5 Common Phrases You Should NEVER Say While Flirting

  Үзсэн тоо 821,169

Charisma on Command

Жилийн өмнө

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations:
www.simplehabit.com/confidence
Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s MNpost Account:
bit.ly/COC-Subscribe

There are no classes in school that teach you how to flirt, and unfortunately what that means is that when you go out into the world to do it, sometimes some weird things can escape your mouth.
Which is why in this video, I will be giving you five things that you should NEVER say when flirting, as well as some things that you can say instead.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:16 - Phrase #1: “That person is…”
1:19 - Phrase #2: “That’s amazing!”
2:41 - Phrase #3: “Do you want to go out sometime?”
3:37 - Phrase #4: “Can I get your number?”
4:34 - Phrase #5: “You would look better if you…”
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
#HowToFlirt #CharismaOnCommand #Dating
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Connect With Us Further:
Website: www.charismaoncommand.com
Facebook: charismaoncommand
Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):
Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Music:
"Willing To Try" by Jay Man - OurMusicBox
www.ourmusicbox.com/willingtotry

Сэтгэгдлүүд
Derry
Derry 6 өдрийн өмнө
Is he talking about promiscuous women as the first one?
Elise Langer
Elise Langer 16 өдрийн өмнө
A person with an open sexuality often has a hard time dating without feeding the insecurities of the person they're interested in and being able to open and confident and expressive of they're individuality without making others insecure . Any tips ?
Tim Tim
Tim Tim 28 өдрийн өмнө
What about if you ask for their 'pager'? 📟
Michael Schutz
Michael Schutz 29 өдрийн өмнө
Sarcasm is terrible advice! It's not easy to hit that perfect playful, complimentary tone. You're much more likely to alienate that person. In the case where you find yourself repeating "That's amazing!", a better approach is to ask follow-up questions. Show that you're interested and actively listening.
Caleb Hamilton
Caleb Hamilton Сарын өмнө
Whats the s word
David Duncan
David Duncan Сарын өмнө
Telling a girl she would look better if she smiles comes off narrastic.
Bob
Bob Сарын өмнө
If she likes you she does and if she doesn't then she doesn't. It's not rocket science. When you walk on eggshells the type of women you'll attract will be the ones who will use you for a free meal.
Frost D.H
Frost D.H Сарын өмнө
WTF is the S word?
Mario Suarez
Mario Suarez Сарын өмнө
Okay but why is hia mouth so big?
The Gamersaures
The Gamersaures Сарын өмнө
Heyyyy *wink* I'm single but ready to mingle!
Rodney Hill
Rodney Hill 2 сарын өмнө
All I do is say I got light up sketchers and she waterfalls
Youknow Gahsigh
Youknow Gahsigh 2 сарын өмнө
Wait, whats the S-word?
Klemen
Klemen 2 сарын өмнө
This dude has huge mouths
Mandy Young
Mandy Young 2 сарын өмнө
Whenever I use tips from videos like this I feel like I'm acting out a show for the other person
Mortophobe:Gaming
Mortophobe:Gaming 2 сарын өмнө
about #5: in the 1st year i was with my gf, she asked me "what do you think would look better about my body if it were different?" So i thought long and hard to come up with something i cared absolutely nothing about. However she did cry a lot after hearing i didn't like the way her labia stuck out of her outer lips. Despite talking about it and working it out, even used it as one of her arguments why we shouldnt be together anymore 5 years later. People really do keep their emotional associations once they're set, guys!
The Ark-Ham Sandwich
The Ark-Ham Sandwich 2 сарын өмнө
what about "you'd be a lot prettier if you took your COVID mask off"
Antonio Guerrero
Antonio Guerrero 2 сарын өмнө
People who are amazed by simple things make me wonder. "How's your burger?" "This burger is amazing!" Really? You're amazed by a burger??
Seham Fadul
Seham Fadul 2 сарын өмнө
You're smile is the definition of beaty
Mimo Mamamo
Mimo Mamamo 3 сарын өмнө
Is it wrong to ask “can i slide into your dms?”
Ifthaker
Ifthaker 3 сарын өмнө
What';s the best way to ask "Do you have AIDS?"
Geoffrey Tester
Geoffrey Tester 3 сарын өмнө
1. If you’ve shown your intent at at the beginning of the interactions at then shoulder be seen as creepy because your not hiding anything 2. The screen shot of this video says don’t says “what your number “, then tells you to say it when you’ve made plans 3 . We add msg people on social media how’s that any different than a phone number But hey what do I know lol
Dylan Golden
Dylan Golden 3 сарын өмнө
How about instead of superfluous compliments, a little curiosity? Ask questions. The weirdest thing to me when chatting with people is I'm asking about them and their world and they don't respond with questions back. Curiosity is king. If you aren't curious, I'm going to stop being interested pretty quick!
BrayjsAnimation
BrayjsAnimation 3 сарын өмнө
"hey i lost my number, can I get yours?" "what?" "Hi i dont think we've met, I'm Charlie." "what?" "Do you speak English?"
BlaQ
BlaQ 4 сарын өмнө
Wait, what's the "s-word"?
Erza Scarlet
Erza Scarlet 4 сарын өмнө
Am I the only one who finds him freakin adorable?😂😂❤️
Flutenany Idk
Flutenany Idk 4 сарын өмнө
So if you use “That’s cool.” For situations when you don’t know what to say but you don’t think negatively of the comment as sort of a shrug off that sounds needy?
That guy
That guy 4 сарын өмнө
I’m a dude and i get you’d look a lot better if you smile all the time
HousingDinosaur
HousingDinosaur 4 сарын өмнө
How many Sociopaths Have you trained?
Victor Hopewave
Victor Hopewave 4 сарын өмнө
I was texting a girl and she told me about her celebrity crush, I complimented him and said he looked handsome. When I showed her mine, she said that "she's okay". Does that mean anything?
the everythingchannel
the everythingchannel 4 сарын өмнө
You know what would be way cool, if you start demonstrating these analysis to us with your own exleriences. Im subscribed to you and your content is super unique. I love learning small skills and i think incorporating your content would blow up your channel with aot more followers. I want to see demonstrationsand video of yourself applying these things. Like and comment if you agree. Lets create a demand so that he does it cuz i want to see these examples 👍
Carolina Duron
Carolina Duron 4 сарын өмнө
want to get a number from the girl you like? say this- hey do you like me? if they say no then don't cry just say oh ok well here's my number if you want to text me i guess.. if answer yes-then you could say here's my number if you wanna eat some time
Goblite
Goblite 4 сарын өмнө
About asking for someones number, I can totally relate to that. Asked a friend for her number, not really thinking much of it, but despite that she got uncomfortable and I still don't have her number, despite being good friends(we share other friends as well), and it's kinda weird. Probably happened because I didn't have any goal in writing down her number, thus it was kinda just a "why tho"-"why not" moment.
Ferris 1313
Ferris 1313 4 сарын өмнө
You know what would look good on you? Me! 😎. You’re welcome
Mehak Verma
Mehak Verma 5 сарын өмнө
I usually ask questions when a person is telling me a story and bring it back later. The person will start to like my company and then-FRIENDZONED
TheHogtalare
TheHogtalare 5 сарын өмнө
What the hell is the "S" word?!
shannon biggs
shannon biggs 5 сарын өмнө
peppa pig
Abyss
Abyss 5 сарын өмнө
imagine how perfect this guy is, knowing all charisma stuff, must be the perfect person, like for real
Haryy Pyles
Haryy Pyles 5 сарын өмнө
You'd look better if you were in my arms
charlielouwoo
charlielouwoo 5 сарын өмнө
Nice video, I agree with your points. Kind of related to the first one, do you think it's a red flag if the guy / girl you are speaking to has never taken down the pictures of them and their ex together from their social media and they aren't planning on it?
Tiedyemoon
Tiedyemoon 5 сарын өмнө
2nd is so true. I met a guy who was so cute and had an awesome personality but man, he thought everything about me was “perfect and amazing” like all the time, I could do no wrong. It was very exhausting, it felt un-genuine and it turned me off.
Zero Effort
Zero Effort 5 сарын өмнө
2:01 yikes I do this to everyone whenever they tell me a story so they know I'm still paying attention. I guess I'm alienating everyone I talk to
MQ
MQ 5 сарын өмнө
Hey, I have a question about #5. Is "You have such a great smile" *after they smiled* okay? I realize "you're so pretty *when* you smile" is basically saying only when they smile, but is complimenting their smile in general fine? I think even then it's best not to tell them they need to smile that's just weird.
Tommy G
Tommy G 5 сарын өмнө
I feel like im watching national geographic
Crowned One
Crowned One 5 сарын өмнө
So...I should ask my friendzoned peeps if they want to go out sometime...
FELIPE TCATCH GALVÃO
FELIPE TCATCH GALVÃO 5 сарын өмнө
0:35 the "s" word...Shrek?
syrod
syrod 5 сарын өмнө
This guy looks and sounds like Jack Kelso from LA Noire
N S Distribution
N S Distribution 5 сарын өмнө
This guy is probably single.
TameTornadoMC
TameTornadoMC 5 сарын өмнө
"Micheal Scarn, nice to meet me"
Delicate Little Snowflake
Delicate Little Snowflake 6 сарын өмнө
"You clipped your toenails today? AMAZING!!!!"
Frost D.H
Frost D.H 6 сарын өмнө
Wtf is the S word?
Otter 420 DrugStories
Otter 420 DrugStories 6 сарын өмнө
Whats the "s"word??
Andras Libal
Andras Libal 6 сарын өмнө
Much appreciated :)
InnerEagle
InnerEagle 6 сарын өмнө
Never make look like everything the other person says for you is an order or you show you will accomplish other person desire like almost immediately, this will turn you into the most beautiful friend/slave they have Give yourself time, if you wanna do that, make it look like a surprise, but don't make it look like you are "surprising" always, just when you see the other person really really really hyped for.
Mattias Öhman
Mattias Öhman 6 сарын өмнө
All your videos are amazing!!!
Ordinary Things
Ordinary Things 6 сарын өмнө
That story was insane!
Anna Written backwards
Anna Written backwards 6 сарын өмнө
I always feel weird when I guy tells me he likes my smile when I just met him! It’s kind of creepy like he doesn’t know how to flirt! So do t say that guys when you just met someone! Be playful first and compliment on things we are talking about! Only when we are actually going out it’s good to give those compliments..
Anna Written backwards
Anna Written backwards 6 сарын өмнө
Whats de S word?
Stewy Rog
Stewy Rog 6 сарын өмнө
To summarize the 5 things for you: 1. My butthole is REALLY itchy. 2. Does this look/taste/smell infected? 2. I hope you don’t look like your mom one day. 3. My first kiss was from my priest. 4. Do you like my Hitler mustache? 5. Your brother is super cute! Can I get his phone number?!
JESUS IS LORD
JESUS IS LORD 6 сарын өмнө
When you approach someone you don't know and have never talked to, don't you think that asking them to hang out right away instead of asking for their number is a bit too much starting off? They don't even know you so why would they make plans with you right away?
Zachary Salas
Zachary Salas 6 сарын өмнө
Wait But I must practice 6ft social distancing I kinda need to use their a number.
Kainos Teleos
Kainos Teleos 6 сарын өмнө
Yeah, asking for the other's number right away is obviously not a good move. That's something for later. But i was now wondering... What would be the psychological effect, of giving the other person your own number after saying something like "I can give you my number if you wanna stay in contact. You can call me anytime!". Would that scare people away or simulate a feeling of reliability and acceptance towards you? To me it feels a bit like a gamble... But i am not an expert.
Paul Keiser
Paul Keiser 6 сарын өмнө
I'm glad you didn't make the last one about sexism or something, which a lot of people seem to do for some reason. I've been told to 'smile more' and it's kinda weird. You're basically telling me i look like a downer, and why do you care?
DylliPickle a
DylliPickle a 6 сарын өмнө
I’ve learned that women don’t like when you smell them and say you smell just like your mom. Especially when you come out from under their bed when they’re sleeping
Greg Houser
Greg Houser 6 сарын өмнө
S word?
Satrick Ptar
Satrick Ptar 6 сарын өмнө
Thing to say: エッチしよう?
Adda Elliott
Adda Elliott 6 сарын өмнө
if a guy told me to smile more i would punch him in the face
Rational Coder
Rational Coder 6 сарын өмнө
The hyper gesticulation is so distracting. Good info, though.
Truth Artistic
Truth Artistic 6 сарын өмнө
I don't really know how to flirt, so I don't. Women can't be pleased by men anyway.
Roger
Roger 6 сарын өмнө
shave
Catluvr88
Catluvr88 6 сарын өмнө
Once you have a good conversation going Just open the phone to the dial pad and hand her the phone. Or open to Instagram search and she’ll know what to do. Works every time.
marian maslak
marian maslak 6 сарын өмнө
It is amazing u showing ur 3 fingers from the other perspective -)
brando
brando 6 сарын өмнө
i wanna be your boyfriend dude haha
Keylup Veintisiete
Keylup Veintisiete 7 сарын өмнө
What's the s-word?
504Ever
504Ever 7 сарын өмнө
Okay what is the "s word"?
Ty Manning
Ty Manning 7 сарын өмнө
I honestly never heard another guy actually say to a woman “you’d look better if you smiled.” I’ve only heard that in movies/t.v shows.
ghan tauke
ghan tauke 7 сарын өмнө
My GF: I have such a big crush on Ryan Gosling. Aren’t his eyes just gooorgeous? Me: Yea, I’d f*** him myself. My GF: What? Me: What??
Pratyushraj Chouhan
Pratyushraj Chouhan 7 сарын өмнө
This guy is the og wingman
Chandler
Chandler 7 сарын өмнө
His mouth n lips moving r strangely amazing! Ugh
Walker Firmin
Walker Firmin 7 сарын өмнө
There are a lot of flavors? Are you trying to taste them?
AleksMeetsWorld
AleksMeetsWorld 7 сарын өмнө
This man could eat an entire apple in one bite, and I think that's awesome
ALL DOR
ALL DOR 7 сарын өмнө
i've said to a girl what's your number straight off the bat - it's the intention of where you coming from that matters.
TheGreenPrince
TheGreenPrince 7 сарын өмнө
Yooo
TheAtxathlete
TheAtxathlete 7 сарын өмнө
No offense to this guy I agree with some of the information but I seriously doubt this guy can pull
Brumby Bailey
Brumby Bailey 8 сарын өмнө
MNpost search Studio C flirting academy. 😂
Eric Russell
Eric Russell 8 сарын өмнө
It worked like 2 out of 3 times for me. And I'm not a skinny douche either
Admiral General Aladeen
Admiral General Aladeen 8 сарын өмнө
This is all obvious
Lam
Lam 8 сарын өмнө
I feel this saves me time from reading the book The Art of Manliness.
Joshua Roy
Joshua Roy 8 сарын өмнө
The s word? I know I’m guilty of calling other men simps…
5th Kie...
5th Kie... 9 сарын өмнө
“Are you a single mother?” “No” “Do you wanna be?” 😏
Sergio de Bengala
Sergio de Bengala 4 сарын өмнө
After this you should prepare a good lawyer.
InnerEagle
InnerEagle 6 сарын өмнө
That's positive but.... she would kill you after
Daniel Glatz
Daniel Glatz 9 сарын өмнө
Wtf is the s word?
Amy Xoxo
Amy Xoxo 9 сарын өмнө
You are 💯 about those annoying people who say THATS SO AWESOME THATS AMAZINGGGGG! I absolutely hate being condescended to/fake complimented.
Harry Cojones
Harry Cojones 9 сарын өмнө
Her past matters... she can’t pair bond after just a few partners ... don’t marry gentlemen!!!.. these used up trollops aren’t worth it
Tom Anderson
Tom Anderson 9 сарын өмнө
Steven schapiro manages it still
SkInZ
SkInZ 9 сарын өмнө
I do all of this stuff already I guess I’ve perfected it 😂
Mozambique
Mozambique 9 сарын өмнө
Day 7581: Still don't know what the "S word" is
SuperDeinVadda
SuperDeinVadda 9 сарын өмнө
Concrete plan? Hey, we need 35m^3 to fill the baseplate for the house we want to build! Easy
mars
mars 9 сарын өмнө
Well you make your intentions clear from the get-go which is what you want to express
Antara Ganguli
Antara Ganguli 9 сарын өмнө
Guys, also please stop telling women " you look better without makeup" just stop.
Doom the last
Doom the last 9 сарын өмнө
Me: so what do you do? are you a student?
Mackthis Arrowhearth
Mackthis Arrowhearth 10 сарын өмнө
"You look better if" is something I would mever do, but I would really like if someone else does this to me. For some reason I like it when the other thinks about me, thinks with me and that I am able to acustom to the other without quessing. As someone with Autism, it is way more enjoyable if you can trust the other for remarks or compliments than need to doubt yourself for potential things you do not notice, because you get non-concrete hints very poorly.
How to Flirt Without Being Creepy
11:01
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 2,9сая
How To Short-Circuit The Fear Of Rejection
08:12
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 667мянга.
Bryant Myers - 24/7 (Official Music Video)
3:24
BryantMyersVEVO
Үзсэн тоо 467мянга.
My Room
29:28
Emirichu
Үзсэн тоо 662мянга.
[BE ORIGINAL] ENHYPEN(엔하이픈) 'Given-Taken' (4K)
3:10
STUDIO CHOOM [스튜디오 춤]
Үзсэн тоо 581мянга.
5 Common Phrases That Ruin First Impressions
08:14
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 1,3сая
3 Body Language Tips To Instantly Look More Attractive
09:03
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 2,3сая
5 Common Phrases That Show You Lack Confidence
08:12
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 1,2сая
5 Easy Ways To Show Extreme Confidence
09:01
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 1,1сая
5 Common Habits That Will Kill Your Confidence
09:21
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 541мянга.
7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20's
10:07
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 2,2сая
The BIGGEST Mistake People Make In Dating
09:36
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 1,2сая
5 Habits That Guarantee You Become Charismatic
09:10
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 717мянга.
7 Things Your Body Language Says About You
09:16
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 688мянга.
6 Easy Ways To Charm Anyone
12:51
Charisma on Command
Үзсэн тоо 928мянга.
Bryant Myers - 24/7 (Official Music Video)
3:24
BryantMyersVEVO
Үзсэн тоо 467мянга.
My Room
29:28
Emirichu
Үзсэн тоо 662мянга.
[BE ORIGINAL] ENHYPEN(엔하이픈) 'Given-Taken' (4K)
3:10
STUDIO CHOOM [스튜디오 춤]
Үзсэн тоо 581мянга.
BREAKING: NEW Evidence Shows Trump Can Win California!
5:00
The Finance Hub
Үзсэн тоо 479мянга.
Making a bismuth knife to undo an injustice
29:57
NileBlue
Үзсэн тоо 1,6сая
VLOGMAS DAY 1: We Put Up Our Family Christmas Tree!
25:11
Taylor Girlz
Үзсэн тоо 165мянга.
Is Your Car Safe to Turbo?
13:32
Donut Media
Үзсэн тоо 791мянга.
SLAMMING THE BRAKES PRANK ON GIRLFRIEND!
26:56
Ace And Chloe
Үзсэн тоо 205мянга.
TINY Tires on 90HP Four-Wheeler! *CRAZY WHEELIES & BURNOUTS*
20:15
Braydon Price
Үзсэн тоо 211мянга.