How To Be Popular As An Introvert

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Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature.
So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert.

0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others.
2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence.
3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures.
5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type.
7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously.
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Alex K.
Alex K. 4 цагийн өмнө
When people break eye contact, they focus on an inanimate object to concentrate on what they say. In Keanu's case, this has nothing to do with disrespect.
theIdlecrane 4 цагийн өмнө
He is good looking.
Truth Snack
Truth Snack 8 цагийн өмнө
Love that "Lewis quote" but technically he never said that. However, he expresses something very similar in more words in The Screwtape Letters. Still a great "Lewis" quote. :) Thanks for the vid.
Alex Shved
Alex Shved 12 цагийн өмнө
In fact, the main reason is sincerity. The author separates the person's behavior from the person's experiences. And Keanu has had a tragic fate. He had been dyslexic since childhood. His writing and speaking skills were much worse, which made him a constant target for ridicule. And he became withdrawn. His father left the family when Keanu had his first sister. Keanu's wife's baby died in utero a week before delivery, and she herself died later in a car accident. She was buried next to the body of her stillborn daughter. Her sister had leukemia, and the actor was able to cure her by investing all of his royalties for several years. It's just that this man knows what grief is. He knows what ridicule is. And he sincerely tries to make, if not the whole world, at least those with whom he communicates, a little happier. Because of his experience, he appreciates a sincere human attitude and time, knowing that life is not eternal. What has made a man what he is, and can be seen from the way he communicates.
Heather Arnold
Heather Arnold 21 цагийн өмнө
Hash tag crush for last three decades xoxox good guy
Npc I'm knot
Npc I'm knot Өдрийн өмнө
Wh'at keeps you down to earth ? Gravity :P
Jack Crow
Jack Crow Өдрийн өмнө
Jazzyfries Өдрийн өмнө
I want to be a musician but I'm a huge introvert. And most people online now a days for music are huge extroverts and can promote themselves well
Cody Bailey
Cody Bailey Өдрийн өмнө
Damn man, I wanna be like that. Be such a good person you motivate all kinds of people to do good too, what else could be better?
Juntasing S.
Juntasing S. Өдрийн өмнө
He is humble, lives the way, acts the part, be normal and relatable and he shows his gratitude to everyone and everything in his life ... How can you dislike this guy?
Notdeadyet 3 өдрийн өмнө
Conclusion: Keanu Reeves is actually a nice guy
Li JJ 4 өдрийн өмнө
This why he films John wick. He doesn't need to talk that much. Good to know!
StillDollSyndrome 4 өдрийн өмнө
He just makes me smile when he walks in/comes on screen. I love this man haha
Myytchanneldinako Ha
Myytchanneldinako Ha 4 өдрийн өмнө
Johnny Depp used to be so cool.
Matthew Sawczyn
Matthew Sawczyn 4 өдрийн өмнө
Be genuine. People respect that.
Eve Wang
Eve Wang 5 өдрийн өмнө
Hey CoC, please do a lesson for us unattractive people! Or ugly people. No. Seriously. We ugly people really need your advices on how to function socially in this world
Cindy Stevens
Cindy Stevens 5 өдрийн өмнө
A friend met him in a drug store and said he was humble and very friendly
Brothulhu Phtagn
Brothulhu Phtagn 5 өдрийн өмнө
This also works because hes Rich, and attractive. Be poor and ugly and all of this is cool, but society will still reject you. Maybe not the 100% of people if you didn't do these things, but the 90%.
Jamez Kpal
Jamez Kpal 6 өдрийн өмнө
How do you keep from blushing and stuttering when complimented?
suchasreallife 6 өдрийн өмнө
He can do this because he’s keanu reeves..
Mendel Slavin
Mendel Slavin 6 өдрийн өмнө
A video about identifying people’s primary modality would be amazing 🙏🏼💗
Madeleine S
Madeleine S 7 өдрийн өмнө
one time my scottish great aunt was on a flight and she got chatting with the man next to her, talking about her family, showing him pictures of her baby granddaughter, telling him about her life and whatever.... and then she asked him what he did and he said "i'm an actor" and it was Keanu Reeves!!! she didnt know who he was but she said he was lovely
Noiroxide 8 өдрийн өмнө
My name is actually Keanu so this video is nice to watch :)
Petrescu Radu
Petrescu Radu 8 өдрийн өмнө
The end of this video (pewdipie + donation) shows exactly why people like Keanu are treasures. They not only live their life in the way that they do, but they also inspire others. Wish everybody the best
Famco inc.
Famco inc. 8 өдрийн өмнө
Basically TPWK!
MrSpqr84 8 өдрийн өмнө
He's the only celebrity worthy of respect!
Rosemarie Bergeron
Rosemarie Bergeron 8 өдрийн өмнө
He is such a model for everyone. God bless Keanu. We must protect him at all cost.
Eder Duran
Eder Duran 8 өдрийн өмнө
Wow I love the end helping others with water is amazing
Tracker Buckmann
Tracker Buckmann 9 өдрийн өмнө
Long periods of sustained eye contact between two heterosexual males is likely to result in conflict. If you pay attention, most men don't even face each other squarely for long unless there is some urgent issue. Guys who get along well will make eye contact now and then, but not constantly. We don't square off with each other. We are more likely to face some object we are working on, a car for instance. Or we will build some imaginary object with our hands and motion to it (he literally does this). This constant eye contact and directly facing each other all the time is a trait of females, homosexual males or highly narcissistic males if they're straight. Women will not directly face a man they're sexually interested in most of the time unless they have some rapport or familiarity. They're more likely to point a foot at him, stare off in some other direction while straining their eyeball in the very corner of their eye to sneak a peak at him. When two men meet for the first time it is important to be dominant, but to keep doing it relentlessly is going to make them think that you either want to fight, or the other f word. This is becoming less so in the cities were testosterone levels have dropped, but if you're ever out in the country or in some other country altogether where men are less feminine, this advice might just save your life. Also, try to stay at least six feet away from everyone. I've been a lot of places and everywhere i go, people tend to like me. That's because i give them their space. I do not invade or threaten their territorial bubble. With women, keep your hands to yourself until she signals otherwise, usually by touching you. Until then, pretend to be slightly bored. Aloof. Aloof draws people out. That is Keanu's secret.
Vic W
Vic W 9 өдрийн өмнө
I never clicked on a link so fast 😂😂
El Grando Smokio
El Grando Smokio 9 өдрийн өмнө
Keanu reeves is not an introvert.
Seana Hampstead
Seana Hampstead 10 өдрийн өмнө
Keanu Reeves is presicous and we must protect him at all costs.
TheHanjoe300 10 өдрийн өмнө
I subscribed
TheHanjoe300 10 өдрийн өмнө
MNpost Recommended
Simeon Koistinen
Simeon Koistinen 10 өдрийн өмнө
Dane Life After Hell
Dane Life After Hell 10 өдрийн өмнө
I'm not sure which is more limited is range as an actor or how he plays bass . I'm sorry but some ( no names ) can do more after 3 months of practice.
Dawn Mic. Herring
Dawn Mic. Herring 10 өдрийн өмнө
Charity Water!! I've been saving up to help somehow 💞💙❤
Guy Trolol
Guy Trolol 10 өдрийн өмнө
wow, the insights about the kind of activities a "kinesthetic type" (which I strongly identify with) likes to engage with is something i had never heard.
Guy Trolol
Guy Trolol 10 өдрийн өмнө
also so much great advice here. Thank you so much!
Derek Weinert
Derek Weinert 10 өдрийн өмнө
My friends mom went on a date with him then declined a second... He was at tornoto university I believe with her
Michael Martin
Michael Martin 11 өдрийн өмнө
Oh, he's very popular (). The sportos, the motorheads, geeks, sl(_)ts, bloods, waistoids, dweebies, d()ckheads--they all adore him. They think he's a righteous dude.
ZekeWolfe 11 өдрийн өмнө
Just want to say thank you for this, I just found out something about myself that I didn't understand. When I'm visually recalling something I tend to always look up and to the left and never understood why, I just knew that I did it. Seeing the NLP chart I noticed that up and to the left was for visual recalling, which is super awesome to know now.
xxoMIKoxx 11 өдрийн өмнө
I am an introvert and this has been helpful but I mainly watched it to hear more praise of keanu reeves.
Anthony R.
Anthony R. 12 өдрийн өмнө
This is fascinating! I could watch an hour-long video about the different NLP modalities.
Bad Dragonite
Bad Dragonite 13 өдрийн өмнө
Now that I pay attention to it in this video I find Keanu's way of holding himself and speaking so relatable. Especially the eye contact and hand gesture things.
Jersey Steel Fitness
Jersey Steel Fitness 13 өдрийн өмнө
Range Queen
Range Queen 13 өдрийн өмнө
Keanu is attractive and lovable at every level.
DBX Niker
DBX Niker 14 өдрийн өмнө
keanu is one of those that you can fully say is a good role model
PhakBoy 14 өдрийн өмнө
Good luck guys doing this with a mask
skyflower 15 өдрийн өмнө
Always adored this man . My Bill and Ted days influenced like no other ☺️💖
JustinL614 18 өдрийн өмнө
If he was ugly he wouldn't be popular lol
calm critic
calm critic 18 өдрийн өмнө
Touching story, but the ending was interesting. If $30 quenches the thirst of one person for 10 years, and your $100,000 dollars is only doing it for 3000 people, I’d suggest finding a different charity. Even in America you could dig enough wells for them to get water from across the country.
Audrey Amaryllis
Audrey Amaryllis 19 өдрийн өмнө
he's such a babe ugh
Snow White
Snow White 19 өдрийн өмнө
How many Introverts clicked on this video but then realized "Wait, I'm an Introvert. I don't want to be Popular!"
gluonone 20 өдрийн өмнө
LOL. Keanu's popular because he's a movie star and he's considered good looking along with being introverted and humble. But if he wasn't a good looking movie star and just humble and introverted, he would not be popular . There you go folks- a sociological analysis and it's free.
empty endeavor
empty endeavor 20 өдрийн өмнө
Introverts are popular. They are usually more enigmatic which draws people to them. Our favorite action hero characters are almost all introverts lol.
Donna C
Donna C 21 өдрийн өмнө
He knows what DOES NOT matter. He knows what DOES matter.
Adam Ziolkowski
Adam Ziolkowski 21 өдрийн өмнө
I can totally relate to this dude....
Christina Wilke *Phillips
Christina Wilke *Phillips 21 өдрийн өмнө
We dont deserve Keanu Reeves! ❤
Oishii Kudasai
Oishii Kudasai 22 өдрийн өмнө
If he was to be classified as a GoT character then it would most likely be Jon Snow. Very wholesome and inspiring. With the killing attitude and skill of Arya.
luizito1212 22 өдрийн өмнө
The man has been through sooo much shyt in life makes sense how he is people who have been through hell try to help others from going through the pain they went through
Sam Rosenberg
Sam Rosenberg 23 өдрийн өмнө
They eye-direction thing too, is so interesting. When I'm trying to come up with the right word in a conversation, I often imagine a big rolodex in my mind, that I'm flipping through looking for a card with the appropriate word on it, and I've noticed that whenever I do that I look up and to the right. When I do that in a a conversation, the person can always tell that I'm thinking about the words I want to use.
Sam Rosenberg
Sam Rosenberg 23 өдрийн өмнө
This video is absolutely fascinating. I'm very introverted, and I do a lot of these things either by instinct or by learned behavior, but there were definitely a number of useful tips in this video. Particularly, the redirection of compliments, because I am often very uncomfortable accepting compliments, which comes from a place of low self-esteem and I found the point made about that specifically in this video to be incredibly interesting, and something I intend to use in the future. Amusingly enough, a number of my students have told me that I look like John Wick, having long hair and a beard.
choosemyfate 23 өдрийн өмнө
This was actually super informational. Thanks for that.
Mike S.
Mike S. 24 өдрийн өмнө
Me: orders big mac in drive thru Introduction: "I really want to thank my parents, my friends and my teachers, without you I wouldn't be here..." 640
Heuer De
Heuer De 24 өдрийн өмнө
i bet he cant watch 5 seconds of this video
The Solo Creative
The Solo Creative 25 өдрийн өмнө
I honestly cannot wait until I finish university so I can make a impact as a introvert. I think its hard for people to realise but a lot of introverts find it really hard to socialise at all when they are exhausted because socialising drains them. Not speaking for all introverts just some that are like myself.
Brandon Latchman
Brandon Latchman 25 өдрийн өмнө
I love this video,its breathtaking
Marcus Kruse
Marcus Kruse 25 өдрийн өмнө
He don't seem very introvert
Gl0ryboy 25 өдрийн өмнө
SpiritualBacon 26 өдрийн өмнө
1:12 When there's no one around to redirect praise toward
S. Sch.
S. Sch. 26 өдрийн өмнө
growingoaks productions
growingoaks productions 26 өдрийн өмнө
“I feel you” is one of my main phrases i feel personally attacked. 😂
syg B.
syg B. 26 өдрийн өмнө
Am open for interactions and communicating with strangers But i lack the confidence to go after it, always disappointing myself for not taking the initials to do so
iIiIiiIi IiiIiiIiI
iIiIiiIi IiiIiiIiI 26 өдрийн өмнө
It will only works because its Keanu, if a normal guy did this they got labeled a beta male
Nick Luke
Nick Luke 27 өдрийн өмнө
❤️ 💗
CarbonPolarBear 27 өдрийн өмнө
I see Keanu and just smile.
Mahad Iqbal
Mahad Iqbal 29 өдрийн өмнө
11:10 I see what you did there you gave Keanu Reeves the credit for humility in order to save more down to earth yourself.
Jesse G.
Jesse G. 29 өдрийн өмнө
Wow he is inspirational
zakosist 29 өдрийн өмнө
Great to see a video that applies to introverts. I think your channel is mostly good but the vast majority of your videos relies on the people being an anxious extrovert that just needs to overcome their anxiety. Meanwhile I'm the opposite, actually introverted and hardly ever outright anxious in social situations (usually its a neutral state of confidence). Can still be beneficial to learn a bit of how to improve my charisma, I think its quite low and you never know when it gets useful. I notice there is a lot of talk about needing to be funny, but what if you're not at all the type to tell jokes and never was? How do you even think out funny things to say? Are they planned in advance?
Issaname 29 өдрийн өмнө
Charity starts at home you guys, remember flint michigan.... Slowly water is being privatised in the US, donate money to prevent this.
Danila Senko
Danila Senko Сарын өмнө
Kinaesthetic Reeves
Tame Сарын өмнө
I think he’s famous because he started dating all of us fat guys in our parents basements... ayyo? Any others?
Cody Heiner
Cody Heiner Сарын өмнө
So this is why chess players always look up when calculating!
Home Boy
Home Boy Сарын өмнө
Keanu Reeves is the ultimate renaissance man.
Manny Jamz
Manny Jamz Сарын өмнө
When I talk low and calm everyone wants to cut in. I use to not finish my sentence but now, I let the talking pass and continue with finishing my what I had to say, and if it isn't crucial I don't mind changing the subject.
bigboycain Сарын өмнө
@caindamayne:God loves you🙏He wants you to love Him! He sent His very own Son, Jesus Christ, to die for our sins, then rose Him from the dead!
Dee spaeth
Dee spaeth Сарын өмнө
We don't care about being popular
Diamante Dea
Diamante Dea Сарын өмнө
I want 2 be famous but not popular
Keri M. Peardon
Keri M. Peardon Сарын өмнө
As an introvert, I look at something when I am telling a story because I am easily distracted by people's faces and other things that are going on. If I am looking at someone's face, I am reading it. If I am looking at something happening in the background, I am preoccupied with figuring out what's happening. So I have to look at something neutral, like the table or the floor, so that I can process my thoughts or access my memory.
unsolve 5 өдрийн өмнө
Yeah I was thinking about this too because i usually look somewhere neutral too
matte espo
matte espo 15 өдрийн өмнө
Keanu Reeves
Keanu Reeves 24 өдрийн өмнө
@Melissa Hello gorgeous, thanks for the beautiful comment on my official account here 🌹🍀🙏🥰🤗💝
Keanu Reeves
Keanu Reeves 24 өдрийн өмнө
Hello gorgeous, thanks for the beautiful comment on my official account here 🌹🍀🙏🥰🤗💝
Melissa 26 өдрийн өмнө
This is exactly how I am! But I was told after a job interview that they went with another candidate because they felt it was rude I wasn't making eye contact :(
The Crow of Yharnam
The Crow of Yharnam Сарын өмнө
Garbage actor
오기Oggy Сарын өмнө
3:48 line should have been "breathtaking"
Penny Coté Kearns
Penny Coté Kearns Сарын өмнө
Jordan Ring
Jordan Ring Сарын өмнө
Keanu Reeves is just the man... Love his style and fearless nature. Hero!
El Duderino
El Duderino Сарын өмнө
Stafford Rau
Stafford Rau Сарын өмнө
Nice video, love Keanu, but just gotta say - NLP is a bunch of culty pseudo-scientific nonsense.
Akansha Singh
Akansha Singh Сарын өмнө
Step 1 Try to be rich👍
Ry Talks
Ry Talks Сарын өмнө
That was clever, well put together, and inspirational.
Pretty Girlkat
Pretty Girlkat Сарын өмнө
What a beautiful man
clockwork orange
clockwork orange Сарын өмнө
Orrrrrrr he is just acting all the time and has tricked everyone into thinking he is this way....
Style Z
Style Z Сарын өмнө
I'm such an introvert that I stream to see myself later and not ever expecting to be seen
Plumtastic Сарын өмнө
Introvert minds can be complex like when we try to explain something we enjoy, we fear it may come across incorrectly. For instance, Keanu really loves storytelling and his excitement for things but rather speaking, he uses kinaesthetic gestures as an emphasis to display his excitement - 5:30
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