How To Permanently STOP Self Sabotage

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Charisma on Command

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Brandi Harvey
Brandi Harvey 8 өдрийн өмнө
A grand a month to charity? I am charity and that would be such a blessing! CashApp $brandichavel
Connecting The Dots
Connecting The Dots 2 сарын өмнө
You lost me at Bill Gates, someone who is deeply evil.
MightyMick77 3 сарын өмнө
Yeah, Bill Gates is very happy pretending to be a doctor and depopulating the planet!
fr812 libra
fr812 libra 3 сарын өмнө
Hiroki Moody
Hiroki Moody 3 сарын өмнө
Growth mindset.
mbay tekashi tv
mbay tekashi tv 4 сарын өмнө
This really helped me I'm using this method every time I feel like I'm sabotaging myself
Purple Haze
Purple Haze 4 сарын өмнө
Bill Gates is probably the worst example of a human being who actually is capable of the least if no amount of empathy that you could have given. We, who have done some research know what Mr. Gates is all about and none of it is good.
Michael Gondi
Michael Gondi 4 сарын өмнө
Thank you for making this.
Robbie C.
Robbie C. 5 сарын өмнө
I feel like I am undeserving of relationships and love and I don't fight for what I really want because of anxiety and feeling I'm not ready for better things
Nontokozo Mbatha
Nontokozo Mbatha 5 сарын өмнө
Why is the app not available in South Africa? 🤨 I was so looking forward to it
Runaway Cat
Runaway Cat 5 сарын өмнө
You can always donate 1,000 bucks to me too C:
C Fernandes
C Fernandes 5 сарын өмнө
I dont like procrasination, I find it difficult to have a proper timetable to carry out my daily tasks.
Dou aa
Dou aa 6 сарын өмнө
I am afraid to have friends, sincerly like I think if I show people my kind side, they will hurt me easily, that's because I used to have some friends and I kept losing them for this, I wish I can get rid of this fear because I started to be socially awkward
Cindy Ski
Cindy Ski 6 сарын өмнө
I can’t face the mornings. I need to stop.
BlobsMan 12
BlobsMan 12 7 сарын өмнө
Doesn’t help
Rachel Sarbeng
Rachel Sarbeng 8 сарын өмнө
Lost all my confidence due to a break up. Ever since been self sabotaging. Lord help me
bravo1oh1 8 сарын өмнө
What it you just like smoking weed
Lark 9 сарын өмнө
I self sabotage myself A LOT when it comes to crushes.
Mariam Sabry
Mariam Sabry 9 сарын өмнө
Same acts but different how to view it and how you put intensions and feelings and what is your goal😊
tigergirl305 11 сарын өмнө
I'm watching this instead of practicing singing haha. I'm terrified of failure and not doing well in my career
Mud Skipper
Mud Skipper Жилийн өмнө
Good talk at same time consider the Pareto Principle and The Hedonistic Treadmill and Intrinsic -Goals -vs-Extrinsic-Goals and Acceptance of Imperfections and Keeping Goals Realistic... Progress not Perfection ☯️ Mudskipper
Mohammad Alakkad
Mohammad Alakkad Жилийн өмнө
The beginning part is some what true every time I want to go forward my mind stops & erases what I set out to do!?
Ma D.
Ma D. Жилийн өмнө
How can we find your "CONFIDENCE MED" on the app? hopefully no cred card reqd?
William Scurry
William Scurry Жилийн өмнө
I thought self sabotage was putting up barriers that you know would be fulfilling to you and others by your fulfillment.
Erick Rodríguez
Erick Rodríguez Жилийн өмнө
What’s up with the background music? It’s all over the place. Charlie’s voice over is soothing enough.
Chase Potter
Chase Potter Жилийн өмнө
Can you please donate 1000 to me every month? Thanks.
Oridan1 Жилийн өмнө
this is BRILLIANT! I always figured fear of failure was the thing freezing, but I fail all the time and It's just a normal thing to me. It's actually when I'm doing good that I stop myself, I can't put into words how accurate this fits my situation. Thanks a lot for making this video, I'll get to working on improving these associations!
Rachel M
Rachel M Жилийн өмнө
Comment section I need help thinking of a good counter example to Procrastination: doing school work at home makes less free time Trying to improve please help 😃
Angel Jordan
Angel Jordan Жилийн өмнө
AI J Жилийн өмнө
Nice ! :)
Louis Bala
Louis Bala Жилийн өмнө
Today once again I screwed up the best date of my life to keep myself safe. But this video and others alike gives hope that one day people will be free :)
Youngboy Kev
Youngboy Kev Жилийн өмнө
Bravery isnt not being scared. Bravery is being scared and doing it anyway. Get out there and chase your dreams!
Olga R. I.
Olga R. I. Жилийн өмнө
Your beautiful smile is so much more charming to watch than this animation :)
natalie begin
natalie begin Жилийн өмнө
What do you do when you self sabotage every area of your life?
Mostafa Saad
Mostafa Saad 9 сарын өмнө
natalie begin Stopping
NeatherBen221 Жилийн өмнө
I know that this is weird, so please bear with me. I'm really good at making friends (naturally, this has always been one of my best talents), but I'm bad at pickup because I'm worried that I'll be rejected. As someone who makes a lot of friends, this has always confused me. (I'm going to watch your Friend Zone Buster right after I do the fear list in this video)
Ryan Hurley
Ryan Hurley Жилийн өмнө
I self sabotage every time I try to vlog in public ://
Mostafa Saad
Mostafa Saad 9 сарын өмнө
Ryan Thomas sameee. Stopped making videos eventually
AFord 42
AFord 42 Жилийн өмнө
Wow. $1000 a month is half our income! o.O
Nega_Weeb Жилийн өмнө
i just dont like the gym because its really uncomfortable and hard to lift heavy things. its exhausting, it stinks and its not fun at all. i dont think my self conscious is tricking me. i think its just really hard.
Marko Bogović
Marko Bogović Жилийн өмнө
I self sabotage because its the easier way.
Katie B
Katie B Жилийн өмнө
It’s in my genes, I swear to god 😂🙃
thehoneyeffect Жилийн өмнө
Help meeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!
Only One MITCH!
Only One MITCH! Жилийн өмнө
I don't get it
Arthur Withheld
Arthur Withheld Жилийн өмнө
so basically positive affirmations and use law of attraction principles.
Devam Жилийн өмнө
Charlie, would it be a lot of trouble to make a video on Captain America? Captain America needs a breakdown because he's a great leader from whom you can help us learn from. And as a Marvel Fan yourself, I'm sure you'll have fun making it.
Adoremejoy Жилийн өмнө
What are your limiting beliefs ?
n3rds3y3vi3w Жилийн өмнө
Wow the first 60 secs of this video is the story of my life
N. Goldberg
N. Goldberg Жилийн өмнө
I self-sabotage because I’m lazy. That’s it
Morgan McKay
Morgan McKay Жилийн өмнө
Any advice for me. I self sabotage when it comes to being loved. I go into things with the mind set of being alone or having to always be in defense of things. I never let myself be loved or to love them. How do I teach myself to see things in a positive light?
Jared Byrne
Jared Byrne Жилийн өмнө
Great video but the music makes it so distracting
Mary Danielle
Mary Danielle Жилийн өмнө
I self sabotage because my husband wants me to get into a career that I’m not interested in. He won’t change his mind no matter how miserable I tell him that I am.
diam0ndMiner64 Жилийн өмнө
Yeah I’d like to be healthy that sounds co- oh wait I have to do something? Never mind I am good
Samir Ahmad Mir
Samir Ahmad Mir Жилийн өмнө
Where is justin Y
N. Goldberg
N. Goldberg Жилийн өмнө
Hm idk I think I’m just lazy
Anastasia S.
Anastasia S. Жилийн өмнө
Yatshie Жилийн өмнө
I only have one thing to say: THANK YOU!
taliagula Жилийн өмнө
Appreciate the hard work on the video and the content! The music is really distracting though-the music isn’t necessary.
Charisma on Command
Charisma on Command Жилийн өмнө
~ Thanks for the feedback. :-)
Afreen K
Afreen K Жилийн өмнө
I usually end up giving up at the very last minute. I work hard at a goal, only to then walk away at the finish line.
Dave Arroyo
Dave Arroyo Жилийн өмнө
Nice animation 👍
007agentjm Жилийн өмнө
pleass help me beat my own T-SERIES just do it yes u can! I just need help!98% people wont read this but for the 2% reading this I hope you become successful in life with everything you dream of and accomplish more than you imagined and I wouldnt mind a sub! I'm a small ytr
Armen Agaronian
Armen Agaronian Жилийн өмнө
Don’t think and write that you are sabotaging yourself and why, just write the second part.
Mr Slothbeast72
Mr Slothbeast72 Жилийн өмнө
thank you
Samantha Mitchell
Samantha Mitchell Жилийн өмнө
Wow. I did the exercise: Success - if I get noticed, I will be a target How do I deal with this?
Alexandra Viola
Alexandra Viola Жилийн өмнө
Every fear is somehow trying to protect us! Being compassionate with it is super valuable!
Exo Жилийн өмнө
I am in this reality now
Name Жилийн өмнө
Now that I am aware of having self sabotaging behavior, I refuse to watch this video as it may significantly help my situation and improve my quality of life
JUNO FREEZE Жилийн өмнө
I am single could someone help me to stop sabotaging myself
Tara Wagner Coaching
Tara Wagner Coaching Жилийн өмнө
I feel like this is something a lot of people do without even realizing then just blame themselves and get stuck in a never ending cycle or rut of failure and "self-sabotaging" behaviors! It's hard to break but with a mindset shift it's totally doable and gets easier over time!
Giaiel Pace
Giaiel Pace Жилийн өмнө
I’ve heard all this from Antony Robins.
Toms Pirktiņš
Toms Pirktiņš Жилийн өмнө
"Greetings female human!" made me laugh :D
Benjanna Жилийн өмнө
donate a $1000 a month? That is SO much money!
QuackerJack09 Жилийн өмнө
bad background music choice - its distracting. :P
Eskander Xanderama
Eskander Xanderama Жилийн өмнө
But what if I self-sabotage by being too lazy? Like I know I should be studying, and I'm running out of time, but man I just can't stay focused... I tried your suggestion, but I don't seem to find any "secret fear of success" for being employed and having a salary. Does that still count?
MS Жилийн өмнө
by winning
Ray Villaflor
Ray Villaflor Жилийн өмнө
The infographics show animation vibes
djx art
djx art Жилийн өмнө
what is the song in in back?
Stephen Brennan
Stephen Brennan Жилийн өмнө
Hey man. Outstanding channel. I'm curious about your animations. Custom and expensive, or generic and available to the public? I want to launch a channel of my own but the animations are my biggest hurdle. Thank you in advance.
What the Uproar?
What the Uproar? Жилийн өмнө
Anyone know the background music?
A Random Introvert Online
A Random Introvert Online Жилийн өмнө
Donate to me this month._.
Gries He
Gries He Жилийн өмнө
Love your videos, but the animation and music feels really distracting in this one. Stop imitating The School of Life.
Violet Жилийн өмнө
If you can afford to give as much a month to charity as i have to pay in rent each month, you're already doing better off than like 90% of humanity. Some of us don't have the opportunities you clearly were fortunate enough to be given;
Andrew Feist
Andrew Feist Жилийн өмнө
Bill Gates is an asshole
Scott Spalding
Scott Spalding Жилийн өмнө
The financial stakes video linked isn't the right one. Does anyone have the correct link?
omar khamis
omar khamis Жилийн өмнө
checking the answered and handed it to the teacher. I knew I should do something about it. So when the teacher started collecting the papers from students I quickly went to his desk saw my paper and corrected the mistake. My body was filled with adrenaline that moment lol
Alexandré Kotch
Alexandré Kotch Жилийн өмнө
Thought it was Kurzgesagt
Pacific Coast
Pacific Coast Жилийн өмнө
Background music is annoying. Good content though.
Warren Will
Warren Will Жилийн өмнө
Rajveer Singh
Rajveer Singh Жилийн өмнө
The MNpost channel julienhimself is really keen on stopping self sabotage and living life in abundance, check him out!
Bob Bobby
Bob Bobby Жилийн өмнө
Nice video but I think there's too much happening visually.
Xcizior Жилийн өмнө
Ali Reza Teymouri
Ali Reza Teymouri Жилийн өмнө
Great content! May I ask what software you use to create animated lectures?
Kiran Goud
Kiran Goud Жилийн өмнө
I have an another technique, when ever I am tensed or afraid I go completely dumb, then to solve this I think about my self as excited I constantly tell to myself that I am excited rather than afraid. This brings back the normal state of my brain
Krzysztof Wis
Krzysztof Wis Жилийн өмнө
I am sabotaging myself right now by watching a MNpost video, lmao
sean Жилийн өмнө
ripped straight from school of life
emDawg Жилийн өмнө
I take my failures and dwell on them, it’s hard for me not to tell myself stuff while I see myself failing and my co workers doing better. I try to do affirmations, have positive attitude, and do everything to focus on here and now but it helps only to a certain degree. This video is exactly what I needed, a compass TY. You da best
The Troy Spiral Show - BDSM Journey & Education
The Troy Spiral Show - BDSM Journey & Education Жилийн өмнө
I wonder what program they use to make the animations.
pinkette Жилийн өмнө
Money is a multiplier. If you're caring and generous, it'll make you more so. If you're an asshole, it'll make you a bigger one. And if you have a hole in yourself that you wanna fill, it'll just make the hole more apparent.
jBaO493 Жилийн өмнө
Yeah I kinda got an idea similar to what you explain in the video. Each time I try to do something new or something that makes me uncomfortable I feel like I will mess up big time. So the idea the I ended up with was that I should still try my hardest to archieve something or do the thing, so if I do and still fail at it, sure I would feel bad at the moment, but at the end of the day that becomes a new experience for me to learn from, wich would make it less scary for me to try again, and it could potentially become a funny or interesting story to tell my friends and family in the future.
SomeSayApple Жилийн өмнө
The biggest believe, the one I think it all boils down to, is "I don't deserve this." BUT yes: you are good enough, you can allow yourself to be happy!
Lebo Rapuleng
Lebo Rapuleng Жилийн өмнө
I think the most important thing for me about this video is that I actually believe that this will work.
iLLzWiLLz Watu'z
iLLzWiLLz Watu'z Жилийн өмнө
Please stay in realty because they will reframe reality
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