How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument - Ben Shapiro

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A recent Ben Shapiro interview has gotten a lot of attention. In case you haven’t seen it, Ben Shapiro got into a heated argument with BBC’s Andrew Neil, and eventually walked out of the interview.
Now, Ben is no stranger to these kinds of arguments, so it was surprising to see how many people thought that he lost, or was even quote unquote “destroyed.” So in this video, we’re going to break down what went wrong for Ben and talk about four things you can do to avoid any embarrassment in an argument.

0:39 - #1: Body language & speech patterns
3:03 - #2: The way that you answer questions
7:32 - #3: Your mindset going into it
11:06 - #4: What matters is who acts like they are winning
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アニメさん 4 цагийн өмнө
i just want to say, the lady's laughing was so calm and relaxing but his face during the debate seems like he was having a fight in his mind. i think i can relate to this, sometimes we just feel like we need to fight this society to change this. through the time i have learned that fighting and yelling might give u an easy win but soon people will start to notice your faults and won't even consider your point. being clam makes people listen to u more.
a3883m 14 цагийн өмнө
Same interviewer pissed off RJD and Tarantino.
Li Maroro
Li Maroro Өдрийн өмнө
Still waiting, for Ben Shapiro, to come out of the closet. 🤣
Basundhara Paul
Basundhara Paul Өдрийн өмнө
Imagine the level of petulance an adult needs to lose an interview, not even a debate... He got destroyed in an interview for God's sake. Payback for him hurting facts' feelings.
spacesphinx 117
spacesphinx 117 Өдрийн өмнө
he left the show because it was endless bull.
ekoi1995 2 өдрийн өмнө
Ben sounds like a cartoon character.
331Grabber 2 өдрийн өмнө
Ben Shapiro couldn't destroy a gummy bear.
jus ded
jus ded 3 өдрийн өмнө
The gnome that is ben shapiro, usually uses talking over people to ' win' debates
Horny Fruit Flies
Horny Fruit Flies 3 өдрийн өмнө
Ben Shapiro is literally a paid neocon propagandist, no different from Fox news hosts. The fact that the unintelligent masses on the internet are so enamored with him is quite unnerving.
Adrian Müller
Adrian Müller 3 өдрийн өмнө
Pitch Change? *Laughs in German.
Morphelia 4 өдрийн өмнө
Why did Quinton shut him down?? Now I gotta find that He SHOULD'VE just answered him ....
Tristan Infanti
Tristan Infanti 4 өдрийн өмнө
Andrew Neil is a waste of time just like Piers Morgan. British anchors are bad plain and simple.
Tristan Infanti
Tristan Infanti 4 өдрийн өмнө
People in the comments love to hate on Ben just because he’s good at debating it’s pretty funny. Ben definitely lost his cool but that’s expected when these fake media bozos are always trying to rip him for his beliefs instead of having a conversation
M Temuulen
M Temuulen 5 өдрийн өмнө
Ben: Why do i hear Boss Music?
EpicHype 5 өдрийн өмнө
Can't win all of them.
Luis Henrique
Luis Henrique 6 өдрийн өмнө
Ben will not change. His ideas are strong. He knows that. Trump will not change. For same reason. Who thinks different of them will not change their thougths even if this "video rules" are accomplished. Why? They don't want to.
David Doughty
David Doughty 6 өдрийн өмнө
I have to say I've watched Ben debate numerous times...this wasn't like him. I think under normal circumstances he would have kept his composure well...I think this was all intentional to send a message - the Left has no interest in real dialogue and that was was genuine disgust not defeat you witnessed. The BBC guy never answered a single question of his. I don't think either side fact it was clear they were just trying to set Ben up.
Hassan Syed
Hassan Syed 3 өдрийн өмнө
Ben was being interviewed. He doesn't ask questions, he's the interviewee.
ParadoxdelaPaladino 7 өдрийн өмнө
"In Biden vs Trump. Yes I would vote for Mr. Trump because the damage he's done to this country on a character and rhetorical level..." See what happens when you talk fast? You contradict yourself and sound like an idiotic twatwaffle.
D Clark
D Clark 7 өдрийн өмнө
New sub here. It’s a shame that Shapiro can’t control his mouth.
Ahmar Saeed
Ahmar Saeed 7 өдрийн өмнө
I hate smirks.
sayan roy
sayan roy 7 өдрийн өмнө
Ben Shapiro likes to tell himself and others that people disagree or dislike him because he is right winged, conservative or whatever but doesn't want to let himself or others see that as an individual, he is not agreeable or likeable. Frankly many people especially non Americans like me don't care about Ben Shapiro's group identity but can clearly see how ridiculous he can be from time to time.
John King
John King 8 өдрийн өмнө
Andrew Neil has been doing this for decades and Ben Shapiro is well out of his depth. Ben is only on top when speaking to camera or in discussion with the like minded. Andrew Neil is combatitive and relentless. Ben Shapiro should have done his homework before entering this ring.
Derek K.
Derek K. 9 өдрийн өмнө
My God. Ben is literally a nerd stereotype from a cartoon come to life.
Anthony Zukas
Anthony Zukas 10 өдрийн өмнө
As another note, the interview was a waste of time so why play along with the interview. Ben's body language shows he's pissed at the waste of time the interview was. Not much analysis needed. Look no further than the substance. The entire purpose of the interview was 'hey look at thing you said a long time ago.' pointless
Anthony Zukas
Anthony Zukas 10 өдрийн өмнө
Shapiro always leans forward. He does on in his own show while talking to a camera.
UND3AD RA1NB0W 11 өдрийн өмнө
Dude argues like it’s a reflex he probably didn’t mean to act like it’s a debate
HausOfMontague 12 өдрийн өмнө
I’ll give credit to some of Ben’s intelligence but unfortunately his personality just does not have the capacity to be playful or to be calm and composed during an argument. This video does have great advice. But I truly believe the person must at least have a natural portion of this in their character in order for it to work. Some have it. Some don’t. Some just have to work a lot harder to get there.
Stefanie Evoy
Stefanie Evoy 12 өдрийн өмнө
Good points Love Ben tho
Maurice drew
Maurice drew 13 өдрийн өмнө
Dont be a pretentious Harvard lawyer conservative?
Jambori Chamata
Jambori Chamata 14 өдрийн өмнө
A lot of it is just different styles of interview in different countries. Ben wasn't familiar that the style of interview is fairly common in Europe especially the old guys, and he made a fool of himself.
June L
June L 14 өдрийн өмнө
i enjoy this so much! Shapiro is what's wrong in the world!
Stephen Irvine
Stephen Irvine 14 өдрийн өмнө
I'm pretty sure Ben has a permanent smirk
Nyarlathotep 17 өдрийн өмнө
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Action & Fight
Action & Fight 17 өдрийн өмнө
Atheist discussing about Right & Wrong Way What A Joke
Insert name here
Insert name here 17 өдрийн өмнө
I don't know how it's possible to lose an interview, but boy, Ben sure accomplished it.
idan ofek
idan ofek 18 өдрийн өмнө
This kind of proves how Ben Shapiro is so good at arguments, if trump did the same thing he wouldn't be judged for it because he does it all the time. Imagine being so good at arguing that all of the country is obsessed with you when you lose one.
SuperCookie Cookie
SuperCookie Cookie 12 өдрийн өмнө
Lol country isn't obsessed but people find him really smug and usually debates university students which is how he got popular, but after that interview he wasn't seen as the same again. The video proves the opposite, as someone who's supposed to be a debater should not be so hostile and immature using arguments such as " is this so hard for you answer the question" - this is something you say against a university student as they're young not in a interview against a grown man lol who's a hard core right wing and saying "why don't you say you're on the left"= which is frustration again very immature. what does that have to do with anything? He's being interviewed for his statements Ironically if he answered simply with "yes I believe it's right because of so and so" and that's literally it instead he went on going "no I'm more popular that you" which is something kids usually say? Reason why this video was created, is showing a person who supposedly seem intellectual just seems like a fustrated man who gets quite irritated if you don't agree with his stand point of view. So no lol it's not "this proves how famous he is" it's more the first time arguably he's being questioned normally for his statements in a professional manner, he couldn't hold it up without turning into a university debate. This is more like those "exposed" videos.
Abdullah Ossaili
Abdullah Ossaili 18 өдрийн өмнө
That’s what happens when you debate little kids and then you debate someone with someone With 6 brain cells
Yeeda Qiu
Yeeda Qiu 19 өдрийн өмнө
I think it’s really funny how people will hate on somebody for a one time mal-performance. And to the same people saying I’m simping on Ben are those man childs who can’t control their temper because I’m defending someone who has a different political view.
Jesus is Lord
Jesus is Lord 20 өдрийн өмнө
You say Ben was wrong because Neil said he wasn't on the left, but as editor of the Sunday Times Neil said the paper should be 'liberal on social matters'. Here is Neil's quote"neo-Keynesian in economic policy, radical right in industrial policy, LIBERAL ON SOCIAL MATTERS and European and Atlanticist on foreign policy".They were talking about abortion, which is a social matter.
inconspicuous rider vlog
inconspicuous rider vlog 21 өдрийн өмнө
Shapiro is like trump in terms of his background. He doesn't like his past be used to question his present stand. It may be okey to some but its a basic goto place if you want to burn the person you are interviewing. If you want a solid interview don't have atupid background that can bite you in the arse 2nd stick to network or programs with same issue biased. 3rd don't get interviewed in other rich EU countries. They prefer logic than shoutie american.
SparkBerry 22 өдрийн өмнө
Ben Shapiro is a master debater, but in that interview, he came across as a bit of a wanker
Emille Emille
Emille Emille 24 өдрийн өмнө
One of the worst case scenarios, you lose the argument then they attack you.
Genospark 25 өдрийн өмнө
Ben Shapiro went so out of character in this lmao
Saitama Kun
Saitama Kun 25 өдрийн өмнө
You win arguments by making good points with sincere emotions.
GALAXY Lord 26 өдрийн өмнө
Well losing an argument is not a correct term , it was a debate ,.... right guys ?
Justin Korchok
Justin Korchok 27 өдрийн өмнө
Andrew Neil is a liberal BBC hack who doesnt try to hide his bias. Let the media act impartial again and then maybe people will give a crap about them
yellowleaf Сарын өмнө
To be fair to Ben nearly ALL political tv is rude. They won't let each other speak.They talk over each other. It'# aggressive. It's about who can throw one under the bus quicker with questions, rebuttles and verbal attacks. Political tv is NOT the place for reasonable, respectful, and honest discussions. That's why Ben acts the way he does. Did it work on this show. Apparently not. But it's worked on others. Political tv is very cut-throat. Even this dude resulted in insults. Everyone who thinks Ben "lost" are just keeping their political spectrum glasses on. They want him to fail cuz they disagree with him. They don't see how the other guy is smirking and resorting to insults as well.
ladillalegos Сарын өмнө
I love your videos!!!
chester lestrange
chester lestrange Сарын өмнө
Oh he has never even had an interview like that before. He debates inexperienced kids and his interviews in america have just been people stroking his balls telling him how smart he is. He has not once been in a situation where he has had to defend his points to an experienced intellectual. Until this. And the outcome was very predictable.
VersusARCH Сарын өмнө
While in most cases the commentary is correct, in this particular case had Ben tried to be funny about issues that are extremely important and dead serious for his target audience with uncompromising stances on the same (abortion, Israeli-Arab conflict), "winning" the "debate" would have cost him far more than it did "losing" it since he would have lost a great deal of credibility and therefore audience that way. He lost because he did not have a meaningful fact-based answers to some of the questions asked, opted to go ad hominem and then left. Everything else is just makeup.
Ken Fullman
Ken Fullman Сарын өмнө
I saw that interview. Being a Brit I obviously know Andrew Neil, but I've also watched a whole heap of Ben Shapiro vids, so feel I pretty much know where he stands. Unfortunately it appears that Ben was totally unprepared for this interview. Didn't have a clue who Andrew Neil was. Didn't seem to understand the notion of playing "devils advocate" (which is what Andrew was doing). If he'd just done a bit of homework first, he'd have realised that Andrew was probably on the same team. Andrew Neil asking the hard questions was supposed to be a prompt for Ben to put his own case forward. Instead, Ben just got offended and felt insulted. That's when it all fell apart. Calling Andrew Neil a Leftie was also a big mistake, because anyone that knows Andrew realises how rediculous that is.
diane DONOHUE Сарын өмнө
Ben is a child at times- arguing, name calling, dismissive, insulting.
Masen Brown
Masen Brown Сарын өмнө
Sure he lost this debate but have you seen the guy's track record? I'm pretty sure he knows what he's doing, one hiccup doesn't tell me he embarrassed himself.
Laniakea Сарын өмнө
Ben Shapiro is a classic Karen. Not even Todd. Just, Karen
SvendBosanvovski Сарын өмнө
What about being authentic and just answering the question truthfully? No wonder politics has become a huge turn off for the populace.
Kevin Theil Sørensen
Kevin Theil Sørensen Сарын өмнө
As a motivational speaker, i'm actually thinking that you've lost it
Kevin Theil Sørensen
Kevin Theil Sørensen Сарын өмнө
I LOVE your channel, yet Ben says things you would never dare to say!!
Kevin Theil Sørensen
Kevin Theil Sørensen Сарын өмнө
I don't understand; Ben owned it!
Bella S
Bella S Сарын өмнө
Ben owned it? At the very end he boasted his popularity and had to outright say he was winning. It doesn't paint a picture of a very confident man.
andii doode
andii doode Сарын өмнө
Do people really care about Ben Shapiro's embarrassment ? He's embarrassing period!
Mateusz Leszek
Mateusz Leszek Сарын өмнө
"lighthearted way" and "a genuine smile" are the things that are entirely alien to Ben.
Emin Kirac
Emin Kirac Сарын өмнө
That’s why Ben shabino only „debates“ arguments he states himself or 19 yo college kids
Filthy Ogre
Filthy Ogre Сарын өмнө
Neil went home that night without even knowing he crushed a mans pride lol
Tira Faison
Tira Faison Сарын өмнө
Honestly, I think Ben is generally well composed, particularly for an orthodox Jewish man (I say this because he has discourse with a lot of people who don't believe as he does). I also believe he is becoming increasingly frustrated and impatient with people understandably so. This is his personality, and I can appreciate that he is consistent. Ben is trained professionally as a lawyer, and he is a social/ political commentator not a psychologist as Jordan Peterson. The media is hugely biased against Ben he has been refused jobs and experienced a great deal of bias and prejudice, he seems to be trying to play the game as the other side plays. Conservatives typically avoid this...
Văn-Hiếu Võ
Văn-Hiếu Võ Сарын өмнө
Yeah, Joe Rogan, the guy that rapid fires a bunch of nonsensical "let's say" hypotheticals at you sure sounds smart to me.
Jeffrey Ishmael
Jeffrey Ishmael Сарын өмнө
? He's doing a podcast and interviewing his guests. You want to keep asking questions and hypotheticals because it gives the interviewee a chance to further strengthen their position. Which ironically, is exactly what Andrew was doing to Ben and he thought that Andrew was attacking him and got his feeling hurts.
INTOUCH Сарын өмнө
No loss for Ben.
fiona Сарын өмнө
bruh how do u lose an INTERVIEW
aj koots
aj koots Сарын өмнө
Admit it , you are just anti Ben. BTW I wont subscribe,you fast talking, little jittery neuro case
Umberto C
Umberto C Сарын өмнө
Can you make a video on how to not breakdown crying in an argument.
AF57 Сарын өмнө
People who think that the person that is acting like is winning a verbal is actually winning are pretty unintelligent and proves that you don't know what real verbal insults are like, pretending to be winning is rookie strat that most people can see through
Десничар Сарын өмнө
Ben is autistic. Don't be autistic.
Matt Thomson
Matt Thomson Сарын өмнө
What kind of nonsense is this?
Mário Ramos
Mário Ramos Сарын өмнө
Legend has that Ben Shapiro won an argument with his Wife.
Patrick Quinn
Patrick Quinn Сарын өмнө
Ben dodged Andrews questions Andrew never answered of Ben's questions
Dundoril Сарын өмнө
Because it's an interview.... Ben is not in an position to ask questions there
Patrick Quinn
Patrick Quinn Сарын өмнө
Ben Shapiro ripped him apart he was talking rubbish BBC and all other types of British mainstream media are on the left so Ben said is right and he was trying to patronise Ben and Ben didn't have it
Bella S
Bella S Сарын өмнө
Wow. Do people in the American education system not learn basic grammar and punctuation?
Eureka Adang
Eureka Adang Сарын өмнө
Oh come on. He's still young. He will come back stronger, I mean, better, if he learns.
b-m Сарын өмнө
i wouldn't say "destroyed" he didn't win, but He didn't lose either. the interviewers goal is to get a good interview, mr. Neil did not get a good interview.
Ham Fan
Ham Fan Сарын өмнө
Does Ben Shapiro have a genuine smile?
mean Сарын өмнө
I think ben was having a bad day tbh
MAGA Aaron
MAGA Aaron Сарын өмнө
This doesn't change the fact that Ben is one of the best debaters out there. He didn't have it in this interview.
Bella S
Bella S Сарын өмнө
To be honest he hasn't 'had it' in most of his debates these past few years. I used to really enjoy his debate style, but it slowly became riddled with personal insults and straw-man arguments.
Adreinne Cobb
Adreinne Cobb Сарын өмнө
Good grief Trump was a three year old with a poopy diaper
He never lost the argument.
Trevor Williams
Trevor Williams Сарын өмнө
When Ben said " I am popular and you are not" I was like wow
mike sanchez
mike sanchez Сарын өмнө
This was Ben's only memorable lost and it wasn't much of a loss since he didn't even argue.
Bella S
Bella S Сарын өмнө
He didn't argue? Well that's interesting.
The Prototype Channel
The Prototype Channel Сарын өмнө
Dude youre a fruad lol
Claire T
Claire T Сарын өмнө
Ben Shapiro isn't actually a good debater. He is just domineering, talks fast and spews his own opinions like rhetoric. He is incapable of truly thinking critically because he is constantly in the mind frame of "I'm always right."
dulal miah
dulal miah Сарын өмнө
Ben is clueless...
Don p Heath
Don p Heath Сарын өмнө
Ben is an idoit
fran collins
fran collins Сарын өмнө
Are you truly comparing Ben Shapiro with a UK moron ???
fran collins
fran collins Сарын өмнө
Ben is entitled to smirk or be what he wants to be. Is he supposed to get permission to be how he feels comfortable. ??
Bella S
Bella S Сарын өмнө
Smirking makes Ben comfortable? That's concerning. I mean, walking around naked outside on a hot summer's day would make a comfortable, doesn't mean I should do it.
fran collins
fran collins Сарын өмнө
Neil was duplicitous and not wanting a proper interview. Neil goes for the score of points even if it is bollox he starts. Ben was right to walk out.
billythedog Сарын өмнө
ben is a dolt
Dylon Wray
Dylon Wray Сарын өмнө
This video is training sociopaths to act like a human
jane doe
jane doe Сарын өмнө
video could be two seconds long: don't be a pseudo intellectual fraud like ben. case closed.
Antonio Alves
Antonio Alves Сарын өмнө
Ben usually is very good at debating. But the problem is that he didn't know Andrew Neil's style of interviewing. Andrew always plays the devil's advocate and picks the opposite side of the argument to the person he is interviewing - he does it with left-wing and right wing politicians. Also, if you know a little bit about Andrew Neil, you'll know he certainly isn't the lefty Ben tried to portray him as (which is where Ben really lost it imo).
Bella S
Bella S Сарын өмнө
Well if Ben was good at debating then he would have researched his opponent. That's one of the first steps of debate.
Despot Airsoft
Despot Airsoft Сарын өмнө
What went wrong? Simple, Ben Shapiro is an arrogant, fanatical, pseudo intellectual douche bag who is accustomed to trolling college campuses and "destroying libruls" when he is allowed to set the deck in his favor. So, when he has to actually argue with an informed adult, he melts down like the coward he truly is.
Barkk 2 сарын өмнө
Ben is just too used to arguments, not gonna bash him about it.
Laxey Stu
Laxey Stu 2 сарын өмнө
British TV must be the best for this kind of thing ...
T Welsh
T Welsh 2 сарын өмнө
When you believe someone is on your team, then you're suprised when they are not. That can set you off.
ciaran 2 сарын өмнө
Americans aren't used to being interrogated by their journalists
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