How To Turn Anxiety Into Charisma

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After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations.
On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview. So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma.

4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening
4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring
6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea
6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness
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Emilia has a most beautiful smile, and probably a wonderful heart.
Alejandro Gomez
Alejandro Gomez Өдрийн өмнө
I would get nervous when talking to others because I was scared of being negatively judged. Then I told myself others may have those same feelings. Then I realized that when random people smiled and waved at me it would bring me good feelings, so I started doing that kinda eliminated anxiety once I did it enough. Know yourself to know others.
Just seeesr
Just seeesr 2 өдрийн өмнө
Lilian like this if your watching please Haha
Liliane nala
Liliane nala 20 өдрийн өмнө
someone: hi how you doing? Me: *goes blank trying to remember al the points of the video ------------------------------ Literally, I don't know what I'm doing now. I've watch a lot of videos of this channel and other, and they present a lot of different personalities and now I don't know what to do, I'm mean, I could just go bipolar. TOOMUCHINFORMATIONNNNNNNNNNNNN
jiahao lin
jiahao lin 23 өдрийн өмнө
Μe: trying to memorize the techniques My brain: hi my name is Chandler Bing and I make jokes when I'm uncomfortable
jiahao lin
jiahao lin 25 өдрийн өмнө
Μe: trying to memorize the techniques My brain: hi my name is Chandler Bing and I make jokes when I'm uncomfortable
Olivia Woloshyn
Olivia Woloshyn 29 өдрийн өмнө
3:05 Exactly! There's nothing more charming than someone who's shy doing their best to overcome it and get to know you. We always root for people like that.
tendoQT Сарын өмнө
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yellowleaf Сарын өмнө
I just want to say she was perfect on GoT and I hope she knows this.
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bluebird light Сарын өмнө
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Tired Peach
Tired Peach Сарын өмнө
Once i have enough mental strength to make a phone call it’s over for everyone
Oh its Mike
Oh its Mike 2 сарын өмнө
Most women that claim they're awkward or introverted are just doing it out of the popularity of the terms, or their perceived attractiveness of that identity. They aren't actually like that. I've only met one true introverted woman in my life.
palmer491 2 сарын өмнө
being self-conscious about your awkwardness = you give off sad, insecure vibes 😔👎🏾 being confident about your awkwardness = you give off positive, happy vibes 😉👍🏾
S. 2 сарын өмнө
I'm anxious and introvert and still want to be the center of attention, what does that make me (okay, usually alcohol is involved)
(((Only_ZuuL))) 2 сарын өмнө
dating is hard with depression and anxiety, because girl will decide NO within 30 seconds of meeting you and swipe left, no chance.
Najiyah Zalik
Najiyah Zalik 2 сарын өмнө
Charli d’amelio is an interesting subject! She’s shy but is great at interacting with people. And her rise to fame is fast but she adapts really well. Idk how she can interact with so many people and it looks like she’s really treating person actively
Azyra Fhugo
Azyra Fhugo 2 сарын өмнө
Ok, this is me an extrovert awkward beneath anxiety
Ravenly 2 сарын өмнө
My name is Maizie lol
Kristen Jones
Kristen Jones 3 сарын өмнө
She has the same energy as timothee and saorise
j4yla 3 сарын өмнө
do robert pattinson pleaseeee❤️❤️
Melanie Roselle
Melanie Roselle 3 сарын өмнө
please do robert pattinson
j4yla 3 сарын өмнө
yessss omg
A Hiker
A Hiker 3 сарын өмнө
Thank you. This was actually really helpful. Please do more on shyness and social anxiety.
Lilibeth Miranda
Lilibeth Miranda 3 сарын өмнө
I want her to be my friend
Guilherme Becker
Guilherme Becker 3 сарын өмнө
Wanna know how to TURN anxiety into charisma? Just call Sophie TURNER
Amira Sara
Amira Sara 3 сарын өмнө
But she isn’t shy at all😐😐
no one
no one 3 сарын өмнө
I bet she went to depression again because of dark phoenix.
Wood Dweller
Wood Dweller 3 сарын өмнө
Thanks for the tips !
Bree and Stephen
Bree and Stephen 3 сарын өмнө
so kind of you to share this helpful info for free
naruto1993max 4 сарын өмнө
i eat clit to get over it
Daxy Lol
Daxy Lol 4 сарын өмнө
How come no one is talking about the thumbnail?? She legit looks like an 80s model.
Robert Lust
Robert Lust 4 сарын өмнө
Potus, my hookers James are charismas
sadz cat
sadz cat 4 сарын өмнө
I actually experienced this before. I was nervous on dates but my anxiety makes me talkative since I feel the need to fill the silence with interesting stories and I bring up anecdotes to relieve the stress. One guy I went on a date with assumed I was the social butterfly type and another person just said I was very charismatic. I guess it all works out in the end and fake it til you make it really works sometimes. Keep smiling and stay engaged and usually people are a lot more willing to talk about themselves when they feel welcomed and listened to.
Melted Diamon
Melted Diamon 4 сарын өмнө
It's basically what Ryan Reynolds does hehe it's cool and adorable
Ro with the Flow
Ro with the Flow 4 сарын өмнө
Very helpful in many aspects!
Rudy Davalos
Rudy Davalos 4 сарын өмнө
Its not a strategy, its her personality. She's just being herself and completely engaging in the moment. It takes practice, you have to get out there and interact with people even if it feels like you want to crawl out of your skin.
Aubrey Morgan
Aubrey Morgan 4 сарын өмнө
I'm loving these, thank you. I am an introvert and anxiety, depression, and self worth issues. i end up being that akward person that people kinda like but at the same time kinda for the help.
Ravens Moon
Ravens Moon 4 сарын өмнө
Hi, how are you? I seriously hate humans
Purpleoceangnome 4 сарын өмнө
Its naturally cheecky.
Ana Moreno
Ana Moreno 4 сарын өмнө
I need to learn how to mirror people better, 🤔 I need better connection w my body🌀 Cos all i do is TALK🙊🙊🙊🙊
Kelly Pajares
Kelly Pajares 4 сарын өмнө
As a therapist, I use your channel all the time. Thank you!
Chelsea Irving
Chelsea Irving 4 сарын өмнө
Mirroring is a big indicator of female autism
Hannia Corena
Hannia Corena 4 сарын өмнө
Loved it!
Ultravioleta Lightcaster
Ultravioleta Lightcaster 4 сарын өмнө
This makes me feel so much better about being me
•minnie •
•minnie • 4 сарын өмнө
Worst question: “what have you been up to lately?”
Jana 4 сарын өмнө
I’m always shy and clumsy in social interaction but I noticed that making jokes about that helps a lot.
justdrea 4 сарын өмнө
this called me out so hard
ismalaz 4 сарын өмнө
imagine being so nice people make videos about it
lisa gaeta
lisa gaeta 4 сарын өмнө
I don’t understand how you can be shy and be an actor with camera’s on you, having to speak out onscreen and interviews.
Sanbika 4 сарын өмнө
Being a terrible liar is one of the finest qualities a KIND person can have.
Jay diddy
Jay diddy 4 сарын өмнө
She has burst of charisma or energy to distract the Nervousness she is clearly feeling, because in those moments she isnt scared, she isnt nervous, those are her true reactions, personal reactions coming out! ❤️❤️❤️
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sunflower vol.6 4 сарын өмнө
Hey you didn't look for this, did you?
Bella S
Bella S 4 сарын өмнө
Ok I got #4 in the baaag
Jaime Laffoon
Jaime Laffoon 4 сарын өмнө
This is masking
Mutable Air
Mutable Air 4 сарын өмнө
studying acting really made me a better communicator; making eye contact, active listening etc
Genesis Ansbro
Genesis Ansbro 4 сарын өмнө
I have the worst poker face... I’m a terrible liar. I feel like I just saw myself in this video.
Samantha 4 сарын өмнө
Ahhh, got it. So cater to other people's egos.
Gabrielle Fowler
Gabrielle Fowler 4 сарын өмнө
I’m so glad to hear that I can have bursts of energy while being normally reserved. I’m concerned it comes off as off-putting or not genuine.
That One Femme
That One Femme 4 сарын өмнө
“Start by being vulnerable and open” My mental disorders and unresolved trauma: *it’s my time to shine*
Bethany Burns
Bethany Burns 4 сарын өмнө
Love the plug for CBT!
Loulou Benetton
Loulou Benetton 5 сарын өмнө
There are people who are really psychos whose gonna trap you in every conversation to show they are above you... Your only defense at that insta-moment is a cold passive attitude towards your verbal attacker... You have the right to remain silence no matter what provocative questions he/she wants you to get engage into. Always be in a cool posture. Dont raise your voice. Set it on level tone and volume. Never use sorry. Give no facial expression. Show whose the agressive ONE in TV and viewers won't forget it. Believe me on this social-behaviour experiment... I f you are pressed to answer questions say this : "you want me to answer that, the way you want to hear it" .. or say... "what can I say? No answer of mine would satisfy you be it the way you want to hear it - as your conviction has been made before this interview has started" dont add more. If she pressed you say "I did I've answered it"
Jesus is the Way the Truth the LIFE
Jesus is the Way the Truth the LIFE 5 сарын өмнө
I wanna see her RED HAIR 🥀🌶️
nat 5 сарын өмнө
why did joseph gordon levitt go to shake that person's hand like that?? lmao
silver hour
silver hour 5 сарын өмнө
I see Sophie Turner, I click
Cxx Anonymous
Cxx Anonymous 5 сарын өмнө
She is not shy
Nicholas Cheap
Nicholas Cheap 5 сарын өмнө
What’s up
Nicholas Cheap
Nicholas Cheap 5 сарын өмнө
Carolina Lima
Carolina Lima 5 сарын өмнө
I’m watching this a year later and I feel like I’ve actually absorbed and practiced these?? I’m way better today for sure
ether.x 5 сарын өмнө
I tried to dislike Sophie because my ex boyfriend was really thirsty for her but it was so hard because of her charisma
sims2lovealot 5 сарын өмнө
It helps when you're naturally gorgeous and have perfect hair and wardrobe. So I just need to get a personal stylist and then I can start trying to put all this into action.
Ithinkiamgoing Crazy
Ithinkiamgoing Crazy 6 сарын өмнө
Me with severe social anxiety: 👁👄👁
Julia 6 сарын өмнө
Am I the only one who hates when other people repeat my last words? I mean it's ok if you do it sometimes but like in these clips... it drives me crazy😅
JX X 6 сарын өмнө
After so many videos about confident strong men, finally a video about... um... insecurity of women.... how about Meryl Streep in the next video
cd2189 6 сарын өмнө
Active listening is hard
KC Vegana
KC Vegana 6 сарын өмнө
She's a doll ❤
Adrianne Ross
Adrianne Ross 6 сарын өмнө
2:46 was that clip used on purpose..because it always looks like he’s hiding something.. Such as a frog in his mouth
Adrianne Ross
Adrianne Ross 6 сарын өмнө
2:15 and sometimes that bathfulnish can even crosh over
Mrs Kay
Mrs Kay 6 сарын өмнө
I dont even know why I'm watching this.....I never talk to anyone in real life 😄😄
Green Curtain
Green Curtain 6 сарын өмнө
How to turn vulnerability to charisma: First off, you gotta be at least 10/10.
Harry TM
Harry TM 6 сарын өмнө
If she has social anxiety then I am not even born.
AJae 6 сарын өмнө
I'll just stick to Xanax
Jake Hartman
Jake Hartman 6 сарын өмнө
all celebrities r fake or reptiles or robots
Pace D'Angelo
Pace D'Angelo 6 сарын өмнө
jelly72 6 сарын өмнө
Step one: be attractive
Gi Gi
Gi Gi 6 сарын өмнө
Step 2: be attractive
aztec.dragon 6 сарын өмнө
For the people here with things like GAD, OCD, or basically whatever else, this is about general worry. The disorders are different. Though, these tips aren't necessarily useless, but will be harder to accomplish because your body/brain fights you.
Katherina Lyn
Katherina Lyn 6 сарын өмнө
that part at 3:23 just absolutely melted me.....❤👋😶my heart, ma'am, take it it's yours
Aanya Prasad
Aanya Prasad 7 сарын өмнө
I'm about to be charismatic as heckkk B)
WhyUgot2doThat ?
WhyUgot2doThat ? 7 сарын өмнө
Ahhhhhhhhh! I feel like I’m a psychopath taking lessons on how to fake my association to the world! Learn this! Be like this! However, really be like this, but still.... be yourself. What the frack?! Fuuuuuuuuuhcccck
lis4 7 сарын өмнө
She looks freaking gorgeous in that red dress daym!
Lisa Wadhams
Lisa Wadhams 7 сарын өмнө
It helps her that she is beautiful. Try being like this and not being pretty
Alice Pikachu
Alice Pikachu 7 сарын өмнө
I can tell that she’s not faking and she’s just a very nice person
Thorstn Böhle
Thorstn Böhle 7 сарын өмнө
now I have a crush on her
Anne Neville
Anne Neville 7 сарын өмнө
It’s easy said but it’s soooo difficult in reality >.< especially with social anxiety
John Hooper
John Hooper 8 сарын өмнө
Nahh.. she is just a covert narc playing the shy girl..
Yes 8 сарын өмнө
anxiety isn’t shyness
Lindsey Palmer
Lindsey Palmer 8 сарын өмнө
I enjoyed this video. My first time watching a video fr this channel.
High Society CW
High Society CW 8 сарын өмнө
She’s very much like Sansaa
O 8 сарын өмнө
Timothee chalamet is the best example
kittypie 8 сарын өмнө
Me right now: memorizing these tips, rehearsing in my head Me tomorrow at work: "how do you do fellow kids?"
Jaqueline V.
Jaqueline V. 8 сарын өмнө
I 100% agree with the self deprecating jokes
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