How To Be Popular Without Being Politically Correct

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Charisma on Command

23 өдрийн өмнө

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Bill Burr is one of the most popular comedians alive today, despite having said about a hundred things that would get anyone else cancelled.

Today we’ll go over how Bill manages to say these controversial things without hurting his relationships or popularity.
Learning just a few of these habits will let you go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you can share your opinion without losing people’s respect.
Also one quick note, this video is about psychology not any particular belief. So if you strongly disagree with anything Bill says in these upcoming clips, then they’ve been picked well :-)

0:46 - #1:Make people laugh
3:09 - #2: Begin by validating the other side
6:23 - #3: Soften that feeling of being attacked
8:40 - #4: Be willing to back off an opinion
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James Seidler
James Seidler 12 цагийн өмнө
But bill burr isnt universally liked. Hes also recognized and built his character on this. Its hard to say its good advice to try to talk like him...
Fatima Ali
Fatima Ali 21 цагийн өмнө
Working my way through your videos, I love them. I was wondering if you made a video of Sofia Vergara, I love the way she handles herself, would like to see it explained by you.
mistercr0wbar Өдрийн өмнө
Bill Burr is a Goddamn comedy superhero
Wyatt Head
Wyatt Head Өдрийн өмнө
I like how this video was trying to teach people how to have a sense of humor when it is not really something that can be taught. Bill Burr is a professional comedian and it is so funny how they're trying to copy his exact style try to teach people watching this channel trust me having a sense of humor is not something that can really be taught people develop a sense of humor as a coping mechanism typically the funniest people or the ones who've been through the roughest crap
Strabby Crabby
Strabby Crabby 2 өдрийн өмнө
I'm not a game expert, but *insert a game name* sux. That's how non-toxic the gaming community is.
KeyboardWarrior 2 өдрийн өмнө
Homies before hoes
Najwa Laylah
Najwa Laylah 3 өдрийн өмнө
Nothing's changed since the Middle Ages. Jesters & fools still get away with saying whatever makes the king laugh.
elene gurgenidze
elene gurgenidze 3 өдрийн өмнө
Briking bed Walter wait
Yanai Weiss
Yanai Weiss 3 өдрийн өмнө
Ranek Inpinewoods
Ranek Inpinewoods 4 өдрийн өмнө
Dat segway from Bill Burr to selling a course was pretty impressive lol 😂🍞
Kyle Henderson
Kyle Henderson 5 өдрийн өмнө
Your video is good because it is just bill burr clips. The theory of your video also works only because.... ding ding ding, yes it is just bill burr.
Guilain Bohineust
Guilain Bohineust 5 өдрийн өмнө
Could you do a video on what's so awesome about Ricky Gervais please? Thanks in advance and thanks for all your awesome videos. Cheers.
what ever
what ever 6 өдрийн өмнө
But the question is, why would you want to be politically incorrect? Like you can make jokes and be funny and liked without being politically incorrect
what ever
what ever 5 өдрийн өмнө
@Hacker ._. so do you see racism for example as an opionion as well? Hitler was just a guy with different opinions? Is it that you don't believe words have consequences or what is it that makes you say that?
Hacker ._.
Hacker ._. 5 өдрийн өмнө
@what ever how is this even remotely what I was talking about?
Hacker ._.
Hacker ._. 5 өдрийн өмнө
@what ever you can say that, but it doesnt change that political correctness is being used as a way to shut down others opinions, and halt conversation, I see no issue in talking about offensive things, they are opinions, and no opinion no matter how radical, should be stopped or silenced.
what ever
what ever 5 өдрийн өмнө
@Hacker ._. this is just like people saying "i hate feminists" and then when you tell them feminists are just people who want equality for both sexes, they go and say " well i didn't mean actual feminists, i meant womem who hate men (aka misandrists)"
what ever
what ever 5 өдрийн өмнө
@Hacker ._. well nobody said we were talking about "modern" political correctness. I thought when we say political correctness we mean political correctness. And by that definition it is "an attitude that rejects all expressions and actions that discriminate against someone on the basis of their ethnic origin, gender, social class, physical or mental disability or sexual orientation". So the opposite of that would be political incorrectness, which would mean expressing discrimination in some sort towards those marginalized groups => meaning homophobia, sexism etc.
The Guitar Mon
The Guitar Mon 6 өдрийн өмнө
Bill Burr may be the current king of rage comedy, but he doesn't come close to the level of George Carlin's rage
Royal Natangwe
Royal Natangwe 6 өдрийн өмнө
How is it that you have good content and professionally edited videos but your site is underdeveloped and scam-like
spjMrLahey 6 өдрийн өмнө
" 87 percent........". A little shout out to Uninformed.
Adrian Mier
Adrian Mier 6 өдрийн өмнө
Cancel culture isn't real
Jacques 6 өдрийн өмнө
Another great video and I'm a big fan of Bill Burr. I would've loved to join your Emotional Mastery course, but pricing and exchange rate factored in, it's just way too expensive. As in decent-secondhand-car expensive.
crushbent 6 өдрийн өмнө
The specificity is what makes bill burr hilarious. All of a sudden he's running around your bed with a sickle!
EDX gamer Gamer1
EDX gamer Gamer1 6 өдрийн өмнө
can you do how to be funny like bill bur
Sean Foltz
Sean Foltz 7 өдрийн өмнө
These are all good long as you're dealing with sane, reasonable people who have a sense of humor - so how do you deal with your typical humorless liberal? You've admitted in previous videos that you couldn't use President Trump as a positive example due to your "friends" and coworkers being so unreasonable, far left and radical that they couldn't even accept the concept of using him as a positive example on how to talk, word things, etc so clearly these techniques are ineffective against individuals like that. You use Burr as an example of how to deal with these people but do you honestly know how much hate mail he gets from the cancel culture every time he appears somewhere? He's gotten away with attacking "the government" for the past four years because everyone on the left assumes he's talking about Trump but what happens when he tells those same jokes and liberals assume he's now become a right wing comedian who's attacking Biden? See if he can survive joking about the government - ie/Biden and the Democrat controlled Congress - with your friends over the next four years or if you're forced to remove him as an example.
Randy Estiller
Randy Estiller 7 өдрийн өмнө
Am I the only one who noticed that was Joel McHale near the beginning?
Joe Madlad
Joe Madlad 8 өдрийн өмнө
Charisma on Command is like the unseen father I never seen
Jp Jp
Jp Jp 8 өдрийн өмнө
I'd swing at tuna casserole also.
Ha Fish
Ha Fish 8 өдрийн өмнө
Даров) Смотрю сначала на русском, потом на английском и так учу английский. Так непривычно теперь слышать настоящий голос Чарли)))
An.N. 9 өдрийн өмнө
This video and the suggested recommendations are too PC for me. It's like bringing fire and ice together.
Cody Libolt
Cody Libolt 9 өдрийн өмнө
I would like to hear your thoughts on this squabble and what each person did right and wrong. Video: Trump Attorney Rips Off Mic After Questioning From CBSN Anchor
The Feed
The Feed 9 өдрийн өмнө
10 year fan of this channel. But this is a load of shite. Ditch Ben. Bring back Charlie.
Adrienne SA
Adrienne SA 9 өдрийн өмнө
Among the absolute greatest living comics. Listen to his podcast and I'd bet you will be having a better day, after that go f yourself lol
Captain Eyebrows
Captain Eyebrows 9 өдрийн өмнө
Bill burr is my adopted dad to me. Lol
Captain Eyebrows
Captain Eyebrows 9 өдрийн өмнө
Bill burr and josh wolf are my fav comedians.
just a gacha channel
just a gacha channel 9 өдрийн өмнө
Still need translations ?
Saurav S
Saurav S 9 өдрийн өмнө
Was scrolling and thought bill burr's forehead was a thumb for a second
joesr31 9 өдрийн өмнө
1) Make people laugh: a. create ridiculous mental image b. specificity 2) begin by agreeing with the other side then voice own opinion. Next adress common objection and then end on common ground. 3) Acknowledged you are not an expert 4) Address awkwardness
Adam Goldstein TV
Adam Goldstein TV 10 өдрийн өмнө
I like Bill Burr 6 years ago.
Avaiz Hashmi
Avaiz Hashmi 10 өдрийн өмнө
This channel is perfect for me!
Rhino 10 өдрийн өмнө
Making it funny is the best way to express your ideas on politics, religion, PC culture, etc and not get totally cancelled. Beyond that, Bill is a genius. I also feel Louis CK hits cultural taboos aggressively but does it in the best way possible
Brian Molinaro
Brian Molinaro 10 өдрийн өмнө
No problem! You Just have to be one of the funniest people to ever live.
Vato P
Vato P 10 өдрийн өмнө
You need to do Jeff Winger!
Mn Licson
Mn Licson 11 өдрийн өмнө
Because he is honest at everything he says!
Your Average Guy
Your Average Guy 11 өдрийн өмнө
Why do I watch these videos as if I'm some kind of alien trying to assimilate into human culture?
Alex Barba
Alex Barba 8 өдрийн өмнө
To be a nicer alien
varun bittu
varun bittu 11 өдрийн өмнө
Need RagnarLothbrok,Floki & Ivar in VIKINGS⚔️
Jimmy 11 өдрийн өмнө
Make people laugh 0:45 Begin by validating the other side 3:12 Soften that feeling of being attacked 6:25 Willing to back off an opinion 8:40
houndofzoltan 12 өдрийн өмнө
Are these opinions unpopular or just unpopular among people who get mad on twitter and youtube? Remember the old line "it's funny cuz it's true".
Celestina Phillips
Celestina Phillips 12 өдрийн өмнө
My son wantsme to buy him your program. Do you have any discount codes? Do you have a link and payments?
Hunter Wise
Hunter Wise 12 өдрийн өмнө
I have over 200 audio books on Persuasion, Negotiation, Make ppl like you, etc and I must say that you my friend are ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE!!! You describe and explain like none other!!! Obviously, you don’t need this pat on the back from some random nobody but I just had to convey how top notch and talented you are! Thank you so much for sharing these videos and your time with us! Have a great day....
Beatriz Carniel
Beatriz Carniel 12 өдрийн өмнө
Is this Emotional Mastery that you advertise in the end has anything to do with that EM technique developed by that cult showed in the HBO docuseries The Vow? That would be crazy
CYPHER 12 өдрийн өмнө
Bro, you are Brazilian or american?
JHopkin 12 өдрийн өмнө
Hey I’m curious, has anyone gotten any noticeable results from watching this channel?
Chris Hansen
Chris Hansen 12 өдрийн өмнө
Not being politically correct will already make you popular
Rod Martin, Jr.
Rod Martin, Jr. 12 өдрийн өмнө
Okay! Now this video has some juicy, actionable suggestions. *_Knowledge is POWER!_* (er,... sure... but just don't let it go to your head)
Yin Yin Wong
Yin Yin Wong 12 өдрийн өмнө
aka How to Gaslight People 101
Vanya Tsurkan
Vanya Tsurkan 12 өдрийн өмнө
You can't be politically correct and funny, those 2 are mutually exclusive
Rassul Soltabay
Rassul Soltabay 12 өдрийн өмнө
I ain't been to this channel for a long time, has the narrator changed or something?
Luca Weber
Luca Weber 12 өдрийн өмнө
Why No more IG posts?
dlgroove 12 өдрийн өмнө
Can you make a video of Berlin?, from money heist ,he shows a lot of power pls
Bernardino Lemus
Bernardino Lemus 13 өдрийн өмнө
Have you done one about Bianca Del Rio?! She is very quick and sharp, and says things most people can’t! 🤣🤣🤣
Sam 13 өдрийн өмнө
Somehow explaining his jokes made them less funny hahaha
Emily E
Emily E 13 өдрийн өмнө
Step 1: be white Step 2: be male Step 3: ???? Step 4: profit
iMade Tv
iMade Tv 13 өдрийн өмнө
I don’t think bill plan what he is gonna say step by step, that dude is natural savage by birth 😂
Trevor Thornley
Trevor Thornley 13 өдрийн өмнө
How to be popular? Don't be politically correct
Careful Icarus
Careful Icarus 13 өдрийн өмнө
Why don't you admit that you just have to be a leftist?
NMLogistics 13 өдрийн өмнө
Great video, but I don't see a reason why I should seek popularity. There is a reason why "Silence is Golden".
Avijit Kabiraj
Avijit Kabiraj 13 өдрийн өмнө
Read comedy of coffin on kindle written by Avijit Kabiraj. Introduction : Two unemployed boys were employed by a mafia boss, their job is to bury a dead chef in the criminal's cemetery. The chef is the pasta maker whom the boss accidentally shot dead. The boys were chased by the police, shot by a sniper, rested in a church, kidnapped by an evil doctor, electrocuted, freezed, roasted, couple of ladies didn't spare them, survived the strange graveyard but when they returned after burying the dead chef, found the boss in a coffin.......
Happiness with Neha
Happiness with Neha 13 өдрийн өмнө
So well analyzed! Enjoyed learning from this video. 👍🏽
Michael K
Michael K 13 өдрийн өмнө
I'm really really confused that Disney let Gina Carano go over an Instagram story but theyre fine w/ having Bill Burr lol
Pey Pey
Pey Pey 13 өдрийн өмнө
I like Tim Dillon's approach slightly more.
The flying dutchman
The flying dutchman 13 өдрийн өмнө
It's a sign of an infantile mind if you feel attacked in your identity if someone believes something different than you. It's also a sign of narcissism.
Julian Price
Julian Price 13 өдрийн өмнө
I agree he’s popular But their are a lot of people who don’t like him
spannycat waffles
spannycat waffles 13 өдрийн өмнө
Can you please do an episode on D'Angelo Wallace. He skyrocketed to 2 million subscribers in 2020. He also has a very unique personality.
A. Cláudia Silva
A. Cláudia Silva 14 өдрийн өмнө
Yes, Bill Burr is a genius! I'm more surprised why he was so underrated before and only got well known like 5 or 6 years ago.
Christer Svanström
Christer Svanström 14 өдрийн өмнө
Who would want to raise their baseline level of joy? Your baseline is your normal. That's content. If anything, I'd want to raise my baseline level of depression. I'd like to be content at feeling so down that lunch becomes the greatest thing ever. Like scoring the winning touchdown at the Super Bowl. _"Mac & Cheese? Oh, my God! I want to thank my parents and God and..."_ That's where _I_ want to be.
Brian Frost
Brian Frost 14 өдрийн өмнө
Being politically correct is literally the opposite of having chsrisma.
Volkan İlkehan
Volkan İlkehan 14 өдрийн өмнө
Sometimes it’s not only what he says but how he looks and sounds also makes it kinda funny and mimics even if u say the exactly same things at the same time u may not be as funny as he is
Sam Fielder
Sam Fielder 14 өдрийн өмнө
Can you do one on how not to be awkward when working customer service?
Arturo Vidaurri
Arturo Vidaurri 14 өдрийн өмнө
Anyone else got pissed when he advertised the course about getting rid of your repressed feelings and anger ?
Taylor Ellis
Taylor Ellis 14 өдрийн өмнө
These tips don't work when interacting with my mom though
Chewie Meatball
Chewie Meatball 14 өдрийн өмнө
That EM plug at the end is hilarious to me if you think of how Bill Burr would read out that overcomplicated guru waffle. Module 1: "Installing Joy - Start understanding the perceptions and sensations that shape your deeper emotional reality" Bill Burr: "Just do stuff that makes you happy" Module 2: "Removing Subconscious Limitations - Build a better relationship with the emotions that are holding you back" Bill Burr: "stop shitting on yourself." Module 3: "Embracing Your Authentic Purpose - Reconnect with your inner child and rediscover the fascinations that drive your happiness" Bill Burr: "Lighten up & have some fun again, ffs"
Janice Murphy
Janice Murphy 14 өдрийн өмнө
Sean Connery said sometimes you have to give them a good slap. Not James Bond at the time. In an interview with Barbara Walters. Awm
James Thomas
James Thomas 14 өдрийн өмнө
Bill's take on wife beaters isn't actually an unpopular opinion. Most people think hitting women is something you shouldn't do, but will admit that there's things that could make you "want" to hit a woman. It's a completely reasonable take, and that's ultimately why he doesn't get cancelled.
JimShore 14 өдрийн өмнө
Masterful, know your target demo is millennials, end on a dig at millennials and then advertise a course on how to manage anger.
Clive Evans
Clive Evans 14 өдрийн өмнө
He just speaks the truth, its only the lefty snowflakes that dont agree
Caleb Owens
Caleb Owens 14 өдрийн өмнө
Is this channel not the best idea ever like god damn do virgins flock to this nonsense
Miguel de Carvalho
Miguel de Carvalho 14 өдрийн өмнө
His opinion IS popular. And he is funny.
Daisy Perez
Daisy Perez 14 өдрийн өмнө
Maybe I am a Bill Burr... *looks at hands*
Declan O'Cuidighthigh
Declan O'Cuidighthigh 15 өдрийн өмнө
He honestly doesn’t say anything that dangerous compared to what normal non-Hollywood people actually think. He’d still be cancelled in a heartbeat if he said he voted for Trump for example, which is extremely sad
Viera Galikova
Viera Galikova 15 өдрийн өмнө
Advocating for violence did NOT make him charismatic :(
Kenjaiz 15 өдрийн өмнө
Character breakdown request: Elizabeth Harmon
I am The Batman
I am The Batman 15 өдрийн өмнө
5:40 I was just listening to a story about a woman that put Arsenic in a man’s Protein powder and then convinced everyone else that her husband was on drugs and mentally unstable because of the effects of him being poisoned. Believe All Women is Complete BS lol. Just ask Tara Reed.
Skarbie Well
Skarbie Well 15 өдрийн өмнө
was this supposed to make him look charizmatic? Advocating for domestic violence is not making melike that guy, his "jokes" weren't funny at all, and what is his argument? That as long as the issue is not just a "tuna casserole" you can hit your partner?I felt absolutely sick. I liked this guy on a TV show but now I'm disgusted.
Silent Spectre
Silent Spectre 15 өдрийн өмнө
Tuna casserole!
Silent Spectre
Silent Spectre 15 өдрийн өмнө
@Skarbie Well Jesus did you not see him saying you shouldn't do it? Nobody is forcing you to watch him. Go back to Twitter.
Skarbie Well
Skarbie Well 15 өдрийн өмнө
i don't get it,i must be an alien. Advocating for domestic violence is not making melike that guy, his "jokes" weren't funny at all, and what is his argument? That as long as the issue is not just a "tuna casserole" you can hit your partner?I felt absolutely sick. I liked this guy on a TV show but now I'm disgusted. where's the "charizma"?
Ella Propeck
Ella Propeck 15 өдрийн өмнө
now we need a video analyzing norm macdonald. he does a lot of similar type jokes but i feel like the techniques he employs may be different
Rodney Harris
Rodney Harris 15 өдрийн өмнө
I plan to use all your tips....for evil
Shamrock 15 өдрийн өмнө
Alright I need to watch this guy, I knew his face from the mandalorian looked familiar
Felipe Bernardes
Felipe Bernardes 15 өдрийн өмнө
I’m sure you guys put a lot of effort, and resources towards this course.... but guys...$600 is a ridiculous amount of money for a month long course. A lot of my semester long college classes are cheaper than that.
Hylss 15 өдрийн өмнө
So what you're saying is that "randomly sinking cruise ships to thin out the herd" is an opinion instead of a joke? Interesting analysis of a comedian's work there. I like this channel quite a bit, but this whole video is cringy as hell.
Maja Henriksen
Maja Henriksen 16 өдрийн өмнө
Lol I think it's harder being likeable while being politically correct
Skarbie Well
Skarbie Well 15 өдрийн өмнө
yeah i also love people who hit their partners and then laugh about it and claim it was deserved. ha ha ha. so hilarious.
allen 16 өдрийн өмнө
Talk about Dr. Lecter from Hannibal.
April Nelly
April Nelly 16 өдрийн өмнө
Burr was great. Now he's farming
Michael Mano
Michael Mano 16 өдрийн өмнө
its so hard to get someone to watch Bill burr without making yourself look misogynistic. I would not let someone watch a small clip of him, id watch a whole special. taking him out of context is so bad.
Ashen One
Ashen One 16 өдрийн өмнө
The only reason why he can get away with it is because he's constantly sh*tt*ng on white people, especially on white women.
Skarbie Well
Skarbie Well 15 өдрийн өмнө
well,my father also got away with it. i haven't spoken to him for 10 years now and i am in therapy because of his abuse, but at least he got away with it.
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