How To Be Popular Without Being A People Pleaser

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We all want to be liked and respected while being our unfiltered selves. And one of the fastest ways to make people like you is to make them laugh.
That’s why in this video we’re going to talk about Andrew Schulz, a comedian who’s popular for his ability to make people laugh even while he’s making fun of them.


1:21 - #1: Start by joking about people you obviously like.
2:48 - #2: Answer some questions with purposefully absurd answers.
3:38 - #3: When teasing others, mix in compliments.
5:00 - #4: Schulz will stereotype to get a laugh, but not in a hurtful way.
8:00 - #5: Roast all political parties equally.

#AndrewSchulz #CharismaOnCommand

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JulieP2969 3 өдрийн өмнө
I had never heard of this comedian before but now I love him!!
J 3 өдрийн өмнө
Maybe Schulz will save America - people will realize they can make more money not picking a side.
kirenjoseph 3 өдрийн өмнө
I love Andrew so much, both as a comedian but also because he tries not to be a hypocritical person! Thank you for this video! God bless you!
Lau mal
Lau mal 4 өдрийн өмнө
I've noticed that Schulz is also highly educated ad he's genuinely interested in different cultures, every time he's joking about somebody's culture he throws in some data that shows the fact that he's not an ignorant and he actually knows about the culture in topic, and people react very well to that.
Young Putter
Young Putter 5 өдрийн өмнө
Why did y’all put in a trigger warning. Spineless shitters
Queso Blanco
Queso Blanco 6 өдрийн өмнө
Drew is way smart. The best comedians are really intelligent and just see things differently than the rest of us.
Curly Hair Messiah
Curly Hair Messiah 6 өдрийн өмнө
Charalmange told us years ago that Andrew Schultz will be y’all top 5 favorite comedian of all time if he isn’t already
Matt McCabe
Matt McCabe 7 өдрийн өмнө
Him and bill burr are the best
Juarez 7 өдрийн өмнө
SlimJim 9 өдрийн өмнө
In 8th grade back in 2012 everyone knew who I was and it was uncomfortable because they would just talk to me and I just didn't want to associate with them. I'm pretty sure it's because I ended up in the same school as my dad's, bosses son who was popular and instead of coming to ask me to hang at his table himself he sent one of his friends to get me, it felt super insulting and I basically lied to the kid to leave me alone by saying I would go to their table but I just sat at the table of like 2 other kids I was already at.
Enrique Santos
Enrique Santos 9 өдрийн өмнө
add my bro on tik tok @Experiment62
Michael Turley
Michael Turley 9 өдрийн өмнө
Please take this down the last thing we need is people mimicking a try hard hacky cornball
Pedro Amaral
Pedro Amaral 11 өдрийн өмнө
Whoooooooa! Loved the tips, gotta try them out!!
slippery whenwet_46
slippery whenwet_46 12 өдрийн өмнө
Who is that
Nikhil Ekbote
Nikhil Ekbote 12 өдрийн өмнө
I have seen all the parts of Schulz shown in this video.
Jesse Salomon
Jesse Salomon 13 өдрийн өмнө
schulz is just built different
N. S.
N. S. 13 өдрийн өмнө
90% of that water donation money goes on admin work and other paper pushing rather than to the people in need. Dont be gullible, dont use your platform to scam others.
david 16 өдрийн өмнө
What about a white Jewish guy speaking like a black man? Not going to acknowledge the fact he does that?
Skanda 18
Skanda 18 16 өдрийн өмнө
Virtue signaling is repugnant.
Ricardo Coutada
Ricardo Coutada 17 өдрийн өмнө
You should also check how Kevin Hart was so funny before when his jokes touched the reality of his life growing up and how now I can't find him that funny when all his jokes are only about how rich he is and how famous and important he is
RS Night
RS Night 19 өдрийн өмнө
This dude isnt funny. All those jokes sucked
andrew 20 өдрийн өмнө
Imo you shouldn't be putting up so many warning offensive jokes. It's not very charismatic. I'm assuming we're all watching because we want to learn. If someone is put off so easily maybe they weren't meant to charismatic. Just some constructive criticism. Otherwise I loved the video.
MiMik •
MiMik • 20 өдрийн өмнө
Not gonna lie feels kinda good that most of this was already apparent and almost second nature to me. Feelsgoodman
just ajm
just ajm 20 өдрийн өмнө
Don't get me wrong but what Shultz shows; aren't those narcissistic/sociopathic tendencies. I kinda suffer from a similar problem, I'm nice but roast everyone (as a joke ofc). Haters call me a narc:'(
Patricia Chiaramonte
Patricia Chiaramonte 23 өдрийн өмнө
Love this guy watch him all the time don't sit in the front or don't go see them\ this is great
cpfalcon51 24 өдрийн өмнө
"PC Joke" is an oxymoron. Comedy (well, *attempted* comedy, at least) is only funny when it pushes boundaries and gets people out of their comfort zone. This is why late night "comedy" shows like Colbert, Kimmel, and The Daily Show are no longer funny. They're not broadcasting comedy, they're broadcasting a circle-jerking, "pat myself on the back for my political beliefs" echo-chamber.
Katy Kaboom
Katy Kaboom 24 өдрийн өмнө
That’s sooo cool of you to donate! Thank you!!
jootai 27 өдрийн өмнө
I agreed that Schultz popularity is remarkable. Then again. Trump was popular.
Sean Millea
Sean Millea 28 өдрийн өмнө
you guys are LEGENDS!!!!!!!! LOVEEEEEE that donation!!!!!
Lame Lemon
Lame Lemon 29 өдрийн өмнө
6:54 both Carlos Miller and his versions of this joke are hilarious 🤣 😆 😂
Slobodan Reka
Slobodan Reka 29 өдрийн өмнө
Oh, the bat joke isn't nice? Know what else isn't nice? Spending 2-3 years under house arrest cos THEY COULDN'T STOP EATING MOTHERFUCKING BATS.
peedy pxblo
peedy pxblo Сарын өмнө
Theo Von also can too.
Ronaldo Сарын өмнө
I love Andrew Schulz. I am an Indian ✌
jesse martinez
jesse martinez Сарын өмнө
Gotta love that charity work I mean like real charity work
User#123 Сарын өмнө
The best comedians are offensive. Schulz, Bill Blurr, Chappelle, C.K, Gervais.
Alex Mytton
Alex Mytton Сарын өмнө
You say people like his jokes because they're laughing. This may not be true, people may laugh because of social/peer pressure, yet deep down they may be upset. One on one, without camera settings their reaction might be totally different.
Layhla Grace
Layhla Grace Сарын өмнө
1. Be pretty
tr igg
tr igg Сарын өмнө
congratulations on the fund raising. Just went to donate and its closed. Next time :)
Hahaha Mr.
Hahaha Mr. Сарын өмнө
Schulz got his own style of comedy but dodges just like Chappelle, he’s really funny and kinda under rated.
weshouldtakeacid Сарын өмнө
Hes also super interested in everyone he targets.
rhythim kumbhat
rhythim kumbhat Сарын өмнө
At the end part I know you're trying to save water but they're some things which are promoting water wastage and is basically related to the health of people. Can any of you guys or others promote that stuff??
Brett Austin Johnson
Brett Austin Johnson Сарын өмнө
Please cover Regina Hall’s “comedic consistency”, it’s masterful
Eundo Park
Eundo Park Сарын өмнө
Schultz is my favorite comedian right now
effayeyeayzed Сарын өмнө
tropickman Сарын өмнө
What if someone finds you finding things offensive, offensive?! Is that like a double negative? Or it is like a negative squared?!
Juan Zavala
Juan Zavala Сарын өмнө
3:17 I thought it was still him talking
clouseaux114 Сарын өмнө
Shultz needs to bring back those mini rant videos, so fuckin good
Clinton Bowers
Clinton Bowers Сарын өмнө
Andrew Schulz is the Fkin man!
avantgardevegan Сарын өмнө
Schulz is in my top 3 all-time fav comedians, Chappelle #1
Wyatt Biggar
Wyatt Biggar 6 өдрийн өмнө
You have my respect sir
Michael Turley
Michael Turley 9 өдрийн өмнө
Lol they shouldn’t be in the same sentence
Dreary Drummer
Dreary Drummer 16 өдрийн өмнө
@david what's weird about it? That is part of the culture of where you're from. You blend in to who you're around. It's human nature and the correct thing to do.
david 16 өдрийн өмнө
Do you like that he talks like a black personality when he's speaking with a poc? You don't think that's weird?
Dreary Drummer
Dreary Drummer 20 өдрийн өмнө
Top 5 1.) Dave Chapelle 2.) Bill Burr 3.) Louis C. K. 4.) Andrew Schulz 5.) Kat Williams
G Сарын өмнө
The bat joke was pretty anti-Chinese though. Nobody's speaking out about that? It seems pretty double-standard and low taste imo
Obie wan Jabronie
Obie wan Jabronie Сарын өмнө
The laughing at his own jokes is rather annoying though
Aaron Ross
Aaron Ross Сарын өмнө
Too much time defending his jokes!
Cool Cat
Cool Cat Сарын өмнө
yo @/andrewschulz going to be the next dave Chapelle no joke
Kai Ong
Kai Ong Сарын өмнө
So Charisma I would like to ask if you could cover Neal Caffrey from White Collar on Prime Video. Alike to other characters you cover such as Ragnar Lothbrok. I don't expect you to I just want to ask as it will be a forgotten chance if I don't do it now. I love your vids thanks for your time.
Armando E. Torre Puerto
Armando E. Torre Puerto Сарын өмнө
Do the Sultan of Insult. Do Don Rickles. That's would be a master class on insulting and people begging for more
makido1234 Сарын өмнө
I just want to point out that in the bit about the Palestian in the crowd, that was a Palestinian in Australia being teased by (likely) German-American wearing the Japanese national rugby team jersey.
Producers United
Producers United Сарын өмнө
Nice video!
Older Brother
Older Brother Сарын өмнө
Schultz is like the easiest way to see if someone is too sensitive. Does he offend You? Yes? Alright, I'm good on you.
Elies Сарын өмнө
That Jewish thing was perfect racial humor. I'm Jewish and it was perfect. Making fun of speech styles is so not offensive and perfect for making fun of. Plus, it was hilarious.
Devansh Sharma
Devansh Sharma Сарын өмнө
I just wanna say Andrew is great and I aspire to be as confident and funnny as him and don't give af
enter a name here
enter a name here 2 сарын өмнө
Schulz is smart. Has a brain. Most don't
Anna Gardiner
Anna Gardiner 2 сарын өмнө
Ur a Republican aren’t you 🙄
Bennett Ezeobi
Bennett Ezeobi 2 сарын өмнө
Ay my man Andrew. Arguably the best comedian.
Andrii Tykhan
Andrii Tykhan 2 сарын өмнө
Start by joking about people you obviously like Tease yourself as well to let your friends know it's all good fun Answer some questions with purposefully absurd answers Make a mix of genuine and absurd funny answers Mix teasing with compliments Stereotype to get a laugh
Aman Bhardwaj
Aman Bhardwaj 2 сарын өмнө
Video about not being a people pleaser - Trigger warning at 1:09
Someone with opinion
Someone with opinion 2 сарын өмнө
Good video man
Robert Rixey
Robert Rixey 2 сарын өмнө
purple burly
purple burly 2 сарын өмнө
Andrew is what we need in this world.
Ajinkya Katta
Ajinkya Katta 2 сарын өмнө
I'm a simple man, I see Andrew Schultz I click on the video.
silismo 2 сарын өмнө
Went to see him at Houston Imrpov. (Minute 5:00) One of the coolest experiences I been to
Young Suit
Young Suit 2 сарын өмнө
so basically... "He doesn't insult mexicans or blacks.... but chinese people is okay"
Traditional Tools
Traditional Tools 2 сарын өмнө
A better title would have been "how to be like Andrew Schultz? "
BestShmeat 2 сарын өмнө
P Dollarsign
P Dollarsign 2 сарын өмнө
I‘m just here to get the @ of the Palestinian guy who was made fun of by the comedian 👀🤤
xThe_noJx 3 сарын өмнө
I thought the accents made the bits even funnier. The Jewish voice is what really sold the joke for me. Even as I was laughing, I thought, "Damn, that's a good impression." Obviously, not all Jewish people sound like that, but stereotypes aren't _necessarily_ bad or negative. Often, they can be very effective comedic shorthand. Plus, it reminded me of Mel Brooks and that's never a bad thing.
Abdullah Almuhanna
Abdullah Almuhanna 3 сарын өмнө
Israelis will expand until taking the hole world
Gangilla 3 сарын өмнө
Well i also tease my friend and make everyone laugh but nobody hates me everyone wants to be with me share there feelings but girls also laught but i never had a gf why???
Ashley 3 сарын өмнө
Andrew guy delivers in a way that people know he's being ironic and just being funny .
Jaden Clark
Jaden Clark 3 сарын өмнө
So what you're saying is to roast people all the time, got it.
Exactly _51
Exactly _51 3 сарын өмнө
He be looking like where's Waldo
Eddie Bruce
Eddie Bruce 3 сарын өмнө
The unwritten rule is, if you find ANYTHING offensive, dont watch or go see a comedian. It's simple. But people want to watch these kinda things hoping to find something to show some fake rage at. Their complaints getting taken seriously is ruining comedy
Jean Pierre
Jean Pierre 3 сарын өмнө
I've become such a joker & people pleaser, in my company, that the moment I'm genuinely upset or stressed, I make rude comments and jabs about coworkers, my supervisor or my boss and they all find it funny (including my supervisor).
WILLY MANSILLA 3 сарын өмнө
You should check out Patrice Oneal, a natural and raw talent. RIP
Arie Axel
Arie Axel 3 сарын өмнө
I love this guy, so happy you're talking about him
Tyreese OFF huron
Tyreese OFF huron 3 сарын өмнө
Emilia Clarke is the center of the universe!
e69alpha 3 сарын өмнө
Prove you're black say the N word.
dipzoid 3 сарын өмнө
Thanks for talking about andrew
Aqib Sharif
Aqib Sharif 3 сарын өмнө
Andrew ❤️
Lester Green
Lester Green 3 сарын өмнө
You actually have to warn viewers about "offensive" material? What has happened to us?
Veljko 3 сарын өмнө
I'm quite good at roasting, I like to do it but I rarely want to offend receiving person. So I can't even count how many times I just asked someone to roste them on behalf of what they said. You have to make it just a joke and nothing more and you're good.
kyle jaynes
kyle jaynes 3 сарын өмнө
the issue is not in the moment. the issue is when they drag your joke from the past into the present and use it as a way to destroy your career and everything you care about.
Joe Gardner
Joe Gardner 3 сарын өмнө
Andrew is the crowd work king!
Kimberly Roberts
Kimberly Roberts 3 сарын өмнө
Oh gosh Charlie n Ben you guys are awesome. After implementing the things i learned in just your videos ...Um how do i say this, in my mmo (game) i went from being weird, awkward, and irritating with the guys i interact with to them wanting to hang around me more, and guys that had once been rude and disrespectful are now wanting to be with me, lol! i am soooo taking your courses if i am getting 'these' results from just these vids....Brilliant guys just brilliant! and nothing seems forced like before, it comes a lot easier and not as painful as some might think. Please please keep up the good work, Namaste.
usnavyvet2002 3 сарын өмнө
Andrew is AWESOME!!
Savage King
Savage King 3 сарын өмнө
Andrew is one of the most quick-witted comedians ever
S K 3 сарын өмнө
Han Solo
Han Solo 3 сарын өмнө
Why would Israel be pissed about possessing the very land that God will build his tabernacle? Natural resources have always been nonexistent in the land.
McAllen City Corruption
McAllen City Corruption 3 сарын өмнө
But his popularity is ’based’ on being a jerk. He has negative fame. People with positive fame would be crucified for talking like him. For instance, Mother Teresa could never walk around talking like him and still keep her image. But then, Shultz could never accomplish what she did because his path to power could never match her own; the path of keeping one's mouth shut.
Chris Thomas
Chris Thomas 3 сарын өмнө
narrorator: hello humans, let us educate you on how to make funny.!
prashant choukekar
prashant choukekar 4 сарын өмнө
I just love Andrew
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