How To Express An Unpopular Opinion

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Bill Burr is one of the most popular comedians alive today, despite having said about a hundred things that would get anyone else cancelled.

Today we’ll go over how Bill manages to say these controversial things without hurting his relationships or popularity.
Learning just a few of these habits will let you go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you can share your opinion without losing people’s respect.
Also one quick note, this video is about psychology not any particular belief. So if you strongly disagree with anything Bill says in these upcoming clips, then they’ve been picked well :-)

0:46 - #1:Make people laugh
3:09 - #2: Begin by validating the other side
6:23 - #3: Soften that feeling of being attacked
8:40 - #4: Be willing to back off an opinion
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Bryan A
Bryan A Цагийн өмнө
The funny thing is none of the things he is saying are unpopular among the average person.
K. And
K. And 3 цагийн өмнө
Fantastic video.
Vincent Biondo
Vincent Biondo 5 цагийн өмнө
Has anyone took the course mentioned at the end?
D ES 6 цагийн өмнө
Bill Burr is a comics comic 😀
John Oliver Fainsan
John Oliver Fainsan 8 цагийн өмнө
I love it when you use clips from Community.
ron rubicon
ron rubicon 10 цагийн өмнө
"Nia, can I pee now? No? When can I pee?"
7700Football 10 цагийн өмнө
Burr is a genius. Bill on Steve Jobs, "New phone doesn't fit the old charger? This is your hero?"
Torgo1969 12 цагийн өмнө
In Detroit in 2013 I saw the good old Billy in his prime, busted a gut and almost fell out of my chair into the aisle. I agree with those that say that he has fallen off a bit, and that his violently abusive wife has no business being married to Bill or to anyone else, nor does she have any business having a child. But he still makes us laugh, and he has moments of courage.
morgan ghetti
morgan ghetti 13 цагийн өмнө
Blue checkmarks on twitter hating something isnt representative of the normal population. I dont think most of these are unpopular, or he wouldnt have so many fans.
Daniel Stone
Daniel Stone 13 цагийн өмнө
The Jim Morrison of comedy
noobieofdeathreviewsshit 14 цагийн өмнө
Why is Joel McHale and Woody Harrelson in this bit? That not Bill! 😂😂😂
Theodore Hyczko
Theodore Hyczko 15 цагийн өмнө
If the Amish can do it why can't you? Assuming we have electric cars by then
Kilravok 16 цагийн өмнө
The medical expert radio scene could have been more comic "I, with no medical degree, and not going to sit here with you, who has no medical degree, with an American flag behind you, smoking cigars, and talk as if we have more medical knowledge than Bill Gates."
bruce onlygoodvibes
bruce onlygoodvibes 18 цагийн өмнө
one thing bill has that we don't...he works on his routine until he has honed it down to perfection. Go ahead and try the bill burr style at the next party you're at and see how it goes. you might lose some friends and gain some enemies
KMP mortensen
KMP mortensen 19 цагийн өмнө
Do you realize what you're doing is playing along with all the sensitive, SJW cancel culture fuktards that inhabit the USA. Comedy is the last bastion of free speech. It allows us to laugh at a 'heavy' subject and release that in a cathartic way. You Americans need too harden up!!! Stop the PC brigade
IMA Өдрийн өмнө
“Im not ___, but...”
Guy B
Guy B Өдрийн өмнө
postrationalization or raw talent 101 -- not psychology
Bob Boberson
Bob Boberson Өдрийн өмнө
Interesting angle. But this is a WAY different world than "your own life." The COMEDY world is a different environment. We have a wider range of emotion to work with because we're allowed to explore it. Of course, these days that is narrowing. Mostly because millennials.
Rusty Robot5
Rusty Robot5 Өдрийн өмнө
Bill Burr points out some common, usually Leftist, logic flaws, but does so in a way that side steps confrontation...his way on introducing his ideas is part of it...but also where, how, and with what audience. Most of the push back IS AFTER THE FACT; social media, mainstream media, etc. Rarely does he have to do a Ben Shapiro move by confronting someone predisposed to attack his ideas by introducing a counter argument w/sound logic or sidesteping a factless character attack by a shock word coupled with an explanation. Though, i think Bill Burr COULD do so (perhaps at an elite level), he is mindful of the tightrope he walks.
Ali Daxasd
Ali Daxasd Өдрийн өмнө
tbh. People with real problems and from civilized countries should go to a psychologist to get a professional handle your issues individually. If you're an emotional mess of some sort - please do not be ashamed, go get a proper consultation. P.S. by civilized I mean, your countries health system actually cares for you or you got the spare money to spend.
Theodore Hyczko
Theodore Hyczko Өдрийн өмнө
The truth about Cosbey. He signed a agreement with the attorney general agreeing to say he gave drugs to a woman in court if in a civil case if they would not prosecute him. They knew what he did years ago.
Flavio Lima Música - Txá
Flavio Lima Música - Txá Өдрийн өмнө
Want to learn how to release your anger? Buy a punching bag. Oh, my, what a teacher! Best thing I ever bought. Got me through a tough breakup smooth and nicely. :D
KaiserSchnitzel Өдрийн өмнө
As an attorney I regularly find occasion to use this skill.
james D
james D Өдрийн өмнө
The Joe Rogan CDC takedown will live on in infamy. So good.
Gerard Kuzawa
Gerard Kuzawa Өдрийн өмнө
In every day-to-day situations I just adlib. But the underlying truths to what I do are truths. Maybe I do some or most of what Mr. Burr (and others may) do, but at the checkout line at a grocery store paying for the stuff that I want to acquire as a consumer, it does not come to mind my techniques. But what does come to mind is that I am working maybe three audiences at the same time... the bagger, register operator, and the customer next in line. That happened to me today and it was great fun. I add that I had a twenty year old, a fifty year old, and a probably high sixty year old all laughing and smiling and responding. So, is it a "technique" as analyzed, or just someone like me who takes all the people together, not separately, and recognizing all of them while not excluding?
SL0wBurn 2 өдрийн өмнө
This is how people make money.. explaining why people watch comedians? Watch comedy specials starting in the we'll say 70s and continue to present day.. tell me what has changed in material.... nothing. Educate yourselves and enjoy, don't watch this spam.
John Wilkinson
John Wilkinson 2 өдрийн өмнө
Very persuasive too! I have high success in casual debate cause of humor.
Chuck P
Chuck P 2 өдрийн өмнө
Billy Ginger tits is doing amazing work on himself and for that I admire him. The fact that this has not swayed his comedic delivery is what makes him a legend.
Jimmy Sheehan
Jimmy Sheehan 2 өдрийн өмнө
Bill Burr is completely milquetoast lmao
MIA 2 өдрийн өмнө
3:43 what is the movie?
Mattie Norml
Mattie Norml 2 өдрийн өмнө
It's funny because it's true.... His delivery might not be for everyone but the logic is solid...
Dig Digger
Dig Digger 2 өдрийн өмнө
lefty BS
margaret walsh
margaret walsh 3 өдрийн өмнө
Bill Burr deserves every bit if his success.
pooleroes 3 өдрийн өмнө
Bill crossing the PC line?? like he's ever been back from the other side? come on!!
MrGordy63 3 өдрийн өмнө
Making ppl laugh is telling ppl what you think is funny. (Just my opinion)
Jonathan Jollimore
Jonathan Jollimore 4 өдрийн өмнө
I can't do this the desire to twist someone head of is to great sometimes...I need work on my delivery YOU ARE NOT RIGHT
clemonsx90 4 өдрийн өмнө
You've really been doing work to improve the content here and I appreciate it.
Idaho Eric
Idaho Eric 4 өдрийн өмнө
So I am enjoying this Bill Burr discussion and BAM! You say I have an anger problem?? Where the hell does that come from? You don't even know me! I don't have repressed anger!! It's all about the mighty buck with you people.
restcure 20 цагийн өмнө
Yeah! - you aughtta go find this guy and PUNCH HIS FACE IN!
Historian212 4 өдрийн өмнө
The master.
Peter Middo
Peter Middo 4 өдрийн өмнө
What happens when *are* *actually* the expert?
Connor Thomas
Connor Thomas 5 өдрийн өмнө
I think another thing to mention is that social media is bad. I find when I actually talk to someone I am able to come to common ground more easily with people I disagree with. But I make one slightly challenging comment on a Facebook post doing literally everything mentioned in this video and people still have a reason to flip out.
mike bar
mike bar 5 өдрийн өмнө
I never paid attention to bill until my shrink said I act like him... Love it If you disagree go 🤬 yourself... Lmao
Kosch KX
Kosch KX 5 өдрийн өмнө
I was taking a language course in Germany and after class a man from Spain approached me. Seemed like he had never met an American before, so we were getting along pretty well. Then he asked "So, you prefer our politics in Europe, right?" And I couldn't help myself. I told him "I love big guns, the Bible and Capitalism!" Never saw him again.
Chas Bury
Chas Bury 5 өдрийн өмнө
Burr is my undefeated bald hero.
Hiden Biden
Hiden Biden 6 өдрийн өмнө
10: 22 what movie is that from ?
Puli Ukko
Puli Ukko 6 өдрийн өмнө
I love Bill, but he’s wrong about needing a medical degree to know what’s going on. The so called ‘experts’ don’t even know what’s going an and can’t agree amongst themselves. You don’t need qualifications to know when politicians are lying. And you don’t need qualifications to know when people including ‘scientists’ have been corrupted, bought or threatened and silenced.
Puli Ukko
Puli Ukko 15 цагийн өмнө
@restcure - Yes, I can tell the difference. Anyone with a brain can.
restcure 19 цагийн өмнө
But you do need the experience to differentiate between scientists and 'scientists'. Can _you_ tell the difference between one who as been corrupted - one who deserves punishment and one who's been threatened/silenced - who should be supported? And would you even know how to do so? Without the proper qualifications, could you go over the scientific (or 'scientific') papers produced and tell results that have been faked or falsified apart from those reached with an error in hypothesis or procedure? could you even tell which results ARE wrong? If the answer is no, then all there is are gut feelings and the word of others, maybe with their own gut feelings - or even political agenda or lust for personal prestige.
Cesar Perez
Cesar Perez 6 өдрийн өмнө
Bill Burr is funny as hell. No course needed here buddy
ареф нар
ареф нар 6 өдрийн өмнө
Here it is: "Make people laugh, unless they'll kill you." _COC
Home Alone Build
Home Alone Build 7 өдрийн өмнө
I'm not sure but, it does seem like the narrator could have used some of those great suggestions to improve his narration skills. Better yet, just come up with his own act and explain what he just did there. Or go do an on the street bit where he attacks unsuspecting strangers and then reels them back in. Never mind. I'm going to go do that one myself and put it on MNpost.
restcure 19 цагийн өмнө
He's probably leaving that to the professionals - like Bill Burr.
big daddy smash
big daddy smash 7 өдрийн өмнө
He had hair in almost all of the clips
Theodicist Eddie
Theodicist Eddie 9 өдрийн өмнө
Just being a well meaning, down to earth, funny white guy is seen as some profound skill
Theodicist Eddie
Theodicist Eddie 9 өдрийн өмнө
Don't analyze it, just let it in
Commies Are filth
Commies Are filth 9 өдрийн өмнө
Better to be unpopular than be politically correct
Jim Mulchinock
Jim Mulchinock 9 өдрийн өмнө
This video is such BS! I’ve followed Burr’s career since day 1. He was incredibly funny at first. Then, it was almost like he was afraid of losing his brand to other comics who had their own trademark approach to comedy. Examples. Louie CK (at least before he imploded) did the socially honest gritty against conventional wisdom schtick. Jim Gaffigan seemed to mine humor within his very geeky, socially repellant persona. What did Burr do? Invented his own whipping boy (or girl) category: a fictitious social group predominantly entitled women who are constantly nagging him within feminazi ways. This group either doesn’t exist or is blown out of proportion so much by Burr that one starts to believe they dominate society. They don’t - except in Burr’s world. It seems he can never provide specifics about the encounters or even the women within this nefarious group. Why? Because they don’t exist. But this fake victim group works for Burr because he can set them up as his fake punching bag that makes him look like the reasonable one - and get a few laughs at the same time. It gets boring after you see through this schtick.
Luke Darby
Luke Darby 10 өдрийн өмнө
Can you break down Jeremy Clarkson?
C O 11 өдрийн өмнө
I had heard some of Bill Burr's more shocking quotes & thought he was simply a misogynist POS. Then I listened to the full context of those quotes, and a bunch of his Monday Morning Podcast episodes, and it really opened up my eyes. Funny in a ballsy way and challenging to me, helps me be a better listener and get a feel for what really matters to me (what is truly a hill I'll die on, and what is just a knee-jerk wtf).
king on common law
king on common law 12 өдрийн өмнө
Really good, thank u.
Pierre Brasier
Pierre Brasier 13 өдрийн өмнө
I think Bill Burr is a very bad example. He doesn't express unpopular opinions, he express opinions people are too scared to express.
Ben Wyrick
Ben Wyrick 15 өдрийн өмнө
I think it's his voice. It's perfect for comedy. Just like Jerry Seinfeld lol
康亚Abraham 16 өдрийн өмнө
Why did this guy keep interrupting the hilarious Bill Barr bits?
Temp Bauer
Temp Bauer 19 өдрийн өмнө
I think using a comedian isn’t really a fair example. It’s not a discussion really, it’s a monologue if he’s on stage. When with another person, it’s not a true discussion that they are trying to work thru. It’s still him trying to be funny. I think showing a real debate or discussion when using those specific techniques. What Bill Burr does is not the same as legit conversations and disagreements. I really like Bill Burr but in any situation you’ve shown, he’s “on”
Cris 20 өдрийн өмнө
I tried to learn, but I just ended up laughing the entire time
Nic Tipton
Nic Tipton 20 өдрийн өмнө
The Philly Rant.
Sadie Nailed it
Sadie Nailed it 22 өдрийн өмнө
I love Bill Burr
LEXICON DEVIL 23 өдрийн өмнө
So me n Bill Burr think the same but I'm not famous or funny. 😔
Jeroen veger
Jeroen veger 26 өдрийн өмнө
The 'I am not an expert' thing is a really good one. Because we actually could be wrong about so many things we believe right now, and we probably are. Being able to always stay humble when you talk about something because you know you might not know the whole truth is a really good quality that every one should strive for.
Nexus United
Nexus United Сарын өмнө
His feminine voice is hilarius
John R.
John R. Сарын өмнө
Not being politically correct helps. Lol.
Zachary Foley
Zachary Foley Сарын өмнө
I guess this didnt work on the Grammy’s lol
Mike Reiss
Mike Reiss Сарын өмнө
6:08 Andy to the rescue.
Hank Igoe
Hank Igoe Сарын өмнө
this ruined my fondness of tuna sandwiches
Hank Igoe
Hank Igoe Сарын өмнө
behind the music, lol
Lovely Music Now
Lovely Music Now Сарын өмнө
597$???? Insane
Reharl Сарын өмнө
These aren't "unpopular" opinions. These are opinions which enrage a very vocal subset of puritanical tyrants.
Rudi TheDog
Rudi TheDog Сарын өмнө
That guy Coonan looks like the guy from Beavis and Butthead
Gee Elks
Gee Elks Сарын өмнө
What is this? A how-to tutorial for folks on the spectrum?
Barney Mort
Barney Mort Сарын өмнө
Analyse Rupaul!
Goldenlion safaris
Goldenlion safaris Сарын өмнө
or the jokes are funny
Fin Jan
Fin Jan Сарын өмнө
Your analysises (analysis?) are AWESOME.
Carew Martin
Carew Martin Сарын өмнө
He's funny because a lot of what he says is true and no one else has the balls to say it
RIcardo Rios
RIcardo Rios Сарын өмнө
If Woke, a must watch
John Newman
John Newman Сарын өмнө
I think your channel is a turd sandwich Hahahaha
Schoffer Brothers
Schoffer Brothers Сарын өмнө
The title is a bit dubious since it's impossible to be popular if you're politically correct
Jason Berryman
Jason Berryman Сарын өмнө
I’m noticing the controversial opinions of him just in the comment section alone. Personally I like him and I’m a subscriber to the podcast.
Bruce Schneider
Bruce Schneider Сарын өмнө
Bill Burr is a genius with high emotional maturity.
Seymour Butts
Seymour Butts Сарын өмнө
I love people who don't promote conspiracy and lie all the time. Unlike all the assholes who complain about cancel culture Burr practices his freedoms responsibly with truth.
Jeff Archer
Jeff Archer Сарын өмнө
If it wasn't for my anger, sadness and anxiety I wouldn't have anything. All you want to do is take,take,take.
Christopher Morgan
Christopher Morgan Сарын өмнө
That's Joel McHale not Bill Burr
Adam N
Adam N Сарын өмнө
Daniel Tosh has a similar style in his standup.
Harry Styles
Harry Styles Сарын өмнө
Watch this video SJW's. You need to really watch the Emotional Mastery at the end of this video. YOU, more than most other people, truly need this.
So for any interaction I just need the other person to beforehand give me all the topics that we are going to discuss, write a rough script, maybe with some professional writers and then memorise it; like a guest on a talk show would do. And of course my interlocutor will dutifully react positively to whatever I say. Easy.
James Frond
James Frond Сарын өмнө
This is why I already don't like people. Why do you need me to walk on eggshells so you don't get your feelings hurt like a f'in baby which apparently is worse than the holocaust? You have to get around people's ego defense mechanisms. You have to pace them. How about people stop being like that? How about not being a f'in 6 year old all your lives? Tyfyt.
Gabriel Ismyname
Gabriel Ismyname Сарын өмнө
This aged poorly
Fnidner Сарын өмнө
How to be unfunny and get away with it
Mattie Fattie
Mattie Fattie Сарын өмнө
Welp this is moot now
Sean Сарын өмнө
If any of you have problems with anger anxiety or just having problems. See a therapist not an online course
T Zero
T Zero Сарын өмнө
This only works with reasonable people. Every day there are fewer out there.
ITILII Сарын өмнө
Bill Burr - melting more snowflakes than a spring thaw .....keep on offending the most offensive people, Bill....Freedom of Speech, you's in something called the 1st Amendment....if you've ever read it....and understood it
Louis DelValle
Louis DelValle Сарын өмнө
Get the hell out of here.
Michael Lumb
Michael Lumb Сарын өмнө
1st Norm 2nd Bill The rest If u don't agree ur a TASTLESS TWAT! HAVE A NICE DAY.
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