How To Be Charming In Any Conversation

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Hugh Jackman is one of the most charming people in Hollywood. The best part about his style of charisma is that once you get it down, it’s effortless. Specifically, Hugh has 6 habits that make him charming to almost anyone he meets. After you learn a few of these habits, you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll find it’s easy to make people smile, laugh, and love being around you.

0:00 - Intro.
0:40 - #1: Reframe the situations that make you nervous.
2:04 - #2: Be contagiously positive.
4:10 - #3: Give yourself permission to admit to emotions beyond happiness.
5:03 - #4: Own your flaws and don't be afraid to talk about them.
6:37 - #5: Tell sticky stories.
7:47 - #6: Make the people around you feel special.
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SarahLouise1983 2 өдрийн өмнө
Hugh is honestly one of the special guys it’s very rare to see a person in the entertainment industry conduct himself with such grace and kindness The way he is with colleagues and especially fans , making them feel included and valued warms my heart A lot of people in the “biz” should look to him and take inspiration on how they conduct themselves , A true one off xxx
Red 2 өдрийн өмнө
This is all cool and stuff, but I loved Van Hellsing..
Daniel Montenegro
Daniel Montenegro 5 өдрийн өмнө
Mmm... I think at 9:11 she gets super defensive on her body language so maybe the compliment was not a smart move. Probably I'm missing something here. Thanks for the video!
Uncle G
Uncle G 7 өдрийн өмнө
We all have this in us... we just belived the lies the devil told us over the years.... we are all awesome!!! I love you all!! Stay awesome people 👏👏👏👏
Younes marzouki
Younes marzouki 7 өдрийн өмнө
"0:51" Yea i've been getting paid with 𝗣𝗣𝗢𝗡𝗟𝗖𝗔𝗦𝗛.𝗖 𝗢 𝗠 i'm making over $2835 a week with them! ਹਰ ਜੰਤਰ ਤੇ ਉਪਲਬਧ ਹੈ
Nicholas Bullock
Nicholas Bullock 7 өдрийн өмнө
I love Van Helsing... Didn’t know it wasn’t liked.
raddguy1 8 өдрийн өмнө
A truly classy guy. Someone who hasn't let fame and money ruin him. Bravo, Hugh!
Rob Evans
Rob Evans 12 өдрийн өмнө
Hello, I have autism and I usually don't know what to say, to whom and when. Social situations freak me out and I try to hide my insecurities with a poker face. I keep to myself and some people may think I'm a snob. Smiling at strangers doesn't come easy to me, so I'm working on acquiring small talk skills. Please comment below some appropriate questions to ask strangers who work out at the gym. Thank you.
pecks821 13 өдрийн өмнө
In this video I just found out Hugh Jackman a singer
marisa fewster
marisa fewster 20 өдрийн өмнө
Aussie accent helps
Aliyah Lele
Aliyah Lele 21 өдрийн өмнө
Not me trying to be charming 😏😏😏😏😏😏
Pineal Dreams
Pineal Dreams 22 өдрийн өмнө
As an autistic man, I find these videos legitimately helpful. I also sort of feel like an alien watching a homo sapien instruction manual.
Neil Master
Neil Master 24 өдрийн өмнө
It is interesting how there are so many HIMYM clips in here.
Best of Best Studio
Best of Best Studio 25 өдрийн өмнө
I have been binge watching all these videos because the second there's no more online school, I want to the best me.
Sad but Laughing
Sad but Laughing 25 өдрийн өмнө
Most of these videos is about being positive all the time about everything. As a person who struggles with depression, I really would like some tips to work with my negativity, without hiding it when I'm sad or moody, but without being a buzzkill for everyone.
Thao Tu
Thao Tu 27 өдрийн өмнө
Just discovered your channel. Well done on simplifying communication and charisma concepts into tangible methods that others can apply. 👏👏👏
Nick Sokol
Nick Sokol 28 өдрийн өмнө
Rule number one: Be more attractive......
Jhonson Silva
Jhonson Silva 28 өдрийн өмнө
Basicamente brasileiros estudem CU que vocês serão pessoas melhores kkkkkk
vaidehi waghmare
vaidehi waghmare Сарын өмнө
i have watch so many videos of this chennel and i finally realise that we just need to be ourself with some confidance. yanhh nothing else!!
Liam Finn
Liam Finn Сарын өмнө
Do one on Barney Stinson
Andrew Rickard
Andrew Rickard Сарын өмнө
WHAT?! I love van helsing tho. I'm glad i'm overall charismatic, just need to engage my fun, and not be afraid of it. I freeze up whenever fun is involved around other people. I don't let myself have fun.
M E L _ V O R Y L A N Z
M E L _ V O R Y L A N Z Сарын өмнө
Aries people are so naturally good at this ✨
Rose 5 өдрийн өмнө
Sentient Engine
Sentient Engine Сарын өмнө
Judging by the thumbnail, I'd guess rule 1 as: Be a rich, famous, a-list actor.
Nick Mitchell
Nick Mitchell Сарын өмнө
hugh jackman is also an insanely attractive man. no sus
Sifat Shams
Sifat Shams Сарын өмнө
Just look 85% like Hugh Jackman.
you me
you me 2 сарын өмнө
it's Christmas today 2020 is over yay im gonna learn to be more charming so im good at talking to other human beings
Alec Dukas
Alec Dukas 2 сарын өмнө
Hugh Jackman would be perfect for the role of Joel Miller from The Last of Us
Freddy Vorhees-Myers Jr.
Freddy Vorhees-Myers Jr. 2 сарын өмнө
Step 1: Have a sexy, foreign accent.
Awesomeknowledge. Awesomeknowledge.
Awesomeknowledge. Awesomeknowledge. 2 сарын өмнө
The only thing I hate is eye-contact.
Johan Krüger Haglert
Johan Krüger Haglert 2 сарын өмнө
So many suggestions for how to behave is impossible to actually do. I don't know what video I looked at some other time but like how do you fake being positive or energic or exciting or happy about something? Of course the idea likely isn't to fake it but rather just be it but how easy is that? Likely some other things would have to change to make that so but as in my case I'm 41 I guess it may be much harder to change "the being" by now than if one was younger. No idea if stuff like LSD/psilocybin or some other chemical could make the brain more willing to adapt and change and if that together with the right environment could change the personality.
Alternate Space
Alternate Space 2 сарын өмнө
You guys are good.
GunsAndPoker 2 сарын өмнө
Hugh is a legit dude
Grunkki 2 сарын өмнө
Make a video about how to be like Ted bundy
Cửa Hàng Việt Chấm X Y Zét
Cửa Hàng Việt Chấm X Y Zét 2 сарын өмнө
Zynth Edits
Zynth Edits 2 сарын өмнө
ive met hugh jackman he is a great and really kind guy
The Plug
The Plug 2 сарын өмнө
Huh? What's wrong with Van Helsing?
Kiss Sweet
Kiss Sweet 2 сарын өмнө
I easy way to charm be good looking😁 greeny eye's, height, and nice face structure👌
Andrew Moncada
Andrew Moncada 2 сарын өмнө
it's actually rather easy when you're Huge Jacked Man
Ethan Costello
Ethan Costello 2 сарын өмнө
Dude, you are killing it this channel has got to be one of the best on youtube for self-improvement. I've now got a girl I've never dreamed of being able to have a relationship with. I want to say thank you for helping me become the person I've always wanted to be. I know you probably won't see this but I just needed to put it out there.
Yoav Hanuka
Yoav Hanuka 2 сарын өмнө
Thx for the great video! But I always wonder if the fact that all the people you "breakdown" here are famous and successful plays a big part in their charisma... I mean... people treat publicly famous people VERY differently so...
Deutsches Volk
Deutsches Volk 2 сарын өмнө
Heard that kids? Being good looking, rich, and famous has nothing to do with it, it's all about hooking people up with your "awesome" stories, you see? even if you are unattractive, homeless, or sick just put on a smile, make exaggerated expressions, and tell everyone you meet, whether they asked you or not, all about your life, that will ensure great interactions with strangers, especially good looking females. They just love a man who can't stop talking about himself. You can also pay for my course for more awesome tips like that, which will 100% work as you can see with to these few samples of hand-picked reviews I have here. No refunds btw, if you fail that's on you. Stay positive friendos :D
Kimbo Slice
Kimbo Slice 2 сарын өмнө
I love all the HIMYM clips.
M Roseman41
M Roseman41 2 сарын өмнө
A positive to not liking to talk about yourself is that you prefer talking about the person with whom you’re conversing.
free2 2 сарын өмнө
So be someone else.
Explicit Anthony
Explicit Anthony 3 сарын өмнө
9:14 he also made her lean forward ;)
anthos332 3 сарын өмнө
Van Helsing was a great movie
Basundhara Paul
Basundhara Paul 3 сарын өмнө
Emily Blunt... Well she does express things very Bluntly
G a r b a g e TM
G a r b a g e TM 3 сарын өмнө
what a great video! thanks!
Rose_gold 3 сарын өмнө
10:45 Does anyone know what movie this is??
Truth Sayer
Truth Sayer 3 сарын өмнө
I’m waiting on an analysis of Biden’s Charisma, I find it confusing!
Vitany 3 сарын өмнө
I simply hate people in general so being positive and charming just isn't my thing
KrisJM1234 3 сарын өмнө
The problem I come across trying to use any of these tips in regular conversation is that everyone just interrupts you 5 seconds into your's become a social norm to cut in whenever you feel like it it drives me nuts!
Eva Liz
Eva Liz 3 сарын өмнө
great video guys!
Sidra Kamal
Sidra Kamal 3 сарын өмнө
Ask questions to see if you like them, do 85% because more realistic, positive
Rufina Sharon
Rufina Sharon 3 сарын өмнө
This should be a podcast
Tanaka Fupa
Tanaka Fupa 3 сарын өмнө
i completely forgot that wolverene is a real person
Andy M
Andy M 3 сарын өмнө
I loved van helsing
Maryam Muazam
Maryam Muazam 3 сарын өмнө
He is a ♎, and libra people are naturally so charming and chrismatic.
Sushant Singh Rajput die hard fan
Sushant Singh Rajput die hard fan 3 сарын өмнө
Hugh Jaskson is a libra and maybe tahts why he is charming
The citizen of the internet
The citizen of the internet 3 сарын өмнө
#7: Be born confident
Disgusting 3 сарын өмнө
Seems all of these videos have a common theme.. Step 1: Be extremely attractive. Do a video on charismatic fugly people if you actually want to help people.
Emperor Megas
Emperor Megas 3 сарын өмнө
Van Helsing is a fun time. Sometimes people take popcorn flicks too seriously. 🤷🏽‍♂️
Thapelo Ramafoko
Thapelo Ramafoko 3 сарын өмнө
Grow some claws
Wilma dickfit?
Wilma dickfit? 3 сарын өмнө
U can be positive when your rich and gd looking
Kishore Kumar
Kishore Kumar 4 сарын өмнө
All these doesn't work if your ugly lol
Jay Sharp
Jay Sharp 4 сарын өмнө
this is all great, solid, practical advice. I was thrilled to learn I eagerly employ all of these techniques when I'm addressing someone or telling a story- Right on down to spreading eye contact around! Whether consciously or not that's the secret to fearless engagements and my love for public speaking. Over the years I've employed all of these "tricks" (I never viewed them as such, I'm just a very sincere person and I love buttering people up and paying compliments because when people tell me they love to be around me because I make them feel good- well, to me that's just about the best compliment I can get, wouldnt you agree!?) so often and effortlessly they have seemingly become second nature. I believe in doing so consistently without thinking about it to be a testament to your genuine interest and ability to relate to others in itself. There's much to be said for positive social interactions, confidence earned through sincerety and a skillset including the ability to 'work the room'. Curious still, I'll admit here that I grapple with and often succumb to insecurity but I am a human after all! That being said, I can't endorse this video or advice more! What a find. YET it's probably best not to post this on peoples' walls or blow up their feed or repost to their timeline. I cant wait to DISCREETLY share this with those I've seen struggle with such universal (yet often unaddressed + overlooked) things.
The Solar NERD
The Solar NERD 4 сарын өмнө
Hugh Jackman is a genuinely nice man. Just being a decent human being helps make you more likeable.
Matthew Sapp
Matthew Sapp 4 сарын өмнө
I love these videos. I struggle with being awkward because I'm autistic so I'm trying to learn how to interact
tim white
tim white 4 сарын өмнө
What he said about approaching auditions like they were rehearsals is DEFINITELY a very effective ability. Job interviews were something that I've always been good at. If I made it to the interview stage I knew my chances of being offered the job were good. I had a sort of mentor when I was younger, in my teens early 20s. He was just one of these people that you meet them, and after 5 minutes if talking you suddenly find yourself making plans with them to do something, and from that point on it seems like you've known them for years. He was in sales, and it was something I went into as a results. Some of the skills I developed as a result, I brought with me right out of the gate. When it comes to job interviews, MANY people aren't really able to accurately gauge how they interview actually went. They come out and are confident that it went great, only to not get the offer. Many times they find out that they actually kind of blew it early in the interview and had no idea. With me it wasn't that I had a huge toolbox of techniques or tricks. Nor did I have a script or outline that I used for every interview. I knew that if by the time they interview was over, i found that if the interviewer was answering more of my questions, then I was answering theirs, it usually went well. This is especially true in interviews for sales positions. I didn't even necessarily have any specific questions I was asking about, as long as they pertained to the position or the company, it seemed to work out well. It doesn't even have to be during the middle of that interview. Sometimes, I wouldn't be able to ask the questions until it actually ended. We'd finish ever they'd wrap up with the "do you have any questions for me?" Which I think most of the time, is just something the interviewer says to cap it off, and don't actually expect you to ask them any. It basically it's just kind of trying to switch the narrative in some way from them interviewing YOU to see if you'd be a good fit, to you interviewing THEM to see if the component is a good fit. Anyway, that's how it's worked out for me.
Kevin Peat
Kevin Peat 4 сарын өмнө
So... being stupendously good looking and talented has nothing to do with it then.
shawn burnham
shawn burnham 4 сарын өмнө
Hanumath Sandeep
Hanumath Sandeep 4 сарын өмнө
Have you done any video in which you used barney stinson (neil Patrick) as an example??
Jay Belew
Jay Belew 4 сарын өмнө
Anyone else love van healing (Critic reviews or not) or is that just me?
Adam Nowak
Adam Nowak 4 сарын өмнө
My biggest problem watching these videos is realizing I already do all of this naturally anyways. Yet it never seems to be enough.
Dru Page
Dru Page 4 сарын өмнө
I dont care what anyone says, Van Helsing was amazing.
Francesca #KETO #OMAD #ITALY #KISSARMY #TEAMGENE 4 сарын өмнө
Are you in love with Hugh Jackman or something?
Jackson Carter
Jackson Carter 4 сарын өмнө
Hughes face looks like it’s photoshopped onto someone else in every frame
zeldahopper 4 сарын өмнө
Love Hugh!!!! One of my favorite movies is The Greatest Showman
jacob warren
jacob warren 4 сарын өмнө
Me: a couch potato Also me: ahh yes this will def work
Brid Soetrisno
Brid Soetrisno 4 сарын өмнө
who is the woman on the right side at 10:28 ?
Tashtan Tashi
Tashtan Tashi 4 сарын өмнө
Dear Charisma on Demand, what if I don’t feel genuine about anything because I’m not impressed or indifferent about a lot of people ?
wayfaringshaman 4 сарын өмнө
God, I just love Hugh Jackman, and before he was even The Wolverine, my dad & mine's favorite character of all time. There was a time in my life, when I would watch Kate & Leopold three times a year just to feel good and find the strength to keep going. To this day, that is still my number one guilty pleasure film - every time I feel down or sense that I'm going to be depressed, I just don't think about it anymore, I immediately watch that film. And ever since, he (both Hugh & Leopold) has been my template of how to be a man, and especially, one rightful of a lady's. I haven't convinced my Kate to follow me back to my time & live happily ever after, granted, but I will get there eventually. Hugh Jackman makes me believe that it is possible. Wow, that was so hopeless romantic of me, but whatever. Thanks for being such a great inspiration, man!
ExhumedXxXx 4 сарын өмнө
Compliments work best if there is initially mutual respect.
The Last Air Vendor
The Last Air Vendor 4 сарын өмнө
When aliens come to earth, this channel will be their communication course.
Rocking Ronda
Rocking Ronda 4 сарын өмнө
Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.
chile 4 сарын өмнө
Number three I used to do all the time without realising. Whenever I could tell someone was ashamed of their sadness or something they were going through. I'd share a moment of sadness and doubt of mine to make them feel more comfortable and open and it works every time! The only thing you don't do is make it about you. You let them know that it's nothing to be ashamed of and that they're safe with you. But share a short story of yours and then put the focus back on to them :) Love you everyone! Wishing you happiness and confidence!
Gaffe Giraffe
Gaffe Giraffe 4 сарын өмнө
Jackman is my favorite male actor! He really is amazing at the craft. Great video, thank you!!
Max4Million 4 сарын өмнө
And he plays wolverine
Mayank Shankar
Mayank Shankar 4 сарын өмнө
Justin Case
Justin Case 5 сарын өмнө
You forget one simple rule. You can disagree all you want. Sure all these help. But they almost do not help alot in our current society if you don't have a pretty face. You can use those things to help yourself feel better but as i said in our society it's all about good looks. If you have them and still struggle these things can help you fairly well.
Caitlynn P
Caitlynn P 5 сарын өмнө
Van Helsing was great tho
nikhil tayshete
nikhil tayshete 5 сарын өмнө
Just be Nice to yourself. And the rest will follow. Charisma cant be copied it comes from within. I was charismatic for a span of life about 5 - 10 yrs. And I could feel that people would want to come and meet me, talk to me, glare at me in tube...try to be friends with me...tell me im a nice much So that a. friend of mine Wept to tell me that dont be so nice and genuine....bcoz ppl around dont get what i mean.... Slowly i stopped being nice....just to fkup things for myself give up on that Nice guy image... And gradually lost all my charisma.... i have made ppl distance of me now... from friends to family to every single place. So all in all its in your mindset. Try to implement all those points mentioned above to would sound silly if i try to explain ALL those points But ... the very first step is to have an eye contact with ur self first....whenever u stand in front of the mirror. Look at yourself....have an eye contact... smile.... Acknowledge yourself... this whole body that u have is a fantastic creation....every single aspect of it....once you start to acknowledge you learn to appreciate... Once u appreciate the beauty with you....u learn to appreciate the same beauty when u step out of your house... Then gradually u learn to acknowledge the unique skills each of us has been bestowed with... once u acknowledge ur own skills you will evetually come across likeminded ppl ...or will find some similarities or something to appreciate in ppl around you... Like Hugh was skilled to he knew the knitty gritty's of it and thats why he could appreciate Emily anf that too quite accurately and genuinely and not just randomly.. APPRECIATE. APPRECIATE.APPRECIATE. Thats the real beauty.... Beauty lies in appreciating good things in Life and thats what made me charismatic. ....its just that one got to be in control and not overwhelming....coz once u taste this being Nice to yourself zone u tend to get hyperactive... also it gets sucking for lot of ppl around u...they start to get much as they will pull u down with cheap tricks. so just keep it all subbtle....not for anyone to notice. Slide on with your charisma trail...But do prevent yourself from slipping - Like Me. Cheerios Amigos!!
M Lee
M Lee 5 сарын өмнө
Love the 85%’s true.
Jonas Blom
Jonas Blom 5 сарын өмнө
I thought Hellsing was great (:
Faith Xu
Faith Xu 5 сарын өмнө
Is that brad pitt at 10:45?? What movie is that?
Dylan Bourque
Dylan Bourque 5 сарын өмнө
I think with all these videos there is an implied assumption that these people are not in the moment, and carefully considering what to say next. Hugh Jackman was a PE teacher, a job that required being jncredibly upbeat and encouraging with people. I think it's more likely a learned trait than a conscious choice he puts effort into.
Bozhidar Petrov
Bozhidar Petrov 5 сарын өмнө
This channel brings so many rules, questions, answers. And so what did you find best way to become funnier, coolest guy in the company? Its good topic for channel but slow down thats what I mean. Too much videos maybe in terms of your financial needs.
John Palagye
John Palagye 5 сарын өмнө
does he seem genuine?
John Palagye
John Palagye 5 сарын өмнө
@Nikolai Thank you for the great conversation Nikolai hope you are safe and well.
John Palagye
John Palagye 5 сарын өмнө
@Nikolai not at all. You're making a judgement based on a few simple statements and questions that I asked about something. I'm trying to understand your perspective though and I appreciate your responding, very interesting. If there is somewhere that I am insecure, which I'm sure there is, I will find it and conquer it :-) And it is awesome the video too which it seems like you agree.
John Palagye
John Palagye 5 сарын өмнө
@Nikolai Ok i try to understand things from multiple perspectives, not just one simple minded way of thinking
John Palagye
John Palagye 5 сарын өмнө
@Nikolai I'm asking if it seems genuine, I'm not saying if I think it's genuine. I want to understand how others see it.
John Palagye
John Palagye 5 сарын өмнө
at 9:30 min just because he's adding context to the compliment, it does not mean he's being genuine, it just means he researched the person or that he knows something about them
Alexandria P
Alexandria P 5 сарын өмнө
Hugh is charming i get it lol
Jamessr23 5 сарын өмнө
12) Earn and do not spend early in life. Make enough money where you don’t really need it. You are in a much stronger position . I call it the F U money
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