7 Things Your Body Language Says About You

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You probably know that your body language says a lot about you, but what you might not know is what it’s saying all the time.
That’s why in this video, I thought it might be fun to cover 7 things that your body language at some point is telling other people, so that you can come across as more confident and likeable.

0:23 - Sign #1: Scanning the room: You come across as boring
1:32 - Sign #2: Not letting people interrupt: Singles you out as a leader
2:59 - Sign #3: Leaning against something: You are the centre point
4:06 - Sign #4: Having your hands in your pockets: Signals nervousness
4:29 - Sign #5: Using precise and open gestures: You seem more confident
5:15 - Sign #6: Hanging your head: It makes the problem seem worse
6:27 - Sign #7: The eyebrow flash: Communicates friendliness
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the sunshine
the sunshine 28 өдрийн өмнө
**me practicing whatever he says*
Jordan Moore
Jordan Moore Сарын өмнө
This channel: How to be a psychopath
Zion Zix
Zion Zix Сарын өмнө
I would never take my pants of to put my hand in the pocket... again.
Jillian H
Jillian H 2 сарын өмнө
The problem I have is that I am legally blind, therefore I have to scan a room to maintain spatial awareness. How do I use these strategies when I don’t notice a lot?
Gary The Cycling Nerd
Gary The Cycling Nerd 4 сарын өмнө
Former FBI body language profiler Joe Navarro said hands in pockets with thumbs out is actually a move of confidence, whereas thumbs in pockets is nervous/shameful 🤷
Shubhi Seth
Shubhi Seth 4 сарын өмнө
Awesome Content. But can you please work on making the video a little louder?? Thanks.
TalMishan 4 сарын өмнө
4:32 😂😂😂 *Nice*
Xaalis 5 сарын өмнө
I always hear how you should not put hands in your pockets when in a conversation because you need to express your feelings with hands and so on. But I neever ever heard someone talking about what to do with them if you receive a speech or someone is talking about their problem for minutes straight. What to do with your hands then?
Player Preacher
Player Preacher 5 сарын өмнө
Wow this is great info that anyone can use. Great job man
Water Niger
Water Niger 5 сарын өмнө
*_4:14_**_ Well I am untrustworthy... Well, at least I am not somebody you should rely on all the time_*
Kris K
Kris K 5 сарын өмнө
Its easy when you analize something, but when you need to use in practice its way different
Bryan Breezy
Bryan Breezy 5 сарын өмнө
I mean this guy is probably right on a lot of things but why does he think he is the authority on all things charisma?
Lune Vermeil
Lune Vermeil 5 сарын өмнө
Don't pop your eye brows, generate a natural smile which lifts your cheeks and gives you an opportunity to add the brows to the smile.
Jeffrey Tackett
Jeffrey Tackett 5 сарын өмнө
Something else that will help to improve your perceived worth, would be to learn to spell the word "focused".
K 5 сарын өмнө
Based on the thumbnail, I thought you were going to tell me not to take my pants off in public. So, I guess I'll just keep doing it.
Radik Narang
Radik Narang 5 сарын өмнө
man when i saw the title , i was like cmon it's for loosers , must be some obvious stuff that everyone knows, but i would regret a lot if i didn't here first step is my always mistake i like to scan around and maybe that's why i dont really get along with others .. thank you.
wcheungmusic 6 сарын өмнө
So while I never put my hands in my trouser pockets, I have a tendency to like putting my hands in my hoodie pockets. Is that bad?
Daryl Cortes
Daryl Cortes 6 сарын өмнө
Shout out to my INTP buddies here!
Daryl Richardson
Daryl Richardson 6 сарын өмнө
#1 Strangers actually approaches me & my dates. Now I know why, because we're having... FUN
frank job A
frank job A 6 сарын өмнө
This channel is the best thing in my life it really works for me
Mikey Arnett
Mikey Arnett 6 сарын өмнө
Killua Zoldyck would like to know your location...
King west
King west 7 сарын өмнө
Damn hes cute.
Avery ._.
Avery ._. 7 сарын өмнө
You can’t make a video about how to come off as confident without being confident yourself. They won’t believe you. Which is why you’ve done it perfectly. Your videos really help me learn a lot about being less anxious around groups and social events. Also becoming more believable even when lying. I’m not sure if the “name mistake” example was a lie or truth because you’ve said it in a way that is believable. And that is a very useful tool in many situations (Not saying the use is for good or bad). But it is a tool, that not many people realize they have and can use to their fullest potential. So I hope that I can become one of few people that can use this to my advantage
Henstar 7 сарын өмнө
On the upside, putting your hands in your pockets often gets rid of unwanted attention when your somewhere you probably shouldn't be.
CHAOS king
CHAOS king 7 сарын өмнө
That V neck though
Jocelyn No
Jocelyn No 8 сарын өмнө
😂 I do the eyebrow almost anytime I meet someone 😂
Mos Tee Anunnaki
Mos Tee Anunnaki 8 сарын өмнө
We shall have this conversation after social distancing
Erik Johnson
Erik Johnson 8 сарын өмнө
Matthew Loveland
Matthew Loveland 8 сарын өмнө
me watching this and not being able to use it bc of coronavirus hehe
M. J.
M. J. 8 сарын өмнө
Lmao! I do the flash all day, I don't know where I picked it up, but I do it a lot...
Lil ou
Lil ou 8 сарын өмнө
He’s smilling so much it’s creepy
Lil ou
Lil ou 8 сарын өмнө
This guy is just telling us how to be leaders
MrAliquam 9 сарын өмнө
"Hey, I'm gonna tell you how to lie to everyone and seem as someone you are not to contribute towards culture that buries itself with lies"
D H 9 сарын өмнө
Hands in your pockets really isn't always bad, IMO. Unless that's all you do with your hands in the middle of conversation, then yeah, it's bad.
Darth hrongl
Darth hrongl 9 сарын өмнө
3:58 confirmed Italian
Richard Winne
Richard Winne 9 сарын өмнө
Very mature. Beyond your years in common sense.
That_Goth_bitch 9 сарын өмнө
Charisma isn't something you can learn. You've either got it or out don't. If you try to learn it it's just gonna come off as fake. It's easy to spot especially for women. So I don't really understand why people think they can just read a book or watch a video and all of a sudden have the charismatic qualities that someone can only be born with. plus idk why anyone would take advise as to how to be charismatic from this guy he has the charisma of a pet rock.
heyimsurge 9 сарын өмнө
Honestly this guy is not it. In the words of Kanye west, you don’t have the answers bruh!
Dustin Arroyo
Dustin Arroyo 9 сарын өмнө
Make her sit next to you by just asking
Chubby Huang
Chubby Huang 9 сарын өмнө
Hand gesture, Trump Style.
Trav 9 сарын өмнө
Love the Damon Elena scene
Jelly 10 сарын өмнө
This feels like tips on how to be a human
nataniel Depaz
nataniel Depaz 10 сарын өмнө
this was very helpful and it teaches me a lot and add to my leadership skill keep the good work bro
Alan Kilkenny
Alan Kilkenny 10 сарын өмнө
Don't agree on the old shoulder tap, it can make someone feel like your belittling them
TP Tallen
TP Tallen 10 сарын өмнө
So I shouldnt take my pants off in public while looking for my missing keys in the pocket? Thanks
AB_____HI 10 сарын өмнө
This channel is a goldmine for people's like me. 😅
BSH Vasqoh
BSH Vasqoh 10 сарын өмнө
Enjoyed when you talked about hand gestures and the importance of them. You do gestures in all of your and it is really helpful and it’s makes the video more engaging. Brilliant video.
Leaf 10 сарын өмнө
An easy and effective fix for having your hands in your pocket: Put your hands in your pockets, but leave your thumbs out and keep your fingers straight (instead of curled in). This simple change will actually make you come across as more confident! You’ll see the difference if you go in front of the mirror and look at yourself putting your hands completely in your pocket, and then making the change above.
spiderWeb 10 сарын өмнө
Love your videos, been watching for a while now! Keep up the good work 👍
Jesse Bout
Jesse Bout 11 сарын өмнө
What do you do with your hands when you aren't talking? Never quite sure where to put them when just standing around and not gesticulating.
Study Study
Study Study 11 сарын өмнө
Damn I love your videos
Lil Bird Muse
Lil Bird Muse 11 сарын өмнө
I’d have to disagree on the not letting others “interrupt”/join in the conversation. Obviously, it depends on the situation, but with friends, it comes off very rude. Hands in pockets is the same way. In the southern states, it’s a very cowboy thing and becomes a habit (I tend to have just the thumb in the pocket or all but the thumb. Hands crossed comes off way worse, since you give off the feeling that you don’t feel safe when inside.
Rapolas Rs
Rapolas Rs 11 сарын өмнө
My hands are always in my pockets unless im talking to someone. It’s cold out here and wearing gloves is kind annoying that you need to remove them to shake hands and are not really appropriate inside. Same with crossing hands. I’ve met very few people who cross hands and act defensive, most of the time it’s just cold or comfortable.
Aleks Kozuchowski
Aleks Kozuchowski 11 сарын өмнө
4:39 Charisma on Command confirmed white supremacist.
Nuke Canada
Nuke Canada 11 сарын өмнө
One does not simply make precise gestures.
MaK 11 сарын өмнө
Having Hyperhidrosis (extremly sweaty hands) makes body language very awkward, because the only thing you focus on is trying to hide your hands and all that uncontrollable sweat. Having a conversation with people I've never met before is very strange and uncomfortable xD It is very interesting thou, what you can do with body language. :D
Jean S
Jean S 11 сарын өмнө
Lmaooo it’s not that deep. Who are you living for? Why do you think you have to communicate anything to anyone? Let go of that world... jeez. You will live an anxious life if you care about that irrelevant stuff... I already know what kind of replies I’m gonna get 🤦🏻‍♂️
Shaggy L
Shaggy L 11 сарын өмнө
I’ve been trying to learn to not talk with my hands, it drives my wife crazy and I thought that hand talking was just for politicians, lol
Nerd Fu
Nerd Fu 11 сарын өмнө
As someone with Aspergers I find these videos invaluable. they helped me gain the confidence I needed to follow my own dreams. Hence my channel as an extension of that.
hobsdigree2 11 сарын өмнө
You give good advice. I always like making new people feel welcome. I don't do this to be seen as the leader, but it is a good side effect.
Daniel S
Daniel S 11 сарын өмнө
Ok but why shouldn’t I check my pants pockets
Seraphina Prior
Seraphina Prior 11 сарын өмнө
As an alien trying to learn how to interact with humans, I would love if this guy became my tutor.
J J 11 сарын өмнө
Interesting but I've outgrown the potential need for this stuff.
selfishbirch Жилийн өмнө
6:10 DONT DONT DO IT Dont touch someone you barely know. It makes you look like a person who doesn't respect personal borders. You may reach for the soulder, but dont touch it. Dont, k?
Bad Dog
Bad Dog Жилийн өмнө
So getting a hand job is a no no?
Lyokowarrior1228 Жилийн өмнө
#2, the biggest thing is that no matter if I'm either talking or waiting to talk I get ignored. So idk what to do about that part.
Milan Жилийн өмнө
All my body language skills are on point, but my conversational skills are very bad
Zack N
Zack N Жилийн өмнө
I really wish I could have all the conversations back that I made mistakes in
Mike Watson
Mike Watson Жилийн өмнө
sakthi sd
sakthi sd Жилийн өмнө
With the shame advice, I realized I've always smiled and said sorry. And nobody takes it seriously. But it's not because I knew it but it's my mindset - I don't take many things seriously. Charisma doesn't build mindset. Mindsets build charisma.
TheSnoozeFox Жилийн өмнө
Number 5: Become Italian
purp1e Жилийн өмнө
don't put your hands in your pockets liam ghallager: ....
smiling at grave
smiling at grave Жилийн өмнө
We respect people that we dont care about and people that we think superior of us .
ChukapiX StraNgeR
ChukapiX StraNgeR Жилийн өмнө
* makes a precise gesture * ... *mamma mia*
Franz Josef Mueller-Alban
Franz Josef Mueller-Alban Жилийн өмнө
Many errors here, sorry. Youspeakeverythingonasingleline insted of: You speak, (coma)everything, (coma)on a single line.(point) Also, crossing your arms is a clear sign of closeness and defensive posture. I could go on and on...
Lewis Rodriguez
Lewis Rodriguez Жилийн өмнө
What do you do with your hands when you are in a group conversation and you are not talking at the moment? Assume you are not holding anything, your hands are completely free.
Madmike Жилийн өмнө
lol 😁 Dude too much gestures also kills the gestures... your hands are moving so much in this video that i'm beginning to feel seasick 🤣
Technorex Жилийн өмнө
I actually use the eyebrow one purposefully. I sell ventilation systems which most new houses need one due to insulation so I end up going to new construction sites. When I walk up to a contractor I've never met I walk up and do the eyebrows when I say hey in "Hey man, how the heck have you been?!" and do the Putin handshake (hovering above normal handshake height, starting a few feet away and divebomb their hand like a hawk on a rabbit) Then I have a normal conversation, and they introduce me to other people and everyone else assumes that we've known eachother for years. It's fantastic. If they ask me about it, I tell them the truth; that it's a sales tactic designed to put them at ease so they don't feel like I'm there to sell. In my experience, 4/5 laugh and say either "Well it worked!" or "Does that really work?!" I've got a couple of people to tell me it's sleazy, to which I sincerely apologize say I hope it doesn't affect their opinion of me, and next time I see them- I can be genuinely happy and they can remember me. [For the eyebrows, the timing has to be just right. In the speed of a rather fast heartbeat or the ba dum in "ba dum tss", eyebrows and then smile.]
Esteban Durán
Esteban Durán Жилийн өмнө
HEEEYYY hahahahah
Rhxyy Жилийн өмнө
How tf do all of your teeth fit into your smile
W Жилийн өмнө
Wow your life sounds in a constant state of stressful mind games
Nasur E
Nasur E Жилийн өмнө
This is what should be taught in the school
Bird Turd Memes
Bird Turd Memes Жилийн өмнө
Anonymous I doubt such a ridged structure teach this effectively and how would they grade it?
Laurence Koodin
Laurence Koodin Жилийн өмнө
Hey you look like a mix of Jacob Eldori and Hartley Sawyer
Americus F
Americus F Жилийн өмнө
5:36 call me by your name;)
Bananenbauer123 Жилийн өмнө
I don't like people that are quick to 'brush over' their own mistakes. If someone gestures a little, hanging their head for a second, it tells me that they are sorry. On the contrary, people that tend to be overly positive after the did something wrong, give me the impression they didn't really understand what it is they did wrong. They make me feel like I'm talking to a bomb ticking, just waiting to repeat the same mistake. It is somehow 'reassuring' to see that a mistake someone else made 'stung' a little and will stick for a little while. We all make mistakes, and I think it's important to acknowledge them.
Dusan Slavnic
Dusan Slavnic Жилийн өмнө
What you don't want to be the leader though, this all seems like advice for people that enjoy being the center of attention
Sock TV
Sock TV Жилийн өмнө
never be sorry? got it.
Marianne Bostrøm
Marianne Bostrøm Жилийн өмнө
You know i watch alot of educational channels like kurzgesagt and vsauce, but this is one of the few channels that actually has really practical uses. Your stuff are some of my favourite videos and that have helped me personally alot. So thanks
Julian Reid
Julian Reid Жилийн өмнө
ADD gets you viewed poorly by low IQ norms. CHECK (Benito Mussolini large hand motions vs. Adolf Hitler [Schicklgruber or Goos-flesh] small tight hand motions.
Julian Reid
Julian Reid Жилийн өмнө
Julian Reid
Julian Reid Жилийн өмнө
Korean with Naz
Korean with Naz Жилийн өмнө
4:33 illuminati
hemanth Жилийн өмнө
I do not find anything wrong with people putting their hands in pockets. If I do it, I really didn't mean anything by it even subconsciously to express an off vibe. This is out of my box. Obviously not whilst talking to potential interest, I love them to use some gestures. I am going to agree that pockets are comfortable and warm enough to get my attention to the reality if my thoughts are lost, else I could imagine more. It eases out things for yourself so you might feel confident than before. I am not sure about everyone's opinion, I take it this way and it's extremely helpful in certain situations without knowing. I feel like I took control of myself but in a less effective way but quite helpful. That small help is what I needed at that moment to trigger another thought to make it up to a smarter one. There are various counter-self-help debates I have which I try to analyze and make the best out of it. Cheers!
FullSpecs Жилийн өмнө
You move your hands in such a friggin bizarre pattern that doesn't sensically follow what you're saying that its a complete distraction.
Markus Childers
Markus Childers Жилийн өмнө
Well, the body language on the thumb nail says I'm not wearing my pants right now.
Shana Royal
Shana Royal Жилийн өмнө
Im a girl and when i walk or stand with my hands in my pockets i do it cause i feel comfortable and calm. Not cause im nervous or anything negative... maybe its different for guys
JohnDaWhale3 Жилийн өмнө
If someone ignores me when I'm interrupting them...then I will no longer respect that person. A "lack of manners" is no big deal, ignorance is.
Mustard Bastard
Mustard Bastard Жилийн өмнө
@JohnDaWhale3 depends what you're interrupting for
JohnDaWhale3 Жилийн өмнө
@Mustard Bastard It's important to interrupt though...ignoring is just avoiding the issue.
Mustard Bastard
Mustard Bastard Жилийн өмнө
@JohnDaWhale3 and so is interrupting
JohnDaWhale3 Жилийн өмнө
@Mustard Bastard Ignoring is a NEGATIVE action...
Mustard Bastard
Mustard Bastard Жилийн өмнө
@JohnDaWhale3 as is ignoring
Black Tortoise
Black Tortoise Жилийн өмнө
omg stop making that face lol
Jay Divine
Jay Divine Жилийн өмнө
SuperPotacio Жилийн өмнө
Jotaro kujo always put his hands on his pockets
Tree Surgeon
Tree Surgeon Жилийн өмнө
It's very encouraging that instead of learning these things through trial and error like a normal person I have to binge watch MNpost tutorials like I'm studying for a college course.
OG Kelly
OG Kelly Жилийн өмнө
Can you do a video on lil Uzi verts charisma specifically the one with GQ
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