How To Be Popular As An Introvert

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Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature.
So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert.

0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others.
2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence.
3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures.
5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type.
7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously.
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Diego Moreno
Diego Moreno 20 минутын өмнө
How to be popular as an introvert: Be Keanu Reeves.
BobbiDigital 2020
BobbiDigital 2020 2 цагийн өмнө
I was an extrovert as a kid but as I got older I pushed ppl away because I didn’t like being in big groups anymore and felt so awkward at parties even though I knew almost everyone there. It sux but I feel more comfortable on my own.
Cass Chris
Cass Chris 7 цагийн өмнө
Keanu doesn‘t try to be cool, he simply IS.
jdmac44 7 цагийн өмнө
So, how would Keanu write a dating bio for himself, of he had to? (which obviously he doesn't)
Jonathan Stark
Jonathan Stark 12 цагийн өмнө
no u wrong friend, on point 3: he gesticulate like ...ITALIANs uhauahuahuhauahuahuauha Greetings from Rome! ;P
Der Kommissar
Der Kommissar 13 цагийн өмнө
It's a huge mistake to use Keanu as example of popular introvert. Simply because he is very good looking, rich and have a very successful career of 30-40 years. How many other actors are introvert people? Not many.
Slowflipsfb _
Slowflipsfb _ 13 цагийн өмнө
watching these videos is like customizing settings for your own personality
iOn-Christopher DiMeglio
iOn-Christopher DiMeglio 16 цагийн өмнө
Hugely helpful. Note to Self: I had to redo the chart of mind states in the middle. It's only about 30% complete and ascribed. as follows; "construct" = thinking. Memory at top and bottom. Kinestetic = physical, and on both sides. Auditory = emotional. Self-dialogue = Analytic, on both sides, in-between physical and emotional.
Kyler Wood
Kyler Wood 19 цагийн өмнө
Markiplier does this a lot too
Elmanu Xd
Elmanu Xd 20 цагийн өмнө
How is it possible for an introvert to be an actor?
excel04 Өдрийн өмнө
Would have been helpful to mention that the NLP eye movements tend reverse in left-handed and ambidextrous people.
Rick Jensen
Rick Jensen Өдрийн өмнө
Keanu just schooled the charisma channel. Yes you should give back just like everyone gave you charisma.
Mike az
Mike az Өдрийн өмнө
I mean it doesn't help that he's a gorgeous man that doesn't age I mean It couldn't have anything to do with his popularity lol 😉
Gustavo Suenaga
Gustavo Suenaga Өдрийн өмнө
Me: has school presentation Introduction: "I really want to thank my parents, my friends and my teachers, without you I wouldn't be here..."
Kevin G
Kevin G Өдрийн өмнө
Yeah dont think my coworkers gonna be down with wildly flailing around. My hand gestures are concise and controlled and still they rib me lol
Nicole Өдрийн өмнө
the new thumbnail of this vid makes me ✨uncomfy✨
Jr Өдрийн өмнө
i have a problem with myself, i think i might have multiple personalities or something, sometimes i feel like an introvert and sometimes i feel like an extrovert and it is does not depend on my situation its always just like outta nowhere kinda like a mood swing
Hello There
Hello There Өдрийн өмнө
Popular as a introvert isn't something i want but ok i will watch this
tall32guy Өдрийн өмнө
He really does seem to be the sweetest. ❤️. He is someone i admire for his empathy and generosity and he is my example for it. I would love to give him a big hug! He is a one of a kind in the world of celebrities
John Lewan
John Lewan Өдрийн өмнө
I'm too introverted to comment here. Maybe next time......
fren6363 Өдрийн өмнө
4:05 you're wrong, everything he does is ideal
Jikal Өдрийн өмнө
As an introvert I don't want to be popular. At all. Go away.
nawari nidunima
nawari nidunima 2 өдрийн өмнө
You forget 1 most important Handsome&money
DonMak 161
DonMak 161 2 өдрийн өмнө
Alternate title: How to be breathtaking
Joe Sen
Joe Sen 2 өдрийн өмнө
Can you do one for Johnny Depp
David Alexander MUSIC
David Alexander MUSIC 2 өдрийн өмнө
Keanu is my spirit animal.
Akshay Vachhani
Akshay Vachhani 2 өдрийн өмнө
He is good because he is himself, you can be good by being yourself. You don't need to learn anything from anyone else because he isn't learning from anyone else. He is good, Admire him, Get inspired by him but... dont copy him because he isn't copying anyone else. I know each and everyone here is good. I love you for who you are.
Matthew Grr
Matthew Grr 2 өдрийн өмнө
I admire your donation - I am excited to have the capital to give generously one day. Thanks for your channel: for the past couple years I've been very isolated because of depression and anxiety and your videos have been armouring for me to start feeling comfortable in busier environments.
Anders madsen
Anders madsen 2 өдрийн өмнө
pause at 1:04 omg
Wiktor Zakrzewski
Wiktor Zakrzewski 2 өдрийн өмнө
Well, in the case of Olivia Spencer... Keanu Might be a genuinely god damn good person. Or He might be a very creepy stalker...
Brian Gray
Brian Gray 3 өдрийн өмнө
I don’t look people in the eye. I do my own thing mostly. Talking to em and listening. Prolonged eye contact makes me uncomfortable.
harrison wintergreen
harrison wintergreen 3 өдрийн өмнө
Being tall, handsome, wealthy and famous also helps.
mobey 3 өдрийн өмнө
started this video wanting to learn how to be popular, by the end I just want to be a better person
Piano Weeb
Piano Weeb 3 өдрийн өмнө
Don’t give me false hope
Shirley Whirley
Shirley Whirley 3 өдрийн өмнө
Would definitely love to see that neuro linguistic programming video I tend to memorize things frequently by feeling also which I struggle to translate into words
Luke N
Luke N 3 өдрийн өмнө
This is what happens when you start watching positive and genuinely helpful content, you end up donating 30$ to charity 😂
Joel Roy
Joel Roy 3 өдрийн өмнө
Introverted leaders ftw!!!
xyz xyz
xyz xyz 4 өдрийн өмнө
Introverts don't like to be popular
Biscuffer 4 өдрийн өмнө
Just thinking this goes against being an introvert hahaha But i sorta understand that there are different ways of being popular while still having a lot of privacy which introverts value the most We need that alone time
Tinfoilhatnutcase One
Tinfoilhatnutcase One 4 өдрийн өмнө
9:40 if you want to become more compassionate you have to start from a place that isn't a selfish desire to be more liked by people
Mitchell Jenkins
Mitchell Jenkins 5 өдрийн өмнө
He’s simply breathtaking
Why Do I Even Look At The Comments
Why Do I Even Look At The Comments 5 өдрийн өмнө
Anyone who has seen fans screaming about a suicidal-looking Harrison Ford knows that celebrities get a free pass on personality. The black pill is a pathway to many thoughts, *some* consider to be _too cynical_
Ronald Ventolina
Ronald Ventolina 5 өдрийн өмнө
How to be popular as an introvert Easy, Be Attractive.
Chatsworth Osborne, Jr.
Chatsworth Osborne, Jr. 5 өдрийн өмнө
I know right? I just want to be left alone and enjoy life one day at a time but people are so intrigue with us. It’s quite bizarre to me.
Kabane 6 өдрийн өмнө
Christin command: First off you need to be incredibly good looking, famous and rich. Everyone watching this:👁️👄👁️
N L 6 өдрийн өмнө
AWWWWW bless him
Klaymonkey 6 өдрийн өмнө
Honsetly tho, it helps to be a massively popular movie Hollywood actor with a large portfolio. A mail man could have the same looks & outward personality as Keanu, & he might get a few more Facebook followers. The charisma described in this video is an Americana elite grade charisma, not an everyday person charisma. If Average Joe the janitor said "I am no here without such talented artists and people" to his associates he might actually loose Facebook friends.
Geek Willow
Geek Willow 6 өдрийн өмнө
I couldn't look at Colbert either. It's hard to look at people you can't respect.
Jacob I.
Jacob I. 6 өдрийн өмнө
Keanu, McConaughey and RDJ need to be protected at all costs
tania mudra
tania mudra 6 өдрийн өмнө
I definitely agree with the generosity part, I'm not really good at the first points, it all depends on how I feel that day, and one day I'm super sociable and another one don't talk to anyone but generosity always makes it way better. When you just do something good or give something to someone, it's an incredible feeling inside and I guess people around you just want some kindness and someone being generous to them. It's always a win win. Great video
tommy girl
tommy girl 6 өдрийн өмнө
カッコイイ❤️私は貴方に惚れました😊❤️恋の病です🤭❤️ Love you Keanu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
ripped up
ripped up 6 өдрийн өмнө
He is in his body.
Victor Știrbu
Victor Știrbu 7 өдрийн өмнө
he talks like he is on drugs all the time and i fknin love that
opoto yem
opoto yem 7 өдрийн өмнө
you are fake
ZapTuno 7 өдрийн өмнө
I am naturally like that- why am I not popular?
tommy girl
tommy girl 7 өдрийн өмнө
I love you Keanu ❤️ pra sempre ❤️
tommy girl
tommy girl 7 өдрийн өмнө
tommy girl
tommy girl 7 өдрийн өмнө
tommy girl
tommy girl 7 өдрийн өмнө
tommy girl
tommy girl 7 өдрийн өмнө
I love you Keanu ❤️
LìGHT / 7 өдрийн өмнө
i am introvert , my Q is , why would an introvert ever wanna be famous?
tommy girl
tommy girl 7 өдрийн өмнө
tommy girl
tommy girl 8 өдрийн өмнө
I want to stay with you ❤️ love you Keanu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Johnny Clancy
Johnny Clancy 8 өдрийн өмнө
The rarest of spergs: The Charismatic Sperg.
Security Supreme
Security Supreme 8 өдрийн өмнө
Colin Jay Mulhern
Colin Jay Mulhern 8 өдрийн өмнө
Life is easy if you’re genuine . . .😉
The Davis Dimension
The Davis Dimension 8 өдрийн өмнө
Uhh in a nutshell..Relax
Sebastian Schimpf
Sebastian Schimpf 8 өдрийн өмнө
This is a great video with an unexpected focus on virtues and true human qualities! I appreciate it!
Nagesh Sonawane
Nagesh Sonawane 8 өдрийн өмнө
Cool 😎
Utubeskreename 9 өдрийн өмнө
How to be popular as an introvert: 1. Be really good looking 2. Be very rich 3. Be a famous movie star.
Mike az
Mike az Өдрийн өмнө
Karol Krawczyk
Karol Krawczyk 9 өдрийн өмнө
5:44, marked it fo my slelf, dont bother me
Mardiana Putra
Mardiana Putra 9 өдрийн өмнө
VAK : Visual Audial Kinestetik
Un Sinn Kim
Un Sinn Kim 9 өдрийн өмнө
the fact that he's a multi millionaire wouldn't have anything to do with women being attracted to him, would it?
Chris 9 өдрийн өмнө
Am I Keanu Reeves?
Makishi Mirian
Makishi Mirian 10 өдрийн өмнө
I love this man
Grace Hiler
Grace Hiler 10 өдрийн өмнө
Did we get a more in-depth video on NLP?
Melanie.L 10 өдрийн өмнө
clean water has more value than gold it makes people grow food..............well live!! as far as Keanu goes the guy is unique he has all the qualities of a "real"human being when i talk or have been ask a question i look down too and think twice analyze what i am going to say................that's very important and don't think he is the center of the world there is always people who would teach you something you didn't know even a poor homeless person who had a bad luck in life/ Good on you Keanu beautiful inside and outside
Eva Liz
Eva Liz 10 өдрийн өмнө
I'd love a video on identifying modality!
Head God
Head God 10 өдрийн өмнө
Red book of speech like a king!
Kenneth McCormick
Kenneth McCormick 11 өдрийн өмнө
I believe I am an introvert. Hopefully this channel will give me enough advice, to while being myself an introvert, I can still hopefully come across as a personable, caring individual that, close friends, and family know I trully am. Thank you!!!
Kenneth McCormick
Kenneth McCormick 11 өдрийн өмнө
Being appreciative leads to the person being even more successful. Praise not only elevate others, it simultaneously elevates your personality more appealing to the people around you.
Dexter Gaba
Dexter Gaba 11 өдрийн өмнө
You don't need to look at people to talk to them. I do it a lot, but it's usually when my mind is on overdrive. Gets into that mindset.
MSTZ Mike B & Stevie c
MSTZ Mike B & Stevie c 11 өдрийн өмнө
2nd video I have watched and I really enjoyed so.... I had to sub. Your content is 👍
Goldie & Mike
Goldie & Mike 11 өдрийн өмнө
If you accept that you are an introvert and stop pretending not to be, then you can be comfortable and confident in your own skin!
The Executer
The Executer 11 өдрийн өмнө
I'm an introvert but once I peed in public and it felt awesome.
Kaitastrophic 11 өдрийн өмнө
I just realized that i'm very similar to keanu reeves with how i act and talk. like especially the kinesthetic thing. I had no idea that that was even a thing but that is how i am all the time. literally just so much of his characteristics and ways of talking are very similar to mine. this actually makes me feel so much better about myself. i have always thought that i'm boring and annoying to be around and that might be true, like i'm not very witty or good at talking to people but i still have many good traits. like i'm always putting others before myself and always make time for people. thanks for this video and for making me realize things about myself.
tommy girl
tommy girl 11 өдрийн өмнө
I want to see you 💖💖💖💖💖
Kaden 11 өдрийн өмнө
easy to give when you got everything
tommy girl
tommy girl 11 өдрийн өмнө
You are my type 💕💕💕
tommy girl
tommy girl 12 өдрийн өмнө
You are my everything 💖💖💖💖 love you 💖
chapachuu 12 өдрийн өмнө
In my experience, introverts avoid eye contact because it makes it easier to focus on what we're talking about. So, if we're getting into a subject that requires thinking on the spot (something we aren't usually good at -- we like to think things through before speaking), we avoid contact. Exchanges that don't require much thought, like smiling, nodding, listening, or complimenting someone doesn't require the introvert to look away. In other words, looking away from someone is the introvert taking focus from the exterior environment and putting it into the interior environment of their mind.
The Devils Advocate
The Devils Advocate 12 өдрийн өмнө
Keannu is charismatic as an introvert because he is physically attractive and he is successful and EVERYONE knows it. THATS IT! Don't make it complicated.
stev6963 12 өдрийн өмнө
Dude was so gorgeous in the Matrix. He should go back to shorter hair IMO. But he's also a genuinely cool dude and this video was very interesting.
Usugurai 12 өдрийн өмнө
i spent my high school days as an introvert avoiding people only having a handful of friends, now i graduated and see how hard it is for me to communicate with starngers
Moax Ke
Moax Ke 12 өдрийн өмнө
Thanks for this video, it has helped me to understand certain things about thoughts and not trying to force a change to fit to standards provided by an audience of peers. More so I love the donation, so kind of you! I hope to support your channel in future endeavors.
Elijah Montgomery
Elijah Montgomery 12 өдрийн өмнө
I'm not socially awkward, but I'm quiet and it makes me feel somewhat left out and not fully understanding how to effectively interact with higher energy types. This has taught me a little about myself I think.
Kevin w
Kevin w 8 өдрийн өмнө
Just make sure to grab one on ones with the high energy types and draw them into you. It throws them off equally as much as their style throws you off
william tucker
william tucker 12 өдрийн өмнө
fook eye contact
Meanie Panini
Meanie Panini 12 өдрийн өмнө
If Keanu's personality was the same, but he was only average looking and not well off financially, he wouldn't be as well liked. He is as well liked as he is BECAUSE he's famous. If you aren't well off and/or good-looking, at best you will be seen as a loner and at worst you will be feared as a creep.
tommy girl
tommy girl 12 өдрийн өмнө
I want to see you 💖 💖💖💖💖
4173 13 өдрийн өмнө
its easy to say just look directly in the eyes introverts will understand
Moin Khan
Moin Khan 13 өдрийн өмнө
Plot twist: Keanu Reeves is an extrovert
Krishanu Banerjee
Krishanu Banerjee 13 өдрийн өмнө
Trying to be like Keanu Reeves is an exercise in futility, because you can't grow generosity within you. Sure, you can copy some of the things he does, but in the end, you actually have to *like* doing those. He's just a genuinely good guy, who doesn't have to try to appear generous. ... Also, why the heck do I look older than Keanu Reeves? He's *18* years older than me!!!
Kevin w
Kevin w 8 өдрийн өмнө
It's your weight. I can tell by your face. If you drop 20 pounds your face will thin out and you will crush him in appearances
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