5 Easy Ways To Start A Conversation In Any Situation

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We've all been there, you see someone that you want to meet, but you aren't quite sure what to say. You get nervous and overthink it, and eventually you don't say anything at all.
That scenario is awful, so in this video you're going to learn 5 easy ways to start a conversation in any situation.

0:16 - #1: "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm..."
0:43 - #2: "Hey, I know this is totally random, but..."
1:25 - #3: The "Tourist" Technique.
2:12 - #4: The "Ben Franklin".
2:53 - #5: The spontaneous complement.

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tobert bruh
tobert bruh 12 өдрийн өмнө
"nice weather huh?"
initiatorhater0688 15 өдрийн өмнө
this stuff should be taught in school, improvement to our social-skills, conversation-ability, such as how to avoid running out of things to say or talk about, how to ask good or the right questions, how to tell a great story, etc. It should be mandatory for men but optional for women, men need it more than women do for obvious reasons.
Bishhh Please
Bishhh Please 19 өдрийн өмнө
I hate that if i dont start a conversation there wont be one 😪😢🥺
david yuan
david yuan Сарын өмнө
1) Hey I don't think I've met you yet. I'm ______ 2) Hey I know this is totally random but _____ (whatever you notice about the person or situation) 3) Tourist Technique (Allow yourself to be the lost tourist and ask locals for recommendations) "Hey I'm new to the area do you ___" 4) Ben Franklin Method (Ask for a small favor and then start the conversation; indirect method) 5) Spontaneous Compliment follows by a Cold Read "Wow you've got great style are you a fashion designer?"; Has to be genuine and avoid complimenting body Thanks for everything Charlie!!
عبد الرحمن الموسى
عبد الرحمن الموسى Сарын өмнө
I just need to have a talk with my friend I just ask how are you every 5 minutes or ask what if a tiger came up to you
Rocking Ronda
Rocking Ronda 2 сарын өмнө
Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.
Infernus 25
Infernus 25 2 сарын өмнө
Anyone know what animation software they are using?
oblivion2k07 2 сарын өмнө
These compliments also make great roasts
??????? 2 сарын өмнө
I have a problem. I’m too scared to say anything to my friends because I’m not confident enough and I’m scared that they might make fun of me like they always do. What shall I do? I need to start speaking a lot more and become more confident.
Undefeated Champion
Undefeated Champion 2 сарын өмнө
2:20 Me:hey man can you watch my stuff I need to do something Random guy:sure *comes back and sees guy running off with my stuff* Me:🤦‍♂️...
Alex Macaroni
Alex Macaroni 3 сарын өмнө
Extra tip: Drop down from a higher platform Say “Hello There”
Monkey D. Luffy
Monkey D. Luffy 3 сарын өмнө
I think i d rather hang a sign on me saying extremely shy avoid eye contant at all costs
skyclasp 3 сарын өмнө
But if a girlie has the body, then it needs to be pointed out. Bodies need to be examined.
Life is good
Life is good 3 сарын өмнө
my thing is i dont have a problem talking or like keeping a conversation going like if we start a conversation about somthing i know or i dont know about i'm gona ask sh*t ton of questions and keep talking but starting a converstion the" hi , how are you ? " ... all my close Friends tell me that i thought you r one of those pepole that just want to stay alone when i'm completely the opposite that's why all the pepole that started by saying hi are my close friends now .... but me saying hello to a stranger aaaaa no thanks ..... idk maybe i'm scared of someone seeing me as weird or trying too hard to make friends this is what i thinck will happen if i say hi to a stranger me : hi ..... how are you him : ( i never talked to him befor why is he talking to me now ) aa.. good hh wby ? me : ( i kniw it ) good and then just scilence me : i can't belive were almost 2021 him : hhhh yes weird right ... okay i need to go now my friends are there me : 👁👄👁 Ummm i'm probably traumatized by somthing but that's what i thinck will happen if i say hi to somone i dont know
Absolute Gacha
Absolute Gacha 3 сарын өмнө
*how do I start a conversation with the neighbor boy who just moved in who I also already have a mini crush on?* Because I’ve met him but we never really had a decent conversation
Mousy 3 сарын өмнө
Introverts be like: i hate people
Kendall 3 сарын өмнө
Dangg it seemed like only yesterday I was watching you at only 527k subscribers. Now you’re at 4 million?! Congrats & thanks for changing peoples lives!
Celia Rose
Celia Rose 3 сарын өмнө
Love these tips! Definitely true bout the body comment making people uncomfortable! Someone did the "cold read" technique with me one day, complimenting my dress asking if I'm into fashion, and then proceeded to say "I couldn't help but notice you have a beautiful body shape, sorry but I had to look" something like that 😬 All I wanted to do was leave that convo asap!!!
Abel Moreno
Abel Moreno 3 сарын өмнө
“Hey can you watch my ____ while I go to the bathroom?” And then when you come back use that as leverage to talk.
Bree and Stephen
Bree and Stephen 3 сарын өмнө
these animations are so cool
Yoni Dan
Yoni Dan 4 сарын өмнө
Bro if I use this on a girl and she actually starts talking to me I’m wifeing her up
Georgiana Petu
Georgiana Petu 4 сарын өмнө
Do one on Rihanna pleeeaaaseeee
Andrew Valentine
Andrew Valentine 4 сарын өмнө
@Charisma On Command You are The Best
T V 4 сарын өмнө
No one: Me in a party where i know everyone, after watching this: Hi Ben, I know this is totally random but I'm Jane by the way 👁👄👁
Brent Katowitz
Brent Katowitz 4 сарын өмнө
I ask where Hayden Library is (Big Daws and Steven Schapiro).
Rey Cesar Cariño
Rey Cesar Cariño 4 сарын өмнө
How's about: Hey their Sweetie your looking kinda pretty what's a girl like you doing in this rough city
cedric dellafaille
cedric dellafaille 4 сарын өмнө
me : hey i saw your tshirt are you from phi.. the girl: sorry im taken
rautermann 4 сарын өмнө
3:15 ominous af... "are you a dog trainer?" " oh not really! it's just m y h o b b y . . ."
WYJAFAK2 4 сарын өмнө
Hey I noticed you have en Eagles shirt. Are you from Philly? Yes ...cool *tumbleweed*
Jeshex 4 сарын өмнө
Start discussions with a new acquaintance with, "hi I'm charisma on command and I need advice on how I can get my 💋 on The Donald's 🍄. What advice would you give me ?"
Dumb Dominican
Dumb Dominican 4 сарын өмнө
3:08 SIMP!
Karina Rimkuse
Karina Rimkuse 4 сарын өмнө
Thank you so so so much for this, as a reserved person I have always had this big problem and you just helped it a toooon
Two-MoonZ 4 сарын өмнө
I go to singles bars wearing a t shirt that reads 'I am a billionaire with a heart condition'
Astronomy 101
Astronomy 101 4 сарын өмнө
- "Hey, I am new to this town, any cool drinks in this place? - "Sure, blablabla, where are you from?" - "Oh, I live across the street"
Mitali Kshatriya
Mitali Kshatriya 4 сарын өмнө
Let's hope corona ends soon...ï have to apply these
Yash Raja
Yash Raja 4 сарын өмнө
well the 4th question wont work because when u ask someone do u have any recommendation they can just say no. also that question is too long to not become awkward while saying it. according to me one shouldnt ever ask one word replies questions especially if its a yes or no questions just ask what would u recoomend instead do u know xyz? also thats not a good conversation starter u can use question one and i the person seems to be from the town and seems to know well than u can ask the question.
Rishob Guha Patra
Rishob Guha Patra 4 сарын өмнө
Love the animations man, you got a GUCCI graphics guy
QuinntonB 4 сарын өмнө
Rebuilding myself. All humans need to watch all of these videos. It’s the equivalent of added things to your game in the off-season.. life is our season... so any down time.. gotta stay sharp.. let’s do it
George Hamilton
George Hamilton 4 сарын өмнө
These videos always feel so corny.
alexanderfc 4 сарын өмнө
Comic Sans! My eyes are bleeding.
Tristan Walhain
Tristan Walhain 4 сарын өмнө
'ight, conversation starters, check Gimme some conversation continuers
Olivia W
Olivia W 4 сарын өмнө
Can you make one of these but for highschool?
Dream Fluent
Dream Fluent 4 сарын өмнө
What do you think is stopping you from becoming more confident, or maybe getting started learning to be confident?
First Lego League
First Lego League 4 сарын өмнө
No such thing as failing, only results.
Buji Tea
Buji Tea 4 сарын өмнө
Do power series
Omar Osama
Omar Osama 4 сарын өмнө
Or we can just look cute like you and just say any random crap
Anthony Kelly
Anthony Kelly 5 сарын өмнө
Wow this video barely even panders to the alt right lol are you guys ok
Richie Lavey
Richie Lavey 5 сарын өмнө
20$ for a burger?? Better be very deluxe
capsar 5 сарын өмнө
Comic sans. Comic. Sans. Really?
Charles Watson Sr.
Charles Watson Sr. 5 сарын өмнө
Serial Killer 101
Harish Jayswal
Harish Jayswal 5 сарын өмнө
Does anyone know how these animation are made
Sarah Welch
Sarah Welch 5 сарын өмнө
Please don’t use infographic cartoons in future videos.
Taynah Furtado
Taynah Furtado 5 сарын өмнө
I think your videos are very interesting and I learn a lot with them. The only thing is that you speak too fast and sometimes it’s hard to absorb the content. I end up distracted and having to rewind to watch a part that I missed again. There were a few times that I gave up watching a video because of that. I hope you don’t get me wrong. It’s just my opinion and probably most people don’t think that way. Great video btw. Thank you!!!
tlayuda 5 сарын өмнө
this guy really helping out, cheers to you mate, love your vids
Dehydrated by Dementors
Dehydrated by Dementors 5 сарын өмнө
Make one on Mads Hannibal.
James Tuttle
James Tuttle 5 сарын өмнө
Do a video on the TV show Family Matters. One of the characters is a complete nerd and nice guy who changes himself to win the girl. You should talk about the changes he made and how they apply in real life.
Bruno failache
Bruno failache 5 сарын өмнө
As a brazilian I can't help laughing when I read "CU" in giant capital letters in your videos. And I know you know what I mean, Charlie! LOL
teej 5 сарын өмнө
Are YOU from philly?
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
hey i know this is totally random one is good
Geryz 5 сарын өмнө
Simple, say "Hello there" and if they don't respond with "General Kenobi", you wouldn't want to talk to them anyway
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
what's who's general kenobi?
404 Not Found
404 Not Found 5 сарын өмнө
I would love an Episode of Charisma on Command about Neal Caffrey (Matt Bommer) from White Collar
Maya Negi
Maya Negi 5 сарын өмнө
When ur parents don't allow u to acess online money
Plastic The Bag
Plastic The Bag 5 сарын өмнө
1:16 Story of my life.
Augment Life Vlogs
Augment Life Vlogs 5 сарын өмнө
Seriously good idea for putting where and when to use these. Helps people prepare for when things Reopen 😉
Тамерлан Азизов
Тамерлан Азизов 5 сарын өмнө
Hello! I really want you to make a video about the behavior of Robert Downey Jr., I know that you already have a video, and I carefully learned them, and your advice helps a lot! But I want another 1 video! thanks for attention)
mostly true
mostly true 5 сарын өмнө
can you do a video on donald trump Jr? I know we don't all agree with his views but he has a way of being so persuasive it is incredible. I'd just like to see your takeaways from his speeches
StuntedWriter 5 сарын өмнө
I have an odd topic recommendation. You should look at the Paul Bernardo interview. Despite the dark subject matter, you can see how a psychopath uses so many psychological tricks and how he manages to keep people who are in positions of power on their toes in the discussion. He displays some methods I have seen in your videos, and the way he seems disinterested and often above the whole event is quite fascinating. I think he provides an excellent example of charismatic and manipulative tools, even if he does it for terrible reasons.
matias Quijada
matias Quijada 5 сарын өмнө
Johnny cage please
matias Quijada
matias Quijada 5 сарын өмнө
Could you analyze the charisma of johnny cage from mortal kombat please
matias Quijada
matias Quijada 5 сарын өмнө
Could you analyze the charisma of johnny cage from mortal kombat please
LoH Bros
LoH Bros 5 сарын өмнө
Hey, I just saw you were wearing an... Oh, it's an Eagles jersey... nevermind bye
LC Cruz
LC Cruz 5 сарын өмнө
How about you make a vid about the " the charisma of adam brody" ?
Morty 5 сарын өмнө
Is this a repost but with animation?
Michael J. McCall
Michael J. McCall 5 сарын өмнө
If I’ve made eye contact with someone, I usually wait a minute, go up and say “Hi. We made eye contact a bit ago. I thought it would be weird if I didn’t come say hi. My name’s Michael.”
Preidon 5 сарын өмнө
dont do these,they are super creepy
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
huh what are you talking about
Cinnamon Toast Kool-aid
Cinnamon Toast Kool-aid 5 сарын өмнө
Why has there never been a John Cena video on this channel? The guy is everything every guy wants to be
Areeb Ashfaq
Areeb Ashfaq 5 сарын өмнө
Wear masks. Why isnt anyone wearing masks?
Areeb Ashfaq
Areeb Ashfaq 5 сарын өмнө
@meta psychotic lol. A joke.
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
Flyingsnow1988 5 сарын өмнө
Please do a thing on healthcare workers. I need it. It’s awkward sometimes. Peeps are grumps, sometimes. Btw thank you for all of videos. I really appreciate them.
syed faraz
syed faraz 5 сарын өмнө
Tristan Phoenix-Walton
Tristan Phoenix-Walton 4 сарын өмнө
Lol people don't like talking anymore. It is generally a waste of time. I actually hate it unless I'm getting good energy back.
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
it's not that easy for everyone.
MiMi's Life
MiMi's Life 5 сарын өмнө
Love these tips. I’m not always good at starting a conversation. This will help!
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
good luck to you
Evan Guthrie
Evan Guthrie 5 сарын өмнө
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
Tameema Afshan
Tameema Afshan 5 сарын өмнө
Do a Charisma video on Camila Cabello, PLEASE!! I've been watching some of her interviews and just realised how magnetic she is!!
mamta gupta
mamta gupta 5 сарын өмнө
Hey! Do one on SHAHRUKH KHAN! He is a Bollywood superstar and is loved my millions for his confidence and charisma! Esp. For the latter. Just do one on him.
AberrantArt 5 сарын өмнө
Saying you're new to the area or directions is a good way to get robbed.
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
haha good point
4leaf clover
4leaf clover 5 сарын өмнө
1970: There will be flying cars in the future 2020:
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
Marcel Bytnar
Marcel Bytnar 5 сарын өмнө
1 question: why aren't they wearing face masks?
Ikbob11 5 сарын өмнө
Like the animation bro, you an animator?
meta psychotic
meta psychotic 5 сарын өмнө
he's not
Ruffey J
Ruffey J 5 сарын өмнө
i will reply to all of these "conversation starters" with "haa??"
don jon
don jon 5 сарын өмнө
Do a video about frank underwood' charisma and convincing skills
Seamus Kelly
Seamus Kelly 5 сарын өмнө
2:29 cringing at the handshake thanks to corona 😔
Sm0key90 5 сарын өмнө
Those are cool but when I translate them back to my language [Polish] they sound ridiculous. There's a cultural difference, I think people in European countries [maybe excluding southern ones where it's hot and sunny all the time] are more reserved and less open in such random situations. Even the line "I know it's totally random (...)" is hard to translate, as in Polish the word "random" is more connected to maths, meaning more or less "stochastic". Can you imagine saying to someone "hey, I know it's totally stochastic..."? Me neither.
Plants Lover
Plants Lover 5 сарын өмнө
Ninja Kuma - Let's Plays, Reactions, Memes
Ninja Kuma - Let's Plays, Reactions, Memes 5 сарын өмнө
2:30 - No Handshaking, social distancing 101
Breagh Watson
Breagh Watson 5 сарын өмнө
Ruba Ahmed
Ruba Ahmed 5 сарын өмнө
Can you make a video about Linda Cardellini in her role “Judy Hana” in the “Dead to Me” tv show.. I think her character is interesting and done quite well in the success of the show
markus holloway
markus holloway 5 сарын өмнө
Should do a video on Tom Ellis’ Lucifer
Bradmakesgains 5 сарын өмнө
Oh right socializing is where you make an observation and then ask a question after or before you introduce yourself right right
Jacob Martineau
Jacob Martineau 5 сарын өмнө
Max Carlson
Max Carlson 5 сарын өмнө
Hey do you think Trump will win 2020? I know you made a video about how he definitely would in 2016.
KingJules 5 сарын өмнө
HOLD UP go to 3:14 and toggle right about 18 frames until the guy on the right blinks (Use these buttons to move frame by frame: )
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