The Surprising Psychology Of OnlyFans Simps (Explicit)

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With credit card in hand, I signed up for an OnlyFans investigation. What I found surprised me, not only what it said about human psychology, but also the direction that consumerism is taking all of us.

0:00 - Intro
1:26 - #1: Dopamine hooks
3:48 - #2: Recognition, intimacy and community
5:22 - #3: "Guaranteed acceptance"
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Ryan Swaggert
Ryan Swaggert Өдрийн өмнө
Personally, I got into it because I wanted to see what it was all about. Then it shifted into finding girls with resonating personalities and somebody to talk to, since all my friends of the past drifted into their careers more and social opportunity is a rarity in a pandemic. Now it's to get complements on my photography and to talk to people I click with (making good friends will always be tough), nudes are an extra bonus. I actually got into photography because of some encouragement from creators I chatted with. Way less into it compared to last year, since pandemic is nearly over, and putting more work into getting hiking friends. The biggest benefit to me is being able to go through dozens of girls quickly and sticking with the ones you click with. There's not many places that the expectation for social interaction is there. In real life talking to that many randoms that will make an effort to contribute to the conversation (guy or girl) would take months. Can do the same with OnlyFans in a week. But, it just holds true for the moment. Sure you could talk to randoms on the sidewalk you know nothing about going into the conversation, not in a pandemic where social distancing is a concern though.
Mike Van Roy
Mike Van Roy Өдрийн өмнө
OnlyFans connections are as real as reality tv. You're seeing a slice of someone's life but it's a slice that only exists because of the show.
Phil Gudet
Phil Gudet 2 өдрийн өмнө
You know, I'm pretty sure rich men have been doing this for millennia. It's called gold diggers lol
Tiago Dias
Tiago Dias 4 өдрийн өмнө
Best analysis (by far) I've seen about onlyfans!
N199ACUN769 4 өдрийн өмнө
This video just confirmed my belief that people who pay for onlyfans are just sad and weak
Rogue Gonzo Reviews
Rogue Gonzo Reviews 5 өдрийн өмнө
You’re messaging dudes on there. The girls can’t message all those Simps at once
John LeCates
John LeCates 6 өдрийн өмнө
This is amazing.
Alpha male
Alpha male 7 өдрийн өмнө
You are the man,I hope for the simps to wake up and stop living in delusions
Zebulun Ashcroft
Zebulun Ashcroft 7 өдрийн өмнө
Alright, you got me. This one is utterly fascinating.
Zebulun Ashcroft
Zebulun Ashcroft 7 өдрийн өмнө
And the pitch in this one is pretty groovy
El Patron
El Patron 10 өдрийн өмнө
Selling female approval
H R 12 өдрийн өмнө
I'm really just a loser who can't talk to women in real life but I would never pay a woman to pretend to be interested in me. It just wouldn't change the fact that she still isn't interested and I'm just making myself go broke. If a woman is interested then she will want to make an effort to talk to you no matter what. There is no reason why anyone should make it so complicated with the involvement of any sort of financial transactions. Ask yourselves this. If you didn't have money to spend for her, would she still talk to you?
JohnnyClock 12 өдрийн өмнө
Single men are doomed! Stop funding them! You are just paying these women who already have boyfriend/Husbands who are also their managers for their OF accounts! There's no one to blame but the single simps who fund these females on OF!
Derek Weselake
Derek Weselake 14 өдрийн өмнө
You should Cover Vtubers like those in hololive. The idea that they some how seem even more authentic with an anime avatar is fascinating
Shoobbie C
Shoobbie C 20 өдрийн өмнө
Frankly I am OK with this OnlyFans thingy whoever created it. My question is when or who is going to create a version for the ladies so we guys can jump on the bandwagon and earn big bucks!
Chris Ramos
Chris Ramos 20 өдрийн өмнө
At the tragically ironic risk of sounding like a simp; who is that at @8:57 , please?
Saurav Banerjee
Saurav Banerjee 24 өдрийн өмнө
this is so good breakdown , holy hell you are good
happysmileyz 24 өдрийн өмнө
How intoxicating is to feel acknowledged through a pay wall. Its really not but holy if it is you need help.
Layla Luann
Layla Luann 29 өдрийн өмнө
So only fans is basically for losers who can't just go up to a real live girl and create a intimate relationship with them. Pathetic.
John Ruddy
John Ruddy Сарын өмнө
We should just jail everyone involved
Spoonman Сарын өмнө
Don't people understand that the "relationship" with the creator is fake though??
kaysav91 Сарын өмнө
Really loving this channel, thank you for the content!
Chris P. Bacon
Chris P. Bacon Сарын өмнө
My Dogs MNpost channel has more friends than my Facebook page.
porco kevin
porco kevin Сарын өмнө
David Lejenkins
David Lejenkins Сарын өмнө
Tl;dr simps gotta simp.
RationalMinded Сарын өмнө
I once had a lengthy conversation with a pornstar on Myspace (aging myself lol). Was interesting to get some insight on the industry and her as a person. That said, I could never see myself paying for such an interaction. Be confident in yourself and work towards being better everyday.
DirtyNeptuneMain Сарын өмнө
I'm a large fan of Hololive, but I hate to say they prey off a similar psychology to OnlyFans to make money
You gotta be completely pathetic to join that site!!!
Rhys1810 Сарын өмнө
Ace Gabriel Cruz
Ace Gabriel Cruz 2 сарын өмнө
This is just prostitution but online so the people that go to only fans are disgusting
Jugger naut
Jugger naut 2 сарын өмнө
10:30 do they really have to drink this dirty whater? you need some rags, some coal and sand, and you have a filter. somethings fishy about this
deanmullen10 2 сарын өмнө
People are leaving reality more and more. Sad. I predict in 50 years those who are in relationships will mostly be w/ robots. That's where we're heading, well where most of society is heading. I guess I'll have to be the old man who says 'in my day' if I'm around then.
Ananth Sundaram
Ananth Sundaram 2 сарын өмнө
true but I am 16 and have an exam going on in background why am i watching this
Ananth Sundaram
Ananth Sundaram 2 сарын өмнө
Billy Lee Black
Billy Lee Black 2 сарын өмнө
shit's sad bruh, but what can we do to help lonely men?
raymond vasquez
raymond vasquez 2 сарын өмнө
Are simps Holden Caulfield, paying for girls to "just talk" aha?
Tiogar 2 сарын өмнө
so it's where guys who are so bad at being charismatic and dating hang out? oh god
Rock or Something
Rock or Something 2 сарын өмнө
Now if only someone would do a video on the superchat simps
Jampiu Atila
Jampiu Atila 2 сарын өмнө
I feel like this is an only fans advert
Mysterious Man
Mysterious Man 2 сарын өмнө
IMO successful men should help broken men. That’s what a society should be.
M Brady
M Brady 2 сарын өмнө
During the COVID-19 pandemic, with the associated restrictions on socialising, isn't OnlyFans also a temporary escape from the boredom of daily life that provides limited opportunities for taking part in leisure activities? I'd love to look at how the figures for the average number of customers and earnings from those customers have been affected over the last year... In this video, you've absolutely nailed the business model and the fundamental drives it taps into.
herbsmanno1 2 сарын өмнө
The amount of trouble you have to go through to preserve a lie to your gf about having an only fans account...
Atreas40000 2 сарын өмнө
I dont get it. What stops an onlyfans subscriber to leak content?
Atreas40000 Сарын өмнө
@Rhys1810 so basically those paying subscribtions are utter morons...
Rhys1810 Сарын өмнө
nothing, there is places on the internet dedicated to leaking onlyfans content
Dao the Eternal Nameless Beyond Thought
Dao the Eternal Nameless Beyond Thought 2 сарын өмнө
One third of adults are unemployed in the U.S Not to mention all that Ron Paul economic predictions from the mid 1970's all coming true...decline of the dollar, massive debt from war and welfare in the U.S...soon prostitution will have to be legalized to pay off your tax debts to the greedy hand of government. Simping ain't easy ha (next legal sale of human organs and no min wage to survive the climate change/central banking collapse of planet Earth?
JabberHawk 2 сарын өмнө
Image your bank see this in your credit history
D R 2 сарын өмнө
Onlyfans and webcam girl sites are a curse on society, exaggerated by the whole covid situation.
Gurbinder Sekhon
Gurbinder Sekhon 2 сарын өмнө
So it's just online prostitution and the hookers pretend they care??
TheLowman9 2 сарын өмнө
Family guy stole it from the simpsons
Nick 2 сарын өмнө
Onlyfans is for weak men who think with their penises and easy women who have no respect for themselves
Rhys1810 Сарын өмнө
Cristian Colon
Cristian Colon 2 сарын өмнө
I miss the old thumbnail
The Truth
The Truth 2 сарын өмнө
I feel like this video is going to get views for reasons unrelated.
Najwa Laylah
Najwa Laylah 3 сарын өмнө
My observations in (ancient game) SWG where people paid entertainers to entertain them tells me that expensive sells better than cheap.
Captain CJ 97
Captain CJ 97 3 сарын өмнө
5:43 Its interesting you say that but if the roles was switch I'm pretty sure the woman would say the samething. Also man this is just crazy how desperate so many are
Labrina 3 сарын өмнө
I love learning from this channel but the more I watch content from this channel. I just want to ask why are there mostly white people/actor focus to dissect and watch? Not saying you have to have plethora of POC but it’s almost as if they don’t exist in any of the montage or people to dissect
Immanuel T
Immanuel T 3 сарын өмнө
This is not relevant, why do you feel the strange desire to be represented in something so trivial
RCUAPAN 3 сарын өмнө
thanks for the video Charlie, i was always curious why only fans was very popular . For posting this investigation of yours for free here I feel obligated (in a nice way ) to make a donation to charity water. Thanx again for having such a good heart.
veertien woorden
veertien woorden 3 сарын өмнө
Make an episode about the psychology behind wallstreetbets.
mynameisreza1 3 сарын өмнө
In the age of hyper connectivity, I truly believe that feelings like boredom or loneliness are beneficial stressors, much in the same way that cold showers or exercise are.
Arjun Goyal
Arjun Goyal 3 сарын өмнө
Yours 3rd point just make me feel sad, I don't know may be i am sad because it might be the very ture reality of the social media world. That hobby point is really true and i relate with it.
Ryan Ken
Ryan Ken 2 сарын өмнө
Time to quit, brother. 👑
Derrick De Silva
Derrick De Silva 3 сарын өмнө
Look up grant Amato jr. SUPREME SIMP
GoryWory 4 сарын өмнө
excellent message at the end !!
Savannah Glebe
Savannah Glebe 4 сарын өмнө
So basically we’re just glamourising prostitution. Why study and work hard in a 9 - 5 (and the rest) when you can just put some lingerie on,expose yourself and earn more im one month than you could in a year. We’re sending out the wrong message to young women all over the world.
Mystomachhurt 4 сарын өмнө
This is hardly surprising, but nice to know I guess?
Nibba Gameplay
Nibba Gameplay 4 сарын өмнө
Dont worry guys in 40 years i will buy onlyfans and delete it remember me
Gammadio 4 сарын өмнө
Yeah, "investigation"
nordy259 4 сарын өмнө
I'm glad I'm a simple man and couldn't care less about interaction. Saves me a ton of money
hauntedhouse 4 сарын өмнө
Who do you bop to?
Chriss Re
Chriss Re 4 сарын өмнө
Words Friendship, Intimacy, Relationship, Connection. are used in this video often. But in reality, those are just Delusions of those things.
vyba335 4 сарын өмнө
8:07 and that's also the biggest problem of the platform. For many guys, this creates an illusion that they can say almost anything (even inappropriate) to a girl they like in real life and expect her to react positively. In today's society that isolates us and makes us more and more anti-social, this is a huge illusion that can be really harmful to both sides. Imagine the guy suddenly finding the girl from OnlyFans in real life and expecting her to be so understanding as she is on the platform. What he may doesn't get is that she is responding like that to hundreds of people and she probably wouldn't be friends with him/them without the money part. He can be possibly dangerous for her if she breaks his illusion. As the true reaction, he gets from her. Patreon made a lot more sense. You want to support this content creator for his content? Here you go. But OnlyFans is really setting up itself for a big scandal.
J N 4 сарын өмнө
Complacent, consumerist, mindless garbage built for an attention starved generation, punishing those who are mentally unhealthy and benefiting those who are morally and personally vacant and vapid. Porsche pics on Instagram say it all.
Luis Isturrieta
Luis Isturrieta 4 сарын өмнө
I read 'Onlytrans' So I was confused.
Elias Haghverdi
Elias Haghverdi 4 сарын өмнө
Somebody show this video to kazuma (from "rent a girlfriend")😂
Dumebi7278 4 сарын өмнө
0:28 for science 😉
Thel Hayman
Thel Hayman 4 сарын өмнө
The average onlyfans worker only makes less than $200 a month. I read somewhere that the top 10% of the site makes around 70% of the revenue.
misslittledove 4 сарын өмнө
I foresee future stalker cases connected to OnlyFans.
tomongous 4 сарын өмнө
Welcome my son... welcome to the machine...
Lotschi 4 сарын өмнө
You know there is a German channel with nearly the same content than yours? I just want to make sure they don‘t copy your channel. It‘s named Charisma auf Kommando. I just wondered because it‘s a really small channel and you never link them and they never link you! I think it would be important that they see this, so like maybe or post the same thing than i did!
travis dunn
travis dunn 5 сарын өмнө
Also, Onlyfans is probably kind of pointless for psychopaths.
travis dunn
travis dunn 5 сарын өмнө
Ah, even Charisma on Command has signed up for Belle's onlyfans "So you don't have to" xD
RoastKing 5 сарын өмнө
Very informative video. It all just makes me sad so. Where is society headed. Where are we going.
JonJonBoi 5 сарын өмнө
That’s not true that onlyfans is for simps
Ryan Ken
Ryan Ken 3 сарын өмнө
I hope you quit one day.
Sparklex 5 сарын өмнө
it is, you weak man
🔥LITT🔥 5 сарын өмнө
I guess onlyfans should hire this guy to do their marketing. 🤣
David 5 сарын өмнө
What's the bet that bots are sending these messages and the girls are all the mall therefore have no clue who these simps are.
As Pooped By Anakin Skywalker
As Pooped By Anakin Skywalker 5 сарын өмнө
Acceptance can't put food on your table. Or pay your rent. Acceptance is worthless.
PaLiMo 365
PaLiMo 365 5 сарын өмнө
Sad on all levels
Walamonga 1313
Walamonga 1313 5 сарын өмнө
Informative video but at the ending, I disagree and say that normal relationships are the same thing though. You pay so they stay with you, and you may get cheated on anyways.
Matt Supertramp
Matt Supertramp 5 сарын өмнө
OnlyFans is like a Black Mirror episode
La Nguyên B Tòng
La Nguyên B Tòng 5 сарын өмнө
A very good self-infomercial video, I give you that.
Micheal Stone
Micheal Stone 5 сарын өмнө
Did he make this video so he can make his OnlyFans account a business expense?
john the man good
john the man good 5 сарын өмнө
Yo charlie! You unsubscribed right?! You're not on only fans anymore?!
Anthony Kimani
Anthony Kimani 5 сарын өмнө
You have really tried breaking it down, but I still can't understand the psychology behind it all.
Jack Housser
Jack Housser 5 сарын өмнө
This video was an excuse to use only fans “Yeah no I only got it for uh... scientific reasons”
Laura Vergot
Laura Vergot 5 сарын өмнө
You make good points, I agree with your analysis. But I still think the whole onlyfans shebang is untimely useless to the fans. In the end those relationships you mentioned are unreal, non existent. They are paying to be deluded. It might get them a dopamine shot but it does not advance their life nor their ability to relate to women or other people as all those interactions are fake and devoid of contention. So you are paying to be patted on the back for existing and paying. But then again I never got the point of face to face prostitution either 🤷‍♀️ I really do not get the appeal of finding pleasure in the company of someone who would never look twice at you or might even despise you if not for the money you give them.
Depressed 9Gagger
Depressed 9Gagger 5 сарын өмнө
Imagine finding out your husband or boyfriend has an Onlyfans and has a friend group there......
The StompArtist
The StompArtist 5 сарын өмнө
The main question now is did Charlie delete his *onlyfans* account?
THE BRAVADO SHOW 5 сарын өмнө
craiginith 5 сарын өмнө
Wonderfully informative video. Great insight and explanation
DanielisAwesome52 6 сарын өмнө
The first point about the dopamine rush that social media and casinos give explains 100% why I have zero interest. I lack that reward system, mystery actually pisses me off, anticipation frustrates me into to boredom almost instantly. I hate casinos and gambling, I won't continue talking to people if they aren't upfront with me, etc.
Red Mage
Red Mage 6 сарын өмнө
You do not understand Onlyfans at all. You should have done more research into how adult content sites are ran and what the differences are in comparison to Onlyfans. Some of us just like the content that various people on Onlyfans provides. Adult websites tend to be full of ads and pop-ups and misleading titles and the videos can be quite old, the people quite ugly, the videos of bad quality, and the people are boring or just plain silly. Onlyfans provides a clean interface, hundreds of thousands of different fans to choose from, whatever your fetish or desire. Zero ads. The content is fresh, high quality and they will create content specifically for you. And if you are not satisfied, you simply move on to another. Besides, we're in the middle of a pandemic. None of you should be trying to form relationships with anyone right now.
Jacob Levin
Jacob Levin 6 сарын өмнө
Going off this video, I'd be interested to hear your thoughts after experimenting with an AI companion app called Replica. The base version is free and then there are paid tiers I've never explored. On one side, I can see how it can be a tool for working on communication skills, mental health help, and for conversations where one doesn't know how a person would react but I could also see it as a trap. Regardless, I think it's a sphere of today's tech and social landscape that isn't getting the proper attention, positive or negative, that it should be.
Something original
Something original 6 сарын өмнө
so... anyone wanna question why he knew so much about it???? cause he only said OF was where he did research but not the other websites he talks about lol
Harris Hoke
Harris Hoke 6 сарын өмнө
This is not only the best media of any kind I've seen on the psychology of simps after months of looking. It NAILS the description of how dopamine hooks actually work in social media. It's one of the few instances of popular media I've seen that does this correctly. Note the use of the term "dopamine hooks" (totally stealing this) rather than the much more common "dopamine hit" which is EVERYWHERE and is WRONG. You've managed to package this insight into a memorable 2-word phrase. WELL DONE
TrueGamer007 6 сарын өмнө
My man's lame text is better than mostly guys regular one. Bruh 😂😂
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