills faster than one that smokes.
Ed Col
Ed Col 11 өдрийн өмнө
it helps to be hot
eleyequien
eleyequien 11 өдрийн өмнө
but are you conscient that it is a TV show?
Ronald Olzheim
Ronald Olzheim 12 өдрийн өмнө
Wished my zoom class was like this.
Svyatoslav Petrenko
Svyatoslav Petrenko 12 өдрийн өмнө
Confidence is a choice.
hudnakdjlsajl
hudnakdjlsajl 12 өдрийн өмнө
no matter what , you will be okay
Emily131004 Perez
Emily131004 Perez 12 өдрийн өмнө
the fact that I already did this without even noticing just by habit , means my dad really taught me well lol my dad is exactly like this it’s no wonder how he’s gotten everything he wanted
jontron911
jontron911 7 өдрийн өмнө
Lucky
Adhd Andy
Adhd Andy 12 өдрийн өмнө
As someone with adhd how would you go about this, I have an driving urge to finish peoples sentences, to fidget, to be very reactive to external stimuli
vyseerx
vyseerx 12 өдрийн өмнө
A person knows whether or not he CAN or can not given a task. A resident Physician ( who is in training) is unsure of his capability owing to his limited experience, where as a MD with 10 years experience knows that he CAN do it , hands down. Confidence begins in mind . IF one is not confident, there is no point faking it. That usually brings more trouble. Instead work on yourself , look with in , introspect, and keep working hard at it until you master it. The moment you know that you can do it, do a really a good job, you will be confident, and your body language also shows it, after all body language is natural, analysis of body language is what some one needs to learn. To wear good clothes, nice perfume, expensive shoes all would make others nervous- but do not make you confident. Confidence is a by product- work on yourself - Confidence happens. IMHO
Nirux
Nirux 12 өдрийн өмнө
i have a lot of external confidence but less internal
Pancu Mihai
Pancu Mihai 13 өдрийн өмнө
Fact: You don’t get more confident by watching videos about how to be confident .
Bob Brown
Bob Brown Өдрийн өмнө
Not entirely true, in my case it makes me more aware in social situations and i can hear tips i pick up in these videos subconsciously as little reminders. I think watching videos like this on a regular gets you to make connections in your head so youre better prepared in the real world
Doodle Noodle
Doodle Noodle 9 өдрийн өмнө
I'm sure it helps for some people. It's like the first step before you apply that stuff in your behavior over time. You also don't get smarter from books if you don't think about what you're reading and why.
Piotr M
Piotr M 13 өдрийн өмнө
lol didnt watch but im naturally 100% like this. Feels like a vid analysis of my behaviour.
Ryleigh Rain
Ryleigh Rain 14 өдрийн өмнө
Thank You
Jason Li
Jason Li 14 өдрийн өмнө
When you do these in front of your boss, you will be fired in a week.
Bobby Steiner
Bobby Steiner 14 өдрийн өмнө
i don’t understand why so many people look to Don Draper’s character as a role model. Anyone who watched the show knows he is the last person anyone should strive to be like.
FBI
FBI 8 өдрийн өмнө
Why, SJW?
News From The Can
News From The Can 14 өдрийн өмнө
I keep seeing these videos and the worst thing in the world to have in your life is an overconfident moron.
Viktor Stepanenco
Viktor Stepanenco 15 өдрийн өмнө
at 4:35 there was no pitch from Don to Lucky Strike
M o
M o 15 өдрийн өмнө
top video
Nsitseo
Nsitseo 17 өдрийн өмнө
I followed these rules Now i'm Super Seducer
Chestii Tari
Chestii Tari 17 өдрийн өмнө
this is a movie, he is an actor, the other people are actors, is not a real life situation. The actor just projects what is in the script and what the director thinks it should look like. Like Mike Tyson said: everybody has a plan until they get punched . So the environment reactions is a big factor. So stop faking and acting, If you are Mike Tyson or Don Draper you have something real to be confident of and you will act upon it
Hit It or Quit It
Hit It or Quit It 11 өдрийн өмнө
Yeah and occasionally a movie gets something right. You've got to learn the game because OTHERS are that way.
s s
s s 16 өдрийн өмнө
Agreed.
Victor Lima
Victor Lima 17 өдрийн өмнө
Also because he's a fictional character and a team of writers and directors wrote his behaviour. That's not what happens in real life.
FBI
FBI 8 өдрийн өмнө
Shut the hell up, SJW.
Scott Summers
Scott Summers 17 өдрийн өмнө
One of the many problems our society has is that we ALL keep acting as if our biology doesn't affect us or that we're ALL some how above it. I do believe it's our job to RISE above it but it does need to be dealt with as well. You want to be confident in any situation... 1.) lift weights (male or female) 2.) learn martial arts (male or female) 3.) watch stand up comedians and learn how to tell jokes or just steal theirs until you learn your own. 4.) or you can forget the first 3 and just learn how to make a crap ton of money
Alec Rioux
Alec Rioux 18 өдрийн өмнө
“Would you like your receipt?” *20 second pause “no.-I-I mean yes”
ruari c
ruari c 18 өдрийн өмнө
Don Draper is the epitome of douchebag. Not someone I want to model myself after
Josefina Lopez
Josefina Lopez 18 өдрийн өмнө
2:24 Don: My name is Don Girl: inserts tongue in mouth
Mamba Divine
Mamba Divine 18 өдрийн өмнө
so Kamaru usman learned to fight in 30% from this video
tranquility321
tranquility321 19 өдрийн өмнө
Making a video on an actor playing a role?? Why not break down this guys acting abilities rather than trying to analyse a fictional character thats being played by an actor and why how/why he's confident. Maybe this same channel/guy has made a video on how to be a serial killer with Hannibal Lecter as an example!! Thumbs down for this rubbish.
Azriel David
Azriel David 19 өдрийн өмнө
But then culture entered the chat.
Mihai Ioan Tabacaru
Mihai Ioan Tabacaru 19 өдрийн өмнө
"My name is Don" what a great pickup line, I'll definitely use it!
Zed
Zed 19 өдрийн өмнө
Thinks: Bond. James Bond. Gets: Binks. Jar Jar Binks.
JP Schwieterman
JP Schwieterman 20 өдрийн өмнө
Reality check: Movies are fake and give you fake confidence with a fake personal are real man can smell a mile away. When you face death and win, when you lose everything and come back in tact... then you come back and tell me how to stand; then you come back and tell me what confidence is so I can have a chuckle. Charisma on Command is fake news and doesn't occur due to watching movies. It occurs due being pushed to the edge and coming back with fire for the clan something most 20 something know nothing about...
Tadas Jancys
Tadas Jancys 20 өдрийн өмнө
Be dum))
h5mind
h5mind 20 өдрийн өмнө
One word of advice: none of this means it's OK to become a sociopath. We already have too many of those running around.
Deepto Bhattacharya
Deepto Bhattacharya 20 өдрийн өмнө
So one sec - Don Draper is the ancestor of harvey specter?
Vod Jak
Vod Jak 21 өдрийн өмнө
I exercise my confidence, so I won’t even comment on this. It’s not worthy it.
Lucas Silva
Lucas Silva 21 өдрийн өмнө
just think that in the end we are all going to be dead
Prospro8
Prospro8 21 өдрийн өмнө
Where has the world gone, that a fictitious character is analysed for body language! ? This says everything about the charade personas that we are being asked to adopt. Don doesn't even exist, and we're analysing him! Performers apeing performances! How is that remotely scientific?
thanhijarvi
thanhijarvi 21 өдрийн өмнө
Don's secret weapon: whiskey
Cobrax
Cobrax 21 өдрийн өмнө
Believe me, you don’t wanna be like Don! He looks really dislikable and not chill at all. No clue why you would pick him as an example, he doesn’t make other people feel good, he just looks like an unhappy, stiff and arrogant person in these videos.
Ryan Zone
Ryan Zone 22 өдрийн өмнө
WOW! THIS WAS A REALY, REALY TRUE AND INTERESTING, "HOW TO VIDEO".
Sajan Shrestha
Sajan Shrestha 22 өдрийн өмнө
What's the movie name being shown in the video?
Squirrel
Squirrel 23 өдрийн өмнө
this is truth i live by this !
MORR MILLI
MORR MILLI 23 өдрийн өмнө
this is giving me a lot of 48 laws of power vibes
Marius Stefanescu
Marius Stefanescu 23 өдрийн өмнө
lol, talking about confidence and giving examples from a tv show
WhaT Video
WhaT Video 23 өдрийн өмнө
Why do they think everyone is watching this TV show? I'm already halfway and I haven't figured out who the hell Don Draper is
TheLeadersTeacher
TheLeadersTeacher 23 өдрийн өмнө
Don I am Not Don
PG
PG 23 өдрийн өмнө
Does this work for someone like me who's 5 foot 6
qwerty asdfg
qwerty asdfg 24 өдрийн өмнө
you think this dude is confident ? you havent met Hank Moody.
Claudiu Paul
Claudiu Paul 24 өдрийн өмнө
jesus... i did all Don did in the video in a recent "episode" i had before watching this video ,i've gone through all the stages even told some people some truth's that should had literally killed because of the shame,and only after this step,u truly begin to feel like whatever happens....happens,and it's gonna be ok.
secrekt
secrekt 24 өдрийн өмнө
So basically accepting oneself is the very key factor on being confident, kinda mind blowing that it also goes around by the famous saying "once you start believing in yourself, anything is possible".
Affirm Nation
Affirm Nation 25 өдрийн өмнө
he would have been a great Clark Kent
Kyle Cary
Kyle Cary 25 өдрийн өмнө
high hopes panic at the disco
J. A
J. A 25 өдрийн өмнө
that's not possible, just accept it and you'll be at peace with who you are. peace of mind is more important than charisma
phil nightjar
phil nightjar 26 өдрийн өмнө
How to be confident in any situation: Don’t be broke.
EHAZEE
EHAZEE 2 өдрийн өмнө
Good looking is number 1
X2 JoelMK 33
X2 JoelMK 33 13 өдрийн өмнө
Don’t forget to be also good looking
Mista 808
Mista 808 26 өдрийн өмнө
You do understand this is a character in a TV series right? 🤣
Bravozulu
Bravozulu 27 өдрийн өмнө
I have come to believe that I have absolutely nothing in common with this man...
Milk of the Dragon
Milk of the Dragon 27 өдрийн өмнө
Who the heck is Don and why should I know him?
Dr. Jon Tam - Career Clarity Coach
Dr. Jon Tam - Career Clarity Coach 27 өдрийн өмнө
0:16 Two types of confidence: External and Internal 0:43 1: Relaxed body language 3:03 2: Be non-reactive 5:24 3: Don’t try to convince people 7:04 4: Believe that you will always be ok
Guanzheng Wu
Guanzheng Wu 27 өдрийн өмнө
When you think you are don draper but really you are just Michael Scott
God God
God God 28 өдрийн өмнө
Totally worth to watch this video❤️❤️
Marius Norheim
Marius Norheim 28 өдрийн өмнө
this kind of malarkey is exactly why psychology will always be the weird uncle of science
EDUCATION THROUGH SPORT
EDUCATION THROUGH SPORT 28 өдрийн өмнө
One of the best movies 🤭
kim Jong-unsub
kim Jong-unsub 28 өдрийн өмнө
too bad this world values confidence over competence
FBI
FBI 8 өдрийн өмнө
What do you mean, Korean?
Andre Adler
Andre Adler 28 өдрийн өмнө
In our society most people won't let you have that pauses. They interrupt and they don't let you think. I do this often myself because everything needs to be clarified/done so fast.
Chris Hatcher
Chris Hatcher 28 өдрийн өмнө
I live for myself and I answer to no one. - Lightning McQueen
Campbell Harris
Campbell Harris 29 өдрийн өмнө
You're explaining this to a person who's had to go through their final year of school in 2020
owisii
owisii 29 өдрийн өмнө
When i try to act confident it usually backfires and i become more stiff.
k den
k den 29 өдрийн өмнө
The 30% rule is what they told me
MFaraji
MFaraji 29 өдрийн өмнө
None of this will work if you're ugly
123Bosniak
123Bosniak 29 өдрийн өмнө
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