The Surprising Psychology Of OnlyFans Simps (Explicit)

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With credit card in hand, I signed up for an OnlyFans investigation. What I found surprised me, not only what it said about human psychology, but also the direction that consumerism is taking all of us.

0:00 - Intro
1:26 - #1: Dopamine hooks
3:48 - #2: Recognition, intimacy and community
5:22 - #3: "Guaranteed acceptance"
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Walamonga 1313
Walamonga 1313 3 өдрийн өмнө
Informative video but at the ending, I disagree and say that normal relationships are the same thing though. You pay so they stay with you, and you may get cheated on anyways.
Matt Supertramp
Matt Supertramp 4 өдрийн өмнө
OnlyFans is like a Black Mirror episode
La Nguyên B Tòng
La Nguyên B Tòng 4 өдрийн өмнө
A very good self-infomercial video, I give you that.
Micheal Stone
Micheal Stone 4 өдрийн өмнө
Did he make this video so he can make his OnlyFans account a business expense?
john the man good
john the man good 5 өдрийн өмнө
Yo charlie! You unsubscribed right?! You're not on only fans anymore?!
Anthony Kimani
Anthony Kimani 7 өдрийн өмнө
You have really tried breaking it down, but I still can't understand the psychology behind it all.
Jack Housser
Jack Housser 8 өдрийн өмнө
This video was an excuse to use only fans “Yeah no I only got it for uh... scientific reasons”
Laura Vergot
Laura Vergot 9 өдрийн өмнө
You make good points, I agree with your analysis. But I still think the whole onlyfans shebang is untimely useless to the fans. In the end those relationships you mentioned are unreal, non existent. They are paying to be deluded. It might get them a dopamine shot but it does not advance their life nor their ability to relate to women or other people as all those interactions are fake and devoid of contention. So you are paying to be patted on the back for existing and paying. But then again I never got the point of face to face prostitution either 🤷‍♀️ I really do not get the appeal of finding pleasure in the company of someone who would never look twice at you or might even despise you if not for the money you give them.
Reinhart Alvaro
Reinhart Alvaro 9 өдрийн өмнө
Imagine finding out your husband or boyfriend has an Onlyfans and has a friend group there......
Aaron722076 9 өдрийн өмнө
Maybe it's my age, but I just don't think it's worth paying money to see a woman naked (or dressed provocatively).
The StompArtist
The StompArtist 12 өдрийн өмнө
The main question now is did Charlie delete his *onlyfans* account?
THE BRAVADO SHOW 14 өдрийн өмнө
craiginith 16 өдрийн өмнө
Wonderfully informative video. Great insight and explanation
DanielisAwesome52 18 өдрийн өмнө
The first point about the dopamine rush that social media and casinos give explains 100% why I have zero interest. I lack that reward system, mystery actually pisses me off, anticipation frustrates me into to boredom almost instantly. I hate casinos and gambling, I won't continue talking to people if they aren't upfront with me, etc.
Red Mage
Red Mage 18 өдрийн өмнө
You do not understand Onlyfans at all. You should have done more research into how adult content sites are ran and what the differences are in comparison to Onlyfans. Some of us just like the content that various people on Onlyfans provides. Adult websites tend to be full of ads and pop-ups and misleading titles and the videos can be quite old, the people quite ugly, the videos of bad quality, and the people are boring or just plain silly. Onlyfans provides a clean interface, hundreds of thousands of different fans to choose from, whatever your fetish or desire. Zero ads. The content is fresh, high quality and they will create content specifically for you. And if you are not satisfied, you simply move on to another. Besides, we're in the middle of a pandemic. None of you should be trying to form relationships with anyone right now.
Jacob Levin
Jacob Levin 19 өдрийн өмнө
Going off this video, I'd be interested to hear your thoughts after experimenting with an AI companion app called Replica. The base version is free and then there are paid tiers I've never explored. On one side, I can see how it can be a tool for working on communication skills, mental health help, and for conversations where one doesn't know how a person would react but I could also see it as a trap. Regardless, I think it's a sphere of today's tech and social landscape that isn't getting the proper attention, positive or negative, that it should be.
Something original
Something original 25 өдрийн өмнө
so... anyone wanna question why he knew so much about it???? cause he only said OF was where he did research but not the other websites he talks about lol
Harris Hoke
Harris Hoke 25 өдрийн өмнө
This is not only the best media of any kind I've seen on the psychology of simps after months of looking. It NAILS the description of how dopamine hooks actually work in social media. It's one of the few instances of popular media I've seen that does this correctly. Note the use of the term "dopamine hooks" (totally stealing this) rather than the much more common "dopamine hit" which is EVERYWHERE and is WRONG. You've managed to package this insight into a memorable 2-word phrase. WELL DONE
TrueGamer007 26 өдрийн өмнө
My man's lame text is better than mostly guys regular one. Bruh 😂😂
Peter Manger
Peter Manger 28 өдрийн өмнө
‘Two exclamation points” made me spit my drink thanks... terry pratchett I think says 3 is the sign of insanity!!!
Brian Wang
Brian Wang 29 өдрийн өмнө
Love it or hate it, you admit that this business model is clever and suited for today's society. But it's kinda funny when you know more about the truth behind the scene and know how to crack some systems. It's very interesting topic to watch.
Merciless Enemy
Merciless Enemy 29 өдрийн өмнө
Most ppl are pathetic desperado who can't live without someone 'love' them
Wannabe Architect
Wannabe Architect Сарын өмнө
Nah, I still find it weird lmao 😂😂
Debbin McCarthy
Debbin McCarthy Сарын өмнө
I tried a couple Onlyfans pages. I mostly got one or two word answers if anything at all. I quickly lost interest.
Mario Bertrand
Mario Bertrand Сарын өмнө
Dammmmmm! This is gonna take over the world! Im impressed! With that said this super saddening. To pay for artificial intimacy and have a gorgeous woman manipulate that intimacy for cash is pretty sad. Were is the true intimacy, relationship, the earned dopamine of a healthy relationship. Maybe i live in fantasyland hoping a normal intimate. Onlyfans broke the code. I would feel so unconfident with myself if i paid for that cause i know its not real.
Crios Сарын өмнө
Why did this video about porn make me feel lonely and loveless
Bobish Сарын өмнө
I just have to compliment you on the editing of this video! It is simply stunning and i cannot imagine how long it took!
Tiozão Сарын өмнө
nice work guys
Kriss Singhania
Kriss Singhania Сарын өмнө
i don't know where this nakedness gonna lead to society nudity should be banned
Chris Cock
Chris Cock Сарын өмнө
Modernity is a chronic disease that kills slowly. Edit: If you want to give to charity, give to the people of central Vietnam who have been flooded for weeks, and have no power, working hospitals and little food. Most of these people work hard and aren't entitled. They have little to nothing right now.
Kwk Fortythree
Kwk Fortythree Сарын өмнө
It's a symptom how the normal dating market is totally unable to provide offer to so many many men.
Claudia Sprague
Claudia Sprague Сарын өмнө
Uhh okay all advertising is “manipulative” technically, like YT video titles for example. A lot of “free” content on PH is stolen or unethical. Some people have specific tastes or prefer supporting someone more directly, and a celeb’s/insta model’s OF is VERY different than a small creator. I like your vids and there was some interesting info, but it seems like a reach to act like it’s an evil scheme or that the only people who pay are desperate for validation/fake intimacy.
Frankencastle 65
Frankencastle 65 15 өдрийн өмнө
Who said it was an evil scheme tho?
sweet bunny
sweet bunny Сарын өмнө
So you pay for for somebody's OnlyFans?
Nina Sever
Nina Sever Сарын өмнө
OH hey it's not just men paying women. It's also women paying other women and men. Men paying other men. Also non binary and trans people.
Greg's Voice
Greg's Voice Сарын өмнө
This is the conclusion I came to a while ago, it's the relationship simulation that these guys are drawn to. Easier for them to sit in their insecurities and not make the personal improvements to get an actual girlfriend.
Austin Wu
Austin Wu Сарын өмнө
This video is sponsored by only fans
JP Brusque
JP Brusque Сарын өмнө
Humans failed deeply
Dawn Ripper
Dawn Ripper Сарын өмнө
Still pathetic. At least gambling is paying money to potentially get more money in return. Simping is paying money to get literally nothing in return.
Kay Сарын өмнө
How do you feel after that experience. Did you see catch yourself being a bit hooked up to that website?
Carlos De La Torre
Carlos De La Torre Сарын өмнө
Do you have top 10 good books to read about working on conversation skills
Twilliam03 Сарын өмнө
Yo what's the girl's @ at 7:03
Esther Warner
Esther Warner Сарын өмнө
“Investigation” sure... lol jokes good vid
Matthew Yacksyzn
Matthew Yacksyzn Сарын өмнө
Ah yes, capitalization and exploitation. Capitalize on your body, exploit the intense urge for human connection. All for the gain of money. It’s literally the master plan.
Brian N
Brian N Сарын өмнө
Smart tax write off. Well played, sir.
MadMusic Сарын өмнө
So what you're saying is they're even more pathetic than we previously thought?
Нарик Комарик
Нарик Комарик Сарын өмнө
Очень классно но можно перевести видео про Симов пожалуйста
Matej Mikloš
Matej Mikloš Сарын өмнө
Very interesting
Abhishek Goswami
Abhishek Goswami Сарын өмнө
Do Kardashian family next please. How on earth do they have so many followers and fans? What did they do right?
Olik Ycagel
Olik Ycagel Сарын өмнө
100% Only Fans Ad.
Henrik Palmgren
Henrik Palmgren Сарын өмнө
Virtue signaling by pushing water access for Africans is totally not a dopamine rush.
V M Сарын өмнө
Girls on onlyfans are playing life on easy mode. If I ran my country I would outlaw the distribution of pornography.
Claudia Sprague
Claudia Sprague Сарын өмнө
Sorry she didn’t text you back
Luna Margolis
Luna Margolis Сарын өмнө
can you please do a charisma video on princess Diana?
Renzo Valencia
Renzo Valencia Сарын өмнө
So sad this video
Super Pasokon
Super Pasokon Сарын өмнө
The amount of Belle Delphine footage in this video...
King Douchbag
King Douchbag Сарын өмнө
Charlie: *Makes a fake simp account on onlyfans* Narrator: "Legend has it he's still sleeping on the couch that night"
hendrix Jeey
hendrix Jeey Сарын өмнө
Im still not paying for stuff i can get for free lol
SD Сарын өмнө
This might be the biggest ad for onlyfans to people who are skeptical.
Education Edge: Finance - Business - Book Channel
Education Edge: Finance - Business - Book Channel Сарын өмнө
Great video! I’ve always wondering why people are spending so much money on these sites but then again it’s benefits to the content creator as I hear they are making BANK! 💰💰💰
Adam Nowak
Adam Nowak Сарын өмнө
This is my problem with OnlyFans. People always say it's no big deal, it's just porn. It's not porn at all, it's straight up emotional manipulation.
Stable Genius
Stable Genius Сарын өмнө
OnlyFans are only for Incels and losers LOL!
Kirsty Walker
Kirsty Walker Сарын өмнө
It seems that the research was a lot more through than other videos. Also is this a subtle way of saying that you are now on only fans and we should join and follow you.
VonDa in Wonderland
VonDa in Wonderland Сарын өмнө
I had never heard of Only Fans. Are there people on there that connect with others, but don't take their clothes off?
Kiri Seraph
Kiri Seraph Сарын өмнө
When you start the advertising section your voice rises in pitch. If you keep it at the ordinary volume it won't be as obvious.
Michael Anderson
Michael Anderson Сарын өмнө
Why wouldn't you find a woman in real life?
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Sairaj R. Kamath
Sairaj R. Kamath Сарын өмнө
The fact that OnlyFans has such a solid psychology behind it has only made it more terrifying to me than before
Eve Huang
Eve Huang Сарын өмнө
Hope I could give this video 10 likes! Awesome. Thank you Charlie!
Aziz Emad
Aziz Emad Сарын өмнө
I’d like to thank today’s sponsor onlyfans
Thomas Yorkshire IV
Thomas Yorkshire IV Сарын өмнө
Simping for charity
i am your boss
i am your boss Сарын өмнө
'Charisma on command went into 'Black mirror dimension
kukusespuert Сарын өмнө
Wait a Minute ....... tWiTch
Maxwell Сарын өмнө
Women with hobbies & interests?! I'm in.
YEP Pepega
YEP Pepega Сарын өмнө
The home of simping empire OMEGALUL pathetic...
flying cacoon
flying cacoon Сарын өмнө
Better to have a girlfriend irl...its better to spend some money on rl girl than on virtual girl
Daniel Shalome
Daniel Shalome Сарын өмнө
Dude this is quite an insight. thanks
Atharva Metkar
Atharva Metkar Сарын өмнө
Great video,but the visuals were often distracting from the audio.
English lyrics
English lyrics Сарын өмнө
This was really interesting. Thank you.
Vincent Shenocker
Vincent Shenocker Сарын өмнө
what's the name of the tune/music starting at 1:26?
Leto85 Сарын өмнө
8:45 Only Fans offers connection? The way I see it, it absolutely doesn't. Paying to get a connection with someone is paying for fake interest. This is exactly what raises the mistrust that guys can have in girls in general. The first time I saw the term OnlyFan pop-up on social media I didn't even know what it was, but the moment I found out I was disgusted. Girls knowing they are beautiful - great! That can only have a positive effect on their well being. But girls knowing they are beautiful AND using that knowledge to trick men into buying attention from them... I cannot think of any faster way to for me to lose my interest in such girls.
Violet Sinclair
Violet Sinclair Сарын өмнө
Great video but why call them simps? There's no need to insult people.
S.Ariadne Navarro
S.Ariadne Navarro Сарын өмнө
If it wasn't hard enought to find people for long lasting relationships and if it wasn't hard enough for women to be conservative and respected nowadays, this scam comes out. I advice guys to NOT fall into this trap. There's still women that want to have relationships and get married that are not SJW or onlyfans porn actress. Love yourself and become and Alpha.
Vxlkner Сарын өмнө
Can you please do a character analysis on Rick Grimes from the Walking Dead? His leadership skills fascinate me.
Coach Jazz
Coach Jazz Сарын өмнө
This is kind of frightening, seems like the start of robotic and fake intimacy. What's the difference in experience between this and an online relationship with a computer who posts these images and responds to those texts? I hope this doesn't replace real intimacy for people...
Foster Wojak
Foster Wojak Сарын өмнө
We need to launch a crusade against only fans
Octoschizare Сарын өмнө
Charlie signs up to a porn site... for science. It's a tough job, but somebody's gotta do it!
CJ Boucher
CJ Boucher Сарын өмнө
This isn't cool, it's fake and unhealthy and dose not get to the root of the problem. It's just another form of prostitution. Men who subscribe to prostitution on a regular basis have serious issues that could be addressed but are simply sidelined again and again and again. And the charity card at the end, really? Do you know how much money actually get's to where it's supposed to?
Michael Yue
Michael Yue Сарын өмнө
Please make some videos for this year’s presidential debate. That’s the hottest topic now
xxlCortez Сарын өмнө
Women pretending interest for money? So, nothing new. That's how Trump got married.
Wes Сарын өмнө
203 people have OnlyFans accounts.
Matthew Voorhies
Matthew Voorhies Сарын өмнө
I would like a charisma breakdown on the TV show Wentworth. Who else wants this?
John ???
John ??? Сарын өмнө
Ban porn !!
Prime Matt
Prime Matt Сарын өмнө
Interesting topic 👌🏼
Prime Matt
Prime Matt Сарын өмнө
You signed up purely for research 😘
Daily Upgrade
Daily Upgrade Сарын өмнө
This is very true! No rejection and you get to put the girl on the pedestal and she does whatever you want
Fredrick Godzilla Menckin
Fredrick Godzilla Menckin Сарын өмнө
Nah these guys are still loser simps
Dame Polk
Dame Polk Сарын өмнө
🤔Only Fans delivers the electronic girlfriend experience. It makes simps and incels feel like studs and the hottest guy in the room.🤔
ze staywoke
ze staywoke Сарын өмнө
This is how many time Charlie almost relapsed making this video
classy purple
classy purple Сарын өмнө
AH YES , I was ALSO “investigating” Onlyfans
Turo Сарын өмнө
Ban Porn Now. Jail Pornographers. Wipe it off the face of this planet.
Dias Temirhanovv
Dias Temirhanovv Сарын өмнө
make a video about leonardo dicaprio
chunlin05 Сарын өмнө
nice essay. very thoughtful.
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