7 Signs You Are Emotionally Mature

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Emotional maturity creates strength and resilience in the face of life's obstacles, but pinning down what emotional maturity looks like and how it's developed can be hard to do.

In this video we're going to cover 7 specific signs that you're emotionally mature, and if not, 7 things you can do to begin working on it.

Animation by Zeino:


0:16 - #1: Emotionally mature people do not demonize exes.
0:48 - #2: Recognize that they contribute to bad experience.
1:43 - #3: Do not take responsibility for other people's feelings.
2:38 - #4: Get angry, sad and anxious.
3:27 - #5: Don't need to dwell or wallow.
4:02 - #6: Can speak about emotions without getting emotional.
4:31 - #7: Can pause.

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Ce'ril Kaalin
Ce'ril Kaalin 29 өдрийн өмнө
Only recently started saying "I'm not okay" when I'm feeling down. It helps quite a bit, then I nitpick why I feel down in the first place, which sometimes doesn't make sense. Like having someone yell at me. Idk why but that really upsets me.
Victor Harvey
Victor Harvey 2 сарын өмнө
Finally, someone who gives a solution to a problem that they state instead of just telling them what their problem is and just saying oh well thank you so much at least somebody has some brains on MNpost
Victor Harvey
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I’m just wondering if I’ve got you correct and if you’re just saying something politically correct to keep from being mean and expressing an honest truth,?… So if I only date a tractive people, and I’m not that attractive and they end up cheating on me does that mean I should settle am I the calm denominator that I only attract or in the tractor to people that are easy on the eyes?. Should I sell for someone that my Dog. Would not lick to save it’s life is that what you’re saying
David Konevky
David Konevky 5 сарын өмнө
I found that most of the time, trying to help a person find a solution to a problem, even if it means saying something they might not like, works more than just being an empath and doing nothing.
How to Mommy
How to Mommy 6 сарын өмнө
This should be taught in highschool.
Eliot Glassier
Eliot Glassier 7 сарын өмнө
Really helps
Wind Ward
Wind Ward 10 сарын өмнө
To me the topic should be, Emotional Intelligence (EI). EI has been well established for decades, and covers all the points in the video in a much more complete way. Embracing EI will modify behaviors.
Chelcy Marie
Chelcy Marie 10 сарын өмнө
This was a great video! (Also, is it just me or does the narrator kind of sound like Spencer Reid from Criminal Minds?) ❤️👍
HinaTheBlue 11 сарын өмнө
I really enjoyed this video but it was really really fast, like you were in a hurry while reading the text. There could have been some pauses at least between the signs
CS Comics
CS Comics 11 сарын өмнө
I am 3 and I heard the en word
Grim Queen
Grim Queen 11 сарын өмнө
Love this video thanks for sharing!
Grim Queen
Grim Queen 11 сарын өмнө
This video confirmed my anxiety, but im growing on my own.
Creamy peanut butter jelly girl
Creamy peanut butter jelly girl 11 сарын өмнө
Wiki GM
Wiki GM 11 сарын өмнө
in number five is Dont Dwell the same as saying to not be a cry baby?
Peter Parker
Peter Parker 11 сарын өмнө
i blocked all my exes out of my life. i don't feel anything towards them and wish them the best, but i know it's easier for both to move on this way. dumped my last girlfriend cause she snaped with her ex all the time and lied about it, she was "emotionally mature" according to this.
Steven, A.D.
Steven, A.D. Жилийн өмнө
3:10 i'm sorry, did this guy just imply that people who are depressed are emotionally immature? this channel is skeevy as hell
sheepgray08 Жилийн өмнө
Oh so im definitely missing the part of not crying while problem solving :/ Have to work on that
The Self-Worth Habit
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When not dwelling in victimization, know that you get to feel like a victim when you are processing an experience where you were victimized. But it is what mentality we use going forward after that processing which tells us if we are using it as a crutch or not
The Self-Worth Habit
The Self-Worth Habit Жилийн өмнө
This advice does need to be taken carefully when in an abusive though. It is ok to see how awful a person was to you and abusers often try to make us feel to blame for their abuse, so don't take responsibility for things which are not yours
Sissa Quinn
Sissa Quinn Жилийн өмнө
Emotionally Mature won't freak out about this creep animation like I just did
Even Aarek
Even Aarek Жилийн өмнө
Yeeeeeesssssss, fuel my self-confidence and self-esteem. Make me whhoooolleeeee :P
Niladri Chatterjee
Niladri Chatterjee Жилийн өмнө
8. You don't watch this type of videos, because it doesn't matter.
GaleofDusk Жилийн өмнө
Best videos
MiMi's Life
MiMi's Life Жилийн өмнө
Great video!! Coming from an abusive relationship and dealing with mental health issues, I can’t be agreeing more with this content 💜💙💖 On my road to recovery and healing and hopefully inspiring others along the way 🌸
Chase K. Smith
Chase K. Smith Жилийн өмнө
Who does the animation for these videos??
Renenlilje Жилийн өмнө
Looks like someone took Kurzgesagt's course on skillshare
Zyco Жилийн өмнө
I see someone has been taking notes from kurzgesagt
Lauriane Maisier
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1. You don't look for validation on MNpost videos Oh wait
Persuasion Psycho
Persuasion Psycho Жилийн өмнө
Waiting othe signs to complete my maturity. Thanks to this video.
Giga Mesh
Giga Mesh Жилийн өмнө
I think it is harder for student in college to be emotionally mature. Partly because your fate is half decided by your teachers and your grades. How to be more mature in a college situation?
Eliana Marshall
Eliana Marshall Жилийн өмнө
i think i have to admit that this boosted my ego
Kevin Keegan
Kevin Keegan Жилийн өмнө
4:49 They guy frantically running around to elevator music...
NeverStopAsking Why
NeverStopAsking Why Жилийн өмнө
not controlling your hornyness around women very bad
S. de Bruijn
S. de Bruijn Жилийн өмнө
don’t listen to this. you wanna know why. mature people have made the mistakes to get to the answers. if u blindly copy the answers you will have learned nothing. dont try to cheat on life. burn your butt so you actually know how it feels not just know the fact that fire is dangerous!
M M Жилийн өмнө
Animation is not cheap. Charlie finally scammed enough money out of people through Charisma U! So proud!
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ran dom
ran dom Жилийн өмнө
All I've learned from this video is that I'm not emotionally mature 😔
Raja Bonito
Raja Bonito Жилийн өмнө
Too bad if you're emotionally mature but the people in your environment aren't.
p. Жилийн өмнө
great video ! watching it for the second time now
Patrick Perry
Patrick Perry Жилийн өмнө
3:57 step 8 do squats
Arcalter Жилийн өмнө
Ayelet Yam
Ayelet Yam Жилийн өмнө
Im 18 and have demonized my ex. I found that allowing myself to be un-mature in this situation and to feel angry has helped me to express my feelings and let them go.
Kik Жилийн өмнө
this video is pure gold.
David Gumazon
David Gumazon Жилийн өмнө
1:00 2:41 4:00
Sarah Baker
Sarah Baker Жилийн өмнө
After watching this video I have come to the conclusion that I am in fact, not emotionally mature 😅
Cerebral Trip
Cerebral Trip Жилийн өмнө
Honestly..sacrificing a part of your day to make someone feel a little better isn't wrong or unhealthy in anyway! Making it your soul goal is. Also some people demonize their ex because they still have feelings for them. Sometimes those feelings aren't healthy given the relationships environment. As a way to break out of a Stockholm like trance when trying to sort out past happenings and move on. This video makes it seem like every situation is easily solved. It doesn't account for ex who are actually horrible people that go too far,or the trust issues that follow. Make a video on how to get passed relationships of all kinds that involve betrayals of trust. Relationships you can't get away from like family and long time friends. Because losing those things could leave anyone emotionally unstable and immature.
peanutbutler Жилийн өмнө
Charlie you have to break down Henry cejudo's playful challenge at Khabib Nurmagomedov and Kayla Harrison. I never knew Henry and you would for judo but man he is so funny
HedgerHodg Жилийн өмнө
Kurzgesagt? Is that you?
Nobody's daughter
Nobody's daughter Жилийн өмнө
I can't talk about my emotions without getting emotional. Need to work on that 🙁
TENACT Жилийн өмнө
We need a breakdown on the Brooklyn Nine nine characters, mainly Jake Peralta 😯 There's a lot of different and interesting aspects there just asking to be discussed
jeff Жилийн өмнө
There is a book called “Boundaries” that helps ALOT with all this
GeoLitz Жилийн өмнө
The animation was all over the place, and often didn’t make sense or line up with with the ideas being expressed. It was very distracting.
Sinead Moylan
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Can anyone recommend a video on this channel that would help me with convincing friends and family to stay at home during Corona virus? It's proving quite difficult to convince some people. I'm thinking my communication skills are lacking here and it's making them even more stubborn. Any ideas?
Jacob Kendrick
Jacob Kendrick Жилийн өмнө
the hard thing about being emotionally mature is you can never be straightforward to people who aren't. You have to constantly hold back the truth because you will hurt everybody's sensitive ego.
Arthur Жилийн өмнө
Well, these animations are annoying rather than being helpful to understand.
ijornhribrudkrvir Жилийн өмнө
I'd love to see a breakdown on Tobert Sheehan! That man has such a unique charm to him
Zhu Bajie
Zhu Bajie Жилийн өмнө
Try the Abraham Lincoln method when crazy angry by writing a letter that is never sent. Then the emotions are spent and you can address the problem in a reasoned matter without the burden of others putting up emotional walls in defense of one's own outburst. Just as venomous anger would not change you, it won't persuade them to change either. So curb your emotions not by repression but written expression.
Brandon Jones
Brandon Jones Жилийн өмнө
Emotional maturity is all about awareness. Control over emotions and not the other way around.
Landon Frigault
Landon Frigault Жилийн өмнө
Ok well no surprises here, I'm emotionally mature. But I love this video it helps me be way more conscious about the life lessons I've learned in my 18 yrs. Thanks man❤️❤️
Aadam Almakky
Aadam Almakky Жилийн өмнө
Do a breakdown on mysterio in Spider-Man far from home
Aarya Gathani
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Make video on shahrukh khan charisma
Scorpion Rodriges
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Emile Oosthuizen
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Hey guys, your content is absolutely amazing, it's helped me a lot. I would love to see a video by you guys on the effect a dressing style has on the way a person is perceived. If you feel like this is a good suggestion then you're welcome in advance :)
Higher Caliber
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Ann Eone
Ann Eone Жилийн өмнө
I got depressed watching this. How draining. 🙏
Ann Eone
Ann Eone Жилийн өмнө
Question and answer is Same. “if this is this then that was that.”
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привет)) как, тебе идея сделать анализ харизмы BTS????????????????)
Ernes Gudzevic
Ernes Gudzevic Жилийн өмнө
Can you do dreak down on David Dobrik charisma ?
Dan Da Lion
Dan Da Lion Жилийн өмнө
Another title for this video: “How to nnot be a SIMP”
Logan Жилийн өмнө
I really thought this was kurzgesagt from the thumbnail
Joan Smith
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Munashe Tanjani
Munashe Tanjani Жилийн өмнө
I don't know if you've don't these people but I love Bill Hader and Hasan Minhaj (I don't know if I spelled that right). Or maybe Cameron Hamilton from Love is blind. He is very reserved but in a well spoken kind of way. Just some suggestions. I love your I'm a
Munashe Tanjani
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Channel. I am a firm believer that you can learn anything from anywhere.
Bryson Gonzalez
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Analyze ways Parvati Shallow from Survivor is charming pleaseeee????🥺🥺🥺
plica06 Жилийн өмнө
The main reason I unsubscribed from Kurzgesagt is because I couldn't stand that narrators voice. But the other reason I unsubscribed from that channel was because I found those animations to be really annoying!
Kev Жилийн өмнө
"maybe you are being cheated on by multiple partners"
jeffrei Жилийн өмнө
I learned how to pause on my own, so seeing that method inputed to this list makes me proud of myself (TwT)
Michael P
Michael P Жилийн өмнө
do a breakdow of hitler you coward
FlashyLight Жилийн өмнө
I love your videos but I rather see you in the camera rather than an animation.
Michael Vaughn
Michael Vaughn Жилийн өмнө
No.1 ignoring this video because your not worried about such silly propositions. You obviously failed.
Adel Baranovska
Adel Baranovska Жилийн өмнө
Ahh yeas... Just as i thought. I am so immature
Binyamin Tsadik
Binyamin Tsadik Жилийн өмнө
Great video, love the animation. I struggle with a lot of this myself. Thanks a lot.
Wawawa Wawa
Wawawa Wawa Жилийн өмнө
What are the 4 questions. Anyone know?
Viktor Nguyen
Viktor Nguyen Жилийн өмнө
Here's my self awareness checklist: (min 5:09) 1. I still demonize people who are not like me -> need to work on this 2. I don't blame or complain when things go bad, I asked myself to what extent I was the cause of it -> so I believe I have this one 3. I don't fully comprehend this one so I'm not sure 4. I still hide my feelings sometimes -> need to work on 5. I don't dwell on any negative emotions for too long -> so I got that 6. I get emotional easily -> need to work on 7. I do find myself giving it a few thoughts and some time before responding, but sometimes it's not long enough for the best answer -> next time I'll give it extra time
AngelTyraelGM Жилийн өмнө
When you have all 7 but your life is a mess, and you wish that you didnt have any of them, love how you show the benefits of those traits but not the downside, the downside is allways pushing yourself/stressing to think about everything, its fun beeing in a room with people knowing what is the problem how to potentialy solve it but beeing unable to say anything as your aware enough that nobody wants any criticism/blame, and saying anything will only make your life miserable, i wish i was never impressed with the old wise man in movies and spent so much time thinking how to potentialy become one myself, in movies it fixes everything, in life it ruins you most of the time unless you thinktank the lvling sht out of it and find a workaround human mindblocks.
Lagmion Жилийн өмнө
This is a video about stoicism. You really have to treat it like so, man :))
jeffrei Жилийн өмнө
Hell yeah I love Hitoshi Shinso!
jeffrei Жилийн өмнө
Somehow I can read the word Zodiac in the thumbnail
bamischijfje123 Жилийн өмнө
Kurzgesagt meets school of life meets charisma on command. More useful than school of lifes video though. Great video
Chancellor Palpatine
Chancellor Palpatine Жилийн өмнө
Ah, I see you’ve taken Kurzgesagt’s skillshare course
Filipa Жилийн өмнө
Zach Cheung
Zach Cheung Жилийн өмнө
1:15 video idea: how to discern if you are the cause of recurring problems in your romantic life or if you attract people who cause those issues
Jamal GS
Jamal GS Жилийн өмнө
I thought I would maybe get a few of these, but nooooo it was to the point where it felt like the video was about me. It was some self reflecting I wasn't expecting. Great video!
Tarjei Sellevoll
Tarjei Sellevoll Жилийн өмнө
Perhaps I’ll reach this stage one day
Cr Zero
Cr Zero Жилийн өмнө
these animations are disgusting af, sorry to break it to ya
someone somewhere
someone somewhere Жилийн өмнө
I am definitely the most emotionally immature person i have ever met
helena helena
helena helena Жилийн өмнө
couldn't be me lol
Lifeless web user
Lifeless web user Жилийн өмнө
Am I out of touch?
Jam Жилийн өмнө
Looks like somebody bought a subscription for Skill share
Siegfreid Sujide
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Rulian Estivalletti
Rulian Estivalletti Жилийн өмнө
Really need this video in Brazilian portuguese, are you guys doing translations ?
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