5 Easy Ways To Show Extreme Confidence

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Harvey Specter isn't exactly the perfect man. He can be rude, emotionally stunted and sarcastic. But even though he is flawed and of course fictional, his portrayal can teach you quite a bit about confidence and power in the real world.

So in this video you’ll learn concrete steps and deeper mindsets for conveying a deep sense of confidence and power.


0:48 - #1: Your body language & tone.
4:29 - #2: Attack the framing, not the content of the insult.
5:52 - #3: Don’t be there to impress.
8:09 - #4: Learn to become an expert at framing your options in any particular scenario.
9:20 - #5: Create options for yourself.

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Oliver Storey
Oliver Storey 2 өдрийн өмнө
Warm and strength = confidence Cold and strong = arrogance Warm and weak = pitty Cold and weak. = lost cause
Jane Doe
Jane Doe 2 өдрийн өмнө
Do Mike Ross on imposter syndrome!
Ladida386 4 өдрийн өмнө
This kind of atitude is funny in RL. Try it and you`ll see.
Dan Schwartz
Dan Schwartz 4 өдрийн өмнө
Oren Klaff - Pitch Anything and Flip The Script
Prince Vegeta
Prince Vegeta 4 өдрийн өмнө
Me:"Try taking a swing towards me and I'll wash the floor with your face" Also Me after getting beaten up: "Hello 911"
Ashutosh Agnihotri
Ashutosh Agnihotri 6 өдрийн өмнө
Harvey is just not a person who exists in real world. Following him will be disastrous.
Mayur Sharma
Mayur Sharma 8 өдрийн өмнө
The character Harvey has changed my life, in two years my life turned around. I have watched the whole series more than 5 times. every time I feel low, I watch Suits❤️
Shota Toriumi
Shota Toriumi 10 өдрийн өмнө
Me: "Here's whats going to happen, you give me a raise and..." Boss: "You're fired"
antibling 16 өдрийн өмнө
Good show, some women go on to become princesses! XD
Erin Bailey
Erin Bailey 18 өдрийн өмнө
God i miss Suits
Sidra Kamal
Sidra Kamal 19 өдрийн өмнө
Command people, speak more slowly, change the framing, have more options!!!
Maurice drew
Maurice drew 27 өдрийн өмнө
Say this. Im donald trump's national director of dirty tricks. Give me all your money,power and that one will be my woman!
Oscar Bushell
Oscar Bushell Сарын өмнө
I tried this, currently looking for a new job now haha
Meelo the Great
Meelo the Great Сарын өмнө
The first to be liked, is not caring about being liked
Mayank Jain
Mayank Jain Сарын өмнө
He just said people are excited with college admissions even though they received the biggest bill of their lives😂😂😂😂
sean wasp
sean wasp Сарын өмнө
do ray donavan
Jean Wellington
Jean Wellington Сарын өмнө
Malcolm Larri
Malcolm Larri Сарын өмнө
What TV show is this ?
khalid oujja
khalid oujja Сарын өмнө
GOD!! why did he cut the middle finger scene !?
Rensune Сарын өмнө
The Key to Harvey's Charisma is the Work underpinning it. Not just his Intelligence, or Talent, but All the Hard work he put in to get there, and his knowledge of his Chosen profession. Confidence is a LOT Easier to have when you Know what you're talking about, and can PROVE It.
Harsh Kumar
Harsh Kumar Сарын өмнө
If he has done this now.. probably he had done this before
Lipika Сарын өмнө
This video is so well thought. Thank you.
Benny Сарын өмнө
No. 5
Rohan 2 сарын өмнө
Frank Underwood eats people like Harvey for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Noa Schelfhout
Noa Schelfhout 2 сарын өмнө
can anyone recommend me some confident female role models?
Nitish Sawant
Nitish Sawant 2 сарын өмнө
If your talking about confidence never miss Zlatan Ibrahimovic
Tushar Pawar
Tushar Pawar 2 сарын өмнө
MNpostr wants to make sure that he is in control & you eventually buy his course. Good marketing tactic brother!
Gabriel Hamoui
Gabriel Hamoui 2 сарын өмнө
0:00 “Harvey Specter isn’t exactly the perfect man” I beg to differ.
Rebecca M.
Rebecca M. 2 сарын өмнө
what movie is he showing in this video someone tell me.
PeterBE 2 сарын өмнө
It's the show suits
Tony - Persuasion Secrets
Tony - Persuasion Secrets 2 сарын өмнө
Awesome!! Great Tips!
Tony - Persuasion Secrets
Tony - Persuasion Secrets 2 сарын өмнө
Awesome!! Great Tips!
Prashanth 2 сарын өмнө
Rule no. 1: suit up!
Snowman 2 сарын өмнө
I cannot be confident. I'm balding....
Aimen Ahmad
Aimen Ahmad 2 сарын өмнө
my dad made me watch suits to make me learn from the characters cause he said they have something to learn from unlike people irl.
Shaman Jyssa
Shaman Jyssa 2 сарын өмнө
Arslan Zafar
Arslan Zafar 2 сарын өмнө
Make a video on Micheal Corleone from godfather please
Fast Twitch
Fast Twitch 2 сарын өмнө
Most important point is that this kind of confidence comes from having faith in your skillsrt, whatever it may be, that comes after hard work ,smart work and trial and error that leads to consecutive success (with some losses. But net wins are more). If you are a compelte chump at what you are trying to do your 'confidence' will come across as shallow and smart people can smell that a mile away
Joseph Joaquin Marasigan
Joseph Joaquin Marasigan 2 сарын өмнө
Harvey Specter is the serious mode of Marshall Erickson
Pumpa Paj
Pumpa Paj 2 сарын өмнө
The funny thing is that Gabriel Macht actually attended Meghan Markle’s wedding. So Harvey did meet the Queen of England.
Mohammad SK
Mohammad SK 3 сарын өмнө
How to show extreme confidence: have it
Aninda Chakraborty
Aninda Chakraborty 3 сарын өмнө
add summery at the end of your video. it will make your video more interesting.
Patel Meshva
Patel Meshva 3 сарын өмнө
Can you please make a video on Berlin from Money Heist.
K.A. Rickard
K.A. Rickard 3 сарын өмнө
Complete bait and switch. I usually love your content but this is terrible you are in essence saying here are "Watch this video to get 5 easy ways to confidence" then you share nothing but an advertisement for your PAID charisma course. Be honest and forthcoming about what you're doing.
Jonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset
Jonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset 3 сарын өмнө
Yes! Thought there must be one on Harvey. Love this man.
Black Star
Black Star 3 сарын өмнө
Those suits make him look so broad.
Bladezy_Wadezy 3 сарын өмнө
Imagine this guy's life... He probably uses everyone of his video's tips to his advantage...
Political person
Political person 3 сарын өмнө
Now how do I implement all of these things into my life?
Jonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset
Jonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset 3 сарын өмнө
'The less you focus on defending yourself, the better your banter will become'. Love this!
SmalltimR 3 сарын өмнө
Citing actors to establish social methods is complete nonesense
Jala Bala
Jala Bala 4 сарын өмнө
Does these rules apply for women as well?
Ayub M
Ayub M 4 сарын өмнө
Harvey is the definition of confidence - this man should’ve won an award for this show!
THE FiLM WOLF 4 сарын өмнө
You could write a really good movie character without a doubt
S H I O K A Z E 4 сарын өмнө
Java SpringFrame
Java SpringFrame 4 сарын өмнө
should use real world example instead of use a TV show charactor . it is an act not real situation .
Urban Expansion
Urban Expansion 4 сарын өмнө
In Suits, someone storms out of the room in every single scene ever
Oriehi Raphael
Oriehi Raphael 4 сарын өмнө
Harvey freaking Spectre!!!
don jon
don jon 4 сарын өмнө
Do a franck underwood
MrChristopher0003 4 сарын өмнө
The thing is, Harvey has real stuff and real value, people will respect that for their own interest. Business people care about benefits more than appearances. If you can make profit for me, I don't give a shxt if you are a jerk.
Ankit Bhatti
Ankit Bhatti 4 сарын өмнө
do one on daniel hardman he is even better than harvey
Fumnanya Ike-ofuokwu
Fumnanya Ike-ofuokwu 5 сарын өмнө
The. G. O. A. T
Nur Shakira Afifi
Nur Shakira Afifi 5 сарын өмнө
You got a point
Manish Kumar
Manish Kumar 5 сарын өмнө
Nothing seems interested in him
John Gilalta
John Gilalta 5 сарын өмнө
Ravi sharma
Ravi sharma 5 сарын өмнө
CastellaV 5 сарын өмнө
I just started watching series yesterday and today this is in my recommended
leachatee 5 сарын өмнө
2:01 those were a lot of adverbs lol
P CKn 5 сарын өмнө
Dude, you're good
P CKn 5 сарын өмнө
I'm subscribing.
Geralt of Rivia
Geralt of Rivia 5 сарын өмнө
Who else thought their screen was cracked at 0:15
Eric Fernandez
Eric Fernandez 5 сарын өмнө
Please breakdown Lucifer!!!
Nabin Khanal
Nabin Khanal 5 сарын өмнө
After watching all the episodes of Arabic series justice and comparing It with suits... I will give 10 out of 1 to the netflix series justice
Jas G
Jas G 5 сарын өмнө
Harvey exudes charisma, way more than other lawyers. I think there's a very thin line to differentiate between confidence and arrogance. Tone and micro body language set a remarkable difference in the way you portray yourself and how others perceive you as.
Ruth Obaro
Ruth Obaro 5 сарын өмнө
A character breakdown on Olivia Pope (Scandal) would be fantastic!
Informatics Tube
Informatics Tube 5 сарын өмнө
Even your words can't define the charm harvey specter
Shubhankar Patil
Shubhankar Patil 5 сарын өмнө
How to identify when to do this and when not to?
Action Motto
Action Motto 5 сарын өмнө
I like your videos ❤️ very helpful
raul may
raul may 5 сарын өмнө
I make my own option
Aishwarya S
Aishwarya S 5 сарын өмнө
Can you do a Jessica Pearson?
Amina Eti
Amina Eti 5 сарын өмнө
Beautiful personality that captured the heart and eyes is "Harvey "🤗
J Guitar
J Guitar 6 сарын өмнө
Okay, but why is Harvey's hair pink in the thumbnail?
Atharva Raje
Atharva Raje 6 сарын өмнө
4:43 that gold sword is useless mate.... But I still liked cause u included minecraft
LodrikBadric 6 сарын өмнө
Step one: Have extreme confidence over :)
Appidi Varun Reddy
Appidi Varun Reddy 6 сарын өмнө
Can you make a character breakdown video on Dr House ?
Jared Gijoza
Jared Gijoza 6 сарын өмнө
NOTE: Reacting is like giving an immediate (usually negative) response to something while responding is noticing your own emotions and taking a second to breathe and consider the situation.
Shristi Sahu
Shristi Sahu 6 сарын өмнө
Your videos are really very helpful. Thank you so much. ✨ ✨ ✨
воја танкосић
воја танкосић 6 сарын өмнө
харви спектор
Jesus Christ
Jesus Christ 6 сарын өмнө
I havent even watched suits but from what I've seen this guy hits Tony Stark levels of badassness
sophia educate
sophia educate 6 сарын өмнө
I could learn all of these and adapt all of these but still won’t make it to the top because I have a vagina.
lioncub of cintra
lioncub of cintra 6 сарын өмнө
Can you do a video on kellerman from prison break? I find him very charismatic and he looks like he can't be scared of something
Supercool Cat
Supercool Cat 6 сарын өмнө
My advice is simple. Empty your mind. Forget about making an impression. Just move
Skaldenwolf 6 сарын өмнө
Ok lets face it I'm now official the #1 subscriber even when I just subscribed right now. Why? because I'm the ONLY on who said that. So thanks for having me here and also thanks for creating top tier videos. Really good work. So I have to continue watching. Also between those Videos you can watch my channel, just to see how your ideas will work out for a content creator ;)
the guy in the helmet
the guy in the helmet 6 сарын өмнө
What show is this?!
Daily Upgrade
Daily Upgrade 6 сарын өмнө
Show confidence by having an open body language you can trick your subconscious mind into actually thinking you're confident
Mayuresh Jog
Mayuresh Jog 6 сарын өмнө
You really need to watch all seasons of the Suits.... Harvey is much more relatable than I thought ...... He punched Louis when he couldn't handle it.......
Mayuresh Jog
Mayuresh Jog 6 сарын өмнө
@Ex nihilo nihil fit You just know what I mean.... Or you don't..... There is no explaining it.......
Ex nihilo nihil fit
Ex nihilo nihil fit 6 сарын өмнө
You related to THAT???
Raz Brochstein
Raz Brochstein 6 сарын өмнө
Yea you can analyze Harvey easily. Try analyzing Dona man...
Vladimir Putin
Vladimir Putin 6 сарын өмнө
Rachel should go to Harvey if something goes wrong at the palace
Rod Man
Rod Man 6 сарын өмнө
I have watched a lot of these, and let me just say that analyzing fictional film and TV characters is ridiculous. If anyone acted like this in real life, they would be fired or shunned or hated by everyone. If you want to convince me to act a certain way, give me real life examples
Rawmix 6 сарын өмнө
Can you teach people to act like a lion? Have you thought why a lion is the way he is ? The lion is strong that is why he is confident. All these qualities that you keep teaching they can't be learnt unless at your core you have some real strength. All these celebrities you keep taking examples of they are not thinking or probably never would have thought - How to be confident , they just are confident because they have something else - Physical strength , beauty , knowledge, expertise, experience or excellence. You should rather teach people to get these qualities and all the confidence and charisma will automatically come.
yeison rojas
yeison rojas 6 сарын өмнө
Thanks for the video content! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Schallingora Living Sculpting Scheme (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one of a kind guide for learning how to get women to do anything you wantwithout the normal expense. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my old buddy Taylor finally got astronomical success with it.
Irina Bassett
Irina Bassett 6 сарын өмнө
Charlie, really love the content of your channel. I've been binge watching lately, far better than Netflix. Can I suggest to create future videos ilustrating these behaviours in women as well (whether in real life or movies)? It would mean a lot. Thanks!
Michael Oates
Michael Oates 7 сарын өмнө
the queen of england...haha I bet she did have a word with Mike being she is the mother in law of his ex.
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