How To Impress Someone You Admire

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It’s frustratingly common to get completely tongue tied when we’re in front of people we’d like to impress. Which is doubly unfortunate because it’s often those situations that could lead to us landing a great new job, connecting with a mentor, or even dating someone we’re smitten with.
That’s why in this video I want to cover how you can avoid that awkward trap and impress the people you admire by standing out in a positive way. To do that, we’ll be referencing someone who has done it many times: Sean Evans of Hot Ones.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
1:38 - #1: Ask questions beyond the obvious ones.
3:09 - #2: Use the question preamble.
4:48 - #3: Steer conversation towards things that elicit emotion.
7:40 - #4: Tease playfully / have fun.
9:18 - #5: Comfortably express disagreement.
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Andrew Craner
Andrew Craner 14 цагийн өмнө
If you want to impress someone, be a stalker.
TJhandford524
TJhandford524 Өдрийн өмнө
Narduar does this to an even more extreme degree than sean evans
Foreigner
Foreigner Өдрийн өмнө
I researched too much before asking something to my crush and now she probably thinks I am stalker.
Michael Solares
Michael Solares Өдрийн өмнө
Thinking of those not obvious questions is tough tho 🤔🤔
ItzFisH
ItzFisH 4 өдрийн өмнө
There are dead people in this video
Gonzalo Morales Sánchez
Gonzalo Morales Sánchez 5 өдрийн өмнө
Nardwuar is the undisputed champion, though.
Roy Branitzky
Roy Branitzky 5 өдрийн өмнө
This could be about Nardwuar too
Reuven Gershon
Reuven Gershon 8 өдрийн өмнө
He is using many of the techniques in the perennially relevant 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie published in the 1930s or 40s.
s3lfFish
s3lfFish 10 өдрийн өмнө
best and worst might not work as well in France as we tend to complain as an habit to get out stuff out of our chest. ;) I remember being really happy to go to the UK and go away from that and then finding myself so happy after living in the UK, to come back and just complain about everything and realise that it's actually a healthy thing to do (of course as with all things with various degrees, there is , even in France, too much complaining). Then again I feel like complaining and us having more rights (or at least defending those who are constantly under attack for the past decades now) because we strike so much might have some corrolation ;) Also I believe, even though charisma has a role, we tend to not really need it that much, because we like to argue and debate and be sarcastic and complain, and that makes usually for either a great conversation or a bad one even if it backfires , but it's never boring , well in the majority of cases at least.
Mike Tufaro
Mike Tufaro 13 өдрийн өмнө
Can you do a video about how to be charismatic in a clickey environment?
ThinSliced
ThinSliced 14 өдрийн өмнө
Nardwar does his research
silver
silver 18 өдрийн өмнө
Is them saying “that’s a great questions” they really thinking that? Or is it just them being stumped and needing time to think ?
Sidra Kamal
Sidra Kamal 18 өдрийн өмнө
Takeaways: Less obvious questions, get them to talk about something they care about, be well researched, ask best and worst questions
Jeremy Gilmore
Jeremy Gilmore 29 өдрийн өмнө
he reminds me of nardwaur
Maurice drew
Maurice drew 29 өдрийн өмнө
How many hit records do you have son?? James brown to new band member that questioned his musical judgment.
Ivan Barrikov
Ivan Barrikov Сарын өмнө
Joe Rogan has a habit of agreeing with all his guests these days, hes become the average of all the guests hes seen on his show infact hes not a Conservative anymore because of this.
ballybunion9
ballybunion9 Сарын өмнө
"Have you ever killed anyone?" _Uncomfortable silence_ "Not in America, no."
Dark God
Dark God Сарын өмнө
Dude, the best hosts are shaved bald, I have to shave bald to achieve top host charisma!
MarvelFan01
MarvelFan01 Сарын өмнө
Man, I wish I could show this to Amy from Brooklyn 99 so that she´d stop messing up every sing time he speaks to Holt This is definitely one of my favourites yet, good video! : )
Gary Russ
Gary Russ Сарын өмнө
During an interview I was asked if I had any special skills I didn't mention yet. I replied: "head BBQ chef at the company picnic"
God has come into my body, as a angelic fire body
God has come into my body, as a angelic fire body Сарын өмнө
God entered into my body, like a body. my same size. worlds only holy ghost filled man. God attacks me. God rips my face, shoots into mouth, gum disease. Jesus appears.laughs
Gilbert Luis
Gilbert Luis Сарын өмнө
5:40
wolfgangouille
wolfgangouille Сарын өмнө
If someone asked me any of those questions I would be...." I don't know, why ?"
Kapitan Dupa
Kapitan Dupa Сарын өмнө
"Oh wow, that's a great question" simply means "I need to think".
pringles13
pringles13 2 сарын өмнө
you should have put Nardwuar as well
ThereIsNoTry V
ThereIsNoTry V 3 сарын өмнө
Dude is dorky and kinda bland but you can't help but respect everything about his game because he's so damn well informed
Reaction to! AITA? You will NEVER AGREE with me!
Reaction to! AITA? You will NEVER AGREE with me! 3 сарын өмнө
I think you’re trying to teach something unteachable. Look at the humorous moments a little more. Idk if it’s possible or not. The “Coolio” comment you cannot nor will not ever teach. I appreciate what you do though.
Lmvao
Lmvao 3 сарын өмнө
what does "to mc someone" mean? 3:28
Derrek Santari
Derrek Santari 3 сарын өмнө
8:15 that wasn't just an off-the-cuff comback but also a callback to a hip hop awards segment on The Pete Holmes Show where Snoop Dogg gave him that nickname. Shaun is awesome!
Robbo Strong
Robbo Strong 3 сарын өмнө
Clickbait
Daniel Garcia
Daniel Garcia 3 сарын өмнө
Anyone ever sign up for there program? If so did it help?
Joey Bright
Joey Bright 3 сарын өмнө
I'm really starting to get annoyed with Audible 😒. I will be unlikely to be a customer of theirs.
A High Hippo
A High Hippo 3 сарын өмнө
Joe Rogan is no longer a reliable source he said video games are bad.
Maria Kayla Augusta
Maria Kayla Augusta 4 сарын өмнө
idkkk but i do think this is the best episode of CoC
getyourecon
getyourecon 4 сарын өмнө
“It’s the show with hot questions and even hotter wings.” Save yourself 13 minutes.
Joe Hooper
Joe Hooper 4 сарын өмнө
A video on folks that when threatened can be harsh. Almost get angry. Would be helpful
lukas gasnik
lukas gasnik 4 сарын өмнө
This videos are so well done. Good job
Saul Espinoza
Saul Espinoza 4 сарын өмнө
1. ask killer questions beyond the obvious ones 00:28 2. use the question preamble to connect on a personal level 03:09 3. steer conversations towards the other persons emotion or passions 04:52 4. tease playfully and have some fun 07:37 5. comfortably express disagreement 09:12
preben nielsen
preben nielsen 4 сарын өмнө
6:54-7:03: How come the bottles are never moved, opened or even unwrapped accross interviews?
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աוƈӃеԃ ༄ 4 сарын өмнө
So I was not wrong about sean
Themixmusicandmore
Themixmusicandmore 4 сарын өмнө
I always ask hella questions and usually it ends in "i don't usually do this but"
Shawn Cothran
Shawn Cothran 4 сарын өмнө
Do you think preceding a disagreement or criticism with a compliment, like you pointed out with joe rogan, might come across as disingenuous or undermine your candor or integrity? (i.e. a hero sandwich)
Blixx
Blixx 4 сарын өмнө
Yah my name is Chuck Norris..everyone thinks they ate making an original joke when they find this out..after 40 yrs it gets really lame and hacky
Ranaldo Bobsled
Ranaldo Bobsled 4 сарын өмнө
If it's female pull out Mr Johnson.
uvelebahleke ulymlyashibilika
uvelebahleke ulymlyashibilika 4 сарын өмнө
The guy talking sounds like Shaun evens
lights473
lights473 4 сарын өмнө
I see his stuff in snapchat, great host
Vito Scaletta
Vito Scaletta 4 сарын өмнө
1:04 this guy is asking the dumbest questions... you dont ask vague convoluted questions to "impress" someone. You do that when you need to talk and have nothing to talk about.
Ragingbull Games
Ragingbull Games 4 сарын өмнө
Shawn Evans gets his knowledge from his bald head absorbing the power from the sun like a solar panel
Dora Mamanini
Dora Mamanini 4 сарын өмнө
Everyone answers with : That’s a great question 🙄
Rogue Art
Rogue Art 4 сарын өмнө
I love the "Hot Wings" show....Sean is the greatest host.
Karolis Valeika
Karolis Valeika 4 сарын өмнө
A ... *BUDDY* ... of mine
Philip Kunkel
Philip Kunkel 4 сарын өмнө
This just made me want fried chicken
Rafael Veloso
Rafael Veloso 4 сарын өмнө
4:14 ó o bruxo
duggie25
duggie25 5 сарын өмнө
If you want an example of a master at research dont use sean evans bruh...its NARDWAUR
vishan singh
vishan singh 5 сарын өмнө
that guy in the white T-shirt, don't know him, but i know the meme
AEBIOUS
AEBIOUS 5 сарын өмнө
Thanks guy from Hot Ones
Saul Ramirez
Saul Ramirez 5 сарын өмнө
Sean Evans can dig up some info on his interviewees but there's someone way better at that. His name is Nardwuar
Ejim J
Ejim J 5 сарын өмнө
Naudrwar should interview Sean...
Trevs
Trevs 5 сарын өмнө
Seeing Idris Elba made all the memes come to mind lmaoo
Todd Trimble
Todd Trimble 5 сарын өмнө
Sean Evans really is a terrific interviewer; clearly he does his homework. It's no wonder he gets all these celebs. And what a great concept for a series!
Srini
Srini 5 сарын өмнө
Without taking any credit from Sean Evans, I think people say, "That's a great question" to buy some time to respond.
Albert Daniels
Albert Daniels 5 сарын өмнө
I can really relate to all this. I work as a Psych Nurse and I interact with our patients in oh so many ways that you mentioned in this clip. It’s when I connect that I enjoy my job the most. Doesn’t always last. But then again.. Hey... It’s a Psych Ward If I can lighten the load then, job well done.
Changsta
Changsta 5 сарын өмнө
These are great tips! Love it. I have a question though. If you were to start a conversation with someone that you repeatedly interact, you'll tend to run out of "researchable questions", and eventually resort to the typical "How are you?" or "How was your weekend?" question, how do you avoid to do that with someone you already know and engage with on a frequent basis?
Gummy
Gummy 5 сарын өмнө
When I'm at a job interview and they hit me with the notorious "Why do you want to work here?", I just tell them "I need money. You want me to do a thing to get money, so I will do the thing". Then I tell them I don't understand why it's such an unacceptable answer. Majority of the time they respect it and hire me on the spot. Some of them would rather hear "Ah yes it is a good company because reasons and I like this company haha".
ChurninButta
ChurninButta 5 сарын өмнө
Nobody: Almost one guy but actually nobody: Jeff Wittek: So... How'd ya get ya start?
Nadia Ulrich
Nadia Ulrich 5 сарын өмнө
So now I actually don't feel that bad about "doing my research" before going on a date xD
EVAhazard
EVAhazard 5 сарын өмнө
On the flipside, if someone asks you a question you've heard way too many times, try not to get annoyed. Have a concise response available and move on.
Chache
Chache 5 сарын өмнө
This is, in my opinion, similar to what Nardwuar does in an interview.
E. Staring
E. Staring 5 сарын өмнө
I like your videos man 👏🏻
Fubz
Fubz 5 сарын өмнө
This is the movie interviewer aquivelent of Nardwuar
paskeros
paskeros 5 сарын өмнө
Sean Evans and Nardwuar are both the most impressive in their research abilities
Nogger Fogger logger 69
Nogger Fogger logger 69 5 сарын өмнө
YEAH WE GET IT !!! Can you stop begging people to pay for your courses already we get it, you want money...
FNQ-88
FNQ-88 5 сарын өмнө
How about going for a Charisma Bypass Reversal on the President .. it’s clear that he’s had a bypass but the reversals apparently are hit & miss.
Mel Man
Mel Man 5 сарын өмнө
I think this can all be summed up by saying, have a genuine interest in the people you talk to. A lot of those talk show circuit interviews (Maybe except Conan) are just to fill time. The hosts really don't care about your answers. Also the interview is pre-rehearsed so how genuine can it really be?
Jeremy flower power
Jeremy flower power 5 сарын өмнө
His interviews aren't really about whatever movie they are promoting but the interviewer themselves.
the last chronicles of nix
the last chronicles of nix 5 сарын өмнө
run nardwaur his check
haytham hakla
haytham hakla 5 сарын өмнө
I remember I had an interview in a high tech company and I was extremely under qualified. I researched the interviewer online before the interview and found out he had a couple of patents. I brought that up while he was walking me from the lobby to the interview room. He was so shocked I even knew about it and I got the internship the next day.
nerveroddoreven
nerveroddoreven 5 сарын өмнө
I bet Sean Evans learned from watching Nardwaur
Cesar Tresvalles
Cesar Tresvalles 5 сарын өмнө
What is this never ending complexity of thoughts that comes with maturity? I like it
EmGee Vic
EmGee Vic 6 сарын өмнө
1. Asking killer questions. (Ask the questions beyond the obvious ones) 2. Use the question preamble. 3. Steer questions towards emotions. 4. Tease playfully. 5. Comfortably express disagreement.
egdapo
egdapo 6 сарын өмнө
this is exceptional
misterjag
misterjag 6 сарын өмнө
Put yourself in their shoes. It's that simple. But that would make for a very brief video.
Teo Larrosa Granolleras
Teo Larrosa Granolleras 6 сарын өмнө
Nardwar + not so nerdy vibe
Thirze Weemhoff
Thirze Weemhoff 6 сарын өмнө
Me not having video on and only listening, then looking for a second and seeing Brad Leone. What is Bon Appetit doing here???
AlbanZap
AlbanZap 6 сарын өмнө
This is idiotic, Sean is interviewing them, a totally different dynamic to a normal conversation. Asking 'How was it' to someone who came back from holiday is perfectly fine - it allows them to talk about whatever aspect of the holiday they want to. Asking 'Ok, what was the best food you ate there?' is a bit more specific and will often lead to a short, uninteresting answer that they're unable to link to another idea and continue the flow of the conversation and simply put you in the position of thinking of more follow-ups.
Trygator
Trygator 6 сарын өмнө
Sean is someone who deserves to be admired (:
Vaughan Hamilton
Vaughan Hamilton 6 сарын өмнө
I came in here to comment on the thumbnail. Apparently it takes 13 minutes to tell you to "Use this phrase". Just tell me in less than a minute. Then I've got it and I'm off to impress. Gotta run. See you later
Czechbound
Czechbound 6 сарын өмнө
I started skeptical, and finished impressed. New subscriber.
TheWatermelon3
TheWatermelon3 6 сарын өмнө
thought the guy in the thumbnail was dana white
D Styer
D Styer 6 сарын өмнө
How to impress someone you admire, or someone in general. Watch a few of Nardwuar's interviews and try to mimic some of his manic preparation abilities. It will impress everyone.
Benks
Benks 6 сарын өмнө
where is the joe rogan link i would like to watch it
Sunny Day
Sunny Day 6 сарын өмнө
Sean Evans is like the celebrity whisperer! Also, his humility is a definite plus. He’s the right balance of admirer, intelligence, and chill! I love him. ♥️🙌🏼💯
GalaxyOfReeses KIng
GalaxyOfReeses KIng 6 сарын өмнө
people like this express the truth for truth's sake doing so makes people like this greatly appreciated I like communities like this
Bob Rogers
Bob Rogers 6 сарын өмнө
Lmao he didnt have to do Rudd like that
6Meilin
6Meilin 6 сарын өмнө
As someone who is socially awkward and maybe even on the autism spectrum... this channel surprisingly helps me a lot! 🙆‍♀️
Łęűwīņ Řøbbįñś đąvîş
Łęűwīņ Řøbbįñś đąvîş 6 сарын өмнө
So we’re just not gonna mention Nardwar?
FrankiValerie
FrankiValerie 6 сарын өмнө
Nobody told England that we're not allowed to complain. (I love Sean Evans)
maximum momo
maximum momo 6 сарын өмнө
That time Brenden Schab beat multiple Gonaga's at once
Tropp
Tropp 6 сарын өмнө
I always liked his kinda calm body language
Deano Spumoni
Deano Spumoni 6 сарын өмнө
*So I guess bald white men are really good hosts?*
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