3 Types Of Jokes That Make People Dislike You

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Ellen Degeneres has been getting a lot of hate on the internet recently.
This video isn't meant to be a commentary on her, one way or the other, but after seeing those hate videos, we thought you might want to know the most common types of jokes that make people dislike you, and some of the jokes you can make instead to make people like you.

0:14 - #1: Sharing their sensitive information to get a laugh.
3:53 - #2: Making jokes designed to make the other person feel guilty.
6:10 - #3: Teasing someone of lower status than you.
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John DiMaggio
John DiMaggio Өдрийн өмнө
I don't watch these videos for advice, but for entertainment purposes only. I think it's fun to see people like this examining the intricacies of social interaction and how seemingly slightly awkward exchanges can stem from much more substantial things.
Todd K
Todd K Өдрийн өмнө
Lowkey Loki
Lowkey Loki 3 өдрийн өмнө
Do...men ...show these signs ? Lol seems like a bunch of women publicly freaking out
Shayna DesChanel
Shayna DesChanel 3 өдрийн өмнө
I have a joke that will make people dislike you. Ellen
junkheadrooster 4 өдрийн өмнө
This is why Conan is king. Most talk show hosts have a mean streak with a pandering hypocrisy. Esp Kimmel.
Lisa IsHappyToBeSane
Lisa IsHappyToBeSane 4 өдрийн өмнө
I think Ellen is a terrible person doing things like this to people. Especially the pregnant joke. NOT FUNNY!
Michael Jordan
Michael Jordan 5 өдрийн өмнө
Why do people even go on her show?
Nokachi 6 өдрийн өмнө
Better jokes for lack of invites would be something like "Ey, you should've told me about this party, I would've brought my *insert ridiculous thing*"
Nokachi 6 өдрийн өмнө
Remember, better to be considered boring than to be despised
Silas Wong
Silas Wong 6 өдрийн өмнө
How many talk shows do you watch man????
James Netherian
James Netherian 7 өдрийн өмнө
Isn't her real name Ellen Degenerated?
ArtinArt 8 өдрийн өмнө
Ellen disgusts me.
Paul Billingham
Paul Billingham 8 өдрийн өмнө
I can't get why people don't like Ellen. She plays with celebs, and they know that to do her show will increase their 'Celebrity.' There is a cost to everything, incase you didn't realise it sweet heart. Harvey had a higher price, and it makes Ellen look cheap in comparison.
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Learn German with Marzipanfrau 9 өдрийн өмнө
If you want to make jokes, think about the jokes you would laugh too if they were told about you. :)
John Parrott
John Parrott 9 өдрийн өмнө
They knew they were making them uncomfortable. And it's never ok to tell something publicly that someone individually told you. Gram knew what he was doing.......my only problem is not calling them out.
theMike97_ 10 өдрийн өмнө
sad thing is that ellen used to be a pretty talented standup comedian. was a genuinely funny person. now she's hard to watch
Oshua Hito
Oshua Hito 10 өдрийн өмнө
I find that, across the board, celebrities enjoy themselves way more on Graham Norton than Ellen. Personally, I find Graham Norton to be the more charismatic host, and significantly more universally liked.
atolm1 10 өдрийн өмнө
Watch Ellen interviewing Kathy Griffin, that's when I saw her for who she really was.
Blu Gabe
Blu Gabe 12 өдрийн өмнө
Now I don't want to say any jokes or talk to people or I'll seem like a jerk (a lot of them already think I'm a jerk so I would just make it worse)
Whank McSockpuppet
Whank McSockpuppet 12 өдрийн өмнө
So basically don't try to make your bullying funny. Be a bully or be funny...but not both.
Donald Sherer
Donald Sherer 15 өдрийн өмнө
This video has plenty of superficial phonies for sure.
DerpyDaringDitzyDoo 16 өдрийн өмнө
That clip with Stephen Colbert and Sophia is so much more wholesome knowing Stephen is a D&D nerd too x3 I love his wholesome "No way!" I wonder if they ever got together to play sometime?
Hafid P
Hafid P 17 өдрийн өмнө
As a talkshow host. It is not okay
THUNDER YT 17 өдрийн өмнө
ellen is such a bully
Matthew Thomas
Matthew Thomas 19 өдрийн өмнө
That's assuming everything you watch and hear is authentic, and I believe that's a very big mistake
Russ Gordon
Russ Gordon 23 өдрийн өмнө
Ellen DeGeneres. I hate him.
Cherylla 23 өдрийн өмнө
you just proved yourself a better talkshow just than ellen
Pat Scally
Pat Scally 25 өдрийн өмнө
Ellen Degenerate is just as phony as Dope-Ra Winfrey and Rosy MacDonalds! She's fueled by her own ego and acts without regard for anyone else's feelings. Easy to hate someone like her.
Chris House
Chris House 25 өдрийн өмнө
Joke's on you, I don't care if people dislike me.
Requiem 6 өдрийн өмнө
I like you
Jônatas 25 өдрийн өмнө
When I watch these videos I feel like I'm an alien trying to figure out how humans behave
Jakob WK
Jakob WK 26 өдрийн өмнө
Watch Ellen, do the opposite of what she does, and you will be somebody worth knowing and having for a friend.
Jakob WK
Jakob WK 26 өдрийн өмнө
Memo to Ellen: Dear, just accept that you are passée and completely irrelevant. You might try knitting, dearie.
John Hunt
John Hunt 27 өдрийн өмнө
Ellen Degeneres has a mean streak and I've always thought so.
Poly Liker
Poly Liker 27 өдрийн өмнө
When I make a joke that seems to have hurt someone I immediately go to something along the lines of 'but I'm even worse, you know what I did?'. It's a great moment for some self-depricating humor, especially if you can invite to other person to make a playful jab at you.
Synoptic20 Eyesight
Synoptic20 Eyesight 27 өдрийн өмнө
Ellen is mean and self serving. She used to be funny but has resorted to desperate tactics
F Mills
F Mills 29 өдрийн өмнө
Ellen looks like that guy in the "Meal Ticket" episode of The Ballod of Buster Scruggs.
mo meils
mo meils 29 өдрийн өмнө
when ellen asked superm if they were all single and mark just said “why do you always wanna know 🤨” king
Alex Сарын өмнө
My god ellen would not be good at checking for consent
Fronk Сарын өмнө
so basically don't be a talkshow host?
WWLaidback 27 өдрийн өмнө
not an abusive one
Carmine Grillo
Carmine Grillo Сарын өмнө
Ellen knows her guests are uncomfortable but she does not care. Ellen is not a nice person.
Paige Сарын өмнө
With the Robert Downey Jr. and Jimmy Fallon one, it was actually a joke where they got a prompt and had to act it out and this was, 'pretend you weren't invited to their party' or something like that
Kara A
Kara A Сарын өмнө
Imagine how abused Ellen's wife must be emotionally and psychologically. Ouch.
BrokenMary Сарын өмнө
Well one thing you have to know about Markaplier is that he hates hates hates being touched
Iconoclast Сарын өмнө
I hate ellen....always have.
Willtality Сарын өмнө
that taylor thing was tough
Sheepo Doggo
Sheepo Doggo Сарын өмнө
RDJ: "Yeah, you weren't invited" That's IIIIIIIIT, dude.
XxSt4rl1ght_S14ught3rxX Сарын өмнө
Ugh I wanna hug taylor so bad
Humera Isa
Humera Isa Сарын өмнө
the fact that ellen made mariah carrey drink while she was pregnant is just digusting and strait up wrong
Kornélia Karacs
Kornélia Karacs Сарын өмнө
Ellen is a toxic, passive-aggressive person, who misuses her power, humiliates her guests and poisons her surroundings.
George Xidirov
George Xidirov Сарын өмнө
Me at class: accidentally hits a girl boobas Class:didnt see it Me:uhh nice boobas Her: .....
bobsuruncle Сарын өмнө
That is so.... selfish... one of my favorite “digs” she has said. It’s a type of joke I love to use to praise and encourage people. Not to any of my celebrity friends who have won multiple awards, of course.... I have none of them, yet... 😒
Kenneth Kraakmo
Kenneth Kraakmo Сарын өмнө
Ellen is soo dislikeable
Leto85 Сарын өмнө
1:53 'There's that.' There is so much hinting in that sentence. I've read it as 'there's no going back now. It has been said even though I didn't wanted it to be said.' Poor girl. Situations like that can have lasting impressions. But besides that, thanks a lot for this video! It taught me a lot.
oops Сарын өмнө
I'm noticing that most of the main characters in your what-not-to-do videos are women and most of the positive charismatic characters you use are men, if not all. I haven't seen all your videos. Just maybe, take that into consideration, please.
We ShOuLd JuSt StAb CeAsAr
We ShOuLd JuSt StAb CeAsAr Сарын өмнө
Being a nerd is not a negative thing..isnt a nerd like being smart?
Requiem 6 өдрийн өмнө
We ShOuLd JuSt StAb CeAsAr
We ShOuLd JuSt StAb CeAsAr Сарын өмнө
Mariah had a miscarriage after the drink think..
We ShOuLd JuSt StAb CeAsAr
We ShOuLd JuSt StAb CeAsAr Сарын өмнө
I think comedians and like talk show host should learn body language and know whats actually funny..
ManekiNeko1972 Сарын өмнө
Why don't we talk about the only three things people are allowed to joke about? Farts, romantic failure and "White people, am I Right?"
Martin Killer Of The Sacred Deer
Martin Killer Of The Sacred Deer Сарын өмнө
A lot of people make jokes because they hurt not thinking about others the way that they should. A lot of people are sensitive beyond belief and can only handle so much even if it is fun to tease one such as this. I have hurt people a lot because of this, and am so sorry for doing so. It all steams from careless thought in trying to provoke an action out of someone to laugh, cry etc. a lot of times this behavior gets carried away and leaves people feeling bullied.
logan merritt
logan merritt Сарын өмнө
These clips are hard to watch
Onetwo Threefour
Onetwo Threefour Сарын өмнө
ah, that's why people hate ellen she's awful
Ya girl
Ya girl Сарын өмнө
The awkward conversation between Ellen and Dakota is so embarrassing like it feels like we shouldn’t even be seeing it
Ya girl
Ya girl Сарын өмнө
I’m not the biggest fans of Ariana and Taylor but I feel so bad for them in these situations you can tell they are so uncomfortable
Phil Surtees
Phil Surtees Сарын өмнө
I seriously hope people don't take this guy's videos seriously? He is TOTALLY misreading people's reactions the whole way through this video; at 5:08 you can tell from Robert's face that he most certainly _DOES_ love the joke, because he has a twinkle in his eye as he gives a wry smile. Does he REALLY not see that? Not to mention the moronic belief that A-list celebrities like RDJ will put up with jokes they don't like for more than a nanosecond. Has he ever watched the Graham Norton show? It's particularly brilliant because Graham Norton is so good at making his guests feel comfortable, and getting them to open up and tell stories they've never told anyone before. Does he even know who Cara Delevingne is??? If he did he'd know - as Graham Norton and everyone who watches his show does - that she will talk about anything, and that her whole pretending to be embarrassed bit is part of her act. So, he's telling us to look out for this that and the other sign, when he is misreading the signs himself, and is completely unaware that his advice is totally back to front. *_DO. NOT. TAKE. THIS. PERSON'S. ADVICE._*
Michiel van den Broeke
Michiel van den Broeke Сарын өмнө
Those interviews are all scripted
Mischief Maker
Mischief Maker 2 сарын өмнө
I would have told jimmy after what he said to mark “don’t you sit behind a desk all day too and talk to yourself?”
Timbot2002 2 сарын өмнө
How to make me not like you: 1. Invite Rich Evans, genius, legend and national treasure to show. 2. Dis-invite Rich Evans 3. Prove yourself to be a hack fraud
xyz123 2 сарын өмнө
so give the other person the "send up" and not the "put down"
Antonio Zamudio
Antonio Zamudio 2 сарын өмнө
In a nutshell: she’s a b*tch.
Chavez Clemons Jr.
Chavez Clemons Jr. 2 сарын өмнө
What's funny about #3 is that I have made that mistake in the moment while depressed--I have Bipolar Disorder Type 2--and I never thought that I could misinterpret my social status in relation to my friends. With therapy, I have realized that I am handsome and that it is best for me to not tease people about their physical appearance. I have felt the effect of #3 at work when a former manager referred to me as "a little boy". Since I couldn't call them a "fat cow" as a tease, the comment had the effect of breeding immense resentment in me as it felt to me that was a sincere judgement from my former manager about me.
Ada _unknown_
Ada _unknown_ 2 сарын өмнө
Idk bout anyone else... but these all made me realllly uncomfortable with the person being "joked" with. Like I love a good laugh but these were really not funny
junior corina
junior corina 2 сарын өмнө
The tacit magazine scilly mate because beginner regretfully serve like a tense mistake. eager, right shovel
Larrytrum 2 сарын өмнө
Sheesh ellen..
Tim McArdle
Tim McArdle 2 сарын өмнө
If you really want me to NOT watch a video then put a mugshot of Ellen on the cover🤮
klys 2 сарын өмнө
.....i used to like ellen degeneres 😳
Abhinay Limbu
Abhinay Limbu 2 сарын өмнө
All these jokes are good between breastfeeds
Amos Teo
Amos Teo 2 сарын өмнө
What bs. they're close friends and we all know taytay is a drama queen. its just a reaction, shes not actually uncomfortable.
Missymousie 2 сарын өмнө
Letterman crossed many lines, too, especially with young women. Part of me says that if you're going to make guest appearances on Ellen, you know this is going to happen. I love her stand up but I find she crosses too many thresholds as an interviewer and you're only in her good books if you support the same things she does. There's a door behind you and I think nothing looks better than someone walking away. The other part of me cites the audience. It doesn't take a genius to know that the Taylor Swift thing was WAY over that threshold. Time to stop laughing/giving a bully what she wants. We teach our kids "don't be part of bullying, if you laugh then you're are just enabling the bully and becoming part of the problem" - then laugh at someone being humiliated.
Joshua K
Joshua K 2 сарын өмнө
Ellen's garbage
OurAntwan 2 сарын өмнө
The best way I get a laugh out of people is to make fun of myself even if its not true. People get a laugh and nobody gets hurt because im comfortable in myself.
Greg Walker
Greg Walker 2 сарын өмнө
very mean
elvis presley
elvis presley 2 сарын өмнө
I'm here to learn how to make people not want to be around me hahahhaahahahahahahaahahahahahahshshhshshahsssjjahahaha. I hates people
John Doe
John Doe 2 сарын өмнө
The Graham Norton one with Cara Delevingne was deliberately played up I think. British humor and all
lazzy2012 2 сарын өмнө
Ellen seems like a huge muppet
Kat Horne
Kat Horne 2 сарын өмнө
Ellen consistently has sadistic behavior, she takes pleasure in humiliating people. It's an awful personality trait.
cantthinkofausername lol
cantthinkofausername lol 2 сарын өмнө
There’s someone I know who needs to see this video
grannypantsification 2 сарын өмнө
Ellen isn’t funny in my opinion. She is also so egocentric that she doesn’t seem to care that others are uncomfortable. Couple that with reports of her abusive management style, and maybe celebrities should stop going on her show.
byronpaul19 2 сарын өмнө
Such a stodgy video. Yawn.
___ Wishlake
___ Wishlake 2 сарын өмнө
I'll bet that 'the oscar jokes' were written for her and the 'wasn't invited to a party' ones she did off the cuff.
Smith Q. Johns
Smith Q. Johns 2 сарын өмнө
My fetish is celebrities being uncomfortable
Smith Q. Johns
Smith Q. Johns 2 сарын өмнө
I feel so bad for these rich celebrities being uncomfortable for a few seconds...
M The g
M The g 2 сарын өмнө
who even likes ellen? like fo real, I never met anyone who likes her or watches her show. Jesus I never even saw the show myself, nor do I ever see it being watched. Like talkshows arent even a only american thing, she is just so unlikable.
H Lewis
H Lewis 2 сарын өмнө
Why tf do these psycho talk show hosts feel the NEED to know about someone’s personal life? Have they got NOTHING better to do?
qrtemiiss 2 сарын өмнө
*shares sensitive info to make a funny joke 😎*
GaliciaArt 2 сарын өмнө
Not seing the video, but i totally done them all
GQY 2 сарын өмнө
Well, Kai said she's boring.
Vikram Gupta
Vikram Gupta 2 сарын өмнө
Ellen's known as being one of the biggest jerks on the planet.
James Beard
James Beard 2 сарын өмнө
So essentially Ellen is the anti-Craig Ferguson ...
The MI6 Sports Network
The MI6 Sports Network 2 сарын өмнө
Who else got secondhand embarrassment watching this?
Annette Fabiano
Annette Fabiano 2 сарын өмнө
Ellen is acting like a loser.
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