How To Be Charming Without Trying

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While watching clips from the previous Game of Thrones breakdown, I came across some cast interview clips, and I could not help but notice how effortlessly charming Emilia Clarke was. Emilia displays a number of charismatic habits, though, while seemingly simple, are extremely powerful.
In this video, we are going to break down 4 of Emilia’s habits that make her so charming. These might seem very simple at first, but there are nuances that take them from ordinary basic advice to habits that can make you extremely charismatic if you hit the nuance.

0:38 - Habit #1: ”Smile frequently (and genuinely)”
2:59 - Habit #2: “Build other people up”
5:29 - Habit #3: “Raise the energy in your interactions”
7:21 - Habit #4: “Be an active listener”
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Steam_bigh 9 цагийн өмнө
She still was the wrong fit to the Sarah Connor role
Arunoday Birare
Arunoday Birare Өдрийн өмнө
They say... You learn a new thing everyday! Today's lesson was from this charming lady... What a gem of a human being 👍👍👍
Mon Mon
Mon Mon Өдрийн өмнө
Alternate title: How to be Emilia Clarke Author: Game of Thrones fanatic
Emil RB
Emil RB Өдрийн өмнө
Me: Smiles like Emilia Clarke People at funeral: "Ey yo wtf"
Nessa-Saurus Rex
Nessa-Saurus Rex 2 өдрийн өмнө
this video genuinely made me feel better about myself and taught me so much I'm really glad this came up on my recommended
Cody Bonnet
Cody Bonnet 2 өдрийн өмнө
If you're watching this video, then you're trying lol.
Pelvatube Anh
Pelvatube Anh 3 өдрийн өмнө
2:09 2:43 3:10 3:44
Shar Qureshi
Shar Qureshi 3 өдрийн өмнө
It’s good if you’re a celebrity or another famous person but in real life if you repeat people’s words back to them they get annoyed almost in a “yes I just said that now let me finishing talking” kind of way. Or some ppl hate it so much they think you’re just trying to finish their sentences for them or I’ve even heard “ no you don’t know what it’s like so just shut up and let me talk “
BLAST 4 өдрийн өмнө
Has the thumbnail been changed
mjay joseph
mjay joseph 4 өдрийн өмнө
First tip.. stop being ugly become beautiful..
Ianes Grécia
Ianes Grécia 4 өдрийн өмнө
Brie should take lessons from Emilia
SaneKittens 4 өдрийн өмнө
Yesterday I went to a gathering and employed these tactics. Got a really great response, people I don't usually talk to I had a blast with, no lulls in the conversation. 😁
Emily131004 Perez
Emily131004 Perez 5 өдрийн өмнө
not me thinking I’m the most attractive person to live bcuz I’ve been doing this my whole life lmaoo
Aleen 6 өдрийн өмнө
Her smile is contagious 😁 , my lips are stuck😁😆.
Jenil Patel
Jenil Patel 6 өдрийн өмнө
In order to be charismatic, you have to be rich, handsome and wearing costly clothes and smiling like her.
Hanisu-chan 7 өдрийн өмнө
People wear masks now. I can't see anyone's smiles!
Ahmed Aly
Ahmed Aly 8 өдрийн өмнө
I think she's just high all the time
Captv 9 өдрийн өмнө
My question is how can you be so happy all the time
cristy icaro
cristy icaro 9 өдрийн өмнө
she's a ray of sunshine
Hans Alvarado
Hans Alvarado 10 өдрийн өмнө
imagine her constantly laughing at a funeral
Not a Complete Idiot...
Not a Complete Idiot... 11 өдрийн өмнө
If a person strives to one-up the emotional tone of people around them, is that not fake though? 🤔
Almaa Asadii
Almaa Asadii 12 өдрийн өмнө
I love it It was so so so good🤩👍🏻
Hannah Barre
Hannah Barre 13 өдрийн өмнө
Ok but I'm sad like all the time. I can't smile this often
Themackman 13 өдрийн өмнө
Please do one on Joe Keery.
NAMLAZ 13 өдрийн өмнө
her interviews make me feel like playing the sims again lol
Khushi Raizada
Khushi Raizada 13 өдрийн өмнө
Guys ... don't try to be normal okay... that will make you charming
Star Wars Examined
Star Wars Examined 14 өдрийн өмнө
Be a woman the end
Asimo Cloud
Asimo Cloud 14 өдрийн өмнө
I am in space
Maria Clara
Maria Clara 16 өдрийн өмнө
first step: don't watch this video
Tatted 1969
Tatted 1969 17 өдрийн өмнө
I didnt realize she was so cute, and I watched the whole GOT series.
Dr. Jon Tam - Career Clarity Coach
Dr. Jon Tam - Career Clarity Coach 17 өдрийн өмнө
0:39 Have a beaming and frequent smile (a genuine smile comes from finding humor in things) 3:10 Build other people up (You can tease your friends if you tie up with a compliment) 5:32 Raise he energy in the room 7:24 Be in active listening
IamNotAnOrange !
IamNotAnOrange ! 17 өдрийн өмнө
*so it has come to this...*
e33u 18 өдрийн өмнө
Thing is... if you’re watching this video about how to be charming without trying then technically aren’t you trying to be charming by watching this
Vesna Sunrider
Vesna Sunrider 18 өдрийн өмнө
Genuine laughter and allowing oneself to feel the humour are being subtly killed by SJWs and their everything-I don't-agree-with-is-offensive attitude.
GHASTIFY 19 өдрийн өмнө
I was dead when I saw Kanye make this face 0:50
palacinkasmarmeladou 20 өдрийн өмнө
She's Libra. Libra people are peoplepleasers. 5hey are generally likeable people.
ji ya
ji ya 21 өдрийн өмнө
You speak so fast and your example clips are too fast to capture as well. Tough for a non-native speaker to catch whats going on
Sradhanjali Deb
Sradhanjali Deb 21 өдрийн өмнө
I lost it at kanye's expression.
Mike Starkly
Mike Starkly 22 өдрийн өмнө
What about when people feel uneasy when you smile like Emilia? lol When I smile genuinely a lot of people look at me like they are scared. lmao She had serious brain surgery and I think instead of being sad about it or super fearful she is grateful for every moment alive and wants others to feel the same.
SlazerFis 23 өдрийн өмнө
My introvert headass, Watching this at 5am trying to remember how get be like-able and charming again as i’m going into sales again after a year of doing nothing
Hans Karps
Hans Karps 25 өдрийн өмнө
The fact that I have to click on a video telling me how to be charming without trying, means I failed by default.
Icy Mike
Icy Mike 25 өдрийн өмнө
My eyebrows turn upside down too when I lough and I hate it 😂
Story Time with Tia
Story Time with Tia 26 өдрийн өмнө
Love it! 💗
irlfc9 27 өдрийн өмнө
Emilia is great as a person but she really isn't that great of an actress nor is she really a commanding star performer. Someone should give her a talk show to host. I'd watch that easily.
Rozz 27 өдрийн өмнө
How to be charming: Step 1: Smile Step 2: Be insanely attractive
Cyrus John
Cyrus John 28 өдрийн өмнө
She is cute and attractive.I like her
Plippy :p
Plippy :p 28 өдрийн өмнө
i dont find her charming? i dont even know her and i dont care about hollywood stars
Hritik 29 өдрийн өмнө
Be authentic that's all
Ana S
Ana S Сарын өмнө
Perfect example of how to be successful in your career by simply being confident and positive.
Pete Sander
Pete Sander Сарын өмнө
You know these traits remind of an article on Jennifer Aniston of friends. Kind of similar traits.
Chesca Seastar
Chesca Seastar Сарын өмнө
She’s just so amazing
TahsinTK Сарын өмнө
bro I thought charming means sexy facial expressions.
Graciela Montano
Graciela Montano Сарын өмнө
Will SMith would've been the perfect example of this
Bubba Сарын өмнө
Not to brag or anything, but I've seen her naked
Alex Taylor
Alex Taylor Сарын өмнө
Great video as always thank you.
Big - Designs
Big - Designs Сарын өмнө
I'd do it .. if I could make payments
jin Is best
jin Is best Сарын өмнө
Her smiling made me smile lol
Wolverine Smith
Wolverine Smith Сарын өмнө
During the entire run of the show, I really thought that Emilia’s acting for Daenerys Targaryen was such a flat character. She played the character so stoic, which just made her seem without emotion and no sense of humor. I was always surprised at her bubbly and lovable personality. In interviews. Too bad they didn’t let a bit of that shine through while playing Dany?. I say “they”, because I believe it was the directors that made her drop all of her real personality and charm for the role. She is so lovable every time I see her interviews. When Dan tells the story of how she got the role, it is exactly the traits they had her drop when playing Daenerys? As evil as they made her turn in a single episode, that would have been more creepy had she been using this charm you see here. We would all feel fooled by an outward personality which was hiding such a demon inside. Emilia is so charming in person, I just don’t see why she can’t get some of that into her acting? Her role as Sarah Conners in that Terminator movie was as flat as Daenerys Targaryen. I know that Linda Hamilton is a tough acto follow, but at least get a little of her own lovable personality in there. Why is everything played so stoic with her? You can be a strong leader and still have a lovable personality. In fact, that’s more realistic. Most politicians are very good at charming people,Megan tyrants could be charming when they need too. Look at Bill Clinton? Hollywood has no actor as harming and polished as he is. It’s all part of the game. Such a stoic leader appears more like a tyrant, which was what D&D decided to make her the end with that third reich setup, the bat wings behind her and all of the unsullied locked-step, standing at attention for her Führer-seque speech, they wanted her to look like a tyrant... I hope she gets a role, finally, that will let her natural personality shine.
2000sancho Сарын өмнө
And being incredibly hot helps her alot.
Lorraine Craill
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mollie sullivan
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Venus D
Venus D Сарын өмнө
I didn’t realize it was that easy!! I’ve always been like this, but I’ve also been very depressed. Ive always felt secretly distrustful if people who like me bc I feel they’re trying to take advantage of me which had happened before in a few long term situations but I think I was just shy back then while also displaying these traits which did attract a lot of friends in high school with bpd (3 friends had and gone with bpd peeps) or depression. During months of depression I would avoid people completely but they’d still hit me up and I didn’t understand it. It caused me to feel enormous levels of guilt. I guess when someone likes me I suddenly feel obligated. I couldn’t figure out why some people would ask me out or gravitate to me when I felt like I wasn’t funny enough, all though I can be at moments, I see humor easily at least. I’m not the best story telling either, which I thought was more essential to being a charismatic person but maybe just telling the story like it’s interesting works. Never felt I had anything to really offer someone bc I feel like I live a boring life. But BEING NICE AND smiling and laughing at others jokes and bringing other up and listening is all it takes ??? I thought I was lame... I don’t really know how to tease someone properly ( lonely only child also no cousins) without going over the line which I’ve always thought was ultimately lame about myself in gen z . ... also I’ve been told I’m pretty but it’s not in a perfect way, I have crooked teeth and a crooked nose but and overall unique face bc I’m mixed race. Apparently good enough! I thought you had to be perfect like a celebrity to be liked or be found attractive but the world is made up of normal people lmao. I guess my genuine fascination in others lives works. After this vid it clicked with me why I attract people sometimes, and why I’ve been told I have an amazing personality when it doesn’t feel that way. Kindness > all .
Random Сарын өмнө
Uhm......I'm not Emilia Clarke
R Сарын өмнө
Step 1, be pretty like her
Tony Good
Tony Good Сарын өмнө
Most of these people are higher than a racehorse before it makes a race
Chris King
Chris King Сарын өмнө
I am doomed... she appears 99% forced/phony to me.
Yukiro Gacha
Yukiro Gacha Сарын өмнө
I definitely got charmed by her
Nunya Mayne act
Nunya Mayne act Сарын өмнө
Jane Doe
Jane Doe Сарын өмнө
_I love Emilia_
Olivier R. Cantada
Olivier R. Cantada Сарын өмнө
The Talented Mr. Ripley must’ve subscribed to this channel
Ceverice Сарын өмнө
I’m only here because my mental doctors say that eating people is "mean”? I guess It’s only like 1% rude but apparently it’s 100% rude, they deserve to be in a mental hospital,
Mary Keleher
Mary Keleher Сарын өмнө
I watched this video to gain insight on how to charm people in my pageant videos and then Chris Evans showed up. What a bonus
whereare _theavocados
whereare _theavocados Сарын өмнө
No one Me.. Looking for a personality change during quarantine.
RED RED Сарын өмнө
Noah Bake
Noah Bake Сарын өмнө
I'd like to see a charm breakdown of Simon Cowell
shrishti sinha
shrishti sinha Сарын өмнө
I genuinely smile and laugh and this video comforts me 🤣😂
odmoeod Сарын өмнө
alternative title, "explaining why I have a crush on Emilia Clarke in the most lowkey way possible"
Melvin Carlton Johnson III
Melvin Carlton Johnson III Сарын өмнө
be yourself... III
Utajiri Y
Utajiri Y Сарын өмнө
Emilia is charming & heart warming😊
Catholic Chroma Channel
Catholic Chroma Channel Сарын өмнө
Thanks for the great video! Godspeed to all who read this!
David Сарын өмнө
she is NOT a stuck up PHONEY..but seems warm hearted and genuine.... happy
WEBAZE Labs Сарын өмнө
It's not something you DO or not do, it's something you ARE
Reniu TuIteraz
Reniu TuIteraz 2 сарын өмнө
She is a tiger woman, that explains everything ;)
Jimmy R
Jimmy R 2 сарын өмнө
Honestly, I find it annoying that she laughs so much at everything. I dont think I could hang out with someone like that.
Sofia Martinez
Sofia Martinez 2 сарын өмнө
if you want to be charming without trying as the title says.... It's too late because you are trying just by watching this video.
Northern Roam
Northern Roam 2 сарын өмнө
I want to be the one to say its okay to not be okay. Be yourself. Be kind. Be whatever YOU feel comfortable with.
Natalia de Carvalho P.
Natalia de Carvalho P. 2 сарын өмнө
smiling so hard like that all the time does make you seem more likable but imagine all the premature wrinkles
Jimmy 2 сарын өмнө
"How to be charming without trying" > be a pretty girl Ah, Y E S .
베어제이미 3 өдрийн өмнө
I personally think personality matters more. I know, it sounds cliché but trust me I know this girl who's considered a beauty queen but I don't find her beautiful at all because her personality is ugly. And then there are a few guys I know who I'm not gonna lie, I thought were quite ugly at first, but their hearts are so pure now I find them Super attractive. I used to think beauty was really just about looks, but I've found first hand that it's not. Being a bubble, polite person genuinely makes you so attractive and so beautiful to the people around you even if you can't see it😊❤️
Maya Kylnn
Maya Kylnn 2 сарын өмнө
What if I have really bad teeth
Havik 2 сарын өмнө
easy phycology degree at 15
F A Z 2 сарын өмнө
Genuine smile? Nope I lose it since my mom told me I’m ugly when i laughing
Maddy Harvey
Maddy Harvey 2 сарын өмнө
Someone recently compared my personality to Emilia Clarke and now I feel intensely flattered. She is one charming lady. 😏😍
Herng Tsui
Herng Tsui 2 сарын өмнө
First rule, be good looking
pedro GUNZ ceballos
pedro GUNZ ceballos 2 сарын өмнө
This works for women. Not realy for men. Us men have to keep a masculine frame, most of the time. Got this from alpha male strategies. Look him up.
KazekageNathaniel 2 сарын өмнө
Eye squinting isn't charismatic. Its a sign that the person doesnt want to be a part of the conversation/party/group.
alexa raye
alexa raye 2 сарын өмнө
she reminds me of melissa benoist. watch some interviews of melissa and you will see how similar they act.
Fariha Lubaba
Fariha Lubaba 2 сарын өмнө
Emilia is the sweetest. And very realistic too. I remember the time she followed me back on instagram by mistake 😂 I love her.
Ирина Шульга
Ирина Шульга 2 сарын өмнө
Приветствую друзья. Деловое предложение. Тема Золото самая актуальная. Я даю Вам место, оплачиваю а Вы на него трафик гоните, Работаем вместе получаете свои комиссионные и от всей команды навсегда Риск потерять деньги сводится к нолю По всем вопросам на моей странице инфо под видео о Золоте регистрируйся и я свяжусь с Вами
The unknown
The unknown 2 сарын өмнө
My smile is way to ugly :/
2oo8Mehta 2 сарын өмнө
When she laughs, she doesn’t have eyes
Andrea GJ
Andrea GJ 2 сарын өмнө
Well... if you are watching this video is that you are actually trying to be charming ;)
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