How To Be Charming Without Trying

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While watching clips from the previous Game of Thrones breakdown, I came across some cast interview clips, and I could not help but notice how effortlessly charming Emilia Clarke was. Emilia displays a number of charismatic habits, though, while seemingly simple, are extremely powerful.
In this video, we are going to break down 4 of Emilia’s habits that make her so charming. These might seem very simple at first, but there are nuances that take them from ordinary basic advice to habits that can make you extremely charismatic if you hit the nuance.

0:38 - Habit #1: ”Smile frequently (and genuinely)”
2:59 - Habit #2: “Build other people up”
5:29 - Habit #3: “Raise the energy in your interactions”
7:21 - Habit #4: “Be an active listener”
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Manmaya Mishra
Manmaya Mishra Цагийн өмнө
I can watch this vdo all day
Mr WHOM?? 2 цагийн өмнө
If you can laugh with Jimmy Fallon, you've nailed it! But that smile is amazing.
lowridr2 10 цагийн өмнө
with teeth like that i would laugh at my credit card being declined
nightmastercool97 97
nightmastercool97 97 2 өдрийн өмнө
she is extremely adorable
Matthieu Saade
Matthieu Saade 2 өдрийн өмнө
You can have all of those things but it will not work without being very good looking
nikab jo
nikab jo 2 өдрийн өмнө
But a MAN cannot act or behave like Emilia bro. How do you go about it for a MAN ?
Louise Staats
Louise Staats 3 өдрийн өмнө
Too bad we don't see smiles anymore. Defund the mask cult.
growingoaks productions
growingoaks productions 3 өдрийн өмнө
Also helps if you’re me
RedLeader 3 өдрийн өмнө
It’s all fun and games until someone calls you out for a fake laugh.
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Admiral Halsey
Admiral Halsey 3 өдрийн өмнө
Sometimes I feel like this channel is a guide on how to be a sociopath.
Sport Hub.
Sport Hub. 5 өдрийн өмнө
I smiled at an angry person and now I had only two teeth left.
sarahi 5 өдрийн өмнө
It also has to do that she has a very nice smile, which is part of her charm. A lot of people don’t have that smile or feel insecure of smiling. Demi Lovato used to smile a lot then people started making fun of her wide smile, and now Demi doesn’t smile like that anymore especially in photos.
Teri P
Teri P 6 өдрийн өмнө
I adore that positivity and genuine hapiness she expresses. I used to be like that but people would put me down a lot because of my appearance since I was a child. I grew up and came closer to what an attractive person looks like but unfortunatelly that genuine emotions and trust in people just dissapeared. Now I just feel bitter, self-concious and suspicious when I talk to most people. I am scared to be myself because I got rejected so many times. But it´s me who is paying the price for not being able to bring positivity to others.
Dana 6 өдрийн өмнө
Nice to see videos about charismatic women. Thank you.
Notice me Senpai
Notice me Senpai 7 өдрийн өмнө
"How to be charming without trying" < "What makes Emilia Clarke so attractive" One thing, I realized I behave like Emilia around my friends. So I agree how powerful a smile and laugh can be. However no matter how much I desire to act the same in public, I can't bring myself to fake a smile in front of a stranger and end up getting nervous instead.
Nomad Music BK
Nomad Music BK 9 өдрийн өмнө
Emilia Clarke is so charming, beautiful and very charismatic. She also seems like super down to earth as a person.
Stan Clark
Stan Clark 9 өдрийн өмнө
EM is overdone. Surry. Talented actress, yes.
Robinson Huso
Robinson Huso 9 өдрийн өмнө
When I smile people usually just make fun of my teeth...
Susan Koech
Susan Koech 10 өдрийн өмнө
What if you ugly?
Lya Morian
Lya Morian 10 өдрийн өмнө
If I were Emilia Clarke, I would also have such a big smile.
sheena yee
sheena yee 10 өдрийн өмнө
I disagree... I'm still at the first point, this doesn't work as well when you have RBF... no matter how sincere you are. T.T
GT S1971
GT S1971 12 өдрийн өмнө
These are good. probably the only way some ppl access this info now. One thing though, the Volume fluctuates from video to video if you can sort that out Yo!
Shannon’s Diaries
Shannon’s Diaries 12 өдрийн өмнө
She is just so nice to watch
gurll 1234
gurll 1234 12 өдрийн өмнө
Smiling all the time is annoying.
exacto 15 өдрийн өмнө
"How to be Charismatic without trying" if I didnt need to try, this wouodnt literally be a tutorial, but okay
Ben A. E
Ben A. E 16 өдрийн өмнө
So, basically, be manipulative passive aggressively : pretend everyone else is funny so everyone likes you.
WInky 18 өдрийн өмнө
I always fail the fill in the blanks quiz at the start
Emilia 23 өдрийн өмнө
I've never liked my name, but Emilia Clarke does the name so good
mmoviefan7 24 өдрийн өмнө
Jen Z. K.
Jen Z. K. 25 өдрийн өмнө
Please more videos like this. There are so many great women to learn from.
Shirley C
Shirley C 26 өдрийн өмнө
Too smiley and giggly. Annoying. Humor in everything is annoying. Needs more gravitas. Boooooooooooooring. High school cheerleader type.
Emma White
Emma White 26 өдрийн өмнө
Who else is taking notes on how to make friends? XD
sabyasachee rath
sabyasachee rath 26 өдрийн өмнө
she had her near death experience i guess so she values her life and time now,, enjoy today, enjoying what she is doing.. nobody can fake a real smile and u cant fake excitement
clouiseandrew 26 өдрийн өмнө
I really enjoy your videos. They make me feel good. Well done.
lmao lmao
lmao lmao 27 өдрийн өмнө
As everyone says laughing is contiguous
chicken hen
chicken hen 28 өдрийн өмнө
When I saw the title I went like "I'm already charming" lol.
Lee Slays
Lee Slays 28 өдрийн өмнө
In the movie 'Me before you' Emilia Clarke is totally herself She's not acting, She's living the role!
Lee Slays
Lee Slays Өдрийн өмнө
@Some One I meant she's natural
Some One
Some One 2 өдрийн өмнө
I saw that. What makes you say she's not acting in that?
Green B
Green B 29 өдрийн өмнө
I really do admire your analysis it's aqurrate and smart but honestly I don't think it is possible for someone to rebuild the way they have been formed deep down.
Natasha Neoh
Natasha Neoh 29 өдрийн өмнө
I absolutely love this woman. Must protect at all costs.
zakosist 29 өдрийн өмнө
For the first point I sometimes avoid smiling around people because I don't like to be asked why I'm smiling (it's seriously none of their business) and if I'm not happy at in moment I cant even give a fake smile most of the time, tried that for photographs several times. I'm also not at all the type to joke around, I just don't think in that way on my own. I think I'm not very charismatic based on this video, but that doesn't really surprise me
irene clemente
irene clemente 29 өдрийн өмнө
I can see hailee steinfeld in everything you had point out in emelia clarke. No wonder hailee is so chaming as well.
Bliss WKC
Bliss WKC 29 өдрийн өмнө
Thank You so much dearest 🌹 You’re such an inspiration 🥰 Appreciate y’all from the bottom of my heart 💖 Stay Blissful Eternally 🙏😇🌈
nfinitiduck Сарын өмнө
I feel so bad for what they did to her character at the end of GoT. That probably cut short a whole bunch of royalties income that would have been hers if the show had retained fans.
zakosist 29 өдрийн өмнө
My dad actually predicted the ending in game of thrones before it was released (only a few days before). He predicted people would be mad for it too
Sebastian Binny
Sebastian Binny Сарын өмнө
Emilia Clarke watches vid: What no!! My role model is Kanye West
Prerana Peeps
Prerana Peeps Сарын өмнө
I can be charismatic, attractive and carefree only when I'm really really happy
Disciplinado Сарын өмнө
Save the Uygur people. Byctt China! who is kllng them. Byctt France who banned religious freedom.
pinupdolls Сарын өмнө
Really?! Wow. This must be the difference between Brits and Americans. I'm sure she's lovely but I find her so annoying I'd avoid her at all costs. I've asked other British friends and they all say the same.
Fun Love
Fun Love Сарын өмнө
Complete light bulb
giovanna manamana
giovanna manamana Сарын өмнө
Ive seen your videos (i.e NICE and there was another video about Tom Cruise) and enjoyed them. BUT I am disappointed about this video.. when we are talking about Emilia Clark (a women) you pointed that SMILE is very important. It is very frustrating. WHY WOMEN HAVE TO SMILE and MEN JUST NEED TO BE ASSERTIVE? Why we women have to be "CHARMING", SMILING and JOKING to be likeable ???!!! So introversion applies just to MEN??
Carbage Man
Carbage Man Сарын өмнө
It helps to be gorgeous.
Nicole Cruz
Nicole Cruz Сарын өмнө
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Alex Yeezus
Alex Yeezus Сарын өмнө
I love how u show Chris Evans & Will smith as other examples because if u put Emilia, Chris, and Will in the same room it will be the biggest supporting/ loving room full of people you'll ever meet. They exude happiness and it might be overwhelming at times
Aimee Tran Nguyen
Aimee Tran Nguyen Сарын өмнө
My queennnn
Leto85 Сарын өмнө
This seems to work depending on where you live. I got the feeling Americans are generally more expressive with their facial expressions and energy level and after watching many Charisma on Command videos I think that seems to work for them.' But do this in my country however and people might react differently.
Piano Piano
Piano Piano Сарын өмнө
Who is the little Guy from a movie that fake smile?
Burden82 Сарын өмнө
of course this is easy if you are so easily amused. if you think everything is funny and laugh at it but everybody doesnt think all that is funny so should you fake your laugh?
Burden82 Сарын өмнө
also all people your examples are good looking people. its so much easier to pull these things of if you are good looking.
Sherosekhan Khan
Sherosekhan Khan Сарын өмнө
Emilia is just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside 😊
Blassom Empress
Blassom Empress Сарын өмнө
So I'm already.. Am Because I already laugh at myself... Also I can't joke... So I let people joke around 😆😆😂😳😳😳😳 But my crush doesn't talk to me 😭😭 actually rarely
Therese Poblador
Therese Poblador Сарын өмнө
Sometimes people don't smile too much or laugh too much because they are too conscious of their face. If they smile or laugh too much, they think they look ugly, so they just hold themselves from smiling or laughing too much. Emilia doesn't have to worry because she is beautiful. And when she smiles or laugh exagerrately, she is still beautiful. Her charms is so unique. When she smiles, you feel it that it comes from her heart. Her smile is magnetic.
Petite Fleur - Micro Flower Farm
Petite Fleur - Micro Flower Farm Сарын өмнө
She is adorable!
T S Сарын өмнө
Regardless of how true this is, its also good to note, to not take things personally and not read into something that may or may not be there but more so to be present in that moment and respond accordingly.
Palo Kan
Palo Kan Сарын өмнө
emilia allows herself to find the humor in everything my depression doesn't allow me to find humor in anything touché
Lilly Сарын өмнө
I feel that. I've struggled with depression for a lot of years and it took some flip flopping hard work to find humor again! But now, even though I still struggle a lot with depression, I can find joy by finding humor in the little things. Even if it's just my dog's flatulence. Don't give up! Laughter is one of the keys to dealing with chronic depression! Find a happy spot and focus on it, until your perspective shifts from seeing the black to only seeing that tiny speck of light, until the blackness is overcome by the good you focus on! I believe in you! 😇😇😇
Skyeebutt Сарын өмнө
I noticed this when hanging out with people that are kind of like Emilia Clarke. Hanging out with people such as her changes you to automatically do the same, at least in my experience haha
Wasa Bista
Wasa Bista Сарын өмнө
Charismatic habit #5 starts at the 8:35 mark.
Maksuda Rahman
Maksuda Rahman Сарын өмнө
Smile frequently Me wearing mask : ..........
Devadathan k k
Devadathan k k Сарын өмнө
Big difference between a fake smile and a smile is amount of skin curve in theirs eye and eye bow
JustLaurie Сарын өмнө
If you have to watch a video to learn how to be charismatic without trying, I think you’ve already failed because the fact you watched the video means you’re trying.
Glue Stone
Glue Stone Сарын өмнө
How to be charismatic? Simple Be positive 😂
Alana Ray
Alana Ray Сарын өмнө
Just me or her smile look like Jimin 😂
sneha k
sneha k Сарын өмнө
Constant smiling hurts lol
Felix’s Sausage
Felix’s Sausage Сарын өмнө
My personality is just like hers but on the inside I frequently have insecure thoughts and wonder if people find me annoying or if I’m being too loud or if I laugh too much
Felix’s Sausage
Felix’s Sausage Сарын өмнө
@Lilly yepyep 😋✋
Lilly Сарын өмнө
Same! Just kind of have to ignore them and keep being yourself!
seokjin kim
seokjin kim Сарын өмнө
the fact that I'm watching is either sad or trying hard.
• Lexi Gacha •
• Lexi Gacha • Сарын өмнө
The thing is... When I smile or laugh, my eyes don't really have a reaction so like... I always look manipulative :')
One woman theater
One woman theater Сарын өмнө
I love her! She is awsome! As an actress and as a person
Matilda Mironova
Matilda Mironova Сарын өмнө
its 1;48 rn
Matilda Mironova
Matilda Mironova Сарын өмнө
why this has 5.7m views
Salina Burwell
Salina Burwell Сарын өмнө
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amelia Сарын өмнө
so now all sociopaths are here
Blue Striker
Blue Striker Сарын өмнө
Emilia Clarke would have made a better Captain Marvel
liza neva
liza neva Сарын өмнө
So interessting
NikkivBaren Сарын өмнө
I actually find her so overly expressive it almost feels fake again...and a little cringy but I guess I'm the only one who feels that way. That's fine.
Mike Smith
Mike Smith Сарын өмнө
“Start doing this” *arrow pointing to Emilia Clarke* Do you not think I hadn’t thought of this?
Torment 2 сарын өмнө
You had me at the “without trying”
immaculate dayawon
immaculate dayawon 2 сарын өмнө
I love emilia clarke ❤️
MarB 2 сарын өмнө
She doesn't care rocking back and forth while laughing while others are just so poised and fake. She's always "into the moment" and laugh at her own mistakes. She's adorable 🥰
Fonso Huggins
Fonso Huggins 2 сарын өмнө
I low key fell in love with this woman... Tell me her name! TELL me...HER NAME!
Sami RS
Sami RS Сарын өмнө
It’s everywhere in the comments and even in the video dude.
Suschi 2 сарын өмнө
She’s literally always laughing
Ines Vandevelde
Ines Vandevelde 2 сарын өмнө
Me watching Emilia: 😊 Me seeing David and Dan: 😠
Ines Vandevelde
Ines Vandevelde 2 сарын өмнө
I mean, if I had such perfect teeth I’d smile a lot too lol
Ines Vandevelde
Ines Vandevelde 2 сарын өмнө
I love the The Office fragments in these videos
ASC 2 сарын өмнө
Maybe she is using before the interviews, I look like that when I smoke
Aaditya Singh
Aaditya Singh 2 сарын өмнө
My Crush has Surely Watched this Video
Narc Abuse Victim Germany
Narc Abuse Victim Germany 2 сарын өмнө
Laughing at yourself is not my cup of tea and seems VERY imbalanced!!
Joshua Loren
Joshua Loren 2 сарын өмнө
I love that she got the role by doing the robot lol
Allanise Balbutin
Allanise Balbutin 2 сарын өмнө
i've now developed a crush on Emilia Clarke thank u for that
Potato Potato
Potato Potato 2 сарын өмнө
is charisma mostly natural or nurtured? 🤔
radha mohan
radha mohan 2 сарын өмнө
If you're learning how to that means u're trying
Xanthropy 2 сарын өмнө
Yaaass. Emilia Clarke is my ideal spirit animal 🤣 I also like Sofia Vergara
Invincible Rage
Invincible Rage 2 сарын өмнө
Does it also help that she's gorgeous? I was talking to her eyebrows.
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