5 Psychological Tricks Sociopaths Use To Manipulate You

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It’s scarily true that powerful psychological tricks can be used against us to make good people do bad things.
So in this video we’ll be looking at the realm of persuasion that some call brainwashing to explore the psychological tricks cults, sociopaths, and manipulative others use to make good people do bad things. Hopefully these red flags prevent you from falling victim, either in a toxic relationship or from a predatory organization.


1:59 - #1: Separating you and replacing the family unit.
4:38 - #2: Lingo that disguises what is truly happening.
6:11 - #3: They demonize the asking of questions that threaten their authority.
8:11 - #4: Games or tests that reward obedience.
9:29 - #5: Your own desire to be fair is often used against you.

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tiffany toledo
tiffany toledo 9 цагийн өмнө
This begs the question: Are we trees in the forest, standing alone while drinking in the same sunshine, earth and oxygen; or are we like water, bonded together, moving like one and sharing in this movement wherever we go, good or bad it may be, shaped in the container created for us?
Ador757 21 цагийн өмнө
I'm interested in your take about ISIS and how people become fanatics.
axiomic Өдрийн өмнө
This sounds like a description of Xi Jinping of China, Putin of Russia ... etc. Saying a bad word about your leader will get you 'removed'..
Peyton Graf
Peyton Graf Өдрийн өмнө
Video on mk ultra?
senti393481 Өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like several employers.
Bruce Meyer
Bruce Meyer 2 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like pandemic isolating us from family and continual news feeds with lies that won't stand critical thought.
CactusHeart79 3 өдрийн өмнө
Holy crap, all but the first fits perfectly with the leftists/democrats 😳
disturbed0insane 3 өдрийн өмнө
Thanks Charlie.. if I am nabbed by the Scientologists, I'll remember what to do! 😂
Tessa Cunningham
Tessa Cunningham 4 өдрийн өмнө
You completely described what the government is doing to the masses. The government is sociopaths
Los Vegan
Los Vegan 4 өдрийн өмнө
Honestly I’m trying to learn manipulative tips so I can gain connections because I heard connections>grades
Free man
Free man 4 өдрийн өмнө
sounds like scientology
Izza Amazing
Izza Amazing 5 өдрийн өмнө
I wish bit life include cult options
iGame3D 5 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like my experience with the Republican City Councilman of Centennial Colorado. 1. Threatened to go after anyone that I helped or help or anyone that had helped or helps me. 2. Calls it "Community based policing" 3. Any question about why he would commit crimes, like arson and contaminating homes with asbestos for insurance fraud and why he would frame me for felonies answered with "Why not?" 4. I'm supposed to run away from or kick off the property his coconspirators when they say phrases from video games I played or am 'likely to play', whether I played them or not. 5. Abused my desire to clean up the environment in order to pull me into a conversation was I was extorted me into insurance fraud, arson, mail fraud, voter fraud, infiltration of government networks, theft of student information and mass homicide conspiracy
Anthony Anthony
Anthony Anthony 5 өдрийн өмнө
This is exactly what the leftists do now.
youtube deleted acct #2
youtube deleted acct #2 6 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like mainstream media.
Failedpuberty6x 6 өдрийн өмнө
Dear Lord, modern social media has hit like 4 out of 5 of these things....especially demonetization of independent thought and asking questions
Brenda B
Brenda B 6 өдрийн өмнө
I fell for a sociopathic man twice. It was my doing, I take responsibility for it. Getting away was hard, yet, I did it. Lots of counseling afterward. I learned so much from it & know which people to stay away from, now.
Gunzilla Gunzilla
Gunzilla Gunzilla 6 өдрийн өмнө
If you listen to this and understand what is actually being said, you will make clear and concise connections to how this happened in these incidents to how the US Elections of 2020 has unfolded. The LEFT, Democrats, News & Social Media are all doing these types of things. The 3rd Statement: They Demonize the asking of questions that threaten their authority. - Sounds an awful like what the LEFT WING MEDIA (NEWS & SOCIAL) are doing with the Democrats and the Sheeple that follow them doesn't it? Don''t question the Narrative. Follow the Agenda. Listen only to us. Believe in what we are saying we are the truth, the news, the social media. We are here to help you. Don't ask questions about the fraud. Biden won, that is all you need to know. Follow us, we are the truth that you seek. Riot the injustices, stand tall against the Right, the Republicans and the Conservative. It is ok to be violent in these instances. This is some very scary stuff folks.. Critical Thinking & Common Sense are getting rarer and rarer these days.
MichaelCottbus 6 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like an average government of country in Europe 2020.
Ez L
Ez L 6 өдрийн өмнө
3:56 wow sounds just like our news media
Positive Thoughts
Positive Thoughts 7 өдрийн өмнө
More like Cluster B Personality Disorders but okay.
Carmatic xoxo
Carmatic xoxo 7 өдрийн өмнө
6:28 is so sad. He just wanted to go home and see his people. My heart broke for him.
Judith Braun
Judith Braun 7 өдрийн өмнө
Can anybody else see how Donald Trump applied at least some of those methods to his followers?
Robert Harris
Robert Harris 8 өдрийн өмнө
Gets labeled as a sociopath, has the traits of a Narcissist. Abuse through proxy (flying monkey) is a dead giveaway. It's interesting reading some of the posts here where victims are able to recognise what's happening.
Dominic Uys
Dominic Uys 8 өдрийн өмнө
Great How To video, thanks
Lex Bravary
Lex Bravary 8 өдрийн өмнө
Social justice, woke culture, antifa, and the modern democratic party ALL check all boxes here.
FloodGates 8 өдрийн өмнө
Lol, leftism is literally sociopathy. Interesting.
BART KOCH 9 өдрийн өмнө
All of This is happening right now with the Covid scam
moseem pathan
moseem pathan 9 өдрийн өмнө
Sociopaths- Religious leaders, Gurus, Politicians, MLM companies, Fake lovers, finally those possessive peoples who claim they love you by controlling you, those pet lovers who cage animals and birds and say we are animal lovers 😂😂
kimberly.abundance 9 өдрийн өмнө
Let us heal from the pain we do not discuss 🤍
MagicianFlip69 9 өдрийн өмнө
Only insecure people fall for this.
MagicianFlip69 9 өдрийн өмнө
Why is Illuminati not in this list?
Journeys MT
Journeys MT 9 өдрийн өмнө
This video came before lockdown. Great Reset, New Normal. To question is dangerous. Gaslighting. I haven't gone through the boxes but I wonder if it ticks all of them. EDIT: The propaganda around lockdown I mean.
The Guitardude
The Guitardude 9 өдрийн өмнө
Brian Walsh
Brian Walsh 9 өдрийн өмнө
Unfortunately a lot of us were brought up in families where we were set up by the family rules to be in cults or in a relationship with a narcissist or sociopath because we weren't allowed to ask questions and were treated disrespectfully. We therefore have a high tolerance for others inappropriate behavior. We never learned to talk or trust or feel by parents who just wanted to do what ever they wanted without interference because it was their house, their rules and they were in charge. So unfortunately a lot of us, including myself, weren't taught how to be treated with respect, have self esteem or boundaries, trust others or ourselves and therefore not trust our instincts. If animals were taught this in the wild they wouldn't survive. My parents failed me as my primary teachers because their parents failed them so on and so forth way back. It is the generational nature of dysfunctionality and you either pass it on or pass it back. I was in a "relationship" with a narcissist for 6 years because I allowed myself to be manipulated and treated badly because that is what I was taught by my parents. I was lucky to get out of it. I'm lucky I survived this long to work on my issues and become the person I was suppose to be. I think I'm lucky because a lot of people like me get chewed up and spit out by life, become addicts, go to jail, stay in these abusive relationships and many other unhealthy things but because of a few family members, friends and a 12 step program I've been able to heal some wounds and learn some healthy behaviors like boundaries. and acquire some healthy self-esteem. It takes time and effort but has been completely worth it and I will do it for the rest of my life. So I think this information in this video is very important to understand how narcissist and sociopaths operate but it's more important to work to heal your family of origin wounds if you've come from a dysfunctional family which makes the probability of getting into relationships of any king with narcissist and sociopaths less likely because you will have self-esteem and boundaries and learn to trust your gut instincts. I have unfortunately had many narcissist and sociopaths in my life and one was a sibling the rest were in the work place. They were all extremely detrimental to my overall health and have caused me much pain which is what they like to do to their targets. I'm lucky I survived all of them and at the time I had no Idea that I was dealing with narcissist and sociopaths and I had been targeted by my naivete, lack of self-esteem, lack of boundaries and was easy prey. I survived but a lot of people don't and either die or are permanently destroyed by these predators.
Sai Priyatham
Sai Priyatham 10 өдрийн өмнө
"You need to ignore gut instinct" this is the biggest red flag...
vokonick 10 өдрийн өмнө
"Seperating you and replacing the family unit" sounds like every modern western government in the world
Jeremy Shaffer
Jeremy Shaffer 10 өдрийн өмнө
cia created these supposed sociopaths
Reg Barnard
Reg Barnard 10 өдрийн өмнө
The Woke Culture has all the hallmarks of a mass cult.
P K 11 өдрийн өмнө
Wow. Sounds like most religions and political parties use these tricks.
Joseph Sewell
Joseph Sewell 11 өдрийн өмнө
Paradox3627505 11 өдрийн өмнө
This info should've been constantly taught to us while in school. Many families can't do it because there's too much dysfunction going on at home. Too many people are being exploited by manipulators on so many levels. I guess you got to get burned a few times before you get hip.
Joel Krysiak
Joel Krysiak 11 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds exactly like the extreme right and radical left.
Jan Scott
Jan Scott 11 өдрийн өмнө
This describes the modern left perfectly.
HighSpeedNoDrag 11 өдрийн өмнө
You have much to learn Ms. or Miss Scott as both sides of the Aisle brought us here and how things are. Good Luck and you can Do It.
bruce banner
bruce banner 12 өдрийн өмнө
As a previous victim of a person with cluster B personality disorder I can definitely relate to this video. Now I can use it for myself to take advantage of others. I am the anti-karma.
ana ana
ana ana 12 өдрийн өмнө
this how gangs get lonely kids
Jason Tucker
Jason Tucker 12 өдрийн өмнө
I find it very interesting that Charles Manson seemed to intuitively understand how to manipulate people on such a fundamental level without any kind of training.
A.T. Hargrove
A.T. Hargrove 12 өдрийн өмнө
America is a psychopath.....every trick identified here is used against Black people (and people in general) historically and present....we work against our own best people by weaponizing us against us.
lars wieland
lars wieland 12 өдрийн өмнө
I was born with this knowledge
oppo vivo
oppo vivo 13 өдрийн өмнө
I've faced this with a narcissist ex-bff, acted as a sister that care about me, while manipulating me and conquering my life (financially, socially etc). Just in different scale compare to those sociopaths. They have the same ways...as if some brilliant demon had gave them special set of skills to ruin other people's lives.
Just Me
Just Me 14 өдрийн өмнө
In my country we call our king/leader "father" So....
Sally Lauper
Sally Lauper 14 өдрийн өмнө
Humanist leopard Lemure.
Irving Diaz
Irving Diaz 14 өдрийн өмнө
so..... a lot of feminist are sociopath
Diana Diamond
Diana Diamond 14 өдрийн өмнө
sounds exactly like the american left wing agenda; estrange ppl from family, religion, patriorism or any sense of belonging and demonize the questioning of their agenda with political correctness
Nate Belcher
Nate Belcher 15 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like Democrat tactics
Jhrald Baui
Jhrald Baui 15 өдрийн өмнө
inorder to improve you need to learn your plan holes and weaknesses thanks for the vid they cant counter me anymore
Suvalley Brondt
Suvalley Brondt 15 өдрийн өмнө
and why you didnt start about the science trilogy church, if you know it all that good then come up with such things instead of charly manson
Curious Georgeorwell
Curious Georgeorwell 16 өдрийн өмнө
Thanks for the guide
Emma Halsey
Emma Halsey 16 өдрийн өмнө
Hmmm. Like the covid19 cult?
Aurora Willis
Aurora Willis 16 өдрийн өмнө
....is it just me or does christianity seem kinda sus now?
J Wielgosz
J Wielgosz 16 өдрийн өмнө
Kinda like Facebook now
Miss Marilyn
Miss Marilyn 17 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like the things that democrats do.
cory c
cory c 17 өдрийн өмнө
The joker, the trickster, the player, the pimp, the narcissist, will use laughter or entertainment to manipulate the low self esteem
SoleNero21 17 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like religion
Holden Thompson
Holden Thompson 17 өдрийн өмнө
I would love to see a Hot Ones episode with Charles Manson
HighSpeedNoDrag 11 өдрийн өмнө
People like you are a Big Part of the Problem.
hobocyclist 18 өдрийн өмнө
Didn’t teach me any new tricks!
glg210 18 өдрийн өмнө
Does #3-4 sound familiar to someone regarding how governments and social media handles the 19 virus? Just sayin...
Dr. Cronk Boi
Dr. Cronk Boi 18 өдрийн өмнө
Thank you for the tips and tricks
Alexa Penn
Alexa Penn 18 өдрийн өмнө
Manson was a psychopath - different from a sociopath. Do your effing research!! don't really know about the other two.
Christopher Hernandez
Christopher Hernandez 18 өдрийн өмнө
Trump cultist
TameThing 19 өдрийн өмнө
10:58 describes the leftist cult.
TameThing 19 өдрийн өмнө
"Come on, man!" followed by 😏.
Seto Kaiba
Seto Kaiba 19 өдрийн өмнө
All These Things That I've Been Warned Of Sounds Like 3rd Wave Feminism.
Over Worked
Over Worked 19 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds like what we’re hearing on the main stream media where were told not to question anything and if we do question it were labeled. We sell sensor because we don’t want to be on the outs with our peers. Seems like the main stream news understands these techniques and they are part and parcel of propaganda. Question everything
Saphyr S.
Saphyr S. 19 өдрийн өмнө
The charisma is their lifeline without it people would see through their mask easily
Mike H
Mike H 19 өдрийн өмнө
They can add Trumpty Dumpty to the list
Reuben 1
Reuben 1 19 өдрийн өмнө
jim mathew
jim mathew 19 өдрийн өмнө
Ahnaf Ahmed
Ahnaf Ahmed 19 өдрийн өмнө
Religion itself is a cult. It just managed to survive longer
Real Engine
Real Engine 19 өдрийн өмнө
All of this sounds like religion. Especially the third point of demonizing the asking of questions.
Peedinkus 19 өдрийн өмнө
Perfect description of the socialist republicrat mouthpieces.
Roland Balogh
Roland Balogh 19 өдрийн өмнө
Nobody could get me to do what i dont want, so dont give me this bs about good and bad!
Victoria Palferez-Siri
Victoria Palferez-Siri 19 өдрийн өмнө
Imagine being raise with that constant tactics? Totally a dead end. Cults are everywhere and ex cult members can be anyone trying to start their own for profit.
Daughter Theresa
Daughter Theresa 19 өдрийн өмнө
Whoa whoa whoa what was that clip at 5:54 ? I see Joe from You and the guy from AHS
Daily Basics500
Daily Basics500 20 өдрийн өмнө
Interesting these are the exact tactics the government are using now with the.covid 19 scam. They have us all believing that it is deadly but has 98% recovery rate & shut down any questions against the narrative
Simon W
Simon W 20 өдрийн өмнө
No different to what governments, politicians and churches already do. They have been utilising this same methodology on people for centuries. Destroying the family unit is what they do well already. Look at the degradation of society right now. It all comes from the same brainwashing.
Timmmayyy 20 өдрийн өмнө
My dear leader has the real truth. ;)
deepzone31 20 өдрийн өмнө
These describe how progressives of America are acting in 2020. They edit language in their favor. They seek to control thought. They demonize the nuclear family and support structures as evil. Individualism is considered an evil. Only the desires of the group (mob) matter.
Gary InMarz
Gary InMarz 21 өдрийн өмнө
Guard your mind
R. June
R. June 21 өдрийн өмнө
R. June
R. June 21 өдрийн өмнө
Timmmayyy 19 өдрийн өмнө
@R. June how interesting....
R. June
R. June 19 өдрийн өмнө
@Timmmayyy blah, blah, and your huge EGO
Timmmayyy 19 өдрийн өмнө
@R. June study 5 historical figures then conclude their manipulation tactics are present in 2 economic systems and 1 human rights movement. I’ll get on it!
R. June
R. June 19 өдрийн өмнө
@Timmmayyy just see what Marx wrote en German, look what Stalin, Mao, chiming, Paul pot, and the others sick, did to their people, watch this video again, and take it from there
Timmmayyy 20 өдрийн өмнө
Please help me by substantiating your claim. (You would want to help someone see the light, I assume.)
howard S
howard S 21 өдрийн өмнө
does this information apply to the goings on in the media such as CNN and social media such as twitter, et al. if so, I think the people should be informed, I should like.
Alex G
Alex G 21 өдрийн өмнө
That sounds a lot like all religions
Nikki D
Nikki D 21 өдрийн өмнө
I see many of these in the mainstream media, and from the mouths of radical politicians. Often they work together...
Soo Tuck Choong
Soo Tuck Choong 22 өдрийн өмнө
The Republicans got hooked to Trump! This is damaging to the highest.
Trishy Beans
Trishy Beans 22 өдрийн өмнө
Seems like this is happening with our media today
Consuela Ortiz
Consuela Ortiz 22 өдрийн өмнө
As a former member of a religion/cult, that group fits the bill to a T. I now avoid any group that gives me slightest thought and feeling of the same. I never let down my guard.
martha benner
martha benner 22 өдрийн өмнө
Does this remind anyone of Harry Potter.
slaymaster999 22 өдрийн өмнө
Sounds alot like what the Democrats are doing.
Imasiku mataa
Imasiku mataa 22 өдрийн өмнө
"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect." Mark Twain. Specially when things just don't FEEL right.
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