5 Common Habits That Make You Mentally Weak

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A sad irony of the Joker is that it’s only after his descent into madness that Arthur appears happy and confident
But of course turning on the world isn’t the only way to feel mentally strong, and that’s why in this video I want to use Arthur’s story to talk about 5 habits that kill your mental fortitude & confidence and what you can do instead to build mental toughness.


0:40 - #1: Arthur often engages in fantasy.
1:57 - #2: Arthur lacks self efficacy.
4:23 - #3: Arthur has no outlet where he can honestly express his emotions.
5:46 - #4: Arthur inadvertently disowns aspects of himself.
7:04 - #5: Everything we have discussed results in Arthur’s total hatred of the world.

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Andrew Powell
Andrew Powell 2 өдрийн өмнө
Arthur needs Jordan Peterson.
I have no outlet
Manol Popov
Manol Popov 3 өдрийн өмнө
I hate people, and even more the world. My wet dream is a world war 3
RM Hang
RM Hang 3 өдрийн өмнө
the movie is banned in China.
John Warlock
John Warlock 5 өдрийн өмнө
I am in final stage of joker Kill everyone
Sanford Gray
Sanford Gray 5 өдрийн өмнө
The "negative spirals" are addictive, yes, but they are not to make you feel frustrated and weak. They are there to make you feel powerful and strong even if they don't succeed, by justifying your actions and feelings if only to yourself.
Sanford Gray
Sanford Gray 5 өдрийн өмнө
The so-called "argument" that things are "unfair", just like the so-called "argument" that you are "uncomfortable" are the arguments of a child. Anyone over the age of ten who says "That's unfair" I cannot and do not take seriously. Nor should anyone else.
Sanford Gray
Sanford Gray 5 өдрийн өмнө
She didn't know he'd committed a triple homicide.
Mister Mind KE
Mister Mind KE 6 өдрийн өмнө
Funny thing is, my girl is in my imagination... I'm about to make some changes about that thanks to this video. I don't want to end up as a psychopath, and I know what I must do now, thankfully. I'm grateful for this video, and I hope this channel continues to put out insightful and helpful content like this. God bless you.
DenshaOtoko2 6 өдрийн өмнө
I overcame death.
DenshaOtoko2 6 өдрийн өмнө
When I stand up for myself. The bullies destroy every aspect of my reputation and social life. Death.
Ilya Barsamov
Ilya Barsamov 7 өдрийн өмнө
This video be hitting different
Marc Guima
Marc Guima 7 өдрийн өмнө
Unfortunately, 99% of our society thinks like Arthur and have no clue on how the world and life works anymore. We have four generations of useless people.
Timi Haze
Timi Haze 7 өдрийн өмнө
This channel has so much good advice
Jon Wong
Jon Wong 7 өдрийн өмнө
Just realised I fit all 5 description, should I be worried? hahaha.
Olli Kärkkäinen
Olli Kärkkäinen 7 өдрийн өмнө
Even hes face painiting starts to go schizophrenia
stevenstrumpf7 8 өдрийн өмнө
1. Maladaptive daydreaming. Guilty 2. Practice makes progress to a point probably. americanism actually is false 3.this one is everyone else's fault. True 4. Society requires you to do this one to perform I find screaming really loudly while walking down the road alone helps with this one 5. And where do you think hatred of the world comes from huh? It doesn't get better unless you're pretty~ it doesn't get better unless you've got money~
Gibran Saliba
Gibran Saliba 8 өдрийн өмнө
This is why you cant let mentally challenged people raise kids
aaron R
aaron R 9 өдрийн өмнө
The only battle you need to face is the inner and outer man. Do some research on this. You will become who you want to be once you realize the power it has over you. God bless.
Lee Rios
Lee Rios 9 өдрийн өмнө
My biggest problem is gaslighting myself I talk myself out of things before I even do them
LM 10 өдрийн өмнө
This crap is so sick I can’t even watch to the middle of it...
HomoTriSapien 10 өдрийн өмнө
My charisma: - Stop acting for eyes watching you! - Be weak when feeling weak - Examin laughter of others for what it is, and not let your emotion depend on it
Aether Oracle
Aether Oracle 11 өдрийн өмнө
My shadow was destroying me until I started steps to better myself.
Allan Landsborough
Allan Landsborough 14 өдрийн өмнө
I still take much more inspiration from Joker than I do from you. I feel you've missed the point and actually have nothing to say to the disaffected.
安安 15 өдрийн өмнө
Arthur is a loser and a murderer. I just can’t fathom why people like this character.
Sabber Ahmed
Sabber Ahmed 16 өдрийн өмнө
Please don't add Conor McGregor in your videos.
azspotfree 17 өдрийн өмнө
I thought I was mentally sound until I watched this, now I realize I'm worthless
Jeramfel Cordero
Jeramfel Cordero 18 өдрийн өмнө
It does not help to show examples like McGregor or the Avengers team. I often think on this when the example of David Goggins or Elon Musk are presented. If the only examples of success are the pinnacle success then it means everyone else is just another looser in comparison. If the guys who comes in 2nd or below that are treated like dirt why the hell even compete. Enjoy your shiny trophies, all the money and girls you like. I will enjoy my fantasies because that is all I have in a world where anything I could ever do wont amount to a pile of beans. Hows that for a shadow self?
Real Engine
Real Engine 19 өдрийн өмнө
If Charlie Houpert was Arthur's therapist, we wouldn't have gotten such an amazing movie.
Epicurus _
Epicurus _ 19 өдрийн өмнө
Mcgregor legend 🇮🇪 🇮🇪
YaBoiJoshy99k 20 өдрийн өмнө
2008 joker movie is Beter he stilt wanted Batman to Beat him up
no talent
no talent 20 өдрийн өмнө
Yo,im watching this on friday 13 and there are 666 dislikes,holy macaronies.
john mccart
john mccart 21 өдрийн өмнө
You disturb me!
Vantum Noir
Vantum Noir 21 өдрийн өмнө
This was amazing....and made me like Heath Ledgers Joker even more
Nyarlathotep13 Nyarlathotep13
Nyarlathotep13 Nyarlathotep13 23 өдрийн өмнө
number 3 was very validating in a way; I play music and paint, and sometimes I think about painting deliberately violent, dark, disturbing images based on sketches I make when frustrated and stressed. I used to think these were unhealthy sketches, I always kept them hidden. Im going to go for it now, and paint some pictures I feel I need to paint, I paint other things, nicer things, more positive things. But if I ONLY paint those things, its somehow incomplete, and I know I'm not saying everything I feel compelled to say.
shuhei m
shuhei m 24 өдрийн өмнө
if your happy with yourself, that's enough. people will always either hate or be jealous, what are you gonna do?
Radix Reuel
Radix Reuel 24 өдрийн өмнө
Entitled MILLENNIALS. They love the the show but not the work it takes to be in it so. There sad, hollow motto, REAL POWER IS TAKEN, NOT EARNED.....my pain is so esoteric & harder than everyone elses 🤫
GENESIS420 27 өдрийн өмнө
its a fictional character dildo
Mark Fennell
Mark Fennell 27 өдрийн өмнө
I’m not even gonna watch the rest of this video. If you using a fictional character as an example especially one as deranged as the joker then there’s nothing we could possibly learn from this video
Taim Moor
Taim Moor 27 өдрийн өмнө
5 habits that make you mentally strong - KHABIB VIDEO COMING SOON
James Baker
James Baker 27 өдрийн өмнө
Masterbation is a big one also
Renato Britto Araujo
Renato Britto Araujo 28 өдрийн өмнө
for all the brazilians out there 9:29
Kelvin Givens
Kelvin Givens 29 өдрийн өмнө
Pro tip drink fuckin water on god I swear your life will improve.
It'sLegit Сарын өмнө
I think I needed to hear this
WotS Wung?
WotS Wung? Сарын өмнө
Arthur got high expectation on girls and doesn't care on attitude. But if the show is real. That means Arthur is Smart or just very lucky. Why would their family be rich.
Marissa Bones
Marissa Bones Сарын өмнө
Surviving is the hardest thing
Brendan McPike
Brendan McPike Сарын өмнө
I love step one
Jim Hook
Jim Hook Сарын өмнө
I’m more like William Defoe, in Spider-Man, especially the bit where auntie slaps his hand after he dips his finger in the pie.
Tom-Wow Сарын өмнө
Charisma tip: Don’t kill people on live television
flower_ girl
flower_ girl Сарын өмнө
Is CU free? (Chrisma university?)
Trumpet Сарын өмнө
Issy B. On Air
Issy B. On Air Сарын өмнө
MNpost keeps shoving TikTok down my throat.
Kris Oller
Kris Oller Сарын өмнө
1. I think I might be in the minority. I hated this movie. I thought it was awful. 2. I don't think anything we saw actually happened. I think he was in the psychiatric hospital the whole time.
aleksandra kettner
aleksandra kettner Сарын өмнө
I agree
Jamal Netflix
Jamal Netflix Сарын өмнө
I feel like it takes away from the videos by putting the fill in the blank answers in the beginning
Romilda Pearl
Romilda Pearl Сарын өмнө
Oh no why is his ribs like that-
Fatelvis2 Сарын өмнө
what makes me sad about hits this is the third one he has no place to express himself there are times I have looked for professional help and it was a dismal failure For example one day I used the expression 'if you lay down with dogs you are going to get fleas' I just used it as a general statement to say I need to watch out who I associate with counselor jumped in with 'or doggie kisses because of your experiences you see flea I see doggie kisses" wow really dude someone I knew growing up lured a guy to a secluded spot and killed him so no I will stay with hmm maybe I shouldn't associate with these people
somepigsneverlearn Сарын өмнө
I think the reason this movie pissed so many people off is because they saw themselves in Arthur. They didn't like what they saw, interpreted it as a threat and lashed out.
Aware Wolf
Aware Wolf Сарын өмнө
i stop doing drugs now i have confidence....but im depressed
Taha El Haj
Taha El Haj Сарын өмнө
Never knew what intigrating the shadow means until this video.... thnx
Moozy San
Moozy San Сарын өмнө
This movie made me break my spree of not watching movies for years... Also the night i watched it i was loking for another joker film, but stumbled on this instead, read the description and boom! I watched One of the best movies ever made ❤️
Quinlan Plukas
Quinlan Plukas Сарын өмнө
Thank you young Peterson
Bryan Foerster
Bryan Foerster Сарын өмнө
While your program looks good, it looks good at $99.00 not 5x $99. :(
Antony Drossos
Antony Drossos Сарын өмнө
I like your use of Jungian Psychology here.
Balkis Hassan
Balkis Hassan Сарын өмнө
And things on the bed …Read more
Balkis Hassan
Balkis Hassan Сарын өмнө
7. Don’t do drugs bullying or killing and don’t put your mother clothes and bed sheet on the floor
Anon Ymous
Anon Ymous Сарын өмнө
Just as a note, you can view things from someone else's perspective and still see that they're acting selfishly. Arthur's coworker lied about the gun to save his own job, but still did so at Arthur's expense. Just because you're called to empathize with why someone's doing doesn't mean you necessarily have to respect that reason. You don't have to conclude that when a mugger is stealing your money and threatening your life that it's because they're just trying to survive and that it's ok. What they're doing is still very much not ok.
Michael Price
Michael Price 2 сарын өмнө
Everyone should have helped Arthur, especially Arthur.
Ryan Mercando
Ryan Mercando 2 сарын өмнө
Gary Smith
Gary Smith 2 сарын өмнө
This movie looks slightly more pleasant than than running my knuckles over a cheese grater.
Rob1Percent 2 сарын өмнө
About the part where you mentioned standing up for oneself. I can definitely attest to it seeing that i was pushed around constantly as a kid, late teens, and early 20s.
Your Manz
Your Manz 2 сарын өмнө
Man you have no idea how much I needed this right now, I’ve been fantasizing about my dream more than actually applying myself towards it. Thank you for this video bro 🙏🏽
PAIMON VS THE WORLD 2 сарын өмнө
You know what I hate more than laughing uncontrollably... liberals
Dean Abele
Dean Abele 2 сарын өмнө
I think this stuff is true. But I feel like it doesn't capture the point of the film. Which is that his mother's abuse and socioeconomic circumstances explain his outcome. This video feels quite victim blamey
Eigo Kanis
Eigo Kanis 2 сарын өмнө
Oh my god, did, Did u just save me from being a psycho?
Jaspreet Singh
Jaspreet Singh 2 сарын өмнө
this video saved my mind. love you you guys for the work you do .
Jay Jarvis
Jay Jarvis 3 сарын өмнө
Absolutely love this video. Great points!
George Turner
George Turner 3 сарын өмнө
I didn't think Arthur's mother was "disturbed."
Purple Raider
Purple Raider 3 сарын өмнө
It scares me that I have some of these habits
Dumb Onion
Dumb Onion 3 сарын өмнө
i have all of them, i honestly have felt this way all my life, i want to start a yt sometimes just so i can have an outlet. good to know that someone can relate
Talent 3 сарын өмнө
Mcgregor is On Another level of character.
Daniel Williamson
Daniel Williamson 3 сарын өмнө
I have Asperger Syndrome and at times it makes me feel like I am going mad.
Rasmus Rågstad
Rasmus Rågstad 3 сарын өмнө
It's up to each and everyone of us to stop living in our own shadows and enbrace the opportunites of life!
Juanita Balanza
Juanita Balanza 3 сарын өмнө
ohoh. I have the Joker personality and it is not good, people romanticize it but it is not good.
Trevor Page
Trevor Page 3 сарын өмнө
Everybody wants to be a teacher...
Raheam X
Raheam X 4 сарын өмнө
Remember the old meme of growing up wanting to be Batman, but find yourself as the Joker...?😕 I sure as hell can.
Alexis Varacolacci
Alexis Varacolacci 4 сарын өмнө
You get what you fuckin deserve!
Mr. Corakyhlopsopussy
Mr. Corakyhlopsopussy 4 сарын өмнө
6:47 he flicks his tongue out, which reminds me of Heath Ledger. If that was a tribute, it was a damn good one.
Saint Denis
Saint Denis 4 сарын өмнө
Some kill animals to release this inner turmoil is it bad
Robin F
Robin F 4 сарын өмнө
Have any of you tried the university course? If so, did it help?
Robert Green
Robert Green 4 сарын өмнө
You should do a video on the friendship between Eddie Brock and venom. Mostly from the movie but also just the characters.
Kallus Garnet
Kallus Garnet 4 сарын өмнө
You can't be confident if you don't look confident aka decient looking and that cost money
Alex Smith
Alex Smith 4 сарын өмнө
I definitely relate to the point about Arthur not being able to feel he can take steps to changing his life and is always waiting for something big to happen in order feel he can move forward. For me, I feel so jaded and hate myself because of my constant mistakes caused due to behaviours or lack of awareness because of my disability. I'm so full of habits that really die hard and feel there is no point in trying to change because nothing good will ever come my way if I do. People will always use your past against you whenever they notice the slightest bit of change i.e. in behaviour or lifestyle. After the life I've had whenever I get to any success point I immediately feel I don't deserve to be in that position because I knew what it is was like when I first began, and I hate it when people notice it. I've never had a girlfriend in my 27 years on this earth and feel I may as well flush all hope of it happening down the toilet. Late 30s/early 40s is really late to have the first ever romantic relationship in your life. I guess it would always be tough for me because I feel I have to do everything another way or the most difficult way.
the mandalorian
the mandalorian 4 сарын өмнө
I can relate to the joker and the hulk on a level that disturbs me.
Edubbplate 4 сарын өмнө
This was good take on the Joker that I hadn't heard.
Edubbplate 4 сарын өмнө
That wasn't homicide. It was self defense. At least the first two guys were.
Moldy Carrot
Moldy Carrot 4 сарын өмнө
You're actually quite insightful man.
Alpha Notmale
Alpha Notmale 5 сарын өмнө
Oh my goodness! As you described some of Arthur’s emotional weaknesses I saw myself described in them!!!! 😰😰😰 this is scary!!!! Holy cow!
Ohsosaucy 5 сарын өмнө
5:06 I can't seem to find a healthy outlet for myself like i play the drums but I cannot seem to play well with a metronome or clicker so when it comes time to perform i often freak out which make me feel incompetent and adds more to the stress I was trying to alleviate. Then comes in the Visualization vs fantasizing part, when it comes to the work, I just don't enjoy it so I feel stuck like crazy
Black Hammer
Black Hammer 4 сарын өмнө
You'll never learn to play well without a metronome unless you first learn to play badly without a metronome. I'm not good at playing the piano, and it's a different instrument anyway, but one thing my tutor taught me was that you use a metronome not to learn to play a piece, but to perfect playing the piece. It's a polishing tool, not a crutch. Don't know if that applies to the drums, though.
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