6 Easy Ways To Charm Anyone

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Hugh Jackman is one of the most charming people in Hollywood. The best part about his style of charisma is that once you get it down, it’s effortless. Specifically, Hugh has 6 habits that make him charming to almost anyone he meets. After you learn a few of these habits, you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll find it’s easy to make people smile, laugh, and love being around you.

0:00 - Intro.
0:40 - #1: Reframe the situations that make you nervous.
2:04 - #2: Be contagiously positive.
4:10 - #3: Give yourself permission to admit to emotions beyond happiness.
5:03 - #4: Own your flaws and don't be afraid to talk about them.
6:37 - #5: Tell sticky stories.
7:47 - #6: Make the people around you feel special.
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free2 21 цагийн өмнө
So be someone else.
Explicit Anthony
Explicit Anthony 3 өдрийн өмнө
9:14 he also made her lean forward ;)
anthos332 4 өдрийн өмнө
Van Helsing was a great movie
Basundhara Paul
Basundhara Paul 5 өдрийн өмнө
Emily Blunt... Well she does express things very Bluntly
G a r b a g e TM
G a r b a g e TM 6 өдрийн өмнө
what a great video! thanks!
Rose_gold 8 өдрийн өмнө
10:45 Does anyone know what movie this is??
Truth Sayer
Truth Sayer 8 өдрийн өмнө
I’m waiting on an analysis of Biden’s Charisma, I find it confusing!
Vitany Mikaelson
Vitany Mikaelson 9 өдрийн өмнө
I simply hate people in general so being positive and charming just isn't my thing
KrisJM1234 9 өдрийн өмнө
The problem I come across trying to use any of these tips in regular conversation is that everyone just interrupts you 5 seconds into your sentence......it's become a social norm to cut in whenever you feel like it it drives me nuts!
Eva Liz
Eva Liz 10 өдрийн өмнө
great video guys!
Sidra Kamal
Sidra Kamal 10 өдрийн өмнө
Ask questions to see if you like them, do 85% because more realistic, positive
Rufina Sharon
Rufina Sharon 10 өдрийн өмнө
This should be a podcast
Tanaka Fupa
Tanaka Fupa 13 өдрийн өмнө
i completely forgot that wolverene is a real person
Andy M
Andy M 17 өдрийн өмнө
I loved van helsing
Maryam Muazam
Maryam Muazam 17 өдрийн өмнө
He is a ♎, and libra people are naturally so charming and chrismatic.
Sushant Singh Rajput die hard fan
Sushant Singh Rajput die hard fan 19 өдрийн өмнө
Hugh Jaskson is a libra and maybe tahts why he is charming
The citizen of the internet
The citizen of the internet 24 өдрийн өмнө
#7: Be born confident
Disgusting 25 өдрийн өмнө
Seems all of these videos have a common theme.. Step 1: Be extremely attractive. Do a video on charismatic fugly people if you actually want to help people.
Emperor Megas
Emperor Megas 26 өдрийн өмнө
Van Helsing is a fun time. Sometimes people take popcorn flicks too seriously. 🤷🏽‍♂️
ISAAC MAROLT 26 өдрийн өмнө
Tell people GIVE ME 110 % OR GIVE ME 85%
Thapelo Ramafoko
Thapelo Ramafoko 27 өдрийн өмнө
Grow some claws
Wilma dickfit?
Wilma dickfit? Сарын өмнө
U can be positive when your rich and gd looking
Kishore Kumar
Kishore Kumar Сарын өмнө
All these doesn't work if your ugly lol
Jay Sharp
Jay Sharp Сарын өмнө
this is all great, solid, practical advice. I was thrilled to learn I eagerly employ all of these techniques when I'm addressing someone or telling a story- Right on down to spreading eye contact around! Whether consciously or not that's the secret to fearless engagements and my love for public speaking. Over the years I've employed all of these "tricks" (I never viewed them as such, I'm just a very sincere person and I love buttering people up and paying compliments because when people tell me they love to be around me because I make them feel good- well, to me that's just about the best compliment I can get, wouldnt you agree!?) so often and effortlessly they have seemingly become second nature. I believe in doing so consistently without thinking about it to be a testament to your genuine interest and ability to relate to others in itself. There's much to be said for positive social interactions, confidence earned through sincerety and a skillset including the ability to 'work the room'. Curious still, I'll admit here that I grapple with and often succumb to insecurity but I am a human after all! That being said, I can't endorse this video or advice more! What a find. YET it's probably best not to post this on peoples' walls or blow up their feed or repost to their timeline. I cant wait to DISCREETLY share this with those I've seen struggle with such universal (yet often unaddressed + overlooked) things.
The Solar NERD
The Solar NERD Сарын өмнө
Hugh Jackman is a genuinely nice man. Just being a decent human being helps make you more likeable.
Matthew Sapp
Matthew Sapp Сарын өмнө
I love these videos. I struggle with being awkward because I'm autistic so I'm trying to learn how to interact
tim white
tim white Сарын өмнө
What he said about approaching auditions like they were rehearsals is DEFINITELY a very effective ability. Job interviews were something that I've always been good at. If I made it to the interview stage I knew my chances of being offered the job were good. I had a sort of mentor when I was younger, in my teens early 20s. He was just one of these people that you meet them, and after 5 minutes if talking you suddenly find yourself making plans with them to do something, and from that point on it seems like you've known them for years. He was in sales, and it was something I went into as a results. Some of the skills I developed as a result, I brought with me right out of the gate. When it comes to job interviews, MANY people aren't really able to accurately gauge how they interview actually went. They come out and are confident that it went great, only to not get the offer. Many times they find out that they actually kind of blew it early in the interview and had no idea. With me it wasn't that I had a huge toolbox of techniques or tricks. Nor did I have a script or outline that I used for every interview. I knew that if by the time they interview was over, i found that if the interviewer was answering more of my questions, then I was answering theirs, it usually went well. This is especially true in interviews for sales positions. I didn't even necessarily have any specific questions I was asking about, as long as they pertained to the position or the company, it seemed to work out well. It doesn't even have to be during the middle of that interview. Sometimes, I wouldn't be able to ask the questions until it actually ended. We'd finish ever they'd wrap up with the "do you have any questions for me?" Which I think most of the time, is just something the interviewer says to cap it off, and don't actually expect you to ask them any. It basically it's just kind of trying to switch the narrative in some way from them interviewing YOU to see if you'd be a good fit, to you interviewing THEM to see if the component is a good fit. Anyway, that's how it's worked out for me.
Kevin Peat
Kevin Peat Сарын өмнө
So... being stupendously good looking and talented has nothing to do with it then.
shawn burnham
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Hanumath Sandeep
Hanumath Sandeep Сарын өмнө
Have you done any video in which you used barney stinson (neil Patrick) as an example??
Jay Belew
Jay Belew Сарын өмнө
Anyone else love van healing (Critic reviews or not) or is that just me?
Adam Nowak
Adam Nowak Сарын өмнө
My biggest problem watching these videos is realizing I already do all of this naturally anyways. Yet it never seems to be enough.
Drusif Smashington
Drusif Smashington Сарын өмнө
I dont care what anyone says, Van Helsing was amazing.
Francesca #KETO #OMAD ** SunrisePeoniesLab on Etsy
Francesca #KETO #OMAD ** SunrisePeoniesLab on Etsy Сарын өмнө
Are you in love with Hugh Jackman or something?
Jackson Carter
Jackson Carter Сарын өмнө
Hughes face looks like it’s photoshopped onto someone else in every frame
zeldahopper Сарын өмнө
Love Hugh!!!! One of my favorite movies is The Greatest Showman
jacob warren
jacob warren Сарын өмнө
Me: a couch potato Also me: ahh yes this will def work
Brid Soetrisno
Brid Soetrisno Сарын өмнө
who is the woman on the right side at 10:28 ?
Tashtan Tashi
Tashtan Tashi Сарын өмнө
Dear Charisma on Demand, what if I don’t feel genuine about anything because I’m not impressed or indifferent about a lot of people ?
wayfaringshaman Сарын өмнө
God, I just love Hugh Jackman, and before he was even The Wolverine, my dad & mine's favorite character of all time. There was a time in my life, when I would watch Kate & Leopold three times a year just to feel good and find the strength to keep going. To this day, that is still my number one guilty pleasure film - every time I feel down or sense that I'm going to be depressed, I just don't think about it anymore, I immediately watch that film. And ever since, he (both Hugh & Leopold) has been my template of how to be a man, and especially, one rightful of a lady's. I haven't convinced my Kate to follow me back to my time & live happily ever after, granted, but I will get there eventually. Hugh Jackman makes me believe that it is possible. Wow, that was so hopeless romantic of me, but whatever. Thanks for being such a great inspiration, man!
ExhumedXxXx Сарын өмнө
Compliments work best if there is initially mutual respect.
The Last Air Vendor
The Last Air Vendor Сарын өмнө
When aliens come to earth, this channel will be their communication course.
Rocking Ronda
Rocking Ronda Сарын өмнө
Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.
nœíh Сарын өмнө
Number three I used to do all the time without realising. Whenever I could tell someone was ashamed of their sadness or something they were going through. I'd share a moment of sadness and doubt of mine to make them feel more comfortable and open and it works every time! The only thing you don't do is make it about you. You let them know that it's nothing to be ashamed of and that they're safe with you. But share a short story of yours and then put the focus back on to them :) Love you everyone! Wishing you happiness and confidence!
Gaffe Giraffe
Gaffe Giraffe Сарын өмнө
Jackman is my favorite male actor! He really is amazing at the craft. Great video, thank you!!
Max4Million Сарын өмнө
And he plays wolverine
Mayank Shankar
Mayank Shankar 2 сарын өмнө
Justin Case
Justin Case 2 сарын өмнө
You forget one simple rule. You can disagree all you want. Sure all these help. But they almost do not help alot in our current society if you don't have a pretty face. You can use those things to help yourself feel better but as i said in our society it's all about good looks. If you have them and still struggle these things can help you fairly well.
Caitlynn P
Caitlynn P 2 сарын өмнө
Van Helsing was great tho
nikhil tayshete
nikhil tayshete 2 сарын өмнө
Just be Nice to yourself. And the rest will follow. Charisma cant be copied it comes from within. I was charismatic for a span of life about 5 - 10 yrs. And I could feel that people would want to come and meet me, talk to me, glare at me in tube...try to be friends with me...tell me im a nice guy....so much So that a. friend of mine Wept to tell me that dont be so nice and genuine....bcoz ppl around dont get what i mean.... Slowly i stopped being nice....just to fkup things for myself ....to give up on that Nice guy image... And gradually lost all my charisma.... i have made ppl distance of me now... from friends to family to every single place. So all in all its in your mindset. Try to implement all those points mentioned above to yourself....it would sound silly if i try to explain ALL those points But ... the very first step is to have an eye contact with ur self first....whenever u stand in front of the mirror. Look at yourself....have an eye contact... smile.... Acknowledge yourself... this whole body that u have is a fantastic creation....every single aspect of it....once you start to acknowledge you learn to appreciate... Once u appreciate the beauty with you....u learn to appreciate the same beauty when u step out of your house... Then gradually u learn to acknowledge the unique skills each of us has been bestowed with... once u acknowledge ur own skills you will evetually come across likeminded ppl ...or will find some similarities or something to appreciate in ppl around you... Like Hugh was skilled to sing...so he knew the knitty gritty's of it and thats why he could appreciate Emily anf that too quite accurately and genuinely and not just randomly.. APPRECIATE. APPRECIATE.APPRECIATE. Thats the real beauty.... Beauty lies in appreciating good things in Life and thats what made me charismatic. ....its just that one got to be in control and not overwhelming....coz once u taste this being Nice to yourself zone u tend to get hyperactive... also it gets sucking for lot of ppl around u...they start to get jealous....as much as they will pull u down with cheap tricks. so just keep it all subbtle....not for anyone to notice. Slide on with your charisma trail...But do prevent yourself from slipping - Like Me. Cheerios Amigos!!
M Lee
M Lee 2 сарын өмнө
Love the 85% rule...it’s true.
Jonas Blom
Jonas Blom 2 сарын өмнө
I thought Hellsing was great (:
Faith Xu
Faith Xu 2 сарын өмнө
Is that brad pitt at 10:45?? What movie is that?
Dylan Bourque
Dylan Bourque 2 сарын өмнө
I think with all these videos there is an implied assumption that these people are not in the moment, and carefully considering what to say next. Hugh Jackman was a PE teacher, a job that required being jncredibly upbeat and encouraging with people. I think it's more likely a learned trait than a conscious choice he puts effort into.
Bozhidar Petrov
Bozhidar Petrov 2 сарын өмнө
This channel brings so many rules, questions, answers. And so what did you find best way to become funnier, coolest guy in the company? Its good topic for channel but slow down thats what I mean. Too much videos maybe in terms of your financial needs.
John Palagye
John Palagye 2 сарын өмнө
does he seem genuine?
John Palagye
John Palagye 2 сарын өмнө
@Nikolai Thank you for the great conversation Nikolai hope you are safe and well.
John Palagye
John Palagye 2 сарын өмнө
@Nikolai not at all. You're making a judgement based on a few simple statements and questions that I asked about something. I'm trying to understand your perspective though and I appreciate your responding, very interesting. If there is somewhere that I am insecure, which I'm sure there is, I will find it and conquer it :-) And it is awesome the video too which it seems like you agree.
John Palagye
John Palagye 2 сарын өмнө
@Nikolai Ok i try to understand things from multiple perspectives, not just one simple minded way of thinking
John Palagye
John Palagye 2 сарын өмнө
@Nikolai I'm asking if it seems genuine, I'm not saying if I think it's genuine. I want to understand how others see it.
John Palagye
John Palagye 2 сарын өмнө
at 9:30 min just because he's adding context to the compliment, it does not mean he's being genuine, it just means he researched the person or that he knows something about them
Alexandria P
Alexandria P 2 сарын өмнө
Hugh is charming i get it lol
Rick Sanchez
Rick Sanchez 2 сарын өмнө
its easy, look like hugh jackman and be filthy rich, and you will charm the pants of 90% of all woman, to be real rich does it alone too lol, the age of Harlot :)=
Jamessr23 2 сарын өмнө
12) Earn and do not spend early in life. Make enough money where you don’t really need it. You are in a much stronger position . I call it the F U money
Elon Must
Elon Must 2 сарын өмнө
Its actually not necessary to be contagiously positive. From my experience, making people laugh is the most important way to be sympathetic. I am always acting a bit tilted and annoyed, but by combining this with a constant presence of bonedry humor, I make people laugh and not take my moods that seriousely. You dont have to always be positive, you just have to make others comfortable with your behavior. This is also why silent kids fail to be sympathetic. They act uncomfortable all the time, which makes them 1: obviousely vulnerable to bullys since they see a victim which they can easily target and get funny reactions out of, and 2. makes other people around them feel the same way. Special tip for everyone who is not good at making friends or has low self esteem: Start argueing in forums about everything. Verbal dominance is a huuuge factor when it comes to self-comfort. Someone is verbally attacking you? NEVER stay in the weak position, shoot back. AND, TALK TO PEOPLE. If you think "But they will think im weird", well they certainly will if you dont even try, so nothing is at stake, the situation can only get better
theidn 2 сарын өмнө
Learning from wolverine. Hell yeaa
Time Space
Time Space 2 сарын өмнө
Look at his hand at 3:33 in the occul, this means hail satan 1 god. Every super star actor and celebrity does these hand gestures. It might just be coincidence, or it might be that they are part of the occult that bows down to the order of the illuminati. They choose charismatic people. You can be sure that Bree Larson is not part of the illuminati Freemasons, because her people skills are not good enough to be recruited by them. You have to be charismatic enough for them to want you as part of their group.
Brad S
Brad S 2 сарын өмнө
These videos are great. It is day 1101 among the humans without being identified as "uncanny".
lola brini
lola brini 2 сарын өмнө
sorry but u need to choose subpar looking people science shows we tend to be friendlier and happier around conventionally goodlooking people. And also goodlooking people are naturally confident because people praise them all their lives. Exhibit a: hugh
TheLastShinobi 2 сарын өмнө
i dont have money and i want to join C.U :/
Ezekiel Brown
Ezekiel Brown 2 сарын өмнө
Read the art of seduction
Gvozden Zmajic
Gvozden Zmajic 2 сарын өмнө
looks to me likt beta chumps trying too hard.. not impressed
Elisha Browns
Elisha Browns 2 сарын өмнө
@CharlieHoupert Is calling people out when they don't pay attention to you during handshake a good thing?
Gandert Van Ramdonk
Gandert Van Ramdonk 2 сарын өмнө
Number 1. Look like Hugh Jackman....
Samer Houssein
Samer Houssein 2 сарын өмнө
What divides sociopaths/narcissists from you? This is not a rhetorical question.
Leapy 2 сарын өмнө
I found myself smilling the whole time just by seeing Hugh
Tamra Marie
Tamra Marie 2 сарын өмнө
I’m currently studying acting at University and I think the first minute of this video just changed my life.
asrtgvc hhgf
asrtgvc hhgf 2 сарын өмнө
they are charming because they have been builded and boosted by hollywood, then the consequence is that they're charming because of fame and money. this period works for all videos of this and others similar channels. you don't get it, i'm shocked. you confuse the cause-effect relationship
Theo Poliviou
Theo Poliviou 2 сарын өмнө
Van Helsing is AWSOME
Michael Kraus
Michael Kraus 2 сарын өмнө
Doug Hdez
Doug Hdez 3 сарын өмнө
Snake Oil for Every one!!! Type of Salesman.
Remruatkima Vuangtu
Remruatkima Vuangtu 3 сарын өмнө
I don't think this is for introverts
Goku 3 сарын өмнө
Ehh seems to hard, can I just be Hugh Jackman instead?
Mane Kostanyan
Mane Kostanyan 3 сарын өмнө
I started watching so I could be more charismatic, but I found myself slowly getting interested in Hugh 😂
Random Idiot
Random Idiot 3 сарын өмнө
I don't hate you all. Is it working?
Anna 3 сарын өмнө
Video: first, be confident Me: ok Video: be positive Me: ok bye
ERNEST 3 сарын өмнө
But not if you are a bearded man...
Venko Lessle
Venko Lessle 3 сарын өмнө
You’re comparing an incredibly HOT celeb with a below average guy. But thanks for trying tho
Izenheart 3 сарын өмнө
Your videos shows the things that I've been unconsciously doing since I can remember... Which I didn't knew other people are having problems with. You helping them to resolve such challenges is quite amazing and I hope that your channel grew in success even more.
CRAZY STARKER 3 сарын өмнө
Allison Mae
Allison Mae 3 сарын өмнө
Anyone here taken charisma university ? What did you think about it?
dylan Arts
dylan Arts 3 сарын өмнө
just be Hugh Jackman
Tyler Hawkins
Tyler Hawkins 3 сарын өмнө
Huge Yakman
Azwaa Ali
Azwaa Ali 3 сарын өмнө
Uuuhh your goal should not be to charm anyone, that would make you manipulative.
jc4jax 3 сарын өмнө
....and being incredibly handsome where most women melt in front of you helps...a little
Cameron 3 сарын өмнө
Somebody has a crush on Hugh Jackman...
Gabriel Mosca
Gabriel Mosca 3 сарын өмнө
just saying ... "CU" in Portuguese means anus, no joke
NoPartiesGuy 3 сарын өмнө
I can't believe how good and instructional this video is
Moyasser Elgendy
Moyasser Elgendy 3 сарын өмнө
Hugh Jackman is one of my beloved and favourite actors .but without a beard , He looks pfffffff .lol .
Yokky 3 сарын өмнө
You care about what people think of you only if you let them live.
Abhijeet Pawar
Abhijeet Pawar 3 сарын өмнө
Will you be making a video about Matthew McConaughey?
Games In Le Matin
Games In Le Matin 3 сарын өмнө
Ummm Hugh is handsome are we forgetting that. When you are handsome people pay attention especially if you are handsome and rich.
c'est moi
c'est moi 3 сарын өмнө
So basically, be an interesting, positive and charming person. Wow... how insightful.
Noblesse Oblige
Noblesse Oblige 3 сарын өмнө
1:05 What are those Emma Watson scenes from?
郭彥宗 3 сарын өмнө
well cause he looks good
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