5 Easy Ways To Show Extreme Confidence

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Harvey Specter isn't exactly the perfect man. He can be rude, emotionally stunted and sarcastic. But even though he is flawed and of course fictional, his portrayal can teach you quite a bit about confidence and power in the real world.

So in this video you’ll learn concrete steps and deeper mindsets for conveying a deep sense of confidence and power.


0:48 - #1: Your body language & tone.
4:29 - #2: Attack the framing, not the content of the insult.
5:52 - #3: Don’t be there to impress.
8:09 - #4: Learn to become an expert at framing your options in any particular scenario.
9:20 - #5: Create options for yourself.

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C ME 20 цагийн өмнө
How about achieving things that you can be extremely confident about and thereby being extremely confident? 😈
Johnny'sCanadianLifestyle 6 өдрийн өмнө
"Thats exactly what I though when I came up with the idea" Yeah im gonna start using that lol
elisbeth duran
elisbeth duran 10 өдрийн өмнө
can you do barry Allen or Harrison wells? *the flash*
A K 11 өдрийн өмнө
The problem with these videos are that they teach people to 'Show extreme confidence', but forget to tell people to put in the work and earn skill before they can show confidence. Harvey Specter's character is a Harvard graduate with years of legal work experience in DA's office before he could reach this point in his life. You can learn how to show confidence but make sure you have the necessary skills to back it up!
diamondgirl33 12 өдрийн өмнө
In addition to his 'controlling the frame, ' they are not mentioning he is drop-dead gorgeous, $5,000 custom-tailored suit and a Harvard education. Love Harvey !
Karolis Qlka
Karolis Qlka 13 өдрийн өмнө
Harvy Specter is fictional okay. Just by taking info from this video, you will not go from average joe to someone like him. Now there's also a lot of things that comes to framing and was not mentioned. If you are poor and have a conversation with a rich individual you are already on a back foot, unless you are socially fluent to compensate and also if you are confident enough. If you are in a poor physical health against somebody fit, it's just things you can't fake or get better just by thinking about it. From my experience clever and socially experienced people have insane frames which cannot be easily matched without good practice. Yes you can use these tricks that was mentioned in the video and it will do better than nothing but do not expect miracles, at the end of the day, it's an art to be in position of power over conversations.
Lukas 15 өдрийн өмнө
Ben’s Art
Ben’s Art 15 өдрийн өмнө
this is pretty much how I conduct my interactions with others my frame or the frameway
Hatekrew1987 16 өдрийн өмнө
why is 'goddamn' considered a bleep word? Lol so weird... America shows titties and asses hanging out in thongs that's okay but 'goddamn' omg
m.ahmed Student
m.ahmed Student 18 өдрийн өмнө
this controling the frame and all is so toxic stop doing this its not going to help
Reuben Searl
Reuben Searl 16 өдрийн өмнө
Prinze Dionisio
Prinze Dionisio 19 өдрийн өмнө
danny carrero
danny carrero 21 өдрийн өмнө
Its a lot easier to do so with a degree from Harvard🤣. Dont forget confidence is also earned. Dont fake it, we can tell
lexie25a 22 өдрийн өмнө
this is wonderful. thank you
octavian r
octavian r 22 өдрийн өмнө
"Suits" is a movie made on a script, scenario, so it is framed, forged and sense artificial many times. Smart quick replies, macho behavior, deep looks, theatrical body movements, all made by Harvey from a company's position that is almost always superior, as long as he brings money to the company. Moreover, the movie it is all the time a frame for blackmail, every single case is solved with strong blackmail, which is a shaming image for American Justice. Truth is Harvey has power and looks macho as long as he can blackmail somebody. It is a dirty thing he is doing almost all the time, despite the fact sometimes he is looking to have some principles. It is just fun to look at, within the conventions of a movie, but it is artificial till gross. We saw often people copying actors behavior, ladies craving for such behaviors, which is more gross.
Aden Firdaus
Aden Firdaus 22 өдрийн өмнө
Its this based on movie, its fake man
Mystic Boltz
Mystic Boltz 27 өдрийн өмнө
clicked because Harvey
Ashraf Сарын өмнө
Preparation is the key to confidence. These body language and attitude come automatically as an icing on cake.
Crystal cole
Crystal cole Сарын өмнө
If you do this, it will work... but there are consequences. You will be intimidating / threatening to others. You will be respected, but others will resent your power. These people will sabotage you behind your back and undermine your position whenever they can. They will secretly hate you for having confidence that they don't have. You don't have plot armor in real life, so choose where you're going to do this carefully.
Lowkey Loki
Lowkey Loki Сарын өмнө
I've been looking for the clip of harvey and Tony gianopolis. That scene is one of my favorites because he was so crazy out of line to say that but it was badass
Victoria Ward
Victoria Ward Сарын өмнө
I’ve already commented on this video. But I just want to add to it. Understanding frames of reference is one of the most powerful ways to finally start being able to get to grips with dominant, disagreeable personality types. It took me way too long to realise this BUT never argue with their frame...simply assert yours with persistency and conviction. The person with the most compelling frame wins. Unless you’re dealing with a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath, in which case you have a choice: you can either grey rock (google it) or be destroyed. That’s the second lesson. Be clear on the ego you’re dealing with. Some egos have a scorched Earth policy.
Elly Сарын өмнө
Harvey is like this: Become a Lawyer Be the Laywer Execute those who oppose the Lawyer Become a well known Lawyer Nobody will be in conflict with the Lawyer Lesson: Are you willing to be a Lawyer if your goal is only to make your client happy no matter what the outcome is OR make it bruttally honest to them so that they know what situation they’re in. It is bad to make a promise if your very happy.
stay_in_ his_lane
stay_in_ his_lane Сарын өмнө
8:05 Gabriels laugh is so charming
Atori Silver
Atori Silver Сарын өмнө
You tend to find my favourite shows as example
jimbo jim
jimbo jim Сарын өмнө
you have to do a video about john dutton or rip wheeler!!
Nate Plissken
Nate Plissken Сарын өмнө
I don't get these videos. Character break down? or teaching people to fake having a personality?...charisma university?..baaaahaaaaa im dying here.
Collin Creado
Collin Creado Сарын өмнө
3:03 best! ⚡
Endof Matrix
Endof Matrix Сарын өмнө
He is the man
JinBo Himself
JinBo Himself Сарын өмнө
Come to join you
Life with Ish
Life with Ish 2 сарын өмнө
A classic ENTJ !!! gotta respect his confidence.
Petr Schejbal
Petr Schejbal 2 сарын өмнө
this is bulchit... can u pls share some real life examples? This is movie character with made up personality
Tawanda Midzi
Tawanda Midzi 2 сарын өмнө
The content on this Channel is gold
Graciela Bravo
Graciela Bravo 2 сарын өмнө
I totally disagree. Je ne suis pas d'accord... It depends individually to one person.
Monarchy is the best!
Monarchy is the best! 2 сарын өмнө
Read 'Meditations'. When it comes to being in control of your own emotions and destiny, the stoics where the masters of this discipline.
JulieP2969 2 сарын өмнө
He’s not just calm, he’s also super intelligent and witty, which makes it work for him. Calm but not having his intellect and wit might not work as well.
Weslo Bardo
Weslo Bardo 2 сарын өмнө
Ive always known this, but the bill of celebrating college acceptance, was a surprise to me, and you taught me that one. Love it.
Ismail DUO
Ismail DUO 2 сарын өмнө
I think that I'm in the right way and I do almost all of what you mention in this video! Thanks for being conformist (y)
Marios I.
Marios I. 2 сарын өмнө
JESSICA PEARSON is the absolute master of Frame control! She is even better than Harvey. Please make a video of HER, please!
Juan Hernandez
Juan Hernandez 2 сарын өмнө
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Cats and other wonders
Cats and other wonders 2 сарын өмнө
Hi...why do u guys only give examples of men in power and not women?..good content by the way
Victoria Ward
Victoria Ward 2 сарын өмнө
I run an eCommerce consultancy and these tips are complete game changers for anyone running a service based business 👌
The Marine Abroad
The Marine Abroad 3 сарын өмнө
you should take examples from real life and not scenarios that are false - tv shows and film - yknow?
Fashion wala
Fashion wala 3 сарын өмнө
bro love your video and the way you teach us. Make a video about Jeff Bezos and his regretless attitude and huge happiness. Thank you.
Shun Okamoto
Shun Okamoto 3 сарын өмнө
I'm the 1001th comment :)
Byron Roberts
Byron Roberts 3 сарын өмнө
In summary become a lawyer.
Najeeb Khan
Najeeb Khan 3 сарын өмнө
To have confidence, you need something to be confident about.
Mysterious Gaming
Mysterious Gaming 3 сарын өмнө
Harvey isn't actually fictional. There was a lawer called HARVEY who had a drug addict associate! I read that on an article. You can search that 👍
Ishan 3 сарын өмнө
After a lot of practice....I have become the Season 1 Louis litt F*** you man
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#TeamHawaii Promotions 3 сарын өмнө
Hosamo Kayali
Hosamo Kayali 3 сарын өмнө
Is it logical to build a psychological advise based on a written script and acted behavior!! Imitating them might be damaging in real life.
My Names
My Names 3 сарын өмнө
Actually, yes. You can take some of the things Gabriel Macht does as his portrayal as Harvey now the biggest thing Harvey has that this video shows is his incredible reputation. Without his reputation none of this works, you cant walk into your bosses office and request a raise like Harvey does unless you have leverage, Harvey's leverage is that he is indispensable to the firm. Confidence isnt enough, you need to walk the walk before you get to talk the talk
Ben Erdelyi
Ben Erdelyi 3 сарын өмнө
I watched Suits season 1 because it was great. And then watched the other 7 seasons because I wanted to study Harvey. Can anyone relate?
i am your boss
i am your boss 3 сарын өмнө
Louis is searching this video from a decade
TheMerioz 3 сарын өмнө
Can you make a video on how to deal with people like these?
My Names
My Names 3 сарын өмнө
2 answers 1: If a person that does something like this in real life you have to simply show yourself as the dominant one 2: If the person you are up against has leverage there isn't much you can do, minimise your loss and take it like a champ so the next time it comes around you know what to do
The Galaxy Witch
The Galaxy Witch 3 сарын өмнө
It's very interesting, I think Harvey is Human Body Design: The Projector. He is in his Yin energy. He is passive but in his own strength. A lot of times he only speaks when people want a reaction from him. He is always invited by others. This can be in: Energy Words Body language
Charles Manimbo
Charles Manimbo 3 сарын өмнө
Hi! Anybody here who can vouch for the Charisma University program? I'm interested but I wanna hear some reviews
Alex Coci
Alex Coci 4 сарын өмнө
What movie is that?
Firebrand55 4 сарын өмнө
Have you noticed that nothing actually happens in Suits?.There's a lot of striding around importantly and words and opinions abound; the heaviest thing ever carried is a slim folder of a few bits of A4....but hey! that's why we watch it!
xltoday 4 сарын өмнө
let's us all remember, it's all acting
SophiYah Yisrael
SophiYah Yisrael 4 сарын өмнө
I'm surprised you haven't done a character breakdown of The Mentalist's Patrick Jane.
Justin Davis
Justin Davis 5 сарын өмнө
So is this teaching smooth arrogance?
Nicole Wolfe
Nicole Wolfe 5 сарын өмнө
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WI-FI TINASHE 5 сарын өмнө
Thiz is just a movie. Bcuz if u bhave thiz way in real life, People Will look at you as if you are and illitrate.
Lang Lead
Lang Lead 5 сарын өмнө
3:06 ahahhhahah
tattooartbytony 5 сарын өмнө
Tutashalesa Mulunda
Tutashalesa Mulunda 5 сарын өмнө
More options = More Power (Have more Options and you will have more control ) .... thanks for the reminder ..
Andréa Moro
Andréa Moro 5 сарын өмнө
See you're wrong because actually Harvey IS the perfect man!
VicChecksITOut 5 сарын өмнө
Ok first of all, sarcasm is NOT a flaw
Oliver Storey
Oliver Storey 5 сарын өмнө
Warm and strength = confidence Cold and strong = arrogance Warm and weak = pitty Cold and weak. = lost cause
Jane Doe
Jane Doe 5 сарын өмнө
Do Mike Ross on imposter syndrome!
Ladida386 5 сарын өмнө
This kind of atitude is funny in RL. Try it and you`ll see.
Dan Schwartz
Dan Schwartz 5 сарын өмнө
Oren Klaff - Pitch Anything and Flip The Script
Prince Vegeta
Prince Vegeta 5 сарын өмнө
Me:"Try taking a swing towards me and I'll wash the floor with your face" Also Me after getting beaten up: "Hello 911"
Ashutosh Agnihotri
Ashutosh Agnihotri 5 сарын өмнө
Harvey is just not a person who exists in real world. Following him will be disastrous.
Mayur Sharma
Mayur Sharma 5 сарын өмнө
The character Harvey has changed my life, in two years my life turned around. I have watched the whole series more than 5 times. every time I feel low, I watch Suits❤️
Shota Toriumi
Shota Toriumi 5 сарын өмнө
Me: "Here's whats going to happen, you give me a raise and..." Boss: "You're fired"
antibling 5 сарын өмнө
Good show, some women go on to become princesses! XD
Erin Bailey
Erin Bailey 6 сарын өмнө
God i miss Suits
Sidra Kamal
Sidra Kamal 6 сарын өмнө
Command people, speak more slowly, change the framing, have more options!!!
Maurice drew
Maurice drew 6 сарын өмнө
Say this. Im donald trump's national director of dirty tricks. Give me all your money,power and that one will be my woman!
Oscar Bushell
Oscar Bushell 6 сарын өмнө
I tried this, currently looking for a new job now haha
Meelo the Great
Meelo the Great 6 сарын өмнө
The first to be liked, is not caring about being liked
Mayank Jain
Mayank Jain 6 сарын өмнө
He just said people are excited with college admissions even though they received the biggest bill of their lives😂😂😂😂
sean wasp
sean wasp 6 сарын өмнө
do ray donavan
Jean Wellington
Jean Wellington 6 сарын өмнө
Malcolm Larri
Malcolm Larri 6 сарын өмнө
What TV show is this ?
khalid oujja
khalid oujja 6 сарын өмнө
GOD!! why did he cut the middle finger scene !?
Rensune 6 сарын өмнө
The Key to Harvey's Charisma is the Work underpinning it. Not just his Intelligence, or Talent, but All the Hard work he put in to get there, and his knowledge of his Chosen profession. Confidence is a LOT Easier to have when you Know what you're talking about, and can PROVE It.
Lipika 7 сарын өмнө
This video is so well thought. Thank you.
Benny 7 сарын өмнө
No. 5
Rohan 7 сарын өмнө
Frank Underwood eats people like Harvey for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Noa Schelfhout
Noa Schelfhout 7 сарын өмнө
can anyone recommend me some confident female role models?
Nitish Sawant
Nitish Sawant 7 сарын өмнө
If your talking about confidence never miss Zlatan Ibrahimovic
Tushar Pawar
Tushar Pawar 7 сарын өмнө
MNpostr wants to make sure that he is in control & you eventually buy his course. Good marketing tactic brother!
Gabriel Hamoui
Gabriel Hamoui 7 сарын өмнө
0:00 “Harvey Specter isn’t exactly the perfect man” I beg to differ.
Rebecca M.
Rebecca M. 7 сарын өмнө
what movie is he showing in this video someone tell me.
PeterBE 7 сарын өмнө
It's the show suits
Tony - Persuasion Secrets
Tony - Persuasion Secrets 8 сарын өмнө
Awesome!! Great Tips!
Tony - Persuasion Secrets
Tony - Persuasion Secrets 8 сарын өмнө
Awesome!! Great Tips!
Prashanth 8 сарын өмнө
Rule no. 1: suit up!
Snowman 8 сарын өмнө
I cannot be confident. I'm balding....
Aimen Ahmad
Aimen Ahmad 8 сарын өмнө
my dad made me watch suits to make me learn from the characters cause he said they have something to learn from unlike people irl.
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